Podcasts by The Experience Podcast

Dom Drop pt2 from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.805194

The Curious girl wants to delve further into the meaning of Dom drop with Sir inQ.

Quarantined pt 2 from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.794347

Part 2 of Sir Inq's conversation with Michelle Fegatofi about bdsm and COVID and what we can do to nurture our D/s side during this time.

Becoming a Dom from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.790130

Sir inQ discusses his views on the make up of a Dominant and a few key areas they must develop in order to become a Master which the journey starts from within.

Protocols, sessions&Fem Dommes from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.785296

Sir inQ discusses his thoughts on the importance of creating protocols and how they also relate to sessions. Also talks about how newer Does can learn from reading and watching fem Domme's.

The influence of porn from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.779743

In this episode Sir inQ discusses his views on porn, sex workers, social media and bdsm. "Are we imitating art or being the artist?"

Intimacy from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.774711

Sir inQ and The Curios Girl discuss the struggle some men are having in long term relationships with intimacy, connectivity and sex. 

CHEATING! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.769016

Sir inQ and his frequent guest the Curious Girl discuss some of the causes behind infidelity and role play a few scenarios and discuss conflict and resolution tactics.

Don't be a d!ck from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.763320

Sir inQ delves into thoughts on the wrong ways men and women have engaged one another online. Goes into why some guys are cowards and can't take rejection.

Hunting new prospects from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.756454

This episode Sir inQ and The Curious Girl discuss what being single and hunting for prospects look like for them and some of the encounters they've had.

Censorship from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.750107

Sir inQ discusses the regression of censorship in a way that seems like we're living in the past times and how he's bringing back kinkspace.net community website. A social site where kinkst...

Podcast Pussy! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.744963

My favorite friend Curious Girl and I discuss various topics from what "podcast pussy" means and those who trap thirst for it. As well censorship, relationships, dating and pure laughs.

Keeping your edge! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.738540

Sir inQ is back with his favorite guest The Curious Girl discussing why keeping your edge is important and how it boost one's self esteem.

Sex-novelties and sanitation from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.722610

Sir inQ discusses why sanitizing your sex toys is a must as well how to spot fakes and why you shouldn't chase lies and the liars who tell them!

Rules and Protocols from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.716870

Sir inQ discusses the importance of having written rules and protocols and why it's important to make your own and not live by another persons rules as a Dominant.

Cigars with the Queen from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.711688

Sir inQ and his guest Cigar_Ash_Queen discuss the lifestyle of smoking cigars, cigar service, artistry of the lifestyle and traveling.

That thin line between Dominance and domineering from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.705233

Sir inQ discusses the importance of discipline to men and specially in reference proper Domination. Also why roles like D/s have become more pronounced in todays world with the expansion of sexual ...

OwnHERship! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.697613

Sir inQ discusses the importance of ownHERship and the responsibilities of being a leader and a guide to your submissive. Also discusses why a lot of the men and women from the 1960's and 1970&...

SiR iNQ's 2020 Thank you's from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.692009

SiR iNQ goes over his 2020 year, gives out thank you's to the good and bad and talks about the advance things he has intended to help enhance your "Experience" in the bdsm/ kink lifesty...

Sex Therapy from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.687981

SiR iNQ and his guest Fi who gave a corporate career up to pursue becoming a sex therapist and why its her calling. They also delve into what sex therapy is and isn't and how it's become so...

What brought you here? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.682627

On this episode Sir Inq discusses how his guest Dee found the lifestyle and her experience within it. They also discuss the importance of knowing yourself and engaging others authentically.

DEAR CONTROLLER from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.677484

SiR iNQ goes in on the "topping from the bottom" the happens between women to men and goes further into the "pair and a spare" practice and why one should avoid toxic relationships ...

Causes of abuse from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.669194

SiR iNQ discusses the line between abuse and correction and how to avoid these pitfalls. He also discusses long distance relationships and how that can lead to frustration, mental abuse, online fuc...

Actions and reactions reflect character from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.661704

SiR iNQ delves into his experience working for men as a barber, shop owner and entrepreneur for over 30ty years and discusses how the lack of good male training on how to control their actions and ...

