Podcasts by Stuck in the Cry Room
Honest and humorous discussions about raising teens in the Catholic faith, navigated by Catholic scholar John Cox and family life expert Jo Holt.
Further podcasts by Jo Holt & John Cox
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Vulnerability from 2022-02-08T18:00
As we say farewell to all our listeners we are offering one final episode about vulnerability. Both John and Jo have been vulnerable through the past two seasons, but you too can be vulnerable and ...
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Setting the Bar from 2022-01-27T03:00
As parents we want our kids to be successful. There’s a debate out there about how much we should be involved in the process and setting the bar of success. Do we let our kids find their own motiva...
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Last Minute Christmas from 2021-12-14T17:00
I’m sure most of you are prepared for Christmas. If not, or your desperate for gift ideas for a teen in your life, listen in! Jo provides some ideas for both young men and women, with of course a l...
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Thank You, Teens (funny) from 2021-11-30T15:00
Thanksgiving is a time of giving thanks to all those we know, and how they’ve positively impacted our lives. We can’t be too serious on this podcast, so why not thank our kids for the ways we’ve be...
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Grooming for Marriage from 2021-11-17T17:00
Holy and healthy dating…what parent could ask for anything more?? But what influence do we have as parents? The culture is sending messages to teens and young adults about marriage…you need to firs...
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A Foundation of Trust from 2021-11-02T16:00
This episode is part 2 of our last conversation, which involved the value and importance of communication with our children. While our teens have free will to choose to listen and follow our guidan...
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Search for Friendship from 2021-10-19T16:00
We also further our boundary discussion by discussing the influence of friends - why it’s important as parents that we model this for our kids, and how social media plays a critical role. Are our t...
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Defining Boundaries from 2021-10-05T16:00
Have you established boundaries in your family? Boundaries are healthy for all relationships, especially with our teens. John shares a story about recent events in his life that empowered him and h...
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Theology of Driving from 2021-09-21T16:00
If you haven’t been there yet, brace yourself! When it’s time to teach our teens to drive it can be overwhelming and stressful. It’s also difficult to release your control of the pedals!! Listen in...
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Fighting Against the Culture from 2021-09-07T16:00
We’re happy to be back! During our pause we decided to retarget future podcasts towards raising teens. We have a lot planned going forward, but this episode is dedicated to the value and importance...
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Discipling Your Lost Child from 2021-07-27T16:00
Even if you do all the right things as a parent, your child can stray from the faith. This is especially true and frustrating for parents who work at or for the Church. Find comfort in Jo’s story, ...
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Raising Teens from 2021-07-13T16:00
Raising teens is challenging. They have minds of a child and consequences of an adult. These critical years as a parent can be exhausting. Societal pressures, desires of the teen and FOMO take over...
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Gratefulness from 2021-06-29T16:00
In today’s episode we are talking about gratefulness. It is both humbling and healing to reflect on the many things that have made an impact on our lives. It is also an incredible experience to ref...
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Catholic Pride from 2021-06-15T16:00
For many Catholics, June can be a challenging month. Gay pride messages are saturated everywhere you look. What do you say to your children? How do we respond? What is God calling us to do? Listen ...
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Trusting God’s Plan from 2021-06-01T16:00
What a treat! Today we are joined by Fr John Ludanha, a missionary priest from Africa. Some often struggle with God’s Plan. It might not be something we wanted or desired, but in the end, we see th...
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Gender: Body & Soul from 2021-05-18T16:00
Today we are joined by a special guest - Dr. Susan Selner-Wright. She is helping us to navigate the sensitivity around gender ideology. Susan dissects the Christian viewpoint as well as provides in...
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Share Your Zeal from 2021-05-04T16:00
Today we’re talking about our mission of evangelization, which just like Mary Magdalene, is a personal response to your encounter with Jesus. Have you thought about your encounter and how it can be...
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Your Extended Family from 2021-04-23T00:22:20
What does it mean to register at your parish? Why is it valuable? Both Jo and John have been asked this question before, especially during sacramental prep. It has also been a topic of discussio...
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Divine Mercy from 2021-04-06T16:00
Jo’s away, and so John took over the podcast! Today he has special guests - Paul and Colleen Lum Lung. They shared stories about their devotion to Divine Mercy, it’s significance and how families c...
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Stations of the Cross from 2021-03-23T16:00
Do you pray the Stations of the Cross? How does the Lenten season help us to meditate on these prayers? In today’s episode we offer suggestions of where and how you can pray the Stations. Jo also s...
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Confession: A Fresh Start from 2021-03-09T17:00
Welcome to our second season! We are in the season Lent, and it’s the perfect time to consider the sacrament of Confession, where we can be healed and can repair our relationship with God. Why do w...
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There Are No Shortcuts from 2021-02-23T17:00
How many times as a parent do you use shortcuts? The alternative sounds exhausting and overwhelming, but it’s actually not. Venerable Fulton Sheen wrote a reflection on the three temptations of Jes...
