88: Shame-Proof Parenting. With Mercedes Samudio - a podcast by Jeanne-Marie Paynel, M. Ed.

Do you want to learn how to heal your own traumas to better parent? Listen in to learn about the shame-proofing framework and how to trust the great guide that is within you. 

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What We Talked About:

• The framework of Shame-Proof Parenting that she has developed
• How she helps parents heal from their personal shame stories 
• What is the Parental Identity Development Model and how to make sense of your own parenting journey
• How grief shows up in our parenting

Things to Remember:

“Many of us come into the parenting world with shame stories already created.”

“The parent of a toddler's main task is to figure out how to accept themselves.”

“I am the child of the parent I want to help.” 

“It is never too late to make a change in your parenting, once you decide.”

“No matter what you decide to do with your kids, you're going to grieve.”

“Once you become a parent, you can never go back to not being a parent.”

– Mercedes Samudio

"If your children fear you, they cannot trust you. If they do not trust you, they cannot learn from you." – Lori Petro

"Children behave best when they feel most loved. Shame isn’t a strategy to encourage good behavior; it leads to compliance and then to rebellion." – Sarah Boyd

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