S2 Ep36: Blinded - a podcast by Krista Kim, Katherine McClelland
from 2020-04-01T08:15
:30 Krista and Katherine join each other via Zoom during the Coronavirus
1:30 K & K let go of the perfection and show up get the message out.
2:30 What part of what is going on is our stuff and what part is another person’s stuff?
3:15 This is a time to explore what we truly want
3:45 Why are we really here?
4:00 This is a time to really see the people we care about through the lens of love instead of through the lens of our hurts.
5:00 It’s time to let the wounds heal so we can expand in our loving
5:10 Katherine expresses how she feels lucky to feel love
5:20 Krista reflects on how Katherine’s junk has been sitting in the middle of her and her love for Mr. Delicious
5:30 When we clean out the gunk clogging our pipes, we can pull back the veil and see our loved ones more clearly and experience more joy
5:58 When the veil is pulled back, the love is there waiting.
6:00 When the healing happens, we are able to see our loved ones purely without our arguments, betrayals, and unworthiness in the way. Seeing your partner as if you are seeing them for the first time. Return to the field. How long can we stay in the field?
7:13 You don’t have to have a partner to feel the love
8:00 Krista discusses one of her client’s journeys through loneliness over the last year and how she is now more prepared than most to handle this quarantine. Her inner work has prepared her for this new paradigm.
9:00 Can we maintain our wholeness when we return back into the world after the isolation is over. Can we return to the world a new, evolved species?
10:00 Quote from Byron Katie- “Being WITH is loving.”
11:49 Katherine’s “settled” feeling has come from her healing work
12:20 The gals realize they are having a tandem experience in isolation.
12:50 Krista has been wanting to express herself to Golden Eyes and has been ruminating on all the “should haves.”
15:10 Golden Eyes comes back into the picture to do more healing.
15:25 Krista ponders what would happen if she let this new, more healed version of herself have a conversation with Golden Eyes.
16:00 The tendency to pick up the same old story and begin new conversations from an old perspective versus going into a new conversation with an updated version of yourself.
17:30 Krista finally finds her voice with Golden Eyes
17:50 If you are still ruminating on a topic, it isn’t healed.
18:40 Krista and Golden eyes have a conversation between two souls NOT their wounded warriors.
19:30 The world is not showing up for us anymore! We have to show up for ourselves.
19:50 Our expectations are being washed clean right now with the virus.
20:50 Katherine gets called out on FB for having a different point of view. Even her crusade of love somehow upset people.
21:30 Other people’s “stuff” got in the way of them seeing Katherine’s loving.
22:43 Perception checking
23:00 Krista reflects that her old self would have built a story around something Golden Eyes said, but her healed self-had the ability to perception check with him, allowing her to stop the “story” in her head from gaining steam and creating a problem
24:58 Hanging out with someone’s soul is really intimate. Do we create dramas and “stories” to save ourselves from the intimacy?
26:00 While Katherine is in a committed engagement and Krista is in multiple partnerships, what they have in common are “ground rules for partnership” that feel safe regardless of whether it’s monogamous or open.
27:00 Krista discusses how weird it felt to have a “safe” feeling with the return of Golden Eyes especially in light of what they have been through in the past. Familiarity felt good in comparison to the newness of Mr. Here and Now. Stability in the Instability.
28:30 The entire world is having to shut down and stay in place, rest and reflect.
29:00 The return of Golden Eyes is a prime example of what pulling back the veil of hurt looks like and the miracles that can be achieved when we see someone purely from their loving soul and not from our wounded child.
29:29 People have the opportunity to rediscover their partners during this time of solitude.
32:00 We are getting to see how powerful our connections are even though we can’t be together.
32:40 How challenging times often serve us in returning to our loving.
33:00 In the future can we learn how to return to love without there needing to be a challenge or trauma.
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