HOT SEAT from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.651213

SiR iNQ and his guest host Layla put SI on the hot seat for random questions about sex, kink and much more. Hear his thoughts and listen to his sexual exploits from years past.

MAGNETISM from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.644139

If a man wants to live a long and virtuous life there are certain things he needs to do to protect his internal fire so he may become stellar man. SiR iNQ discusses how spirituality, mentality and ...

Men the game has changed! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.632680

Let's get right to it ..the days of dating or having sex with co workers is more dangerous and men need to learn the new rules, adapt their behavior and move forward leaving old past ways in th...

Vetting from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.627666

Sir inQ discusses with a friend/ mentee (Shae) the process of vetting, creating a vetting script, and the positive results she's seen since implementing them. They also discuss the importance o...

Mr. Wolf from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.621878

My guest Legendary Wolf and I discuss his introduction to the lifestyle and how men should carry themselves with women and our responsibility to more than ourselves. We also touch on setting up ...

Wolf&inQ Part 2 from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.615966

Legendary Wolf and Sir Inq go deeper in the discussion of beta's and alpha's whether they're male or female. Also, discuss can you teach a man to be a Dom or alpha male?!

Knots and kink from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.610088

This episode Sir inq and his guest Noir Kink discuss being a nerd, bondage, vetting, sub drop and Dominant's responsibilities to his submissive(s).

Podcast Gumbo from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.604324

In this episode, Sir inQ discusses his trip to New Orleans and a new concept he calls "relationship gumbo". The gumbo is a story of a real-life marriage scenario of a client as well as his...

Why do you care? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.598539

Sir inQ discusses the importance of focusing on yourself and those who find you valuable and those of like minds. Talks about his interactions with detractors and ignoramuses online and how he dism...

PROTECTION from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.592616

On this podcast, Sir inQ discusses the unseen and unspoken forms of protection a man must provide to his family beyond the physical aspect of it as shown in pictures. He also lightly touches on how...

What she didn't say! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.586201

Sir inQ discusses the things people do not talk about on 1st dates or in general as well as the importance of clear and concise communication, Also touches on how using the words us, we and togethe...

The Divine feminine and masculine from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.580670

In this episode, Sir inQ and his guest Naro discuss the principles of divine femininity and masculinity and also the negative side of them and remedies on how to recognize the trouble areas and how...

Does the box suit you? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.575170

On this podcast, Sir inQ discusses societal norms and the effects of trying to fit a round peg in a square hole. Meaning does the box fit the authentic narrative deep within oneself and why it'...

Living the lifestyle 24/7 from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.570128

On this podcast, Sir inQ and his guest Mr. Dsaw discuss the challenges of living the lifestyle 24/7. They discuss how to navigate around children but also how having your sub on the same page trans...

Life post Covid from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.564954

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses life post-pandemic shutdown, economic fallout, relationship changes, work-life balance, and the latest trends in his surrounding urbanized world.

Good Girls Get Gifts! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.559652

Sir inQ discusses good girls getting gifts and the different levels of gifts that should be given (in his opinion) for tasks, deeds, and just cause. He also talks about punishments and the differen...

Message to new Dom's from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.554705

In this episode, Sir inQ discusses what a dominant is and what it takes to be a Dominant in the Power exchange dynamic.

PRIMAL from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.550061

On this episode Sir inQ discusses different aspects of primal and what get's men going, also how that primal side can get dark if not reigned in but also how most times that raw vibe and be ins...

Session script for beginners! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.545565

On this podcast Sir inQ discusses what goes into a session in his opinion, also talks about the importance of writing out the session and all that will be used whether its candles, impact implement...

NOT MY KINK! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.541895

Sir Inq discusses a post he saw on a kink community site that caused a firestorm of comments based on race and sexuality. It amazes him how we in the kink community despise those in the vanilla wor...

SIMPS from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.538435

In this episode, Sir inQ discusses his list of 7 things that good guy SIMPS do or don't do that leave them in losing situations! He also discusses what red pill and blue pill culture is and en...

IMAGINARY SOUL TIES from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.533717

In this podcast, Sir inQ challenges the concept of soul ties, is a soul tie a lie we tell ourselves when maybe it's just the fear of losing someone or fear of moving on? Does the concept of a s...