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Raising Upright Kids, Part 6 from 2021-02-16T21:38:02
The final two chapters of our book study is here! Today we discuss social influences. Those crowds and audiences we allow our children to hang with, as well as ourselves, can and will make an impac...
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Raising Upright Kids, Part 5 from 2021-02-09T20:00
On today’s episode we talk about the dreaded accumulation of stuff! How much stuff is too much? How do we declutter and change our habits so our kids can learn from our example? Listen in! Jo and J...
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Raising Upright Kids, Part 4 from 2021-02-02T17:00
Social media- What began as a means to update your family and friends who live far away from you, is now a high tech sticker system for instant gratification. Why do we use it? How does it help us ...
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Raising Upright Kids, Part 3 from 2021-01-26T17:00
In today’s episode we talk about cellphones, and the controversy surrounding them. When do we give one to our kids? How do we control their limits and protect them from danger? There’s so much to n...
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Raising Upright Kids, Part 2 from 2021-01-19T17:00
Part 2 of our book study continues with our discussion about being a 1 in 100 parent, and how that means we have to do what’s right, even if it is in opposition to the opinions of the majority. How...
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Raising Upright Kids from 2021-01-12T18:00
Even Jo and John can use some helpful guidance in raising their kids in a culture that wants to water down their parental authority and wisdom. Today we are beginning a book study with “Raising Upr...
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A Fresh Start from 2021-01-05T17:00
New Year’s is a time for resolutions - an opportunity for us to start over and begin a new journey. For many of us, the resolution is short-lived. Eventually we begin lowering the bar and expectati...
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Holiness in the Ordinary from 2020-12-22T17:00
In honor of the year of St. Joseph and in celebration of the feast of the Holy Family, we dedicate this episode to all of those who live ordinary, yet holy, lives. This is great timing as we approa...
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A Quiet Christmas from 2020-12-15T16:00
Yes, COVID has forced us into a quiet Christmas away from the busyness of years past, but it is also a blessing! Time for us to slow down and be still. Time for us to reflect on Christ’s birth. Tim...
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Fear of Parenting from 2020-12-08T17:00
Yes, it’s a real fear. For some couples, they choose contraception to avoid becoming parents, and for those couples living together before marriage, it is preventing them from discerning the vocati...
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Wrestling for Authority from 2020-12-01T17:00
How many of you have wrestled for authority in your home? Jo openly shares her personal struggles of balancing power and authority in her marriage, and her realization that she’s been pushing her h...
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Thanksgiving Traditions from 2020-11-24T17:00
Thanksgiving is a great time to not only be thankful for our blessings, but to reminisce about our childhood. From making homemade stuffing to watching the annual parade to sharing the holiday with...
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Conjugal Love and the Sacredness of Marriage from 2020-11-17T17:00
During the last episode, we discussed grace from the sacrament of marriage. But why does our faith call us to follow a particular order, including marriage IN THE Church, rather than the beach or o...
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Grace from Marriage from 2020-11-10T17:00
Jo and John talk about the grace we receive from the sacrament of marriage. They both share their experiences, including marriage preparation, cohabitation, and the roles we take on as husband and ...
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Lessons From Purgatory from 2020-11-02T17:00
Jo and John discuss the feast of All Souls, and the importance of not only praying for our deceased loved ones, but keeping our children engaged in the faith so they can pray for us when we pass...
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Election 2020: Finding Common Ground from 2020-10-27T16:00
The election is just around the corner! As Catholics we are challenged with how to vote and how to share our viewpoints with others. Katalyst is a new nonprofit that was created to empower the lait...
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One Day at a Time from 2020-10-20T18:00
Irritations are riding high as we struggle to adapt to more changes and adjustments to our schedule. For most parents, they are frustrated with school, homework and not receiving the same output fo...
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Trick or Treat: Halloween 2020 from 2020-10-13T16:00
With much of our city still under restrictions, what does that mean for Halloween? Jo and John discuss ideas and new ways to enjoy this annual tradition, including honoring the Saints.
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Family Game Night from 2020-10-06T16:00
We love game night! For Jo and John, it has been a great opportunity to step outside of their crazy life and reconnect with the family. In today’s episode they share some of their favorite games an...
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Fighting Fair With Your Spouse from 2020-09-29T22:00
Jo and John have a discussion about resolving conflict in their relationships, and how our environment and timing can make a big impact. USCCB’s initiative, For Your Marriage, published an article ...
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The Domestic Church, Part 2: Corporal Works of Mercy from 2020-09-22T16:00
In followup to last week’s episode, Jo and John discuss the impact that corporal works of mercy make on the family, and their community. Between both episodes, there’s a necessary dualism that take...
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The Domestic Church, Part 1: Spiritual Works of Mercy from 2020-09-15T16:00
What is the domestic church? How can we practice and embody it in our homes? Jo and John begin a two-part series to explain this idea. Today’s episode talks about the spiritual works of mercy, and ...
