Podcasts by The INFJ Whisperer

The INFJ Whisperer

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-like, just like you.

Let me help you, through this podcast, and my YouTube channel, to help you gain a better understanding of yourself, and to become the best version of yourself as much as possible. I'm Boom Shikha on YouTube, and there are hundreds of INFJ videos on there, that are waiting for your conscious understanding. Much love! See you on the other side, lovely INFJs.

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INFJs Are Not Emotionally Courageous, Although Brave in Other Ways from 2023-07-26T01:31:41

INFJs have a hard time being vulnerable, more so than other types. We are so fearful of trusting others with our innermost thoughts and feelings. Essentially, we lack that emotional courage that...

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INFJs Underestimate and Undervalue Themselves Compared to Others from 2023-07-12T02:28:24

INFJs have a lot more potential than others around them, but because we spend all our time in doubt and anxiety, we aren't able to achieve this potential. We undervalue ourselves and underestima...

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Some Hacks To Make Your Obsessions Work for You Rather Than Against You, INFJs from 2023-06-28T02:23:34

INFJs sometimes feel like they are led around by their obsessions, but this hack I share in the episode will help you lead your obsessions instead. Let's get in the driver's seat of our life, fo...

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INFJs, Direct Your Obsessions Towards Good from 2023-06-14T02:21:18

INFJs go through cycles or phases where they get obsessed with a certain item or situation and then lose interest after a while. We can direct this obsessive nature towards good by using the tec...

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INFJs Need To Create Systems for Success from 2023-05-31T02:18:58

INFJs spend a lot of their time in their heads, in their imagination, in their dream worlds. So they have to create systems and automate things, so they don't end up missing payments or other im...

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INFJs Don’t Like It When People Covertly Try to Use Them from 2023-05-17T02:14:58

INFJs are quite aware when others are manipulating them, and that covert behavior is annoying to us. If you are going to use us, be direct and honest about it. Don't try to use us in a covert fa...

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INFJs Love It When People Are Directly Rude and Antagonistic from 2023-05-03T02:09:06

INFJs don't know how to deal with people who are indirect, dishonest, or two-faced. We don't know if our intuition is telling us the truth about the person. So we would rather people be honest w...

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Why Do INFJs Tell So Many Little White Lies? from 2023-04-19T02:06:51

INFJs have difficulty telling the truth in certain situations because we worry about confrontations, arguments, or discussions. We don't want all that. It's easier sometimes to say a little whit...

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INFJs Find It Hard to Understand Their Emotions from 2023-03-22T02:00

INFJs get confused by emotions and emotionality quite easily, not only by their own, but also by others. It's a mystery to us. What are emotions all about? It's easier to understand quantum phys...

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INFJs Find It Hard to Understand Their Emotions from 2023-03-22T02:00

INFJs get confused by emotions and emotionality quite easily, not only by their own, but also by others. It's a mystery to us. What are emotions all about? It's easier to understand quantum phys...

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INFJs Are All About Context and Finding Deeper Meaning to Things from 2023-02-22T06:16:31

Without a deeper meaning to a particular task or item, INFJs will not put their effort into it. That's why we need to trick ourselves and attach a deeper meaning to everything we need to get don...

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INFJs Don’t Know How to Define a Friendship - It’s So Confusing from 2023-02-08T06:13:41

INFJs don't know what a relationship means, let alone a friendship. So when people say they are our friends, we are truly confused. Are we really??


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3 Reasons Why INFJs Find It Hard to Build Depth in a Relationship from 2023-01-25T06:11:46

It's so hard for INFJs to get relationships away from superficiality and into something much deeper and intense. We try so hard, but we fail so many more times. These are the reasons for it, as ...

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An INFJs’ Moral Conscience Pummels Them on the Daily from 2023-01-11T02:29:53

The world is a terrible place for empaths like us. We want to do more morally and otherwise, but we can never do enough as INFJs.


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Practice Your Worthiness Muscle Daily, INFJs from 2023-01-04T02:27:14

Just because you exist, you are worthy, INFJs. Tell yourself this daily and practice feeling worthy, no matter what.


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Learn the Other Person’s Conversational Style First, INFJs from 2022-12-28T02:25:37

It can sometimes feel like you are speaking a completely different language than others around you, even though you are speaking in the same tongue. Communication requires INFJs to learn other p...

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INFJs Run Away from Their Closest Relationships - Here’s Why from 2022-12-21T02:23:43

There are many reasons why INFJs run away from their closest relationships. People are exhausting, we don't trust very easily, we have been hurt in the past, and we think we don't deserve love. ...

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Moral Perfectionism - Are You Suffering from This Debilitating Trait? from 2022-12-14T02:21:35

INFJs tend to create high impossible-to-reach standards for themselves, especially when it comes to morality. This is called moral perfectionism, and it's a mind-killer. Don't let yourself fall ...

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INFJs See Their Own Ugliness So Clearly, It Can Be Debilitating from 2022-11-16T04:02:08

INFJs find it easy to criticize themselves because we see our faults clearly. But that means that we end up seeing ourselves in a very negative way and forget that we are human, imperfect, and h...

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INFJs Don’t Like Being Human and Having Changing Needs from 2022-11-09T04:55:13

INFJs know that they are human, but this doesn't mean that they like it or don't try to avoid the whole responsibility of being human completely. We ignore our human needs and desires and preten...

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INFJs Think if I’m So Smart, Why Should I Need Help? from 2022-11-02T04:53:37

INFJs have a really hard time asking for help because we think we are smart enough to do it all ourselves. But no matter how smart we are, there will always come a time when help is necessary. S...

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INFJs and YOLO Don’t Really Mix That Well from 2022-10-26T04:47:37

INFJs aren't really the you-only-live-once kind of crowd. We need to plan things out carefully and if we are spontaneous, it's when we have planned for it within our schedule. It's weird and res...

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How Do INFJs Make Decisions? - They Need to Reach Critical Mass Info from 2022-09-14T08:01:02

Some decisions INFJs can make in a jiffy. But others it takes us forever and ever. It's because we need to reach a certain critical mass in terms of information before we are ready to make parti...

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4 Natural Tendencies I Didn’t Know Were Related to My ADHD Nature from 2022-09-07T07:59

I recently got diagnosed as being on the spectrum, and now I realize there are many practices I built into my daily routine to help with my ADHD tendencies. To temper them so I can live in the w...

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Some Tips for INFJs on How to Manage Their Finances Better from 2022-08-31T09:56:38

INFJs like to spend a lot of their time in their heads, which means that they end up ignoring all the real-world situations, like paying bills, saving money, and more. I give you some tips in th...

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How Can INFJs Fix Imbalance And Obsessiveness When in a Relationship? from 2022-08-23T09:01:55

INFJs tend to go all-in when they are in a relationship, but that can result in an obsessiveness that isn't healthy. Watch the video for some tips on how you can balance yourself out when in a r...

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When INFJs Get Diagnosed with Autism or ADHD or Both Later in Life from 2022-08-16T09:59:06

I recently got diagnosed as being on the spectrum. I always knew that I was neurodivergent in some manner, but doing some research on how people with ADHD and autism behave, really opened up my ...

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6 Reasons Why INFJs Would Be Great Secret Service Agents from 2022-08-09T09:56:49

I have always believed that INFJs have lots of great qualities, allowing them to become good at whatever career path they choose. But particularly, I think we would be great FBI agents or covert...

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INFJs Don’t Need to Be Inebriated to Do or Say Embarrassing Things from 2022-08-02T10:26:54

INFJs are socially awkward and that makes them do embarrassing things and say foolish things to people even when they aren't high or drunk. People often think I am high but I'm not. I'm complete...

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INFJs Tend Towards an Avoidant Attachment Style in Relationships from 2022-07-26T10:25:13

INFJs tend to become extremely anxious and obsessive in a relationship and that makes them want to run away from the person they love. Does this happen to you? It has happened to me lots of time...

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INFJs Do Recon Missions to Learn about Their Environment (Future Thinkers) from 2022-07-19T10:21:58

INFJs, when they move to a new city, country, or neighborhood, will always spend a few days or weeks driving or walking around to find out all the important shops and spots. Do you do this as we...

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INFJs, Are You Involving Yourself in Other People’s Tasks and Forgetting Your Own? from 2022-07-12T01:34:07

INFJs have this bad habit of being overly involved in other people's lives and tasks and forgetting their own stuff. We will procrastinate on our important tasks by 'helping' others even when th...

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INFJs Know That They Know but Not How They Know, or Why They Know from 2022-07-05T01:31:51

Introverted intuition is such a fascinating power of INFJs. Lots of times, we will get insights from our intuition and have no idea why or where it came from. It's just there, asking us to belie...

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INFJs Self-Punish Because They Believe They Have Done Terrible Wrongs (They Haven't) from 2022-06-28T01:29

INFJs don't need you to come in and punish us. We are very capable of doing that for ourselves, thank you very much. That's why we are always berating ourselves, and putting ourselves down, even...

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INFJs Hate Receiving Conditional Love, but We End up Giving Conditional Love from 2022-06-21T05:53:23

INFJs are great in relationships and great lovers, but we have a tendency to hold ourselves back because of past relationship issues and trust issues. If we could only avoid doing that, we would...

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INFJs Tend Towards Having Obsessions Which Could Blossom into Addictions from 2022-06-14T05:51:09

INFJs can become addicted to people, ideas, and actions quite easily because we are obsessive about our passions. But we have to be careful about that and do it in a controlled fashion.


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INFJs Improve Themselves by Comparing to Their Past Selves (Not Others) from 2022-06-07T05:49:02

INFJs don't see any point comparing themselves to others, since people are so different from each other and on different paths. That's why we are constantly comparing ourselves to our past selve...

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INFJs Have This Innate Uncontrollable Desire to Share Their Knowledge from 2022-05-31T05:45:55

INFJs love collecting knowledge and then sharing that knowledge with the people they think would be helped most by it. Even if the person hasn't asked for this knowledge, we have this uncontroll...

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INFJ Minds Work in a Very Unique Database-like Fashion from 2022-05-24T07:31:45

INFJs have a very unique way of processing and dealing with information. The older I get, the more conscious I become of this process and it just astounds and awes me.


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Use This Awareness Technique to Kill Overthinking, INFJs from 2022-05-17T07:29:36

INFJs are overthinkers and overplanners. Sometimes it can be a positive trait, but other times, it can turn into a curse. Use the technique I speak about in this episode to stop your overthinkin...

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INFJs Can Be So Preachy and Condescending When Giving Advice from 2022-05-10T06:26

INFJs have a powerful intuition and that makes us believe that we know best about everyone. And maybe we do. But others really don't care about that, so stop being condescending to your friends ...

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Can You Reverse an INFJ Doorslam or Not? - I Say It’s Rare from 2022-05-03T05:24:43

It takes INFJs so much time to decide to do a doorslam, that they will rarely, if ever, reverse it. The person must truly show a lot of remorse for it to happen, but that usually doesn't happen....

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INFJs Sabotage Themselves by Wrongly Predicting the Future from 2022-04-26T05:18:37

INFJs sabotage their efforts by doing this silly thing. It's a defense mechanism to protect ourselves from failure because we are perfectionists.


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INFJs - Stop Ruminating and Overthinking, and Start Actioning Now from 2022-04-19T06:15:03

INFJs spend too much thinking, analyzing, and ruminating, and not enough time doing. If we changed this way of doing things, we would accomplish great things in this world, which is our birthrig...

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INFJs Bounce Back from Terrible Experiences Fast, Resilient We Are from 2022-04-12T08:12:27

INFJs have this unique character trait where we bounce back from good, bad, and all other experiences quite fast. It might even seem like those events never happened to us. We appear to be cold ...

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INFJs Seem Boring around People They Don’t Trust Completely Yet from 2022-04-05T03:26:30

You might be surprised to see an INFJ silent as a mouse and boring as anything when they are around people who they don't trust yet. It might seem like we are two-faced because of this, but as t...

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Dating an INFJ - What Questions to Ask to Get Them to Open Up? from 2022-03-29T03:18:41

If you are interested in an INFJ, then you will want to ask them the right questions to get them to open up. Otherwise, it will be as quiet as the Sahara on your dates or meetups.


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INFJs Feel Upset With Themselves After Setting Boundaries (At First) from 2022-03-22T03:16:15

INFJs are afraid of confrontation and of asking for what they need. That's why setting boundaries can be such an ordeal for them. Have you gotten over this fear of ours yet?


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INFJs Feel Like They Were Dropped Into the Wrong Family from 2022-03-15T03:08:31

INFJs are quirky, weird, odd, strange, and many more such descriptions apply to us. That's why we usually end up feeling out of place and disconnected from our families and loved ones. That is, ...

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INFJs Feel Overwhelmed in Relationships for These 3 Reasons from 2022-03-08T03:03:26

If you were wondering why you have a hard time being in a relationship as an INFJ, don't wonder anymore. It's a common tendency among all of us and it's the reason why we are single more often t...

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INFJs Invoke Strong Feelings in Others Because of Their Authenticity from 2022-03-01T03:00:11

Authenticity is a primary value for all INFJs, and this tends to rub some people the wrong way and other people the right way. Some people tend to hate us from the get-go and others tend to love...

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We Are Feelers but We Don’t Use Feeling Words Very Often, INFJs Think from 2022-02-22T01:55:53

No one ever believes I am a feeler, because I come across as so stoic and cold, but also because I never say 'I'm feeling this way or that.' It's so weird! I'm a feeler, I swear, but it only sho...

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Narcissists Think of You as a Food Source, INFJs - That’s Why They Can’t Let Go from 2022-02-15T01:50:37

In this podcast episode, I chat with a psychologist who chats about how narcissists think of people and why they are so attracted to INFJs in particular. If you are surrounded by narcissists, th...

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Why Do INFJs End up With So Many ENFP Friends? Depth Typology Explains. from 2022-02-08T01:48:13

I used to always wonder why I ended up with so many ENFP friends, and Maryia was able to explain that to me, using depth typology. It's so fascinating!


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2 INFJs Share 5 Life Lessons From Their Non Traditional Path from 2022-02-01T01:44:38

My INFJ friend, Elle, and I share 5 lessons each that we have learned in our journey on this beautiful blue planet. I hope you can gain something from this.


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Either We Are Too Nice or We Become Bitter, an INFJ Male Comments from 2022-01-25T01:40:15

In this podcast episode, I speak to an INFJ male, who laments about how INFJ males have only two modes of operation - either they are too nice or they become aloof, cold, and bitter. Do you rela...

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Don’t Help Someone Unless They Ask For Your Help, INFJs from 2022-01-18T01:50:10

INFJs assume that people need help if they are complaining about something and we will do anything to help them. But sometimes (most times) people are complaining just for the sake of complainin...

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Use Earplugs To Control the Noise in and Around You, INFJs from 2022-01-11T01:47:51

INFJs should always carry earplugs around with them and headphones to listen to music. This way they can always be protected from any noise around them and protect any drains on their limited st...

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We Feel Unworthy of Love So INFJs Go For Relationships That Will Obviously Fail from 2022-01-04T01:45:31

INFJs tend to go for relationships with people who take advantage of us and treat us badly, over ones who treat us right and love us right. This way when the relationship fails, because it inevi...

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We Don’t Like People Who Are Lazy and Shove Responsibility, INFJs Think from 2021-12-28T01:43

INFJs hold themselves to high standards, of course. But we also hold others to a high standard and we get irritated or disappointed when people fall below those standards, particularly when peop...

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One Way to Build a Relationship Is to Ask For Help, INFJs - So Go Forth from 2021-12-21T02:58:02

INFJs have a hard time asking for help, which means that we don't build a very good foundation for many relationships. But you can stop doing that now, and start asking for help, no matter how u...

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Stop Avoiding Important Things and Running Away from Them, INFJs from 2021-12-14T02:53:52

I wasted so much of my youth avoiding important details of my life because I was too afraid or felt too inept. But they were still there waiting for me when I returned back to Earth and stopped ...

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Some Advice for Younger INFJs Going to University or College Soon from 2021-12-07T02:52:51

I made lots of mistakes in my university life because I was a clueless INFJ. But I don't want you to make those same mistakes. Listen up for some good advice from an older (been there done that)...

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Don't Go In Thinking That You Will Be Rejected Every Time, INFJs from 2021-11-30T02:49:05

When I make new friends, I'm always afraid that they will reject me, so I would reject them first in the past. BUT now I try to remember that not everyone will reject me, even though many have i...