Angie from across the pond from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.511025

In this podcast, Sir inQ has a discussion with his guest Angie from the EU about life, dating, comedy, sex, and her podcast that's filled with interviews from people of all walks of life.

Conversation with a slave from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.507453

In this podcast, Sir inq and his guest Slave Draconia discuss her history in the lifestyle, her view of the lifestyle and what's next for her in it. They also discuss brats, slaves, and poly re...

What makes for mid life crisis? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.503507

In this podcast, Sir inq discusses what life crises for men look like through stories of those he's come across and common-sense views so we all can understand wayward behavior and where it may...

Pimps and Dominants from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.499413

In this podcast, Sir inq discusses a Pimp saying that correlates with Dominants and how some sub will allow you to Dominate and others make you Dominate, and why that is. Some subs need a more invo...

"Use me as you see fit" from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.495811

In this podcast, Sir inq and his guest lilheaven discuss her journey into the lifestyle and how far she's gone into her submission with acts of ultimate surrender and servitude. They also discu...

Erectile dysfunction or something else? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.492190

In this episode, Sir inQ discusses ED and the various causes as well the history of how the pharmaceutical companies stumbled across the remedy for ED trying to solve heart issues. It's his pos...

Poly and jealousy from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.488740

In this podcast, Sir inq and his guest lilheaven discuss polyamory, the history of it, jealousy, and why so many men want to have multiple women but have no clue how truly challenging it can be and...

Negotiating your position pt 1 from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.484800

In this podcast, Sir inq briefly discusses a meme he posted about negotiating your position in a relationship also a response from a known Dominant named Seykou that brought more clarity and insigh...

WELLNESS CHECK! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.480203

In this podcast, (I) Sir inq discusses mental health and the upcoming holiday season. This it's not a bdsm lifestyle-themed podcast but it's one that we all need to address at some point in...

Are men of Gen X becoming emotionally devoid? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.477069

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and discusses a short writing he came across online of a mental therapist 48yr female that speaks on her dating experience with emotionally devoid men in the Gen X ge...

Pop pop and bbl's from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.474516

In this podcast, Sir Inq tells stories about a friend who's 49 and struggling with dating women half his age and how the cost of dating them has gone from paying a light bill, and sneakers to p...

BDSM, poly and the journey from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.471531

In this podcast, Sir Inq and Slave Draconia discuss her journey into a BDSM relationship coupled with poly, and how she manages others as the madam of the house. They also discuss the importance of...

Terms of endearment from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.468338

In this brief podcast, Sir Inq talks about terms of endearment from the sub to a Dom, when they should start using them and how a Dom likes to be addressed is specific to the individual tho there a...

Half your age plus 7yrs from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.465789

On this podcast, Sir Inq discusses old world view relationships with older men dating younger women, the westernized view opposed to other places, why it's practical, and how tv and media have ...

One relationship with many ex's from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.462850

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how many people use ex's and past acquaintances to stich together a relationship however does that prevent that person from finding connection and love with o...

Intimacy or sex? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.459215

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses "intimacy or sex" and which is more important? It seems more women lean towards intimacy and most men lean more towards sex, but why is that and are men ...

Fake flowers, candy and fake romance from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.454389

On this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how the man that comes with good morning text, flowers, candy, and superficial romance tactics are there to prey on those that are starving for new relationship e...

Can a"man's man"be submissive? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.449884

In this vlog cast, Sir Inq discusses can a "man's man" be submissive and why, also discusses these men shouldn't be shamed for who and what they are as well they need to own it. Beh...

The issue with men and multiple lovers from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.445524

In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest The Curious Girl discuss the issue of men's issue with fidelity, being able to live their authentic lives and obtain better outcomes with relationships.

How did he become bi? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.439949

In this podcast cast, Sir Inq discusses a conversation with a female friend that opened up a discussion about how a guy she knows became bi and how he wasn't always that way, and also what lead...

The crossroads of BDSM and vanilla from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.435789

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the various crossroads he's encountered in the journey from vanilla to BDSM and the ones he's encountered within the lifestyle. Though his journey is not ...

Establishing your dominant ways from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.396593

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance of how dominants must establish themselves, their principles and stand ten toes down in them. Also why discipline can be ridged but prosperous and ...