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Friendships after Marriage from 2020-09-08T16:00
There’s a difference between friendships before and after marriage. Things quickly begin to change. What’s to be expected and how do you navigate the waters are all a part of our conversations this...
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Potty Training Memories with Mandy Cox from 2020-09-01T16:00
For some of us, we will hold these memories with us FOREVER!! We’re talking potty training. If you haven’t done it yet, this episode will provide some tips and resources. If you’ve “been there, don...
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It’s OK to be Selfish from 2020-08-25T16:00
Is it really? Well, if we’re talking about how it feels to prioritize time for yourself when you’re busy carrying and providing for your family...then, YES! Jo and John have a honest conversation a...
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It’s Not Your Time from 2020-08-18T16:00
Jo and John catch up with each other and share information about an upcoming mental health conference in their area. Jo’s daughter, Anna, also stops by to talk about her journey with suicide ideati...
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Birds and the Bees from 2020-08-11T16:00
Jo is away. In substitution, Mandy Cox joins her husband, John, in the studio to discuss their experience with teaching sexuality to their children. They also share their childhood stories, as well...
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The Story Behind OUR NAME from 2020-08-04T14:00
In today’s episode we explain the story behind our podcast name. John and Jo also share their personal experiences of the cry room and the challenges that today’s young families face during Mass.
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You are AMAZING! from 2020-07-28T16:00
Today’s teens are experiencing so many struggles. Many are carrying the burdens of mental health, school and social pressures without the help of Jesus. Along with our special guest, Jo and John di...
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Self-Help with Jesus from 2020-07-21T16:00
Summer is a great time to clean up, get organized and be a part of transformations. Why not use a book to help you accomplish that in your life, and your faith? We are not talking about self-hel...
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Signs & Symbols from 2020-07-14T16:00
What are sacramental and why are they important to us as Catholics. How do sacramental lead us to a closer encounter with Christ in the Sacraments?
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Summer Blues from 2020-07-07T16:00
The summer is half over, and our teenagers need a little more guidance for activities and outlets for socialization. COVID-19 isn’t making it easier. Jo and John discuss their challenges and share ...
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Jesus Inc. from 2020-06-30T16:00
A valid question most of us ponder is how do we get more youth involved in the Church? Father CJ returns and shares insightful considerations to help us create a more relational environment. He exp...
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WHOA WHOA WHOA from 2020-06-23T16:00
As a parent have you ever made a quick decision, and then a few minutes or HOURS later you realized “whoa, whoa, whoa, what did I just do?” Jo and John discuss how the virtue of prudence can help u...
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Do You Trust Me? from 2020-06-16T16:00
A fun and candid conversation with newly ordained priest, Father CJ Mast. From mountain accident to homily development, Jo and John uncover his journey and plans for his first year as a priest.
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Responding to Injustice from 2020-06-09T16:15
In some way or another, we’ve all been affected by the recent injustice of George Floyd. We are conflicted with our response. Jo and John have a conversation with Deacon Dave Simonton to unpack Cat...
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Coming Home from 2020-06-02T16:00:58
Jo and John interview John Overby, a recent convert to Catholicism. We hear about his journey, and how looking back it appears that God was leading him back home.
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Lawn Boy with Msgr. Tom Fryar from 2020-05-19T16:00:01
Jo and John sit down with Monsignor Tom Fryar, pastor of St. Thomas More, to discuss his role as a spiritual father, and how he started his first job as a lawn boy.
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Mothering with Mandy Cox from 2020-05-12T16:00
Jo and special guest, Mandy Cox, celebrate motherhood, and share the gift of grace that made all the difference.
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Fighting the Sloth from 2020-04-28T16:00
Many of us are too busy and constantly distracted, and sometimes we are left with despair. We multitask, work excessive hours, and at the end of the day we are still left with a lack of accompli...
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Infinite Love from 2020-04-21T16:00
Acts of mercy allow us to show others how much we love them, as well as to embrace God's infinite love for us. John and Jo discuss how suffering and sacrifice are connected to mercy, and how the...
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There's Still Hope from 2020-04-14T16:00
It's springtime and many of us are sprucing up our yards and homes, but it is also a time for renewal of our souls. We are talking about love and hope, and how you can find that in Christ and th...
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The Triduum with Mary from 2020-04-09T16:00
It’s Holy Week! Explore the Triduum through the eyes of Mary.
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The Lord's Day from 2020-04-07T16:00
Why do we attend Mass on Sunday? How do we celebrate the Lord’s Day? Jo and John will tackle this issue, and how to model it in the home for your family.
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Dinner is Served from 2020-04-02T23:24:07
The dinner table is a place of community for the family and can help us practice hospitality and service. Let’s encourage ourselves, family and friends, to bring it back as an essential element of ...
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First Week of School from 2020-03-28T00:16:21
No, it’s not August. We’re talking about the first week of homeschooling during the pandemic. New routines, new expectations, new framework, and new frustrations!
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