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If You Are Living With a Narcissist, Here's How to Deal With Them, INFJs from 2021-11-23T02:48:16

If you are living with a narcissist, you might be at your wit's end on how to deal with them. But moving out and cutting them out of your life isn't the only option here (although if you can do ...

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How to Build a Habit of Working Out or Any Other Habit - For INFJs from 2021-11-16T07:20:44

I have had to develop some interesting techniques to ensure that I stick to my yoga, meditation, and walking habits. Otherwise, I would deteriorate very fast into doing nothing and complaining a...

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INFJs Take Thrice as Long as Others to Get Over past Relationships from 2021-10-13T05:43:49

INFJs spend a long time pondering and thinking and analyzing before getting into a relationship. And once it fails, we spend even more time thinking over what we learned from the relationship an...

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A Relationship with an INFJ Is Not for the Faint of Heart, Seriously! from 2021-10-06T05:41:54

INFJs are not easy to date. Neither are we easy when we are in relationships. It's difficult all around. That's why if you want to be with an INFJ, you better prepare your heart, soul and body f...

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We Are Closet Hopeless Romantics, It's Quite Embarrassing to INFJs from 2021-09-29T05:39:23

INFJs love being romantic and romanced, but we would never say that out loud because it's somehow shameful for us to admit that. We want to be practical and pragmatic. Not romantic and irrationa...

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It's Easier to Have a One-on-One Meeting Than Group for INFJs from 2021-09-22T05:37

INFJs do really well in one-on-one situations. We shine like diamonds and we are charming AF. But in group situations, we falter due to all the emotions coming at us and we get confused about wh...

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We Create Theories about the World to Understand Our Place in It , INFJs from 2021-09-15T05:34:13

INFJs feel like outsiders and aliens because they think differently from the way the rest of the world thinks. So we are constantly trying to understand the world and our place in it. It's one o...

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Do You Emotionally Numb Yourself to Protect Yourself, INFJs? from 2021-09-08T05:32:09

INFJs have this tendency to stay calm and aloof in the moment of crisis and then go into their room or cave to process emotions. We also emotionally numb ourselves because we need to stay strong...

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We Are Not Good At Maintaining Our Body Weight, INFJs - Take Better Care from 2021-09-01T05:29:15

INFJs forget to eat and then get too thin. And then they go into spirals of overeating and sadness and gain a bunch of weight. We oscillate back and forth between these two extremes. Or at least...

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Should You Maintain the Peace or Argue with Trolls, INFJs? from 2021-08-25T05:27:04

INFJs end up in a lot of non-discussions where the person is arguing just for the sake of arguing, because they like the sound of their voice or because they think they are smarter than they act...

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Choosing between Harmony and Truth-Telling - An INFJ's Constant Dilemma from 2021-08-18T05:24:43

INFJs love being direct and honest. But we also love harmony. What should we do then? Sometimes we have to discard harmony in favor of telling the truth and other times we discard the truth to k...

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To Avoid Conflict, We End Up Doorslamming (and Doing Other Silly Things), INFJs from 2021-08-11T05:24:20

INFJs have this thing about conflicts - we are afraid of them, we like to maintain harmony in our relationships and lives and conflicts are the absolute opposite of that. But conflicts are a nec...

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Yes, We Know INFJs Go Hot and Cold, but How Do Your Partners Feel about It? from 2021-08-06T11:46:36

INFJs don't think much of it when they go cold with a person or go warm with another, but it is extremely baffling to a person who's experiencing it from the outside. It isn't that complex to an...

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Shame vs. Guilt Brene Brown - INFJs Need to Stop Feeling Shame from 2021-07-30T11:44:02

INFJs hate making mistakes of any kind. Because of our perfectionism streak, we have a tendency to fall into shame spirals quite easily and that's not good. Check out Brene Brown's teachings on ...

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Do You Use Trust Tests to Validate People around You, INFJs? from 2021-07-23T11:41:57

It's not a nice thing to do, but it's something INFJs do to make sure the people in their lives are trustworthy and worth getting into a relationship with, be it a friendship, or a partner relat...

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INFJs Don't Want to Be Mean but Also Don't Want to Be Taken Advantage Of from 2021-07-16T11:38:46

Why can't everyone be nice and just get along? That's the ideal world INFJs dream of. But the real world is not like that. People will be mean and take advantage of us, and we will have to show ...

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Do You Hate Being a Empath Sometimes? INFJs Do! from 2021-07-09T11:35:29

Being an empath is touted as being such a gracious, divine, and beautiful gift. And it is. But it also has its shadow side, where it's exhausting, demeaning, degrading, and debilitating.

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Don't Take Things Personally When Dating an INFJ, An INTJ Says from 2021-07-02T11:32:56

Non-INFJs dating INFJs have a tendency to blame themselves when an INFJ goes cold or aloof or into their cave. But it has nothing to do with anyone else. It just has to do with the INFJ taking t...

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What Do We Think about Friendships, INFJs? - It's Complicated from 2021-06-25T11:30:15

INFJs use a tier system to describe their friendship circle, and it's quite fascinating to anyone who listens in from the outside. It's not typically how people view friendships, and it can defi...

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We Need a Mission in Life to Feel Alive and Useful - INFJs Are Lost without That from 2021-06-18T11:27:26

INFJs will feel lost, empty, desolate, and completely out of touch with themselves and the world if they don't have a mission in life that they are working towards. It's a serious affliction for...

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What to Do When You Feel Empty inside and Have Nothing to Give, INFJs? from 2021-06-11T11:24:35

It's easy to keep postponing taking care of yourself because you are busy taking care of other people. But be careful, because you might go into empath burnout mode and feel so empty and exhaust...

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Take Your Time When Dating Us - INFJs Are Slowpokes in Relationships from 2021-06-04T11:21:11

If you think you will be all set and ready to date an INFJ in a matter of days or weeks, stop kidding yourself. INFJs move at glacial speeds when it comes to dating and relationships. We might b...

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How to Get Out of Negative Self Talk Mode, INFJs - Cut It Right Away from 2021-05-28T11:15:18

It's so tempting to stay within negative self-talk mode because we think we did something wrong and deserve to be punished. But it's debilitating, and degrading, and you shouldn't do that yourse...

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Our Main Relationship Block - INFJs Worry About Feeling Overwhelmed from 2021-05-06T19:35:20

INFJs worry about committing to a relationship, because they worry about overwhelm. They worry about being overwhelmed by the emotions of the other person, the time and energy drain on them, and...

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All or Nothing Thinking Perfectionism Leads To Issues in an INFJ's Life from 2021-04-29T19:32:08

This is one of my main problems with being an INFJ. I am obsessed with perfectionism in all things. I share a story about a pair of rollerblades I wanted to find in this episode - it still pains...

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Do You Keep in Touch With Your Ex - What's the Right Etiquette, INFJs? from 2021-04-22T19:29:52

Some INFJs will doorslam their ex and pretend they don't know they exist. And others will stay friends with them. I have a tendency towards the latter. And you?


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Buying Nothing and Then Buying a Lot - INFJs Are Ascetics Who Love Things from 2021-04-15T19:26

INFJs have the tendency to oscillate between buying nothing for a long time and then spending their money as if it were water for another period. Why do we do this to ourselves? Because balance ...

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We Like To Simplify Everything in Our Lives - INFJs Are Minimalists from 2021-04-08T19:23:41

INFJs like to be minimalists, not because of any other reason except it saves them time, energy, and effort. We like to conserve all three of these to the max, whenever possible, as you might al...

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Why Is Delegating Tasks So Hard for Us - INFJs Would Rather Burnout from 2021-04-01T20:21:28

INFJs have a hard time trusting that other people will do things as perfectly as they themselves will. So we end up not delegating and doing everything ourselves, which burns us out.


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We Are Not Good at Using Dating Apps, but INFJs Do Keep Trying With It from 2021-03-25T20:19:16

Even though we are terrible at using dating apps, INFJs keep on trying with them, because we also don't want to be alone for the rest of our lives. We don't want to be perpetually single.

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Please Let Me Solve All Your Problems, INFJs Say - We Just Want To Help from 2021-03-18T20:16:05

INFJs are great at solving other people's problems, and more than that, we are obsessed with solving other people's problems. So please let us!!


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We Don't Like Disruptions To Our Schedule - It's an INFJ's Major Peeve from 2021-03-11T19:34:01

INFJs have very set routines and schedules, and we despise it when someone else comes in and starts disrupting it and putting their own agenda on our plates. We will hate you for it, I'm warning...

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We Are Such Stubborn People - INFJs Have a Streak of Stubbornness from 2021-03-04T19:32:02

INFJs can be quite stubborn and set in the way they think. But we can change. It just takes us time. A long time, in certain cases. So much time that you might think we never change our mind. Listen

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Growing up Is a Process, INFJs - From Developing INFJ To Developed INFJ from 2021-02-25T19:29:34

There is a tendency to use the label of healthy versus unhealthy INFJ in the online world. But I think developed versus developing describes it much better, because it makes us realize that it's...

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Travelling on Your Own as a Woman INFJ With Too Much Time in Her Head from 2021-02-18T19:37:23

As INFJs, we spend a lot of our time in our heads, in our daydream lands, in our imaginary worlds. That's why some INFJs worry that it would be unsafe for them to travel around the world.

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The Constant Back and Forth Tires Others Out, INFJs - Loving or Caving from 2021-02-14T19:11:36

The constant back-and-forth tires others out, INFJs. We might be comfortable going into our caves and then into love mode, but the other people around us don't get us and get this motion at all....

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How to Set Healthy Boundaries With Friends - INFJs Need to Learn This from 2021-02-10T19:10:03

How to set healthy boundaries with friends - this is something that INFJs have a hard time with, because once we like someone as a friend, we give our all to them. Stop that INFJs! Set healthy b...

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Difference Between Healthy and Unhealthy INFJs - There Are 3 Main Ones from 2021-02-06T19:08:09

Difference between healthy and unhealthy INFJs - I get asked this question a lot. I think there are three main differences that I highlight in this video. Do you agree with my list? Add to it, i...

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Becoming Friends Before Dating - INFJs Friendzone People First Always from 2021-02-02T19:06:01

Becoming friends before dating - INFJs take a long time to get comfortable with people, so we usually are friends before we become lovers. Do you do this as well? Friend zoning might upset other...

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If You Grasp at Sand Too Tightly, It Slips Away, Just Like INFJs from 2021-01-29T19:04:02

If you grasp at sand too tightly, it slips away faster. The looser your hold, the easier to hold sand. The same applies to INFJs. The tighter you grasp at an INFJ, the further we slip away from ...

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Do You Show Love by Improving Others? INFJs Do and Thus We Are Single. from 2021-01-25T19:02:11

Do you show love by improving others? INFJs do. It seems counterintuitive to others, but it makes sense to us. We are not trying to change you, but we want to show you what you are capable of. W...

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How Do Introverts Deal With Marriage? It Seems So Overwhelming to Me. from 2021-01-21T18:59:54

How do introverts deal with marriage? Just being in this lockdown and stuck with family for a few months has made me realize I could never ever be with someone 24/7. Maybe it's just me.


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Why Are You Not Living up to Your Potential, INFJs? I Have Some Ideas. from 2021-01-17T18:57:26

Why are you not living up to your potential, INFJs? I have been thinking about this, for myself, and I find there are two particular reasons for it. Fear of failure and fear of success. Maybe ev...

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Work From Home Is Really Great for Introverts - It Helps Our Sanity from 2021-01-13T18:55:20

Work from home is really great for introverts - because it ensures that our social battery doesn't run out, and we can socialize on our own schedule, rather than on the 9-5 schedule, which might...

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Stop Being So Cruel To The People Who Like You, INFJs - Esp INFJ Males from 2021-01-09T19:51:58

Stop being so cruel to the people who like you, INFJs. You are not going to shrivel up and die, if you are nice to them, or if you give them kind attention. I am so sad whenever I hear ENFPs and...

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How Long Do You Hold Onto Embarrassing Situations, INFJs? Weeks? Years? from 2021-01-05T16:05:31

INFJs have a tendency to overthink, and included with that is holding onto embarrassing things they have done from years and years ago. We never let go. Like an elephant never forgets, we never ...

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When You Are Tired Say So, INFJs - Don't Freeze Others Out and Leave from 2021-01-01T16:01:26

INFJs assume that just because we are mind readers, that everyone else must be so as well. Well, that's not how it works. People need to be told that they are tired and going home to rest. So st...

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Do You Have a Faulty Social Program, INFJs? Don't Worry, All INFJs Do. from 2020-12-29T15:58:47

INFJs have a fault social program in their heads, which causes them to be socially awkward and say silly things that anyone else would deem inappropriate and nix instantly. For some reason, we a...

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INFJs Avoid Eye Contact to Avoid Conversations With Random Strangers from 2020-12-25T15:56:26

INFJs have been in many situations where they just said one word like 'Hello' to the person and instantly, the person opened up to them about all of their childhood traumas and abuse. That's why...

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Why Can't People Just Be Direct? Flirting Is Mystifying to INFJs. from 2020-12-22T15:54:25

INFJs don't understand if you are flirting with them and they don't know how to flirt back. If you are trying to send them subtle hints that you like them, don't. Just be honest and direct about...

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Are Relationships Easier in Lockdown? For INFJs, They Definitely Are. from 2020-12-18T15:52:05

Interestingly enough, lots of INFJs have been telling me that the fact that the lockdown has given them a lot of time on their own has actually positively impacted all of their relationships, ro...

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I'm Still Here Aren't I? INFJs Say to the Confused Loved Ones Near Them. from 2020-12-15T15:49:48

This is the simplest rule you will ever need to be with an INFJ. If they are still around, they still care about you. That's all. Period. No need to think any further about this at all. An INFJ ...

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Wasting Time Is a Sin, According to INFJs - Be It Our Time or Yours from 2020-12-11T15:47:15

INFJs think of their time to be as precious as gold or diamonds. If you end up wasting their time, it's a huge show of disrespect to them. If you want to stay in their good books, don't waste th...

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Do You Keep Your Circles Separate? INFJs Tend to Do This, but Why?? from 2020-12-08T15:44

INFJs have a tendency to keep their various circles separate and they are quite fastidious about it - kind of like a person who likes to keep their different foods separate on their plate. Funny...

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I Like Her but She Doesn't Like Me, I Think - Chase an INFJ or Leave? from 2020-12-04T15:41:14

I get asked this question a lot by non-INFJs who want to date an INFJ. INFJs tend to go into their caves unannounced, and that causes non-INFJs to fret, worry, and overthink, maybe the INFJ does...

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What Are Some Indicators That I Like You? INFJs Have These Four Tells. from 2020-12-01T15:37:51

There are four tells that INFJs have when they like someone romantically. Usually, INFJs keep these kinds of things close to their chest, but sometimes they can't help expose their heart's true ...

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Tough Love and Empathy - Sometimes INFJs Come Across as Cold and Mean from 2020-11-27T22:46:24

INFJs tend to be tough love junkies - we want to show love and empathy, but we end up being a bit mean about it, unintentionally. We might come across as cold, but we aren't on the inside. I pro...

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Are You Giving Mixed Signals To Others? INFJs Go Hot And Cold, Part 2. from 2020-11-22T16:52:05

One of the most frequent questions I get from non-INFJs is about the hot and cold nature of INFJs. Why do we do this? What is the reason behind this mysterious swinging of behavior?


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We Suffer To Make Ourselves Worthy Of Life, INFJs - It's A Role We Play from 2020-11-19T16:50:14

INFJs have this weird delusion that if they suffer, they will somehow be able to balance out the world a bit. No, that's not true. And you need to stop doing that to yourself, INFJs. Your suffer...

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Running Hot And Cold All The Time - INFJs Seem Crazy To Other Types from 2020-11-16T16:48:22

INFJs pendulate back and forth between being as warm as freshly-baked apple pie, to being as cold as the frigid Arctic winters. That confuses the people around us, and I get asked this question ...

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Shadow Work Helps Get Over Our Triggers, Like INFJs And Clingy People from 2020-11-13T16:46:02

INFJs dislike clingy people because clinginess is a shadow of theirs. The same applies to anything else that we dislike - if you hate something, it's in you as well. That's the basic of shadow w...

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We Can't Forgive Ourselves As INFJs Because Of Perfectionism Anxiety from 2020-11-10T16:43:51

Everyone is imperfect, but INFJs have this fear of being labeled as imperfect not only by others but by themselves. We want to do our best, and our best is too high on the pedestal to even reach...