Keep it SPICY!!! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.393997

In this podcast, Sir Inq live Wednesday night show on FB discusses the importance of keeping your edge and why BDSM is a great lifestyle to help keep your edge. Also talks about erectile dysfuncti...

Boundaries! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.391211

In this podcast, Sir Inq's Wed night discussion on "boundaries" and why it's important to have them, especially within the BDSM lifestyle for both men and women. He also tells stori...

Narratophilia, the art of using voice and words to seduce from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.388907

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance in mastering your tone of voice coupled with the right words to wet the minds, hearts, and panties of the lady of one's desire. Also talks abou...

Making your wish her command with protocols from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.386553

In this podcast Sir Inq responds to a follower's suggestion to talk about what Dom's expect from their submissive's when they meet up which for him translates into a Dom's protocols...

Online support from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.383542

In this podcast, Sir Inq has one of his favorite guest Slave Valkyrie (aka Slave Draconica) back to discuss online support groups, the up, the downs, the good, the bad, and how the more productive...

How to get her in line?! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.380672

In this podcast, Sir Inq elaborates on a question asked of him by a follower of "how to get a submissive on his page?!". Of course, for SI the Dom has to make his direction in life clear th...

Be the gatekeeper to her debauchery! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.378201

In this podcast, Sir Inq talks about being the gatekeeper to a sub/woman's kinky side and how he uses "permission to speak" to him as a request line of a sub that knows him well enough,...

Thru a Dom you can see yourself from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.374959

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a concept of how a sub may find her reflection thru a Dominant's direction. he talks about connection in the way of having commonality and why its imperative ...

TOXIC MASCULINITY from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.371464

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses toxic masculinity and what men need to do to nurture the youth in how to control their emotions and have healthier interactions going forward. Sir inQ #sirin...

Mental Heath within BDSM from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.367804

Sir Inq discusses mental health and how it's deeply intertwined into BDSM, monogamous, and poly relationships.

The Curious Girl in the Speak Easy from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.364049

In this podcast the Curious Girl Layla London joins me to talk about dating in modern times, masturbation month, talking dirty, and what's the formula to get a woman in line with a man.

Emotions, misunderstandings and solutions from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.360617

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a situation where he was misunderstood, as well the difference between his version and terms of endearment in a BDSM relationship vs a vanilla one. He also delves...

Dating in 2022? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.357591

In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest the Curious Girl discuss dating as self-employed business owners, and how that can dictate who you connect with in today's modern times.

What can we learn from Will and Jada? from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.354130

I rarely discuss mainstream trendy topics and celebrities however the Jada and Will saga is the gift that keeps on giving, however, I get into why "everyone's relationship is their own"...

SubMadMadame and Dutch Wolf from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.349148

In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest Dutch Wolf and Submadmadame discuss their journey into bdsm, the scene in Amsterdam, fantasies, and how they've discovered the lifestyle and it's chan...

Sensual domination bs! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.342494

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how to distinguish the old guard from the new and how the term "sensual Dom" is new BS made up by those who play with kink but are not into the lifestyle ...

The nature of women from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.338741

In this podcast, Sir Inq comments on a post a follower sent him on "the nature of women" and his views on what was said. Also touches on modern relationships and how we need to teach the yo...

The abusive submissive from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.335018

In this podcast, Sir Inq reacts to a post he found on "what abusive submission" is and the tactics they use.

Male narcissism look like... from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.295225

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a post he found online about "The narcissist male" and the sentiments of the writer coupled with his thoughts on the topic with some added context.

Speak when given permission! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.292093

In this podcast, Sir Inq reacts to a meme posted on FB that says "Never speak when a man is talking, Bow your head down and wait until he says "speak" ". Sir inQ #sirinq #_Au ...

Spoiled men are a problem! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.289365

In this podcast, sir Inq discusses his latest experience with his friends and their lack of having it all together when traveling as well how its a bigger symptom of modern men being spoiled and ho...

10 FACTS ABOUT ALPHA MALES (Obsidian) from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.286744

In this podcast, Sir Inq reacts to a post called "Ten startling facts about alpha males" written by a gentleman named Obsidian who has a channel called Obsidianradio via Instagram and Youtu...

