005 If you are so amazing - could this be why you're (still) single? - a podcast by Ané Auret

We explore one of the most hidden factors that may be at the root of why you haven't found the relationship you're look for - yet!

If you are, like many of the amazing single people I speak to, trying to figure out what is going wrong for you, or feel that there is some sort of invisible force driving your love life, come and join me and find out whether you may be coming up against this barrier in your search for your soulmate.

For today’s episode I want to share with you something that I come across often in my work with clients and conversations with colleagues and even friends – and of course, in my own life! Trust me – what I’m going to talk about today has been – and still is very much present in my daily life – and to be honest, I don’t think it’s going anywhere soon because I have to make daily choices about it.

I’m talking about something that I’m realising is one of THE Biggest barriers in some people’s lives when it comes to finding love and having the relationship they say they want. And it’s easy to go unnoticed for a very long time unless you or somebody else consciously call you out on it.

And it is simply this: Ambivalence – the hidden barrier when it comes to love.
The definition of Ambivalence states that it is the “state of having mixed feelings or contradictory ideas about something or someone” or “the simultaneous existence of two opposed and conflicting attitudes, emotions”

It manifests itself in all sorts of ways in our lives – whether it’s achieving a particular goal at work, taking care our bodies, fitness (eating healthy for example) – but for our purposes today we will talk about how it manifests itself in love, dating and relationships.

This episode touches on what it can potentially look like in your life, ways it can show up for you and what you can do to start changing it!

Love,
Ané
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