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I Am Weird AF, But Am I The Weirdest Of Them All? - INFJs Ask from 2020-11-07T16:41:51

There are so many people in our circles and around us that are weirder than us, that INFJs wonder why they are always labeled as the weird ones. Oddballs, kooky, quirky, crazy, different, unique...

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Extremely Sensitive To Noises, Smells - Why INFJs Hide From The World from 2020-11-04T16:38:51

The world can be chaotic, and INFJs like balance, harmony, and peace, as much as possible. So, we tend to run to our abodes, our caves, our inner sanctuaries, to hide from the madness of the wor...

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Either All In Or Not At All - INFJs Go To Either Extreme In Everything from 2020-11-01T16:36:34

INFJs have this tendency to go over and beyond in things or to not give a rat's ass at all. There's no middle ground. We are at either extreme and we swing back and forth like a pendulum. Back a...

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The Curse Of Wanting To Fix Everyone - The Fixer INFJ Needs To Stop from 2020-10-29T15:33:34

There is this idea we have as INFJs that we need to fix everyone around us. The Fixer INFJ, as we are called sometimes. But most people do not want to be fixed, or improved, or changed. They wan...

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Opening Up Our Hearts After Closing Off For Years And Years - INFJs from 2020-10-26T16:18:16

Opening up our hearts after walling ourselves up for years and years is quite hard, INFJs. I get it. I have been in the same boat as you. It's been tough and crazy, but it is possible. If I can ...

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Don't Wall Yourself Off From Others, INFJs - Open Up, And Trust Again from 2020-10-24T16:15:37

Don't wall yourself off from others, INFJs - the reason we are lonely, alone, and depressed, is because of this behavior of ours. We close ourselves and then we wonder why we have no one. It's n...

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The Top Four Things We Care About As INFJs - What Do You Think They Are? from 2020-10-22T16:13:10

The top four things we care about as INFJs have been outlined in this article as beauty, independence, continual learning, and impact. What do you think? Do you resonate with these?


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Choosing Between Love And Family - What Would You Choose, INFJs? from 2020-10-20T16:11:30

Choosing between love and family - INFJs are all about harmony in all of their relationships, which means that if it ever came down to choosing between one or the other, we would be stymied. Suc...

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External Vs Internal Validation - INFJs Need To Switch Up Their Slant from 2020-10-18T16:09:09

External vs internal validation or appreciation - INFJs want to be appreciated, I get that. I'm like that, too. But with or without external appreciation, we need to keep on doing what we love. ...

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We Can See Both Sides Of The Coin - INFJs Are Terrible At MBTI Tests from 2020-10-16T16:07:36

We can see both sides of the coin, that's why INFJs can be terrible at giving MBTI tests or giving any kind of personality test. We can see ourselves in both situations that the test asks for, a...

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Are You Straight Forward But Extremely Rude About It, INFJs?? from 2020-10-14T16:05:22

Are you straightforward, my dear INFJs? Are you also really rude about it?? Can you try a different way? Can you be straightforward and also nice? Is that possible?


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Fear Of Failure Holds Us Back - INFJs Are Afraid Of Specializing from 2020-10-12T16:02:38

Fear of failure holds us back - INFJs have a tendency to be a jack or jill of all trades, rather than specialize in something and become an expert in it. Is it because of fear of failure? Is fea...

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INFJs And Misanthropy - Oscillating Between Hating And Loving Humans from 2020-10-10T16:00:16

INFJs and misanthropy - this is another one of those contradictions that make up our personality. We hate people and humanity, and we love people and humanity.


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INFJs Hate Promoting Themselves - They Hate Talking About Themselves from 2020-10-08T15:57:35

INFJs hate promoting themselves - it feels like bragging to them, something they despise greatly. So how is a writer like me supposed to get the word out about her books??? :S


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Too Much Independence Can Be A Bad Thing, INFJs - Balance Is Key from 2020-10-06T15:54:32

Too much independence can be a bad thing, INFJs. We sometimes take it a little too far, I think. At least I know I do. I run away from people, pretending like I can live without them when I know...

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Don't Foist Your High Standards On Others, INFJs - They Are Only Yours from 2020-10-04T15:52:10

Don't foist your high standards on others, INFJs. Just because we have high standards for ourselves, it doesn't mean that we should hold others to that high standard as well. It's not fair to th...

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Numbing Ourselves From Pain - INFJs Have A Poor Mind Body Connection from 2020-10-02T15:50:20

Numbing ourselves from pain - a viewer recently said something about how he doesn't understand why everyone feels so much pain because he doesn't. Instantly, a red flag popped up in my head. It ...

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Maladaptive DayDreaming - It's Apparently A Disorder And I Do It A Lot from 2020-09-30T15:48:46

Maladaptive daydreaming - it's a thing and many of us are doing it without being conscious of it. It has actually been labeled as a disorder and I'm surprised to see that I have spent hours and ...

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Giving Mixed Signals? INFJs Have A Tendency To Send Out Mixed Msgs. from 2020-09-28T15:46:06

Giving mixed signals? INFJs, when confused about their own feelings, have a tendency to give out mixed signals and send out mixed messages to the people around them. Fix that through self-reflec...

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Hypocritical About Boundaries - INFJs Hate Boundaries Placed On Them from 2020-09-26T15:44:10

Hypocritical about boundaries - INFJs think it's okay when they place boundaries on others, but not okay when others place boundaries on them. Quite hypocritical of us!


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Not Interested In Details - INFJs Have A Hard Time Doing Paperwork from 2020-09-24T15:40:06

Not interested in details - INFJs are big-picture thinkers. They are interested in thinking about ethereal, big concepts, not about mundane administrative details. Details bore us to death.

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How To Deepen Friendships As An Introvert Who's Socially Awkward from 2020-09-22T18:11:12

How to deepen friendships, especially as an introvert, who doesn't know how to be social - this is a question a viewer asked recently. Great question, I thought. I hope I can do justice to it. Listen

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Find People Who Complement You And Balance Your Weaknesses, INFJs from 2020-09-20T18:09:35

Find people who complement you, so that you can balance out your weaknesses and focus on your strengths, INFJs. You don't need to be good at everything, just surround yourself with people who ar...

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Playing An Unconscious Role As A Joker In Your Family - INFJs Do This from 2020-09-18T18:07:37

Playing an unconscious role - a lot of INFJs (and people) play these roles in their families, in order to alleviate the mood and help out their depressed family members.


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When Your Anxiety Won't Let You Relax - Something Has To Go Wrong Now from 2020-09-16T18:04:45

When your anxiety won't let you relax - when it is always thinking about something going wrong, even when everything in your life has been taken care of, and is going well. Stop doing this to yo...

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Staring Deep Into Your Soul - Why INFJs Stare So Intensely At People from 2020-09-14T18:02:19

Staring deeply into your soul - I think this is why INFJs stare into your eyes so intensely. We are trying to peer into your soul to figure you out, on a deeper level. We don't want to do superf...

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Imagining Fake Scenarios All Day Long (And Conversations, Too) - INFJs from 2020-09-12T18:00:25

Imagining fake scenarios all day long - that's what INFJs do to torture themselves. Most of those scenarios never come true in the way that we imagine them - essentially wasting our time and ene...

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Who Told You You Are Broken INFJs? You Are Here For A Special Reason. from 2020-09-10T17:58:11

Who told you you are broken INFJs? Whoever did tell you that, it's completely untrue, because you are perfect and you are here for a special reason. As soon as you start believing in your worthi...

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Don't Power Through Your Anxiety, INFJs - I Dislike It When I Do That from 2020-09-08T17:55:18

Don't power through your anxiety, INFJs. We don't need to power through it, but to understand why it's coming up and to use it as a guidepost towards better understanding ourselves. Take care of...

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Protect Your Digital Space From Negativity And Toxic People, INFJs from 2020-09-06T17:48:45

Protect your digital space from negative messages, negative people, and toxicity. It's highly important for us as empaths, and HSPs, INFJs. Otherwise, you will be roaming around with low energy ...

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Do Opposites Really Attract In Relationships? As In Intros And Extros. from 2020-09-04T17:46:17

Do opposites really attract in relationships?? Being an introverted morning person, I always end up with extroverted night owls. It's not like I am even trying to search for someone like this, b...

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I Don't Know How To Be Social Anymore - Social Anxiety Rears Its Head from 2020-09-02T17:43:16

I don't know how to be social anymore - introverts everywhere think after Pandemic 2020. Social anxiety is something that probably affects a lot of us, but never more so than when we are out of ...

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Introverts Need Lots Of Time And Space In The Morning - Min 3 Hours from 2020-08-30T17:41:41

Introverts need lots of time and space in the morning - for me, I need at least 3-4 hours of alone time in the morning to be able to function normally with people during the day. What about you?...

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Maintaining The Peace In A Relationship Over Our Mental Health - INFJs from 2020-08-28T17:39:47

Maintaining the peace and harmony in a relationship is more important to an INFJ sometimes, more than their own mental health. This is wrong and should be corrected at once, if possible.


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INFJs Fix Relationships By Ruining Them. Ironic - Yes. Smart - No! from 2020-08-26T17:38:05

INFJs fix relationships by ruining them - for some odd reason, INFJs don't really get why people hang with us, and we always think that we are being a burden to others. Thus, we ruin the relatio...

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The Little Things Are More Important Than The Big Ones - INFJs Think from 2020-08-24T17:36:33

The little things are more important than the big ones, or at least that's what INFJs think. We assume someone who doesn't care about the little things, won't care about the big things either, a...

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There Are So Many Different Kinds Of People And INFJs Out There from 2020-08-22T17:34:36

There are so many different kinds of people and INFJs out there, that there is really no point judging one for being more of an INFJ and another for being less. There is no such thing as a true ...

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INFJs Doubt Their Intuition - And Believe Other People Instead from 2020-08-20T17:32:16

INFJs doubt their intuition and have a tendency to believe other people's words and lies over their own intuition's truths. Which is a terrible thing, indeed. Why do we mistrust our superpower l...

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INFJs Are Constantly Reinventing Themselves, Thus, Outgrowing People from 2020-08-18T17:29:45

INFJs are constantly reinventing themselves - this is what we do on a daily, almost hourly basis. We love to change, but people usually don't end up changing with us. We outgrow people.


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INFJs Set Impossible Standards For People And Then Get Disappointed from 2020-08-16T17:28:30

INFJs set impossible standards for people, unreachable standards, and then when the people fail, they get disappointed in them and whine about the lack of good people in their life. We really ne...

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Codependent INFJs Behave Like This - Low Self Esteem, Low Trust & More from 2020-08-14T17:23:50

Codependent INFJs have many particular traits that come through in their relationships with people.

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INFJs Are The Most Unemotional Emotional People - Don't Get Confused from 2020-08-12T17:20:58

INFJs are the most unemotional emotional people out there - and that's what confuses most people around us. Well, it confuses us as well. So don't really think about it too much. Just take us as...

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INFJs Are Afraid To Ask For Help - We Hate To Seem Weak Or Vulnerable from 2020-08-10T14:44:41

INFJs are afraid to ask for the help of any kind, even though we know that it is something that everyone does. We think we should be above all of that.


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How To Deal With Parents Fighting Constantly Especially As An Empath from 2020-08-08T14:42:36

If you are an empath or an INFJ or someone who just is highly sensitive, dealing with arguing parents can be extremely draining. I share some ways I dealt with that when I was younger and how I ...

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Our Extroverted Friends Need Us Right Now - Reach Out To Them from 2020-08-06T14:40:57

Our extroverted friends need us right now - they are suffering in the isolated, anti-social conditions that prevail in almost every country at the moment. Please reach out to them.


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INFJs Isolate Themselves From Everyone When Healing From One Betrayal from 2020-08-04T14:38:53

INFJs isolate themselves from everyone when they are healing from the hurt or betrayal of one individual, which can be a terrible thing for all involved. Just because one person betrayed us, doe...

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INFJs Aren't Going Extinct, Or That's What I Think - We Be Here To Stay from 2020-08-02T14:36:11

INFJs aren't going extinct - or at least that's what I believe. Even though it might sometimes seem like the opposite is actually true. I want to have hope that we are going to change the world ...

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People Can Be Quite Boring - INFJs Like Being Surprised By People from 2020-07-31T14:33:42

People can be quite boring to INFJs, as we are able to figure them out quite easily and quickly. Thus, we like it when someone ends up surprising us. It's the best thing in the world.


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Life Is So FastPaced For An INFJ - Our Brains Move Too Fast For Most from 2020-07-29T14:32:20

Life is so fast-paced for an INFJ - our brains move so fast, that we are sometimes running at a pace too fast for everyone else to catch up. We are far ahead of the game, and the game hasn't eve...

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Introverts Are Never Alone Due To Our Imagination - Quarantine Or Not from 2020-07-27T14:30:36

Introverts are never alone - we have our thoughts, and imagination that keeps us company. Quarantine or not, we are always surrounded by the characters of our imagination.


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Sharing Our Knowledge With The World Compulsively - INFJs Do This from 2020-07-25T14:29:50

INFJs have this innate desire to share their knowledge with everyone around them. If we know of something good, we want everyone else to know it, too!


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Not Low Energy But Low Tolerance For Idiocy - That's An INFJ For You from 2020-07-23T14:25:29

INFJs might appear as low energy to you when they are surrounded by people, but it's not low energy, but a low tolerance for stupidity that you are seeing.


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Stay Away From Drama And Negativity - That's An INFJ's Life Motto from 2020-07-21T14:23:37

Stay away from drama and negativity - that's INFJ's true life goal. For some reason, dramatic people love us, and we really do not like them back.


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Our Past Mistakes Haunt Us - INFJs Spend Way Too Much Energy On This from 2020-07-19T14:21:33

Our past mistakes haunt us, and we just can't get over them. Night and day, INFJs spend their energy and time thinking about everything that went wrong in their past.


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Writing Comes Easy To An INFJ - I Share Some Reasons Why from 2020-07-17T14:20:01

Writing comes easy to an INFJ - we are naturals at it. It's in our blood, some would say. I say it's because of certain characteristics that most INFJs share.


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Trusting Someone Else Is Hard, Being Friends Is Even Harder, For INFJs from 2020-07-15T14:18:09

Trusting someone else is hard for an INFJ, but becoming friends with them and staying friends is even harder. Which is something I do not like about myself.


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Do You Talk Very Fast, INFJs? That's Pretty Typical For Our Type. from 2020-07-13T14:16:36

Do you talk very fast, INFJs?? That's a pretty typical INFJ trait. The feedback from other types is that they don't really enjoy this.


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Discomfort In A Decision Making Process Is Introverted Intuition's Hint from 2020-07-11T14:14:43

Discomfort in a decision-making process results from signs from the Introverted Intuition that you are missing something crucial. Pay attention, be still, and figure it out, INFJs.


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How To Stop Being A People Pleaser Right Now, Esp Unhealthy INFJs from 2020-07-09T14:12

How to stop being a people pleaser right now, INFJs? It's going to be hard, especially if you are an unhealthy INFJ, but it is definitely possible.


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MBTI Types Are Typed Incorrectly In 70% Of The Cases - Some Stats Say from 2020-07-07T14:10:38

MBTI types are typed incorrectly in a majority of the cases, as much as 70% of the cases. Which is really high. What does this mean for us??


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There's Nothing Wrong With Introverts - Take Heed, Extroverted Parents from 2020-07-05T14:08:22

There's nothing wrong with introverts, seriously!! This is especially a lesson for all extroverted parents, who have introverted children, and are mystified by their offspring's behavior.

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Creativity Is About Getting Out Of The Box In Your Own Unique INFJ Way from 2020-07-03T14:06:03

Creativity is about getting out of the box in your own unique way, INFJs, whatever that might mean to you. But with our perfectionistic streak, we find that the most difficult thing in the world...

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I Like To Plan My Days In Advance To Leave Room For Spontaneity - INFJs from 2020-07-01T14:57:21

INFJs love to have rigid schedules, where everything is exactly where it should be. It gives them peace. But it also gives them the possibility of adding spontaneous activity, if the need arises...

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I Want To Spend My Time Chilling, Doing My Own Thing, INFJs Think from 2020-06-29T14:55:43

INFJs are happiest when on their own, working on their projects, and their obsessions. We don't need anyone during this time, and in fact, we abhor intrusions of any kind.