She kneels from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.283979

In this podcast, Sir Inq comments on a writing on submission and elaborates on the connection between Dominant and submissive and how the power exchange dynamic is easier to navigate than most conv...

D/s explained in vanilla terms from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.280866

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and comments on a writing he found on Tumblr where the writer "lovemysub" compares a workout trainer and trainee to the Dom/sub dynamic. Sir inQ #sirinq...

There is no shame in wanting to be led! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.277227

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and reacts to a writing by "dwpreturns" via Tumblr that discusses their awakening to seeking submissive women and how their therapist negatively reacted to th...

We don't want to choose! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.273676

In this podcast, Sir Inq read and reacts to a writing thats about both side of the slash for Dominants and how we can be both caring and sadistic and how to obtain a healthy balance of the two ener...

Madame of House Kinky Misfits from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.267686

In this podcast, Sir Inq interviews Slave Valkyrie and her Madame to discuss what their home life is like with several submissive's, a switch, their bdsm house, their contributions and objectiv...

TEN FEMALE ORGASMS from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.263059

In this podcast, Sir Inq goes over a writing by Dr. Tanginika Cuascuo on "Ten Female Orgasms" and why it's important that men get to know their partners bodies specially in the bdsm realm!

Lessons for D's from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.258705

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads a writing he came across and discusses rules for D's and how to teach their subs how to resolve conflicts, set modes of behavior, health, and much more. Sir Inq ...

BDSM 101 Littles, Slaves, and Pets from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.255373

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and comments on a writing by JD via Tumblr titled "Why BDSM dynamics contain littles, slaves, and pets". Sir Inq #sirinq #_Au #kinkspace #dirtywriting #bla...

Reflections while in DR from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.251769

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of developing the future Doms and subs, also how the old guard is reaching back by having seminars and not so much engagement online. Sir Inq #sirin...

Brats need love too! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.248674

In this podcast, Sir Inq read and reacts to a writing by JD about brats and why a Dom shouldn't take their behavior personally, he also goes into his main topic on "investing in oneself"...

BDSM lifestyle support from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.245510

In this podcast, Sir Inq has a new guest named Pixie join him to chat about her experiences and what led her to creating one of the best groups on Facebook for the lifestyle of BDSM and kink. Link ...

Controlling women's choices from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.242587

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the current climate with men wanting to control women, the Roe vs Wade decision, polygamy, age gap and more. #submission #dominant #bdsm

One feminist mindset on submission from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.235842

In this podcast, Sir Inq shares and comments on one young ladies feminist mindset towards submission and how the vallina view of submission differs from those of us that practice the D/s dynamic. #...

Thirstday in the SpeakEasy from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.199564

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses an uptick in work, travel, and the challenges of being in a dynamic and holding up your end of the bargain. Also explains the $25 challenge he proposes to his fol...

Q&A of Sir Inq from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.197417

In this podcast, Sir Inq responds to questions from followers about his experience and thoughts on the lifestyle and more.

Vegas baby Vegas! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.192537

In this podcast, Sir Inq talks about his recent trip to Las Vegas and answers more questions from followers about his experience and where he sees himself growing towards in the future.

Ghosting is the worse breakup tactic! from 2023-12-13T15:12:29.189129

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why men are bad at break ups and are the architect's of whats called "ghosting", and the aftermath that they don't get to see. Or are the...

Ghosting is the worse breakup tactic! from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.433263

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why men are bad at break ups and are the architect's of whats called "ghosting", and the aftermath that they don't get to see. Or are the...

Traits of built men from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.394601

In this podcast Sir Inq, reflects on his 50yrs on this planet and how built men attract the life they want and the sacrifices made to make their lives so, and how that benefits all within ...

Good girls pay close attention! from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.393266

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses some important factors that either keep submissive's value high or how lack of focus can cause them to lose out on a harmonious D/s relationship.

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I have a sub but what's next? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.390890

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses starting points with new submissive's and how there's no one size fits all when training a sub, what may work for one submissive may not fit for anothe...

Too tired to play my part! from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.389406

In this podcast, sir Inq discusses how real life circumstances can deplete you of energy mentally and physically to the point that you want to forego your duties to your D/s relationship.

