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Hi everyone! Welcome to the A to Z of Sexâ. I’m Dr Lori Beth and I am your host. We are working our way through the erotic alphabet one letter at a time. Just a reminder this podcast deals with adult content, so if you don’t have total privacy, you might want to put on your headphones. Today the letter is N and N is for Naughty.
Naughty as a word for ‘wicked’ came into being in the late stages of middle English (around 1800) and is now used to mean saucy or risqué. The urban dictionary defines naughty as a ‘bad girl that needs to be punished (usually by fucking her) or a lady who wears tight revealing clothing. Can also refer to a female who is into bondage.’
Naughty girls are both highly attractive (when they are single or committed to someone else) and highly worrisome (to monogamous men when they are their wives or girlfriends). As women, we are given conflicting messages around being naughty at most ages. Even when we are small, people often root for the naughty girl to get away with whatever mischief she has been up to.
Lots of women are taught that acting naughty is inappropriate and that people won’t want them to be naughty as they get older. The connection between naughty or risqué and wicked is made quickly and women who have been brought up in traditional homes can worry how they will be perceived if they behave in this way.
Naughty girls are often sought after. They are seen to be sexually liberated and sometimes even slutty. As a result, many people think that they might have a chance with a naughty girl. Some suggest that all girls have a naughty side.
Some of the qualities attributed to naughty girls are ones that it would benefit all women to have. Being outspoken is a quality that all women can benefit from. When you are outspoken, you are able to express your needs and desires so you have a much better chance of having them met.
Naughty girls are provocative. They own their sexuality so they get what they need and have a lot of fun doing it. Naughty girls are rebellious. A bit of rebellion can take a woman a long way. Being rebellious means that you are refusing to simply toe the party line. Rebelliousness can mean standing up for yourself and refusing to conform. Of course there are times where conforming is appropriate or will get you a better result. However, there are lots of times where conforming means you don’t have the opportunity to try new things and this can lead to regrets.
Being naughty leads to punishment in some situations. One of the top role play fantasies is to punish a naughty girl. The role play can take many forms from a naughty girl being called in to see the head or the principal to a naughty girl being spanked over an adult’s lap to a naughty girl being told to stay in the corner. All these scenes harness a bit of shame in order to add to the sizzle.

Shame is not always a part of naughtiness but often it is an integral part. Shame can be toxic but it can also be a delicious as part of a sexual scene. For example, there are lots of folk who enjoy being embarrassed during a scene – telling someone they have been naughty will bring back the shame learned in childhood but with an erotic twist.

Janice finds being made to blush exciting. Her partners devise all sorts of ways to make her blush. John loves to catch her playing with herself. This will always cause a deep blush that travels from her toes to the part in her hair at the top of her head. Janice feels naughty when caught playing with herself and looks forward to the punishment she knows will come when John catches her.

Robert likes to be mischievous just like he was when he was a boy. He likes to play pranks. He knows that Jan will spank him if she catches him but he cannot help it. He loves the feeling of being caught and says that this turns him on more than most things.

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