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How To Stop Being A Victim And Take Control Of Your Life, INFJs from 2020-06-27T14:53:32

Many INFJs who contact me, are busy playing the victim role in their heads and lives. It's quite difficult to chat to these individuals about anything, because they are always the victims, and n...

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Mood Swings From Hot To Cold Due To Energy Levels - INFJs Do This from 2020-06-25T14:51:11

INFJs have to pay strict attention to their energy levels, to ensure that they are able to keep their energy levels up - otherwise, their mood swings up and down, hot to cold, quite rapidly.

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Being Vulnerable In A Group Setting Really Sucks For An INFJ from 2020-06-23T14:49:03

Ideally, INFJs would spend all of their social events with one favorite person in a one-on-one format. We are not great at group settings, they are especially uncomfortable if we have to be vuln...

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We Don't Like Feeling Rushed - INFJs Want To Do Things At Their Pace from 2020-06-21T14:47:16

INFJs always have a plan and they like to go along at the rate of that plan. We hate it when someone tries to rush us and tries to make us follow their plan. Why do people do this to us?


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I Am A Stubborn Fool, INFJs Think, As We Stick To One Imp Viewpoint from 2020-06-19T14:45:35

Typically, INFJs are known for their neutrality on various subjects, but at times, we will become enamored with a certain viewpoint, and stick it to like paint to a wall.


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Be Brave And Take That First Step, INFJs - It's Time To Fly Higher from 2020-06-17T14:43:56

INFJs, you are stronger than you think you are, and you can take that first step into the abyss. I know you can, and I believe in you. So let's live our dreams, and let's not hold back anymore.<...

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Open Ended Questions Are Annoying, INFJs Think, And A Sign Of Laziness from 2020-06-15T14:42:09

INFJs have this strange pet peeve - we hate any sign of laziness in another person. We want people to put some effort into the conversations that they are trying to have with us. Is that too muc...

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Emotional Decisions Are Bad Decisions - INFJs Get Emotional When Tired from 2020-06-13T14:40:39

INFJs have a tendency to get overexcited at certain times, forget that their battery is running out, and then make foolish decisions while they are in such a depleted state. Don't let that happe...

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Putting Yourself First Is Not Selfish, Far From It, INFJs - It's Imp from 2020-06-11T14:37:01

INFJs are terrible at putting themselves first. We always believe someone else deserves to go ahead of us, and thus, we end up hurting ourselves in the process, either burning out or more.

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Everyone's Path Is Correct - INFJs And Spirituality Go Together Well from 2020-06-09T14:35:35

INFJs never think that they have the right to dictate their own path to anyone else. And the same applies to everyone else - they don't have the right to dictate their path to us. Let's just liv...

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You Are Your Own Safe Space, Introverts - Retreat Into Your Minds from 2020-06-07T14:33:38

Many times, INFJs forget that their inner sanctum is the safest space they could ever find. Instead of searching for something outside of themselves, they just need to come within.


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We Close Ourselves Off When We Peg Someone As Boring - INFJs, Stop That from 2020-06-05T14:31:51

INFJs have a tendency to use their intuition to make snap judgments about people, and if they come across as boring to us, we shut ourselves off pretty quickly. It actually works against us some...

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Its Called Being Flexible With Your Path - INFJs, You Are Not Fickle from 2020-06-03T14:29:17

When INFJs make any decision, we make it using a lot of the information at hand, taking a lot of time to make it. Thus, when people say that we are being fickle or impulsive when we change our m...

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Pros And Cons Lists Help With Decision Making Anxiety, INFJs from 2020-06-01T17:26:50

INFJs have a tendency to overthink everything, and sometimes we fall into the trap of analysis paralysis, where we are unable to make a decision. Pros and Cons lists can help with that.


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Taking A Long Time To Process Things - INFJs Are Atypical In This Sense from 2020-05-30T18:32

Taking a long time to process things - that's how INFJs do it. It takes us an unusually long time to process things, which is not typical for most people in the world right now.


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Quiet Not Dumb, That's INFJs - We Speak Little, But We Know Much from 2020-05-28T18:30:20

Quiet, not dumb - that should be INFJ's new slogan. For some reason, a lot of people assume that we are dumb because we usually keep quiet in a group setting, but that's absolutely not true.

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We Want Our Stuff To Be Functional, And Long-Lasting - INFJs Think from 2020-05-26T18:28:31

We want our stuff to be functional, utilitarian, long-lasting, and multi-purpose, INFJs always think. We are minimalists, but we especially love things that we can use for a long time, and that ...

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Your Anxiety Is Telling You Something Might Be Missing, INFJs from 2020-05-24T18:27:11

Your anxiety is telling you something, INFJs. It might be that something is missing, or that you are missing a sign or a signal from the universe or from your intuition.


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Live True To Your Values - Inauthenticity Causes Anxiety In INFJs from 2020-05-22T18:25:28

Live true to your values, INFJs, or you will get a big jolt of anxiety due to your values not jiving with your real self. Inauthenticity in INFJs causes a lot of anxiety.


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Stop Getting Into Unhealthy Relationships - We're Not Saviours, INFJs from 2020-05-20T18:23:23

Stop getting into unhealthy relationships, INFJs. We always end up in toxic relationships consciously or unconsciously, and then we end up blaming relationships forever, vowing to remain single ...

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Addictive Vs Obsessive Personality - Where Do INFJs Lie On The Spectrum? from 2020-05-18T18:20:25

Addictive vs Obsessive personality - I was asked whether INFJs have a personality that easily gets addicted to things. And I wondered about that with regards to myself. Here's what I think.

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Self Conscious About Being Watched - INFJs Lose Themselves Around People from 2020-05-16T18:18:08

Self-conscious about being watched - that's INFJs for you. We will be perfectly fine at everything if we weren't being looked at, if we were doing it in a closed room by ourselves, preferably so...

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Best Meditation For Mind Body Connection - INFJs, This Is For You from 2020-05-14T18:15:19

The best meditation for mind-body connection - Many INFJs have asked me which meditation would be best for them, and this is what I have to say.


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There's Nothing Wrong With You At All, INFJs - You Are The Perfect You from 2020-05-12T18:13:58

There's nothing wrong with you at all, INFJs. Just remember that, and that path of self-acceptance will lead to the transformation you are searching for.


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Are You Sensitive To Criticism, INFJs? Do You Get Upset By Feedback? from 2020-05-10T18:11:52

Are you sensitive to criticism? INFJs have this tendency to be extra sensitive to criticism and feedback of any kind. But, it doesn't need to be like this.


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Are People Alienating You? Or Are You Alienating Yourself, INFJs? from 2020-05-08T18:09:18

Are people alienating you? Or is it the opposite? This question is an important one for INFJs to answer for themselves.


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Our Minds Get Bored Easily - INFJs Need Problems To Solve In Daily Life from 2020-05-06T18:07:15

Our minds get bored easily. INFJs know this and therefore, they need to constantly be inventing or making up problems to solve, otherwise, they would start sabotaging themselves.


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I Hate Being A Bother - INFJs Always Feel Like They Are Not Wanted from 2020-05-04T18:04:54

I hate being a bother, INFJs are always thinking, and for some reason, they always feel like they are a bother. Why is that? And what can we do about it?


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Loyal To The Ones I Love, Sometimes Overly So - INFJs Be Like This from 2020-05-02T18:00:46

Loyal to the ones I love - almost to the point of shutting out everyone who is unkind to the people we love - that's an INFJ for you. Going overboard much?


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I'm Not Interested In You Anymore - Can INFJs Be This Direct? from 2020-04-30T10:43:47

I'm not interested in you - is this something that INFJs are even capable of saying? Will they be able to do that instead of disappearing, ghosting, or pulling away?


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Need More Data Points - INFJs Need More Data In Order To Make Decisions from 2020-04-28T10:42:04

Need more data points - that's what I really believe all INFJs and all people on the planet need to work on, before making any decisions or snap judgments.


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Feeling Anxious Unable To Relax - INFJs Want To Be Productive At All Times from 2020-04-26T10:40:51

Feeling anxiously unable to relax - that's an INFJ for you. We would like to relax and chill out, but we are always thinking about all of the things we could be doing, and how productive we coul...

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Self Awareness Without Action Is Useless - After Self Enquiry Comes... from 2020-04-24T10:39:29

Self-awareness without action is absolutely useless. We are not just here to learn about ourselves without changing ourselves, INFJs.


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Forgetting To Breathe When Awake - INFJs Have A Tendency To Do This from 2020-04-22T10:37:32

Forgetting to breathe when awake - this is a result of a poor mind-body connection, which is something that afflicts many INFJs. 


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How Can Someone Like Me, INFJs Wonder? It Must Be A Delusion, Right? from 2020-04-20T10:35:54

How can someone like me, INFJs think. Especially when we like someone, we are unable to believe that they might also like us back. We imagine that we are projecting our wishes upon them and feel...

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Repeating Yourself When Speaking - INFJs Do This A Lot Because Of Fear from 2020-04-18T10:34:18

Repeating yourself when speaking - INFJs have a tendency to do this when they are in conversations with people who have a tendency to misunderstand them.


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This Meat Sack Takes So Much Work - INFJs Get Annoyed By Their Bodies from 2020-04-16T10:32:11

This meat sack - needs to be fed every day and taken care of every day. For an INFJ, it takes a lot to go out every day and find food, and feed themselves. Just too much effort.


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Intuition And Its Mysterious Messages - INFJs Are Surprised by Fi from 2020-04-14T10:30:40

Introverted Intuition is something that always manages to surprise the hell out of us. 


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Wanting A Relationship But Not Ready To Be In One - INFJ Conundrum from 2020-04-12T10:29:15

INFJs are always going back and forth on the issue of wanting to be and not wanting to be in a relationship, all at the same time.


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Stop Talking We Yell At Ourselves - INFJs Hate When We Get Too Chatty from 2020-04-10T10:28:05

INFJs hate it when we get too comfortable around someone and start chatting non-stop, spilling all of our deep secrets.


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Harmony And Conflict - INFJs Are Always Trying To Choose Between Them from 2020-04-08T10:26:16

INFJs desire to create as much harmony as possible in their lives, but sometimes conflict rears its head and we can't say no to it.


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No Idea When Someones Interested In Them - INFJs Are Clueless AF from 2020-04-06T10:24:55

INFJs can be the most clueless people on this planet. Despite our intuition being so powerful.


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Are You Running Away From Life, INFJs? Knowingly Or Unknowingly... from 2020-04-04T10:23:35

A lot of times we tend to shut ourselves away from life, either knowingly through door slams, or unknowingly through self-sabotage.


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Know Thyself And Then What? What Will INFJs Do With This Information? from 2020-04-02T10:21:31

INFJs are always gathering hundreds and thousands of bits of information about themselves, but then what? What do we do with it?


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Swinging Between Oversharing Or Being Too Silent - That's INFJs from 2020-03-30T06:13:38

Swinging between telling everyone some of our deepest darkest secrets, or keeping as silent as a tomb, that's what INFJs do every single day of their life.


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How To Connect Better With Others Without Chameleonizing, INFJs from 2020-03-28T06:12:09

How to connect better with others? This is a question that haunts every INFJ. We are completely clueless at this, but I have a few tips that could help you. Perhaps.


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Stop Being Mean To Loved Ones, INFJs - It Truly Really Hurts Them from 2020-03-26T06:10:49

Stop being mean to loved ones, INFJs. It's so easy for us to say cruel things to the ones we love because we think we are just protecting ourselves, but it truly really hurts them.


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Everything Matters Even The Little Things - Treat Yourselves Well, INFJs from 2020-03-24T06:09:27

Everything matters even the little things - take care of yourself, INFJs, even in the small inconsequential ways, like turning on the A/C or the heat.


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Take Time At Night To Process Everything - And Sleep Better, INFJs from 2020-03-22T06:07:53

Take time at night to process everything, INFJs - sometimes our brains get so overwhelmed by what's happened during the day that we don't how to deal with it properly.


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Seeing Through Peoples Masks, INFJs Wish Others Would See It, Too from 2020-03-20T06:06:22

Seeing through people's masks is easy for us. But INFJs wish that other people would see through fake people as fast as them. 


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Wanting To Leave Our Mark On The World And Also Not - That's INFJs from 2020-03-18T06:04:41

Wanting to leave our mark on the world, and also wanting to stay at home and hide from the world, that's INFJs for you. Always filled with such immense contradictions.


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Don't Be Grumpy, INFJs... It's Better To Walk Away From Social Events from 2020-03-16T06:03:11

Don't be grumpy, INFJs. Rather than being grumpy and sitting around sad at social events, it's better for all involved if you leave, go back to your cave, and recharge.


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Definitions Of Some Words - Empath, HSP, Introvert, Shyness, Social Anxiety from 2020-03-14T05:59:49

Definitions of some words - there is some confusion in people's minds about some of these labels, so I decided, based on the advice of my friend, to do a podcast on this. Hope this helps everyon...

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How To Move From Vision To Action - An INFJ Asked Me Recently from 2020-03-12T05:58:06

How to move from vision to action - this is something a lot of INFJs and people, in general, have a hard time with. I thought I would share my thoughts on the matter.


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Your Energy Gets Depleted Below 5% Way Too Often, INFJs - Be Careful from 2020-03-10T05:56:04

Your energy gets depleted and you don't notice it until it's too late. INFJs have a tendency to deplete themselves way too often and way too much.


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Life Is Beautiful And Terrible - INFJs Feel The Big Sad Regularly from 2020-03-08T05:54:43

Life is beautiful and terrible all at the same time, and INFJs really know this, which makes them feel the big sad on quite a regular basis.


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When Getting Sick Is Annoying - INFJs Are Terrible At Being Sick from 2020-03-06T05:53:17

When getting sick is annoying - INFJs find being sick highly annoying and disruptive. Also, we don't like receiving pity. So we pretend like we aren't sick or worse, we downplay our illness.

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I'm Running Out Of Excuses To Avoid Social Events And Stay At Home from 2020-03-04T05:49:54

I'm running out of excuses, I think to myself when I use an inane excuse to get out of yet another social event. What am I going to do? I'm in trouble.


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Not A Gift Or A Curse - Nothing We Are Is One Or The Other, It Just Is from 2020-03-02T05:47:55

Not a gift or a curse - being an empath or an INFJ or an HSP or whatever else, they are not a good thing or a bad. They just are. It's how we use it that matters most.


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Genuinely Curious About The World And Its Inhabitants - That's INFJsGenuinely Curious About The World And Its Inhabitants - That's INFJs from 2020-02-28T05:46:09

Genuinely curious about the world and asking a hundred thousand questions in order to satisfy that curiosity - that's INFJs for you.


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Why Do You Think I Am A Nice Person? INFJs Wonder All The Time. from 2020-02-26T05:43:55

Why do you think I am a nice person? This is what every INFJ genuinely wonders about with their friendships and relationships.


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Do You Get Offended Easily? INFJs Have Many Reasons To Be Offended. from 2020-02-24T05:43:32

Do you get offended easily? INFJs might be easy-going, but they also have this thing where many different things end up offending us. Explain yourself to the people around you.


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Forget About The Results, Do The Work - INFJs Stop Worrying So Much from 2020-02-20T06:38:11

Forget about the results - INFJs have a tendency to worry about where everything is going. It has to go somewhere otherwise there's no point in their head. But of course, there is a point.

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How Do We Compare And Contrast To Each Other - INFJs And INTJs from 2020-02-18T06:36:35

How do we compare and contrast each other? INFJs And INTJs are not so similar and not so different from each other.


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Freedom Is Our Primary Value, INFJs - Work On Building It Consciously from 2020-02-16T06:35:03

Freedom is our primary value, INFJs. Even if you are not aware of it, you are obsessed with creating more freedom in your life, and therefore, it's important to you.


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We Create Imaginary Problems In Our Head And Sabotage Our Lives, INFJs from 2020-02-14T06:33:25

We create imaginary problems when things are going too smoothly because otherwise, INFJs have this tendency to get bored. Thus, self-sabotage is quite common in our lives.


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We Are All Unique And Special - Difference Between INFJs And INFPs from 2020-02-12T06:32:18

We are all unique and special in our own way. In this video, I wanted to share the couple of differences that I have found to be striking between INFJs and INFPs.