How to attract the right submissive? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.383951

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the keys to attracting a submissive and whats needed to build a strong foundation in which to build a D/s relationship upon.

#dominant #submission

Expand your pallet of experiences from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.381954

In this podcast, Sir Inq reviews his trip to Brazil and also delves into how expanding your pallet travel wise enhances your knowledge base and makes your a more well rounded individual. Listen

The InnThrall experience from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.378905

In this podcast, Sir Inq gives a show and tell of his experience in a weekend get away at an kinkbnb called InnThrall in Pennsylvania.

Impact play into release from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.373729

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how sessions and impact play brings about release for subs that may have nothing to do with what the Dom is administering but a release from something el...

BDSM Dummy's Guide pt1 from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.366802

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses simple rules when it comes to sessions, where to strike on the body, and what to use when doing so.

Silence her mind from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.355221

In this Podcast, Sir Inq discusses why its important to quiet a submissive's overactive mind and how if unchecked can lead to stagnation, complacency and frustration.

Inexperienced or fake? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.350311

Are those we consider to be fake in some instances just inexperienced with how to leading and others knowing how to follow? The most pressing question is how to know the difference betwee...

Date with intention from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.344607

In todays fast moving dating world, managing the field of daters and discovering the best matches takes one to know themselves, what you want, and how to convey that to a potential mate. A...

RED FLAGS from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.286312

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why we ignore red flags and how they may not appear right away but how one must stave off the emotional connection to make heathy decisions.

Get out the middle! from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.283351

In this podcast, Sir Inq explains his theory on three different types of men, however the man in the middle really suffers the most. Also why we as men need to raise more emotionally competent m...

Rules&Regulations from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.278471

In podcast, Sir Inq talks about how men need to respect their accomplishments and how not everyone should benefit off the value they've created and to do so there must be rules and reg...

She wanted a 3 some, he wanted phony matrimony from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.273948

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a funny situation his client had with a women he thought was a potential wife, when really what she wanted was a 3 some!

Understanding her from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.270724

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how Dominate men need to understand how the modern woman thinks and functions, and how many though assertive are willing to let go but that happens over time a...

Can you afford two or more? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.267669

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses what the cost of polyandry is and how it's more than financial, though money is a factor not many discuss how you must be balanced and judicial with ...

When and how to say provocative things from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.263165

Sir Inq goes in on the subject of when and how to say provocative things and not ruin the mood with off kilter convo.

The attentive man makes her cum from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.257445

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how men cum each time but not so much for women and how we as men need to be more attentive to our partners body and sexual release.

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The sheep in wolf clothing from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.251181

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how so many men allow sexual gratification and the pursuit of women make them disregard their responsibilities as the alpha wolf or expose themselves as sheep....

Inq's anonymous NGL questions from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.246544

In this podcast, Sir Inq answers anonymous questions and confessions posed to him the past week thru the NGL app and briefly touches on swinging into bdsm.

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Swinging into the power exchange dynamic? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.240547

In this podcast, Sir inq discuss some challenges the swinger community may face coming over into the world of bdsm beyond the kink aspects.

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Stuck in the dial up dating mindset from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.237034

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how many of us are still stuck in old dating views, habits, mindset, and most of all costly unfulfilling outcomes.

We all eat lies when hungry from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.235434

Sir Inq discusses the concept of "eating lies when we're hungry" and how to stave off bad decisions by not controlling our carnal urges.

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Adding to the dynamic from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.195215

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how we can get into a place where things become routine or redundant and we seek ways to spice things up and the pros and cons of certain things like add...

The baby Dom from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.192388

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how alpha males from other relationship dynamics (vanilla, swingers etc) come into the world of Bdsm and some without taking advice or doing their own du...

Value vs what one brings to the table from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.190148

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses the difference between your self worth to what you bring to a relationship.

Exhausted Domination from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.186657

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why there's no need to chase the idea of being a dom in every and all situations, and how there will be moments that you will just be and not hard-lined in...

Wanted but do you qualify? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.184175

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses if you know what your D/s talents are and if you're a good fit in a certain situation in a specific role?!

Making agreements and staying the course! from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.181577

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance with making agreements in relationships and how those agreements can be revised with open communication and agreeing to the proposed chang...