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You Cant Control Everything In Life - INFJs Need To Learn This Lesson from 2020-02-10T06:30:43

You can't control everything in life - yes, I know as an INFJ, it is our incessant desire or needs to control everything in our life, so that we feel not so crazy. But it's an impossible goal to...

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I'm The Luckiest Person In The World, INFJs Believe - Gratitude Is Big from 2020-02-08T06:28:40

I'm the luckiest person - INFJs think, and C.S. Joseph says that it's because of our Introverted Intuition. I think it has a lot to do with empathy and the gratitude that results from it. <...

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Energy Can Be Contaminated Easily, That's Why INFJs Are Highly Careful from 2020-02-06T06:27:29

Energy can be contaminated easily, especially if we allow people into our energetic bubbles. That's why INFJs are always careful with that, especially since we don't want to let our clean and pu...

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Time Is A Currency More Important Than Gold, At Least To INFJs from 2020-02-04T06:25:59

Time is a currency - it is of paramount importance to an INFJ, who treats it with the same priority as their breath or their life. Do not waste an INFJ's time, unless you want to be shunned by t...

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I'm Better Than You Think - INFJs Don't Like Being Underestimated from 2020-02-02T06:23:48

I'm better than you think, INFJs are always thinking because, for some odd reason, people always underestimate us. Why do people do that? I mean, why. What is wrong with people nowadays? Don't j...

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How To Improve Your Mind Body Connection And Extraverted Sensing, INFJs from 2020-01-31T06:21:51

How to improve your mind-body connection - INFJs will be able to improve their extraverted sensing over time, if they are able to increase their mind-body connection, and spend more time in the ...

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We Tend To Lose Ourselves In Relationships - How To Avoid That, INFJs? from 2020-01-29T06:20:28

We tend to lose ourselves in relationships - INFJs always complain about this particular situation. That's why INFJs usually end up being single. I wanted to talk a bit about how to avoid that. ...

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Difference Between Intuition And Fear - INFJs, Here's How To Detect It from 2020-01-27T06:19:02

Difference between intuition and fear - INFJs always ask me this question. How are they supposed to tell the difference between messages coming from their gut rather than their fear-based reacti...

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We Balance Our Environment Out - INFJs Are Calm Or Nervous Accordingly from 2020-01-25T06:17:25

We balance our environment out - If our environment is calm, INFJs are nervous, and if our environment is panicky, then we calm down. We like to balance things out as much as possible.


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Introverts Get Stressed Easily - Overstimulation Leads To Major Stress from 2020-01-23T06:15:53

Introverts get stressed easily - when we get overstimulated, we cut and run, because overstimulation from our environment, job, or relationship gets us into burnout mode very easily.


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Calling People Out On Their Stuff - Should INFJs Do This Or Not? from 2020-01-21T06:14:10

Calling people out on their stuff - a viewer asked me if INFJs should do this or not? We see people in their essence, and therefore, we wonder if should call people out on their fake-ness or man...

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Putting On Masks To Hide Ourselves - When And How Do INFJs Do This? from 2020-01-18T20:36:14

Putting on masks to hide - A viewer asked me when and how INFJs put on masks to hide. Why do we do this? And how do we this? Great questions.


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Emotional Stress Release Technique - INFJs Get Hit Hard By Disharmony from 2020-01-16T20:34:58

Emotional stress release technique - INFJs obviously get stressed when they are overstimulated. But emotional stress hits us when we experience disharmony in our relationships. How do we allevia...

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Being Truly Authentic Is Difficult, And INFJs Are Confused About It from 2020-01-14T20:31:27

Being truly authentic is difficult - and I find younger INFJs are usually quite confused about who their real self is. That's common among us, and not a source for consternation at all, INFJs. Listen

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Have A System To Reward Yourself, INFJs - It's Absolutely Essential from 2020-01-12T20:28:36

Have a system to reward yourself, INFJs. It's so important for our extremely critical nature to be diluted a bit, with reward systems. We are always so harsh on ourselves, we need to temper that...

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Don't Worry About Being Authentic, INFJs - We All Play Different Roles from 2020-01-10T20:24:14

Don't worry about being authentic, INFJs. As INFJs, we are always playing different roles - if there's an introvert around us, we change to accommodate them, and if there's an extrovert, again w...

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Use Systems To Save Time - INFJs Love To Use Their Time Efficiently from 2020-01-08T20:18:14

Use systems to save time - INFJs being obsessed with time, and the transient nature of it, like systems. We like to build systems into our days and lives, so we can save and conserve time, as mu...

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Theres No Win Or Lose In Life - INFJs Say It's Enough To Play The Game from 2020-01-06T20:16:45

There's no win or lose in life - if you are an INFJ like me, you are probably surprised by all of the competition on the planet right now - why are people fighting each other? Why can't people j...

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Are You Cold Hearted, INFJs, Or Just Great At Compartmentalizing Life? from 2020-01-04T20:15:35

Are you cold-hearted, INFJs? Something I have asked myself many times and has been asked many times. Nah, bro, we are just good at compartmentalizing life, our emotions, feelings, and stuff, so ...

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Where Does Justice Fit In, INFJ Children Ask? Why Am I So Effing Lucky? from 2020-01-02T20:13:41

Where does justice fit, into this world? Why are things so unfair? Why do I get so much, and others not so much? INFJ children are concerned with fairness and justice from a young age.


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I Am Popular, But I Like My Own Company Best - INFJs Are Popular Loners from 2019-12-30T20:12:27

I am popular, but I like to spend all of my time by myself - INFJs are popular loners, a term that is becoming more common nowadays. We like people, people like us, but we spend all of our time ...

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I Suck At Keeping In Touch, But I Promise I Care About You - INFJs Say from 2019-12-28T20:10:56

I suck at keeping in touch, but I promise I do really like you - INFJs begging their friends and family to understand this fact, every single day of their life. 


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How To Silence Your Inner Voice And Skeptic And Keep On Going - INFJs from 2019-12-26T20:09:27

How to silence your inner voice - this is a guide for INFJs, who are extremely skeptical about everything but also want to live in this world in a normal, human-like fashion.


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Stop Being So Flaky - Don't Ever Waste An INFJ's Precious Time, Y'Hear from 2019-12-22T06:27:39

Stop being so flaky - INFJs absolutely hate it when people waste their precious time on this planet by being flaky or unreliable. Stop doing that to us, please!


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When It Comes Down To Laws, INFJs Play By The Rule Book, Surprisingly from 2019-12-20T06:26:03

When it comes down to laws, INFJs have this weird tendency to play by the book. We don't want to waste any time with the law, so we play by the rules and don't bring attention to ourselves.

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When Their Social Battery Dies, Introverts Hit That Wall, And Run Away from 2019-12-18T06:24:17

When their social battery dies - is also synonymous with hitting an introvert wall. Whenever that happens, an introvert will run in the opposite direction.


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I Notice Everything, Even Issues Others Don't, And That's INFJs For Ya from 2019-12-16T06:22:36

I notice everything, especially the issues that everyone doesn't notice, and doesn't see - and that's what makes INFJs oh-so-special. And also, it annoys them, as well.


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Making Quick Decisions Is Easy, When You Know Yourself Well, INFJs from 2019-12-14T06:21

Making quick decisions is easy, especially decisions that are good for you when INFJs are able to really truly know who they are, and what they are all about. Figure out what makes you tick, INF...

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Communicating Through Spoken Words Gets Better With Practice, INFJs from 2019-12-12T06:19:33

Communicating through spoken words - INFJs are always lamenting to themselves that they are crappy at spoken communication. We can write up a storm, but when it comes to speaking, INFJs aren't s...

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Thinking And Feeling Together All Jumbled Up - That's INFJs For You from 2019-12-10T06:18:07

Thinking and feeling together with all jumbled up - INFJs are logical feelers, we are adept at both thinking and feeling, therefore, we fit into neither group perfectly.


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Stop Giving Your Advice And Energy To People Who Won't Use It, INFJs from 2019-12-08T06:16:33

Stop giving your advice and especially your precious energy and time, to people who will never ever use your advice and will keep on doing the same thing for the rest of their lives, INFJs. I be...

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How To Permanently Stop Self Sabotage, INFJs? Reduce Perfectionism. from 2019-12-06T06:14:54

How to permanently stop self-sabotage - INFJs need to stop focusing so much on perfectionism and start focusing on getting stuff done, imperfectly.


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I Am Not Going To Do Something, Unless I Know It Works, All INFJs Say from 2019-12-04T06:12:26

I am not going to do something unless I absolutely and utterly know that it is going to work. INFJs need evidence before they start believing and working on something.


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Mean To The People I Like, Nice To Those I Don't Care About = INFJs from 2019-12-02T06:11:04

Mean to the people I like, and then nice to the ones I don't really care about - this is confusing to everyone, especially INFJs themselves. Why do INFJs do this??


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The Older I Get The Less I Care, The Less Social Anxiety I Have, INFJs from 2019-11-29T06:09:37

The older I get the less I care - I used to have terrible social anxiety when I was younger, but as I get older, it is getting better and better.


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Losing My Identity Wondering Have I Gone Insane - INFJs Around People from 2019-11-27T06:08:04

Losing my identity wondering have I gone insane - this is what every INFJ goes through when they are surrounded by people all day, for too long. We start losing ourselves around people.


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Socially Awkward And Introverted, INFJs Are Always Trying To Hack Cool from 2019-11-25T06:06:04

Socially awkward and introverted - that's an INFJ's fate, but it doesn't need to be. We are always trying to figure out what cool means, and we hack it and copy it, so we can fit into the groups...

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Serious And Rigid We Are Not, But INFJs Come Across As Such To Others from 2019-11-23T05:39:02

Serious and rigid is what INFJs come across as, but we aren't as serious or rigid as you think we are. Yes, we have certain rules and schedules that we abide by, but we can be spontaneous and im...

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Small Talk Is Like Poison To An INFJ - So Go Deeper My Friends from 2019-11-21T05:37:38

Small talk is like poison to all INFJs - we don't know exactly why we hate it so much, we have some reasons why we hate it, but we just don't want to dwell on it too much. Just avoid small talk ...

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Don't Stay At Home All The Time, Introverts - Let Extroverts Help You from 2019-11-19T05:36:09

Don't stay at home all the time, INFJs, and introverts of all kinds. It's easy for us to do so, but I think we should allow our extroverted friends to pull us out of our caves more often.

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So Many People Feel Lost And Confused About Life | INFJs Esp Feel This from 2019-11-17T05:34:01

So many people feel lost and alone and confused about the direction their life should be taking, and none more so than INFJs. In fact, this is one of the most common messages/emails I get from I...

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How To Deal With Unsolicited Advice - An Important One For ALL INFJs from 2019-11-15T05:32:11

How to deal with unsolicited advice - INFJs have this tendency to listen to advice that comes from all different avenues, because we judge others' opinions are stronger or better than ours, espe...

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Our Own Best Friend And Worst Enemy - INFJs Are Both For Themselves from 2019-11-13T05:31:55

Our own best friend and worst enemy - INFJs tend to self-sabotage themselves, but also love themselves in equal measure. It's another one of those contradictions about ourselves that is so INFJ-...

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Time Is A Currency More Precious Than Money, Especially For INFJs from 2019-11-06T03:14:01

Time is a currency and INFJs treat it as such. If we are spending our precious time on you, you better realize that we really care about you, and we are doing it as a major favor to you. We woul...

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Learn To Trust Yourself More And Stop Second Guessing Yourself, INFJs from 2019-11-04T03:11:22

Learn to trust yourself more, INFJs. You know more than you realize, and you are right more often than not, so trust your intuition, and stop second-guessing yourself at every step.


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Accomplishments Need To Be Spoken About - INFJs Hate Bragging Though from 2019-11-02T03:44:02

Accomplishments need to be spoken about - but INFJs always think that talking about accomplishments seems like bragging to other people, so we stay quiet. 


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Corporate Culture Can Be Toxic To Introverts | Extroversion Is Rewarded from 2019-10-30T03:42:36

Corporate culture can be toxic to introverts in general because we are constantly berated for being introverts in a culture that's filled with and rewards extroversion.


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Child Separation Anxiety - INFJ Children Experience This Intensely from 2019-10-28T03:41:09

Child separation anxiety - this is a pretty common ailment among INFJs, as we are unsure about the world we live in, and the only thing that we have that is certain is that our parents are there...

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You Have To Play Along With Society To Be Accepted - INFJs Realize from 2019-10-26T03:39:27

You have to play along with society to be accepted - this is a vital truth that INFJs realize very early on in their lives. Even though we don't believe in most tenets that hold a society togeth...

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How To Be Creative Using Your Intuition - INFJs Create Better This Way from 2019-10-24T03:37:41

How to be creative using your intuition - INFJs need to learn to use their powerful intuition and create from that divine source rather than use their heads. Our intuition is our superpower, so ...

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4 Powerful Ways To Build Your Intuition - Use Your Superpower, INFJs from 2019-10-22T03:36:11

4 powerful ways to build your intuition, as described by an INFJ who is obsessed with building her introverted intuition as rapidly and as much as possible. Intuition is our superpower, INFJs, b...

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I Would Rather Spend My Time Doing Anything Else Than Clean, INFJs Say from 2019-10-20T03:34:44

I would rather spend my time digging through conspiracy theories on the Internet or focused on my various random obsessions, than clean my house. Even though INFJs hate messy places, they really...

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Cynical And Happiness - INFJs Need Their Cynicism To Live Fully. from 2019-10-18T03:33:21

Cynical and happiness - is it possible for them to go together? INFJs need not close off their cynical side in order to live in the world. It's okay. Let your cynicism come through.


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Do You Get Startled Easily, INFJs?? We Spend Way Too Much In Our Heads. from 2019-10-16T03:31:34

Do you get startled easily? INFJs have a tendency to spend time in their imaginary worlds in their head and forget that the physical world exists.


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Did You Miss Your Childhood? INFJs Usually Grow Up Too Fast. from 2019-10-14T03:27:27

Did you miss your childhood, INFJs? Most of us have because we were asked to skip our childhood and become adults to help out our families. It's a trauma that we need to deal with asap.


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Feeling Anxious For The Holidays Already? An INFJ Asks How To Deal. from 2019-10-12T03:29:51

Feeling anxious for the holidays already? An INFJ messages me with the concern about the upcoming Christmas holidays, four months away, but already causing immense anxiety.


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How To Get Over Sorrow Of Losing Someone Important, An INFJ Asked Me from 2019-10-10T03:20:57

How to get over the sorrow of losing someone, someone important to you, someone you loved, someone who leaves a gaping hole inside of you. An INFJ asked me this question and here's my answer. Listen

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I Just Want To Be Recognized As The Genius I Know I Am - INFJs Say from 2019-10-08T03:19:31

I just want to be recognized as the genius that I am, INFJs message me saying this all the time. They know they are smarter than the average person, but no one seems to recognize this genius wit...

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We Are Addicted To Information Sucking It In Like Black Holes, INFJs from 2019-10-06T03:17:17

We are addicted to information, sucking it in like black holes, wanting more and more - all INFJs everywhere are like this. We believe information of the right kind can solve any problem anywher...

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Don't Let Anxiety Hold You Back - It's Never As Bad As You Think, INFJs from 2019-10-04T03:15

Don't let anxiety hold you back, INFJs - it's never as bad as you think. Your anxiety says it's going to be so much worse than it actually turns out to be. So be careful about listening to anxie...

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Sensors Vs Intuitives - How Can INFJs Deal With Sensing People? from 2019-10-02T03:13:14

Sensors vs intuitives - how the hell are INFJs supposed to deal with sensors, who are so different from us? How do we communicate and interact with sensing people?


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We Are Natural Teachers - Because INFJs Love To Impart Knowledge from 2019-09-30T03:11:19

We are natural teachers - INFJs are always forever learning, something or the other, and then once we have this knowledge, we have this awesome desire to share with the world, as fast as possibl...

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Happiness Is Not A Sin - INFJs Feel Afraid To Share Their Good Fortune from 2019-09-28T03:09:22

Happiness is not a sin, INFJs - I'm sure you have had circumstances in your life, where you have been made to feel bad for being happy. How dare you be happy right now, they seem to say.  Listen

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What If Things Were Different - And INFJs Were The Most Common Type from 2019-09-26T03:07:41

What if things were different - what if INFJs were the most common MBTI type in the world? What would the world look like then?


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How To Live In The Moment And Stop Overthinking - Advice for INFJs from 2019-09-24T03:05:16

How to live in the moment and stop overthinking - it ain't easy, but INFJs really have to learn this important skill to succeed in life.


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Soft Boundaries Do Not Exist - INFJs Have To Learn This The Hard Way from 2019-09-22T06:29:21

Soft boundaries - INFJs try to create soft boundaries around them because we are soft and sensitive, but we always get nicked by them, in a bad way. Stop doing that!


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I Am Not An Extrovert! - INFJs Are Constantly Mistaken As Extroverts from 2019-09-20T06:28:06

I am not an extrovert, yell INFJs every day, because people are always mistaking them as such. Because we are interested in people, we come across as extroverts a lot.


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Thought Missions - INFJs Go On Thinking Expeditions Every Single Day from 2019-09-18T06:26:51

Thought missions - INFJs spend a lot of their free time going on these random thought missions based on different questions that fascinate and enthrall them.


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Sensitivity In Men Is Frowned At And Looked Down Upon, Esp INFJ Males from 2019-09-16T06:25:19

Sensitivity in men - why is it so hard for INFJ males to be completely and totally themselves? Because sensitivity is frowned upon in our culture, especially when men display it. 


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Why Is It So Hard To Be Consistent For INFJs In Most Imp Things? from 2019-09-14T06:22:30

Why is it so hard to be consistent? INFJs will get obsessed with random things, and be consistent with them. But when it comes to something important, we are terrible at it. Why is this?


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Conflict Avoidance Through Flight Mode - INFJs Run Away From Fights from 2019-09-12T06:20:36

Conflict avoidance - it isn't a pretty sight, but you will definitely have seen this in yourself, as an INFJ. We do not deal well with conflicts, and pretty much run away from them all.


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Who Is More Introverted And AntiSocial - INFJ Males Or Females from 2019-09-10T06:18:31

Who is more introverted? A viewer, Casey wondered, if INFJ males were more social than INFJ females because there are more INFJ male YouTube channels out there. 


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Limited Time And Energy | INFJs Can Barely Handle One Relationship from 2019-09-08T06:17:19

Limited time and energy mean that INFJs are barely capable of handling one major relationship, let alone many different ones. We have a lot of stuff to do. We don't have time to balance multiple...

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Social Battery - INFJs Need To Explain Their Cave Habits To Others from 2019-09-06T06:15:29

Social battery - INFJs recharge themselves and catch up with their obsessions by disappearing into their caves, but we don't explain this to anyone, which means, everyone around us is mega confu...

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Compromise Is The Name Of The Game In Introvert-Extrovert Relationship from 2019-09-04T06:13:38

Compromise is the name of the game, especially in a relationship between introverts and extroverts, because it is possible that you might end up taking away from the extrovert's freedom and bubb...

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We Stare Into Your Soul - Why Does An INFJs Death Stare Get Activated from 2019-09-02T06:12:17

We stare into your soul because INFJs know you are hiding something from us, and from yourself. We need to know what that is, so we can help you with it. 


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Get Away From Me Give Me My Space Back - All INFJs Everywhere from 2019-08-30T06:10:52

Get away from me give me my space back - all INFJs cry every day. We just want to be left alone to do our work, to be with our obsessions, and to be in silence.


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Don't Ever Stop Growing - INFJs Lose Interest In Stagnant People from 2019-08-28T06:08:03

Don't ever stop growing, not only for your sake but for an INFJ's sake as well. Unless you want us to get bored and move on.


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Don't Close Yourself Off, INFJs - Stay Open Until It Isn't Safe from 2019-08-26T06:06:21

Don't close yourself off, INFJs. Stay open to the world at first, and then if they give you a reason to close off, then only close yourself off.


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Stop Putting People Into Boxes - Let People Surprise You, INFJs from 2019-08-24T06:04:35

Stop putting people into boxes, INFJs - people can only surprise you if you remain open to the idea of being surprised by them. But if you don't, you are going to miss out.


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Without Change No Growth Can Ensue | INFJs - Embrace Change from 2019-08-22T06:02:51

Without change, no growth can take place. INFJs need to learn to embrace all kinds of change and be open to it all. To be the best version of themselves. P.S. Deanna Matthews asked this question...

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Straightforward People Like INFJs Need To Learn To Be Nicer To Others from 2019-08-20T06:01:11

Straightforward people like INFJs think that straightforward means you can do and say whatever you want, as long as it's honest. And that's a surefire way to lose friends and relationships.

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I'm Gonna Do Things My Way - Every INFJ Everywhere Hates Rules from 2019-08-18T05:58:43

I'm gonna do things my way - rules are meant to be bent or broken, according to INFJs, who don't understand why certain rules are even in place. They question everything.


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Intimacy Issues After Trauma - All INFJs Fight Their Need For Romance from 2019-08-16T05:57

Intimacy issues after trauma - all INFJs being human have this innate desire and need for intimacy, but we fight it, to the death. Why is that?


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Why Am I Filled With Hate For The World, INFJs Ask Themselves from 2019-08-14T05:53:25

Why am I filled with hate? Vee Wallace asked this question in the Boom Shikha INFJ FB group, and I thought I had to absolutely take the time to answer this question.


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Everyone Should Be Included As Much As Possible, INFJs Think from 2019-08-08T03:18:40

Everyone should be included, as much as possible, because any kind of exclusionary behavior is bullying and discrimination according to INFJs. We absolutely dislike that sort of behavior.

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Introverts Can Party Too, As Long As We Know We Can Be Alone After from 2019-08-06T03:17:17

Introverts can party too, and INFJs as well. We just need to be able to plan out our alone time before and after. That way we know that we will get our recharge time sometime after the event and...

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Disappointment Comes From Fallen Expectations And Our Idealism, INFJs from 2019-08-04T03:15:57

Disappointment comes from fallen expectations, and our idealistic view of the world keeps on breaking apart and hurting us in the process, INFJs.


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Spend Time Understanding Others By Guessing Their MBTI Type, INFJs from 2019-08-02T03:14:34

Spend time understanding others - by interacting with them, and guessing their MBTI type, INFJs. In this video, I share exactly how I guess with high accuracy what other people's type would be.<...

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Stop Making It Complicated - Not Everything Is Related To INFJness from 2019-07-30T03:12:57

Stop making it complicated, INFJs. Even though we would like to believe that everything about us is related to our INFJ nature, some of it just isn't. Sorry to break the bubble!


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We Don't Follow The Herd - INFJs Hate Jumping On The Bandwagon from 2019-07-28T03:11:25

We don't follow the herd - INFJs like making their own decision on why they would purchase something or support someone. We like to think critically, rather than follow the sheeple.


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Loneliness Is Just A Word; 99 Problems But Loneliness Ain't One, INFJs from 2019-07-26T03:09:23

Loneliness is just a word, and a lot of people end up using loneliness as a sort of shield or identity. I don't know about you guys, but for me, loneliness is definitely not my biggest problem. ...

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A Chaotic Mind Needs An Organized Environment To Thrive, INFJs from 2019-07-24T03:07:52

A chaotic mind like ours, INFJs, truly needs an extremely organized outer world. If our inner world and our outer world were both chaotic, it would be too much for us to handle.


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Harmony Over Conflict, INFJs Avoid Confrontations To Maintain Peace from 2019-07-22T03:05:40

Harmony over conflict, that's the name of the game for an INFJ. We care ultimately about maintaining a peaceful environment, which might mean avoiding confrontation, and conflict as much as poss...

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When People Aren't Meant To Be In Your Life, They Filter Out, INFJs from 2019-07-20T03:04:20

When people aren't meant to be in your life, they will leave automatically. It is as if there is a self-filtering system on, which will eliminate everyone who isn't meant to be in your life, INF...

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Humour Is The Best Medicine To Build Our Relationships, INFJs from 2019-07-18T03:02:59

Humour is the best medicine, not only to heal ourselves but also to create strong bonds between us and people around us, INFJs. It's a tool to use to bring people closer to you, especially in ou...

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Mimic Body Language - INFJs Do This Unconsciously And Naturally from 2019-07-16T03:01:39

Mimic body language to make people like you, that's what all of the gurus tell you. But INFJs inadvertently mimic other people's body language without even thinking about it. It comes naturally ...

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Leave Your Job Without Guilt, INFJs. Do What's Best For You! from 2019-07-14T02:59:50

Leave your job without guilt, INFJs. For some reason, INFJs have immense guilt or shame about leaving an organization or a job. Why is that? Why can't we do something that's best for us, without...

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How To Stop Over Planning, INFJs; We Spend Lives Planning Not Living from 2019-07-12T03:57:11

How to stop over planning - remember that even if you over plan for everything, it won't change the fact that life will sometimes, always, throw curveballs at you. That's a major learning for IN...

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Bullying Isn't Cool, But For Some Reason INFJs Are Targeted Hard from 2019-07-10T03:23:13

Bullying isn't cool, everyone seems to know that, but for some reason, INFJs are targeted hard by bullies, haters, trolls, and all of those kinds of people. Why? And how can we deal with them? Listen

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INFJs Have High Sex Drives, And That's Nothing To Be Ashamed Of from 2019-07-08T03:21:52

INFJs have high sex drives - this is something you will experience as an INFJ, or read about in INFJ forums/posts online regularly. But for some reason, we have been taught to feel shame about t...

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Authenticity Matters Most To An INFJ - They Strive For It Every Day from 2019-07-06T03:20:36

Authenticity matters absolutely and utterly to an INFJ. We spend our entire lives, searching for more and more of our true selves, so we can learn about ourselves, and then present it to the wor...

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Crying Is Natural - Use It To Let Go Of Accumulated Emotions, INFJs from 2019-07-04T03:19:11

Crying is natural. It’s a natural outlet for humans to let go of any and all accumulated emotions in our body, heart, and mind. Do not hold yourself back. Get a good cry in now and then to reall...

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Stop Doubting Yourself, You Are Good Enough, INFJs. Seriously! from 2019-07-02T03:17:48

Stop doubting yourself, you are good enough as you are, INFJs. You don’t need someone else to tell you that you are right, in order for you to be right. If you think you know the answer to somet...

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A Solid Life Purpose Builds Confidence In An INFJ from 2019-06-30T03:16:31

A solid life purpose builds confidence in an INFJ because with a solid life purpose in hand, we know exactly why we are here on this planet, what we are supposed to do with our days and minutes,...

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Love And Hate People - INFJs And Mankind Don't Really Get Along from 2019-06-26T03:15:10

Love and hate people - we have this weird tumultuous relationship with people as INFJs. We are in a love-hate long-distance relationship with them, and we really don’t want to get out of it, but...

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INFJ Psychic Premonitions - Should We Share Them With Others? from 2019-06-24T03:12:34

INFJ Psychic Premonitions, in my opinion, should be kept to ourselves, and not shared with the world, because that’s just too heavy a burden to put on someone else. A lot of times the things we ...

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INFJs Think Constantly About How To Improve Their World from 2019-06-22T03:11:05

INFJs think constantly about how they can improve their little sliver of the world. We want to keep on improving our environment, our world, our personality, our relationships, and everything el...

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INFJ Are Generous With Their Money - Lending It Easily from 2019-06-20T03:09:38

INFJs are generous with their money. We have this general sense of unworthiness that says everyone else around us deserves the money more than us. So if someone with a need asks us to lend them ...

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INFJs Are Sentimental About Their Stuff, Sometimes Stupidly So from 2019-06-18T03:08:10

INFJs are sentimental about their stuff. We are not big on materialism, but when we love something of ours, we really truly divinely whole-hearted love it, and care for it. I’ll share some examp...

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INFJs Give Tailored Compliments Or Nothing At All from 2019-06-16T03:06:46

INFJs give tailored compliments because they want to ensure if they are going to give a compliment that it’s something related to the individual and not just something generic. We won’t say, I l...

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INFJ Idealism Vs. INFJ Realism - The Struggle Is Real from 2019-06-14T03:05:05

INFJ Idealism vs. INFJ realism - we are always battling within ourselves between these two extreme sides of ourselves. We want to live in our ideal fantasy worlds, but a lot of times, we have to...

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INFJ Self Esteem Rises When They Are Alone; Falls Around Peeps from 2019-06-12T03:01:33

INFJ's self-esteem rises up high when we are on our own, doing our own thing. But as soon as we get around other people, for some reason, it starts to deflate again. Which isn’t necessarily a ba...

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INFJs Expect To Be Abandoned In Relationships And Life from 2019-05-20T03:33:43

INFJ expects to be abandoned. They just expect it. It’s definitely not a good thing. Because it makes us mistrust new people that enter our life, and that means our relationships are always very...

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INFJ Restlessness - It's An Innate Part Of Our General Personality from 2019-05-18T03:32:22

INFJ Restlessness - we have this weird thing about being innately restless. Not only can we not sit still, but we also have this weird desire to always keep on moving either countries, condos, o...

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INFJ Childhood - Inner Strength And Independence Are Key Traits from 2019-05-16T03:30:55

INFJ Childhood - it’s quite interesting how INFJ children can be quite strong and independent. They have this independent streak in them and this inner strength that causes them to want to do th...

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INFJ Embarrassment - We Feel More Embarrassed For Others Than For Us from 2019-05-14T03:29:08

INFJ Embarrassment - we feel more embarrassed for other people than we do for ourselves. Second-hand embarrassment is such a big thing for us. We care too much and everything hits our heart dire...

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INFJ Solitude - Our Default Mode Is To Be Alone from 2019-05-12T03:25:40

INFJ Solitude - it’s something that is part and parcel of who we are as INFJs. We bring our solitary nature into everything we do and everything we love. You can’t take this solitary nature out ...

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INFJ Introverted - Some Unique Quirks About Our Introvertedness from 2019-05-10T03:23:02

INFJs Introverted quirks are many. They might seem like extroverts, but they are definitely not extroverts. They like to spend time on their own and they recharge by spending as much alone as po...

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INFJ Dating - We Always Expect To Be Gipped In Relationships from 2019-05-08T03:21:17

INFJ dating is so complicated and annoying sometimes. We have this tendency to give and give and give in relationships, and we always feel like we are taken advantage of because the other party ...

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INFJs Are Bipolar - Oscillating Between Extreme Pride And Humility from 2019-05-06T03:20:06

INFJs are bipolar in the way they live in this world, or that’s what it seems like. We oscillate between two different extremes. We are either way too humble, thinking that we are nothing, and s...

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INFJ Relationships Problems | Door Slam Or Hiding In Cave? from 2019-05-04T03:17:59

INFJ relationships problems? Non-INFJs in relationships with INFJs always ask me this question - how do I know if my INFJ has the door slammed me or if he/she is just chilling out in their cave,...

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INFJs Can Be Weirdly Forgetful And Need To Write Everything Down from 2019-05-02T03:23:31

INFJs will remember the oddest of details about your sister’s daughter’s boyfriend’s cousin. But we will forget the slightest of details about ourselves, like the last time we ate, or took a sho...

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Freedom Is An INFJ's Primary And Paramount Value from 2019-05-01T03:22:08

Freedom is absolutely and primarily an INFJ’s primary value. We live by and die by this value. Everything that we do, every decision that we make, every relationship we get into, is based on thi...

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INFJs Are Extremely Afraid Of Being Abandoned By A Loved One from 2019-04-30T03:20:45

INFJs have this weird thing about being abandoned by a loved one for someone else. They live in this constant fear of not wanting to share their loved ones with anyone else, because there is a l...

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INFJs Are Always Seeking Puzzle Pieces To Solve The Mysteries Of Life from 2019-04-29T03:19:15

INFJs have recruited themselves into this job that is the seeking of answers. We are seekers at heart. We know that there are many questions relating to life and why we are here. What is our pur...

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INFJs Get More Introverted And Reclusive As They Get Older from 2019-04-28T03:17:55

I notice for myself and other INFJs, that we become more and more introverted, and spend more and more time in our caves as time goes on. As I get older, I am losing my interest in bs more and m...

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INFJs Don't Like Sharing Their Favourite People With Anyone Else from 2019-04-27T03:16:23

INFJs are rather clingy, and possessive when they get around the people they love, or care about. Our favorite people are ours and ours alone, or rather, it should be that way. But of course, it...

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INFJs Don't Want To Be Seen As Needy And Wanting from 2019-04-26T03:15:03

INFJs absolutely hate coming across as needy and wanting. That's why whenever we encounter people who are needy, or clingy, we run in the opposite direction because they remind us of our shadows...