A session that ran a foul from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.179083

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his trip to NY to see an erotic poetry show by the Punanny Poets and how they told a story of a how public spanking went wrong and how SI had to clarify ...

How to roll the D out! from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.176728

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how a dominant rolls out their dominance to a potential submissive first to earn the trust to delve deeper into a productive d/s dynamic if the chemistry...

Are you 10 toes down or one foot out? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.169105

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how being committed to the lifestyle will yield you the results you desire, but if you're one foot in and one foot out you'll suffer the conseque...

Slow roll pt2 from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.163886

Pt 2 of rolling your buffet of protocols, requirements, rules etc in a methodical way.

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Give the punishment she deserves from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.159534

When to punish and when to give a pass can be tricky but let's discuss it!

Rio and the Experience from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.156476

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his travel to Brazil and how to have the experiences you desire in those places you dream about through strategy and discipline.

Save to play from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.151774

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how the most elaborate fantasy get away, session or apparatus is not out of your reach with proper planning and discipline.

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Reasons why some women fake pleasure from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.147643

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses are women conditioned to settle for less, fake orgasms and forgo their own sexual satisfaction for the sake of mens ego?

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Is there one size for all? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.143440

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses a moment of clarity he had during a session when using a paddle and how he found different ways to use the paddle on different body types and how it ta...

Being distracted or being neglectful? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.141490

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses the difference between being distracted and neglect and the ramifications that neglect spawn.

Supporting your submissive from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.139723

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how the dynamics of relationships have changed and how to approach a self sustained/ assertive modern woman and how old relationship paradigms may not work in t...

Im her Daddy but not her daddy from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.135930

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how some view the daddy dom little girl dynamic the wrong way and clarifies what it is and what its not.

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TRUST ISSUES! from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.085940

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses trust issues and where they come from and how to manage them.

When the student is ready.. from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.083585

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the concept "when the student is ready the master shall appear" and relates it to our lifestyle of Bdsm.

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Online to in line from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.067793

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses pt 2 of taking things from online to meeting live and creating a D/s situation but also some safety guides before the rope, cuffs and ball gags come out.

Do not disturb the sub zone groove! from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.065575

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how to react when your sub is in their zone, should i do something or nothing at all?!

The perfect play partner from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.063196

In this podcast, sir Inq discusses the error in seeking out the perfect play partner and discusses what he thinks finding an other is about.

One was curios and the other wanted to watch from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.061517

In this podcast, Sir Inq tells a short story of a girl who was curious about impact play and how her girlfriend wanted to watch.

Master yourself first from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.059098

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance of mastering ones life before trying to becomes someones Dom!

Innergy and attraction from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.056434

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how your innergy (energy) attracts situations and a further conversation of how relationships are a reflection of oneself and how we need to change ourselves t...

Be bold, be confident in your Dominance! from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.054541

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how taking on a submissive with more experience than yourself is not a bad thing nor should you as a Dom avoid those types out of egoistic reasons! Listen

Should you break her? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.051482

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses if a Dom should break a sub and how the terminology has been tainted and needs to be reexamined for healthier outcomes.

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Power exchange and mutual agreements from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.046775

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how relationships are based on mutual agreements and healthy relationships are not based only on what the Dominant wants.

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Too good to be true? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.044016

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the online games being played on dating sites to fool unsuspecting people into giving up their money and to string them along.

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Know the rules, act accordingly! from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.039863

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses when attending some bdsm parties normally there's a head master and mistress, more than likely they have house rules that everyone needs to follow and how ...

Why must I chase the cat? from 2023-11-29T18:04:42.034566

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses the issues men face wanting multiple lovers but not satisfying one, and do some men really care if even one is satisfied compared to their own score card...

When should you blow the lid off?? from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.957909

Should you blow the lid off the secrecy of your interest and role in the lifestyle of Bdsm or should you still keep it to yourself?

Dom's should have their own style! from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.955356

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how each Dom should have their own style and not chase the view of what a Dom is supposed to be thru imagery online.

Where are we going? from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.953853

Where are we going with life and this lifestyle of kink, domination and submission? In todays times you can be whoever you want, have what you want and switch up as you please but is that ...