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INFJs Get Obsessed As They Search For That Perfect Item from 2019-04-25T03:13:42

INFJs have an obsessive personality in more ways than one. And this manifests itself in our clothing buying behavior as well. Once we find an item that we like, we tend to buy several of them so...

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INFJs Can Prevent Loneliness By Opening Up To Others from 2019-04-24T03:12:12

INFJs get attached to people rarely. And even if we do get attached, we just let go of them as if it were nothing, and that makes us come across as cold and unemotional. Almost robotic. Which is...

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INFJs Need Permission From Others To Spend Money On Themselves from 2019-04-23T05:50:48

INFJs are weird with money. I have done other videos on this topic. But one of our things about spending money on ourselves is that we won’t do it until we have some sort of written or verbal pe...

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INFJs Are Loyal AF When They Decide You Are In Their Circle from 2019-04-22T05:49:12

One of INFJ’s main personality traits is loyalty. We are loyal to a fault. Once we decide that you are in our circle, that we love you, adore you, admire you, we are going to be loyal to you unt...

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INFJs Have This Tendency Of Being 15-30 Minutes Early Everywhere from 2019-04-21T05:48:03

INFJs have this weird thing about being late. They hate it. They don’t want to ever waste someone else’s time, because they were being careless. Thus, they end up being at least 15-30 minutes ea...

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INFJs Don't Fit Into Any Group Or Sect Absolutely Perfectly from 2019-04-20T05:46:54

INFJs never fit into any group perfectly. It just never works out for them. We might dip a toe into a group, or even perhaps an entire leg, but we are never going to be able to wedge our round p...

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INFJs Plan Everything, And I Mean Everything, Out To The Max from 2019-04-19T05:45:23

INFJs have a tendency to plan out everything. We plan out our meals, our sleep, our food intake, our relationships, our kombucha consumption, our clothing habits, our travel, and everything else...

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INFJs, Learn To Distinguish Between Info From Intuition Vs. Trauma from 2019-04-18T05:43:40

INFJs have a tendency to attribute all of the information that comes into their heads to intuition. This is great, if we have no trauma present in our bodies and minds, causing us to become dist...

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INFJs Absolutely Despise Being Sucked Into Drama Of Any Kind from 2019-04-17T05:42:28

INFJs hate waste of any kind. They especially hate wasting their precious time on this planet. And one of the biggest time wasters, according to INFJs, is getting trapped or pulled into the dram...

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INFJs Have These Weird Quirks When It Comes To Clothing from 2019-04-16T05:41:13

I have noticed that I have all of these weird random quirks when it comes to wearing clothing, buying clothing, and being around clothing. I wanted to share them with you to see if any other INF...

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INFJs Always Feel Like They Are Floating Out Of Their Bodies from 2019-04-15T05:39:27

INFJs have a terrible sense of grounding, they just don’t spend any time in their physical bodies. Instead, they spend all of their time in their imagination, and in out-of-body experiences, whi...

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INFJs Are Absolutely Uninterested In Power Struggles Of Any Kind from 2019-04-14T05:38:10

INFJs are not interested in competing overpower anyone else. We are just not interested in having power over others. It seems like such a waste of time, energy, and money to run after power, the...

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INFJs Go Into Analysis-Paralysis Mode When Spending Money from 2019-04-13T05:36:06

INFJs get absolutely paralyzed when it comes down to spending money. It’s not even like the amount has to be really big. It can be a teeny-tiny amount of money, and we will still analyze our dec...

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If You've Met One INFJ, You've Met One INFJ Only from 2019-04-12T05:34:25

This is a phrase that I stole from a psychologist friend of mine who goes to a lot of autism conferences, where a particular speaker says this quite often. “If you’ve met one Aspy, you’ve met on...

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Why I Think INFJs Are Poor At Setting Boundaries As Adults from 2019-04-11T05:33:12

This is one of the reasons why an INFJ has such poor boundaries as an adult. We don’t know what’s normal and what’s not, with regards to crossed boundaries, because we had our boundaries crossed...

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INFJs Only Have Two Speeds - Stop Completely Or Go, Go, Go from 2019-04-10T05:30:23

INFJs have this weird thing where we live at extremes. We have only two speeds that we go at. Either we stop and do nothing at all. Or we overwork ourselves, going at a breakneck speed that no o...

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INFJs And Money - Some Of My Observations On That Relationship from 2019-04-09T05:35:30

Several INFJs have asked me my thoughts on money and how INFJs deal with money in general. Are we good with it? Do we like to save it? Do we hate it? Are we impulsive with it?


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INFJs Have This Innate Sense Of Unworthiness Within Them from 2019-04-08T05:34:10

INFJs always, forever and always, feel unworthy. We try very hard to hide it or run away from that feeling. We fluctuate in that feeling, but it's something that stays with us for the better par...

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Burnout Is Common Among INFJs, So Here's How To Prevent It from 2019-04-07T05:32:54

Burnout is one of the commonest ways an INFJ is unable to fulfill its purpose on this planet. We spend so much time being in burnout mode that we don’t have any energy to do anything else. I des...

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INFJs Are Often Labelled As Ice Kings And Ice Queens from 2019-04-06T05:31:36

INFJs come across as cold, unemotional, and robotic. We are actually quite warm-hearted, and cozy people. But we only show this warm-hearted side of ours to specific people that we trust. We are...

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INFJs, Like All Empaths, Are Filters For Their Environments from 2019-04-05T05:30:22

INFJs are empaths, major ones. Which means that we are filters for our environments. Like a regular air filter, that filters out the bad by absorbing it or sucking the bad particles into itself,...

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INFJs Have A Tendency to Shut Ourselves Up If We Are Too Talkative from 2019-04-04T05:28:49

INFJs are afraid of themselves when they start becoming too talkative. We have this tendency to be afraid of our tongues becoming too loose. Because then all of these secrets spill out, and we c...

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Being An INFJ And Homophobia Don't Really Go Together, IMO from 2019-04-03T05:27:45

Whenever a person who claims they are an INFJ displays homophobia, I instantly start getting the fake vibes from them. For a group of people, who have had to deal with being ostracized and misun...

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How Can INFJs Make A Long Distance Relationship Work? from 2019-04-02T05:26:28

At least half a dozen people have asked me about long-distance relationships and how to make it work with an INFJ, if they are far away from them, especially since our primary love language is q...

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INFJs Are Great At Picking Up Any Accents Around Them from 2019-04-01T05:25:04

I have noticed this about myself. Whenever I am around anyone with a strange accent or any kind of accent at all, I have a tendency to start mimicking them and they always end up thinking that e...

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Will Single INFJs Regret Their Decision In Their Old Age? from 2019-03-31T05:23:47

A viewer asked me about regret, and how she feels like even though she’s fine being single right now, she wonders if she would regret that decision in the future when she might end alone and lon...

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INFJ Viewer Asked How They Could Connect With Their Old Self from 2019-03-30T05:22:06

This viewer asked me about connecting with their old self. They felt like they were disconnected from their old self, and they wanted to go back to it. I thought it was the wrong question to ask...

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As An INFJ, How Can You Stop Caring About What People Think? from 2019-03-29T05:20:31

This question was asked by a viewer - How can I stop caring about what other people think of me? And I thought to myself, is that ever really possible, to completely truly stop caring about what...

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Dating An INFJ - We Get Bored When The Mystery Dissipates from 2019-03-28T05:20:08

INFJs are cruel in a relationship. We are usually only in a relationship because we find the other person mysterious or interesting or an enigma in some way and we want to solve that puzzle piec...

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INFJs Use People Watching To Hone Their People Skills from 2019-03-24T06:31:58

INFJs love to people watch. We absolutely adore it. But why? Doesn’t it seem like a waste of time? And don’t we hate wasting our time? I think we love to people watch, because it teaches a lot a...

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INFJs Don't Like Inviting Strange Energies/People Into Their Haven from 2019-03-23T06:30:48

An INFJs’ haven is sacred to them. We create these spaces knowing that we will need to escape into them, and we know that it is important not to be tainted by negative energies. So that’s why we...

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Can INFJs Fall In Love At First Sight? Is It Possible For Us? from 2019-03-22T06:29:41

Can INFJs fall in love at first sight? Can we really? I have always wondered about this because it has been actually impossible for me to fall in love with someone just by looking at their face....

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INFJs Will Always Let Others Take The Leadership Role from 2019-03-21T06:28:34

INFJs don’t really care about being the leader. We are not attached to the idea of power or being in a powerful position. We don’t think it suits us, and we don’t like it. So if someone else aro...

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INFJs Can Use The Music They Gravitate Towards To Sense Emotions from 2019-03-20T06:27:08

INFJs love music (most of us, anyway), and we are always gravitating towards certain kinds of music, depending on our moods. I suggest in this video that we can use our music choices as a sort o...

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INFJs Are Human Lie Detectors - Don't Lie To Us Please from 2019-03-19T06:26:01

INFJs are human lie detectors. It’s a skill that we have that can actually be a noose around our neck sometimes. Because we always know when someone’s lying, we always know if we can actually tr...

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Are INFJs Sociophobic? Or Is It Something Else Entirely? from 2019-03-18T06:24:43

Some viewers asked me if INFJs are sociophobic, meaning whether we are deathly afraid of social situations, to the point of avoiding them completely. And I thought about it, and I don’t think th...

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INFJs, Plz Share Your Quirky Obsessions With The World Without Fear from 2019-03-17T06:23:35

When I was younger, I had a really hard time sharing any of my random quirky obsessions with anyone around me. I was so ashamed that I had such random interests, and I would keep it all to mysel...

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INFJs Gather Info About Animate And Inanimate Objects Equally from 2019-03-16T06:22:10

INFJs, as they move through this vast world, are always gathering information, and data about everything that is going on around them. Not only are we gathering info on all of the people around ...

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INFJs Like To Be Alone, But We Can Still Be In Awesome Relationships from 2019-03-15T06:20:42

A lot of INFJs message me asking me if it is possible for INFJs to be in a relationship even though we like to be alone a lot of the time. And considering many INFJs in this community are in hap...

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Dating An INFJ - Focus On Writing As Your Major Form Of Comm from 2019-03-14T06:19:02

INFJs always prefer writing to all other forms of communication. And this especially applies to highly charged emotional conversations that happen a lot in a relationship. That’s why I recommend...

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Extremely Extroverted Events And Situations Are Painful To INFJs from 2019-03-13T06:17:43

INFJs find extremely extroverted situations, events, and people sometimes physically painful to be around, because it sucks so much of our energy up and can actually cause us to go into early bu...

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INFJs Are Major Skeptics And Have Built-In B.S. Detectors from 2019-03-12T06:16:21

INFJs are skeptical of everything that everyone around them says. We are suspicious to the core. We don’t trust as easily as others do, and we always take everything said with a grain of salt, b...

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INFJs Are Mostly Unaffected And Unmoved By Sales Pitches from 2019-03-11T06:14:36

INFJs are unmoved by salespeople and sales pitches. We know that they are trying to sell us something, and because we are kind, we are going to stick around, but we also want them to get to the ...

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INFJs Hate Saying Goodbyes With An Unmatched Passion from 2019-03-10T06:13:26

INFJs hate saying goodbyes with a passion. Either we know we are going to miss you and we don’t want to talk about it. Or we are not going to miss you as much as you are going to miss us, and so...

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An INFJ's Auto-Chameleon Mode Can Be Such A Pain from 2019-03-09T06:11:54

An INFJ has the capability of going automagically into a chameleon mode, where we mirror other’s emotions and actions. But sometimes that can be a pain because we can slip into it before we even...

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INFJs Can Come Across As Stubborn And Obstinately Rigid from 2019-03-08T06:11:40

INFJs know what they want, and they know how to get it. Once we decide on something, we are stubborn AF, and we will go on our path, no matter what everyone else is telling us to do. And if you ...

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INFJs Can Come Across To Others As Extremely Clumsy from 2019-02-09T08:14:03

INFJs have a tendency to stay in their heads all of the time. Even when we are walking around in the real world, we spend all of our time in our heads. This means, that we are not actually payin...

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How Can And How Do INFJs Deal With Other People's Cruelty? from 2019-02-09T08:13:11

INFJs have this inherent need and desire to be good and kind to the people around us. But of course, this can be a cruel world we live in, and thus, how can we deal with all of these acts of cru...

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INFJs Have The Potential To Become Great Manipulators from 2019-02-09T08:12:17

INFJs have the potential to become extremely good at manipulating the people and situations around them, because of the vast amount of knowledge and information that our introverted intuition br...

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INFJs Seem And Feel Younger Than Their Chronological Age from 2019-02-09T08:11:15

INFJs come across to people around them as child-like, much younger than what their actual age might be. Sometimes, that ends up meaning that we are not treated as seriously as someone else who ...

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INFJs Have A Tendency To Speak And Type Very Fast from 2019-02-09T08:10:23

I think the reason I speak very fast and type even faster is two-fold. First of all, I am deathly afraid of being interrupted and ignored. Second of all, my mind works so fast that I need to spe...

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Is Being An INFJ A Blessing Or A Curse? Or Both? from 2019-02-09T08:09:34

A viewer asked me whether being an INFJ is a blessing or a curse. I thought that was a weird question, because isn’t everything always both things, both good and bad, and at the same time, neith...

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Dating An INFJ - Should You Msg An INFJ Who Is In Their Cave? from 2019-02-09T08:08:42

So many non-INFJs who are dating INFJs message me asking about how often to message an INFJ when they go into their cave. Or if they should just leave us alone while we are in there.


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INFJs Are Great At Compartmentalizing Their Emotions And Feelings from 2019-02-09T08:07:29

INFJs have their own special process of dealing with their emotions and feelings. That’s why they come across as unfeeling or emotionless because they might not show their emotions right away af...

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A Balanced Healthy INFJ Has A Better Connection With His/Her Intuition from 2019-02-09T08:06:25

Without balance, and without proper self-care routines, an INFJ can easily slip and fall into the abyss of burnout and exhaustion, which means that their intuition will work less effectively. An...

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Are INFJs Perv Magnets Or Do We Just Attract Broken People? from 2019-02-09T08:05:14

A viewer asked me if INFJs are perv magnets because she ends up attracting creeps all of the time. I wondered if it was actually true that we are perv magnets, or that we just attract broken, pa...

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Atmosphere, Like Energy, Is Crucial To An INFJ from 2019-02-09T08:04:08

Just like energy really affects an INFJ, the atmosphere really affects us as well. We need to start paying attention to the atmosphere of places we visit asap.


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INFJs Are Naturals At Dealing With Crisis Situations from 2019-02-09T08:03:06

INFJs have this natural talent for dealing with crisis situations. We are able to go into this Zen state of calm when everyone around us is panicking or stressed out.


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A Brief Guide On How To Get Started With Journaling, INFJs from 2019-02-09T08:02:09

Journaling is such a life-changing practice that I wish everyone could take it on. In this episode, I explain more about how to get started with it, if you've never done it before.


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Here's How To Deal With Narcissistic People In General, INFJs from 2019-02-09T08:00:52

Does anyone else feel like narcissism is becoming an overused and overrated word that doesn't mean anything anymore? Here's my opinion on how to deal with narcissistic people (and parents).

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What Are Some Great Conversation Starters To Get INFJs Going? from 2019-02-09T07:59:47

A non-INFJ asked me this question - what are some great conversation starters for me to get an INFJ interested in chatting with me? Such a great question. 


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Please Stop Asking INFJs Why They Are So Quiet All The Time from 2019-02-09T07:58:37

This question really annoys me. Why do people care so much if we are quiet? Why??? I really wish people would stop asking us this question.


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INFJs Can Set Up Successful New Year's Resolutions This Way from 2019-02-09T07:57:25

A viewer asked me about New Year's resolutions and how to set them up properly as an INFJ. These are some of the ways I do it, and so hopefully it helps you guys as well.


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INFJ Males Are More Feminine Minded Than INFJ Females from 2019-01-22T06:06:21

I did an episode previously about how INFJ females are masculine-minded in the way they deal with the world. In this episode, I wanted to cover the other side of the coin - how INFJ males are mo...

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INFJs Behave Like INFPs Under Stress, And INFJs When Normal from 2019-01-22T06:05:04

So many INFJs messages me confused about whether they are INFJs or not because they behave more like INFPs rather than INFJs. And this is the answer I give to all of them.


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INFJs Are Socially Awkward, And We Know It Very Well from 2019-01-22T06:04:05

INFJs are socially awkward, because we don't understand social etiquette, and we are confused about how to be around other humans. Thankfully, we know we are socially awkward.