The lost art of finessing from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.951367

In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest The Curious Girl discuss how many women have lost the art of finessing and how feminism has duped them into thinking being a boss b!tch will not only...

Softly and aggressively, simultaneously! from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.950090

She like's her pu$$y fckd aggressively and her clit touched softly!

What happened to the kings men? from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.947333

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses "where are the kings men" in a poetical way but touches on the reality of how many men have been feminized in todays times.

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Out The Box? from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.945991

Sir Inq discusses his thoughts on thinking and living outside societal norms in an authentic or clandestine way seeking the same results.

Should you force submission?? from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.944534

Why do so many men use their dominance to force submission on a woman? Is this how it should go or no?

Block the opinions of the masses! from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.939003

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of filtering the opinion of the masses and most time why blocking them out all together is the most important thing one can do for their mental h...

His actions exposes the masochist within him! from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.937172

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how a friend of his says one thing about women but chooses the opposite and his choices betray his words and exposes him as a masochist and maybe a service sub...

We played with fire and it was scary fun! from 2023-11-29T18:04:41.934057

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his first time playing with fire in a session and the reaction from his sub who experienced a scary fun good time. He also discusses safety measures and t...

D/s while Quarantined from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Michelle Fegatofi and Sir inQ discuss the recent pandemic and the affects it can have on the fetish community as well things we can still do to continue to grow within your D/s role.

Who should pay from 2020-03-09T00:20

Sir Inq and his guest Layla discuss going dutch on the 1st date, what it means and how new social norms do not always fit into the relationship eco system.

Dom drop from 2020-03-02T01:51

Sir Inq discusses Dom drop, the cause and affects and why emotional connection and emotional intelligence is crucial when dealing with a failed relationship.

The Provider from 2019-12-12T06:29

Sir Inq talks about the mindset of"The Provider"and why having emotional intelligence is an important component to a relationship and how it's not taught to males at a young age.

Views on love from 2019-12-10T06:09

The Curious Girl and Sir Inq discuss their personal dating experience and how that's shaping their perspectives on how they see love.

Sir Inq's 8 keys of Domination from 2019-12-01T16:23

Sir Inq discussing his eight keys that a Dominant must have in order to have a success in the lifestyle.

Are alpha women and hard working women the same? from 2019-11-11T03:36

Are alpha females and hardworking women one in the same? Sir inQ discusses this concept..

Being in tune from 2019-09-29T17:07

Sir Inq discusses the importance of knowing your partner and how that knowledge plays into putting together the right session(s) for your submissive.

Thoughts of Au from 2019-07-28T19:02

This is Au's view on several topics concerning body shaming and what proper Domination is in his opinion.

The Silent Conversation from 2019-06-10T16:10

This conversation takes place between Dominant named"Silent"and Sir Au. They discuss Silents experience and how the bids scene is being lived in the Philippines. They also discuss the importance of...

Fake Doms and fake subs from 2019-04-29T12:53

Michelle Fegatofi and Sir InQ discuss newbies and how to spot fakes on both sides of the lifestyle.

The lifestyle of a switch from 2019-04-03T02:51

Sir InQ and his guest Lady J discuss her journey into the lifestyle as a switch and which side caters to her the most.

Girls mature earlier than boys.. from 2019-03-13T00:20

A lighthearted conversation on do girls mature faster than boys and what societal stigmas dictate the maturity rate of the sexes.

Interview with Michelle Fegatofi pt 2 from 2019-02-14T00:26

Part 2 of our lifestyle discussion, brats, her site and being an author of several books.

Interview with Michelle Fegatofi from 2019-02-06T04:58

SiR iNQ and his guest Michelle Fegatofi discuss the bdsm lifestyle, her being a sub 24/7, her health and weight loss journey and much much more!

Interview with Layla London from 2019-02-06T04:55

SiR iNQ interviews one of his friends the Curious Girl and discusses her sexcapades and how she found bdsm.

Sir InQ&Nikki from 2019-01-25T14:48

SiR iNQ discusses his introduction to the lifestyle by his 1st submissive Nikki and his first experience with consent non consent play sessions.

Sir InQ Intro from 2019-01-24T17:00

Introduction and a brief description of why I'm here and what what I stand for.