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INFJs Do Not Let People Be Unkind To You, Stop That Madness from 2019-01-22T06:03

In a recent YouTube live, I was talking about how INFJs have this tendency to let people be unkind to us because we think we deserve it. It's wrong, and we should stop that right now.


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INFJs Feel Much Disappointment In Themselves And Their Lives from 2019-01-22T06:01:47

INFJs have high, high standards for themselves and what they want to achieve in their life. Thus, we feel a lot of disappointment in ourselves and our accomplishments often.


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INFJs Come Across To The World As Innocent And Naive from 2019-01-22T06:00:43

I don't know why, maybe because of our intense stare, or our naive hopeful way of looking at the world, but we come across as innocent to the world. It's so far from the truth, I think.  Listen

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INFJs Are Not Good At Chatting On The Phone, It's Torture from 2019-01-22T05:59:46

I am absolutely horrible at chatting on the phone because I don't understand how to do small talk, and so I get confused, and I want to run away. Why do people love to chat with us INFJs on the ...

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INFJs Can Only Create An Impact Here In This Real World from 2019-01-22T05:58:42

INFJs love, love spending time in their heads. We think there's no place better than our own head, our own imagination, sometimes losing sight of the fact that there is a real-world out there, w...

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INFJs Are Hermits And Live Almost Entirely In Their Heads from 2019-01-22T05:57:41

It's an odd thing to be an INFJ because we don't actually live in this real world. We spend almost all of our time in our heads, in our fake, imaginary worlds. We are hermits, reclusive, and hid...

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INFJs Don't Realize How Much They Actually Know from 2019-01-22T05:56:43

INFJs have a tendency to spend all of their time in their heads, in a fake, imaginary world. But, we cannot make an impact there. There is no real impact made in our dreamworlds. Only in this re...

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INFJs Have A Tendency To Make Snap Judgements About People from 2019-01-22T05:55:42

INFJs make snap judgments, mostly because we trust our intuition, and we just sense things about people without knowing why or how we know what we know. Is this a good thing? Or bad? Let's chat ...

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INFJs Really Don't Like People Who Need To Be Spoonfed Everything from 2019-01-22T05:54:36

Because INFJs are so freaking independent, we have this intense desire to be around other people who are independent as well. Who doesn't need to be spoonfed everything, as if they were a little...

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How Can We Create Better Boundaries As An INFJ? from 2019-01-22T05:53:30

INFJs can become codependent really fast if we don't create proper, strong, and infallible boundaries with the people around us, especially the people who are extremely needy, and demanding. Her...

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INFJs Don't Feel Happiness For Common Societal Reasons from 2019-01-22T05:52:01

It seems to me that because INFJs have a different radar on why they do things and how they do it, and for what reason they do it, we don't feel happy for the same kinds of reasons as most peopl...

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Please Don't Worry About Impact, INFJs; Be A Human Here Now from 2019-01-22T05:51:02

So many of us worry about impact when we are doing anything with our time. Everything we do has to have an impact, especially as an INFJ, otherwise, we just don't care. But how about doing thing...

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A Big Thank You To ALL Of You, and Here's To 2019! from 2019-01-22T05:49:59

I wanted to send out a big thank you to all of the people who have subscribed to my videos, or watched them, or commented, or just interacted in any minuscule way with my content, and my work. I...

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Please Stop Comparing Apples To Oranges, INFJs from 2019-01-22T05:48:54

I find that a lot of INFJs compare apples to oranges, when they are comparing themselves to others, or they comparing their lives or characteristics to others. It's such a terrible thing to do b...

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Why Is Spelling And Grammar So Important To INFJs? from 2019-01-22T05:47:49

Every INFJ who messages me is absolutely adamant about ensuring that their English, grammar, spelling, punctuation, and anything language-related is absolutely accurate and free of errors. Why?<...

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How Can INFJs Best Deal With Emotional Overload? from 2019-01-22T05:46:46

INFJs are empaths, and a lot of us are HSPs (highly sensitive people), and also, we are feelers. All of this means that the chances of us feeling emotional overload are highly probable. How then...

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Are INFJs Mean, Kind, Nice Or All? And What About Karma?? from 2019-01-22T05:45:24

INFJs are kind, but not necessarily nice. And there's a difference between being kind and nice. But we are not mean. Also, my opinions on karma.


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What Is The Difference Between A Healthy And Unhealthy INFJ? from 2019-01-21T10:53:11

A viewer asked me the difference between a healthy and an unhealthy INFJ, and I thought I would answer the question with an episode, as I always do.


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INFJs Have High Standards For Themselves And Others from 2019-01-21T10:52:07

It's okay for INFJ to have high standards for themselves, but it's not okay for them to have high standards for others. Especially without informing the other person what their high standards ar...

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INFJs Are Hypersensitive To Clothing Tags And Fabric from 2019-01-21T10:51:04

INFJs are always extremely sensitive to the tags on their clothes, and the fabric that their clothing is made of. Thank God for tag-less clothing brands.


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INFJ Females Are Highly Masculine In Their Thinking from 2019-01-21T10:49:50

I usually don't get along with women my age, because I find them to be too feminine and girlish. I can't handle that. I'm too masculine in my thinking to be around that femininity or girly-ness....

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These Episodes Are Also For All Future INFJs Not Born Yet from 2019-01-21T10:48:47

I ask you all to comment and share your opinions not just for us but also for all of those future INFJs and viewers who are not yet born, and who will watch and listen in the far away future. Listen

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Victoria Asked - Is The MBTI System Causing INFJs To Stagnate? from 2019-01-21T10:47:25

A viewer asked me if I agreed with Bryant Chambers' view that the MBTI system is causing INFJs to stagnate, to stay stuck in their little bubble. 


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INFJs Spend Their Lives Being Censored By Everyone from 2019-01-21T10:46:15

INFJs spend most of their lives being told that what they are feeling, thinking, doing, and believing is wrong. It's the worst form of censorship. 


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INFJs Don't Like Noisy Clothing, Noisy Shoes, Or Noisy Foods from 2019-01-21T10:45:12

To say INFJs are hypersensitive to noise is an understatement. We do not like anything that is noisy, and I mean, anything.


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INFJs Don't Like Adding To The Pain Of The World from 2019-01-21T10:43:55

As INFJs, we already know how much pain there is in the world. We do not want to add to it, by causing any being suffering.


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Is Being In High School A Waste Of Time For INFJs? from 2019-01-21T10:43:03

A viewer who is in high school messaged me recently saying that she feels that everything she's doing in school is a waste of time. How should she be dealing with it?


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Here's How To Be An Introvert In An Extrovert's World, INFJs from 2019-01-21T10:42:01

This world we live in is an ESTP's world. So how can we as an INFJ survive and thrive in a world like this?


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INFJs Can Definitely Do Group Work In School - This Is How from 2019-01-21T10:40:27

Group work is a form of torture invented by an extrovert who hated introverts. How do I deal with group work? Especially being a really major introvert... 


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How Can An INFJ Like Me Travel To So Many Noisy Places? from 2019-01-21T10:39:24

INFJs don't like noise. They are not good with noisy places. Noisy places terrify and drain us. Then, how do I travel to so many Asian countries?


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How Do INFJs Deal With Past Trauma In Relationships? from 2019-01-21T10:38:27

Many INFJs, I believe, don't get into relationships because of the trauma they have gathered from past relationships. 


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INFJs - This Is How I Deal With Procrastination And Get Over It from 2019-01-21T10:37:12

Many INFJs deal with procrastination on a daily basis. I have been able to beat it a little bit by doing these interesting things. 


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All INFJs Deal With Loneliness At Some Point In Their Life from 2019-01-21T10:35:55

A viewer asked me recently about loneliness and if I had ever been lonely. Ha, I thought to myself. He should ask me when I wasn't lonely because it has been such a part of my life.


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Some Advice To Younger INFJs From A 35-Year Wiser Me from 2019-01-21T10:34:19

A couple of younger INFJs asked me if I would have any specific advice for younger INFJs, specifically from my perspective. This is my response.


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Self-Love Is An Absolute Game Changer For INFJs from 2019-01-21T10:32:59

As soon as I learned to love all of myself with all of my quirks, and oddities, that's when things really began changing for me. A self-love is a powerful tool for all INFJs. 


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INFJs Love To-Do Lists And Checking Things Off from 2019-01-21T10:31:50

I love creating to-do lists. Even more, I love crossing things off my list. INFJs are list-creators and list-lovers.


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INFJs Are Hopeless Romantics And The Bitterest Of Cynics from 2019-01-21T10:30:44

INFJs can be romantics and cynics all at the same time. How do we do that? How can we do that? How is that even possible?


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INFJs Are Trusted Implicitly And That Irritates Me from 2019-01-21T03:50:42

This happens to me so often - people will trust me with their money and babies and valuables, without a second thought. Why? What does my face say? Why do they find INFJs so trustworthy?


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INFJs Can Become Better Intuitives By Learning About Intuition from 2019-01-21T03:49:37

An INFJ can become better intuitive by learning more and more about how their intuition works, and how they can use it even better. That's what I have been doing.


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INFJs' Obsession With Death Makes Them Live More Fully from 2019-01-21T03:48:28

Why are INFJs so obsessed with death? Why do we think about it so much? Why do we spend so much time on it?


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INFJs Need To Come Back To Their Feeling State Often from 2019-01-21T03:47:28

As an INFJ, it's easy to live in a thinking state because this world we live in, forces us to do so. But our natural state is always feeling, and we need to come back to it often to keep it fres...

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INFJs Love Planning Out The Most Unlikeliest Of Scenarios from 2019-01-21T03:46:26

INFJs have this weird thing - they love planning out really really random scenarios in their heads. It's just so much for them.


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INFJs Are A Special Kind Of Minimalist Hoarder from 2019-01-21T03:45:29

INFJs don't buy a lot of stuff, we don't like to. But we do like having and saving and hoarding beautiful, luxurious, and functional items for ages to come. It's a special kind of hoarding.

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Dating An INFJ - We Need Direct Messages, No Clues Or Hints from 2019-01-21T03:44:25

INFJs are dumb, we are clueless about relationships, we don't know. We just don't know. So, if you like us, tell us directly. And no, clues or hints will not work. 


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INFJs Are In Love With The Emotion Of Sadness from 2019-01-21T03:43:24

INFJs are in love with the emotion of sadness because it is intertwined with the emotion of joy for them. There is so much beauty in the emotion of sadness. We feel it all. 


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Why Do A Lot Of INFJs Make The Choice Not To Have Children? from 2019-01-21T03:42:22

INFJs believe becoming a parent is a big deal. You are in charge of life, for god's sake. So they will not go into it without a lot of forethought and planning. So much so that a lot of them end...

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INFJs Have This Weird Need For 100% Accurate Honesty from 2019-01-21T03:41:22

INFJs will do anything to ensure that they are absolutely 100% honest with everyone around them. They will go back to conversations to make sure they never uttered a falsehood.


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INFJs Are Sooo Happy In Their Cozy Solitude (You Have No Idea) from 2019-01-21T03:40:23

INFJs are happiest when they are alone, in their rooms, doing their work, in silence and solitude. They really are. Please don't bug them.


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INFJs Don't Like Hogging The Spotlight In Anything They Do from 2019-01-21T03:39:22

INFJs message me all of the time saying they don't like to comment too much because they don't want to hog the spotlight. That's so us.


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INFJs Don't Know How They Know What They Know (So Don't Ask!) from 2019-01-21T03:38:24

INFJs don't know how they know most of the stuff they know. They have no idea. Don't ask them to explain how they know. They don't know. 


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INFJs Don't Like Being The Cause Of Hurt For Anyone from 2019-01-21T03:37:04

INFJs will avoid relationships as much as possible because they don't want to be the source of hurt to anyone around them. That's how much we care.


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INFJs - Be That Person Your Younger Self Needed from 2019-01-21T03:36:07

The reason I started doing these episodes is that I wanted to be that person my younger self needed and I wanted to tell them all of these things, that would make my younger self feel better. I ...

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INFJs - Forgive Your Parents For Being Bad At Parenting from 2019-01-21T03:34:40

INFJs have a lesson to learn about forgiveness, which can be a heavy lesson to learn, but oh-so-useful. Especially forgiving our parents for being bad at parenting.


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INFJs - Here's How To Do Networking Events Authentically from 2019-01-21T03:33:41

INFJ viewers have asked me how to do networking events without feeling like they want to kill themselves. I share some techniques I use that have worked for me.


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INFJs, I Would Rather Be Too Much, Than Too Little from 2019-01-21T03:32:31

Raymel Washington, a viewer, asked me the question about what to do when someone tells you to calm down because you are being your intense INFJ self. 


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Two Cities INFJs Would Have A Hard Time Being Themselves from 2019-01-21T03:31:26

Two cities that I found hard to be in, even for a short period of time, were in India and the USA. I would love to hear about your experience of it. Do you live there? How is it for you?


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INFJs, How To Deal With All Of The Negative Energy Out There? from 2019-01-21T03:30:01

There is an increase in the amount of negative energy that is being pushed out into the atmosphere right now, which means INFJs, and empaths have to become more alert, and careful about dealing ...

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INFJ Explains The Difference Between Fake And Real People from 2019-01-20T11:03:27

A young viewer asked me the difference between a real and a fake person and I was surprised to hear the question. It's an important thing to know for all introverted people, especially INFJs. Listen

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INFJs Are A Burst Of Colour In A World Of Gray from 2019-01-20T11:02:35

INFJs are filled with color and light and beauty, and we do that in spite of the odds. We love color and we are color.


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Dating An INFJ - We Don't Like To Be Aggressively Courted from 2019-01-20T11:01:40

Maybe this is just my thing, or maybe it's an INFJ thing (I think it might be the latter), but we don't like being aggressively courted. It leaves a sour taste in our mouths (lol). 


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INFJ Door Slam - Why I Have Been Trying To Reverse It from 2019-01-20T11:00:43

INFJs door slam people. That's a universal fact. Everyone knows about it. But I have been trying something different. Watch the video to find out what.


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INFJs Feel Social Burnout After Being Around People Too Much from 2019-01-20T10:59:40

INFJs don't like being around people too much, not because we hate people, but because people tire us out, and we burn out if we are around them too much.


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INFJs Use Workarounds To Trust Their Intuition's Message from 2019-01-20T10:58:37

INFJs have really powerful intuitions, but sometimes it knows things without us knowing how it knows it. So, in order to believe its messages better, we have all of these random workarounds. It'...

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INFJs Really, Really Hate Inconsiderate People from 2019-01-20T10:57:28

Common sense isn't common anymore, and that really irks INFJs. We don't like it, we want people to care more about the little things. We want people to be considerate.


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INFJs Overthink To The Point Of Exhaustion Often from 2019-01-20T10:54:51

In this episode, I chat about how INFJs overthink, but we don't just overthink, we overthink until we are too exhausted to think anymore.


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INFJs Need To Learn To Rely On Their Body's Intelligence More from 2019-01-20T10:53:40

Our bodies are so smart - so freaking smart, that they know all of the answers. But instead of relying upon our body's intelligence, we rely upon our puny minds. Stop doing that, INFJs.


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Does It Bother You That Hitler Was An INFJ? from 2019-01-20T10:52:34

Someone asked me this question on Instagram and I thought it was an interesting question to talk about. Check it out and let me know your thoughts on the subject as well.


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Is It True That Introverts Only Date Extroverts?? from 2019-01-20T10:51:30

I wanted to bust a myth today that has been floating around the Internet - introverts do not only date extroverts. We can date anyone and any type - every one of us is different in that regard.&...

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INFJs Are Always Apologizing For Something Or Other from 2019-01-20T10:50:35

I noticed this trend with the people who messaged me and of course, with myself. I am always apologizing for nonsensical things, that no one else ever apologizes for. Why do INFJs do this?

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INFJs Know All About The Burdens Of Social Anxiety from 2019-01-20T10:49:22

INFJs, like me, know all about social anxiety and how devastating it can be to daily routine life.


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INFJs Feel Safe With Their Backs Against The Wall from 2019-01-20T10:48:24

INFJs have a weird thing about security and safety. They need to have their backs against the wall to feel safe. 


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Why Do Introverts/INFJs Have to Fight For Their Solitude? from 2019-01-20T10:47:08

I have noticed that in a world of extroverts, introverts and INFJs are always fighting for their right to be alone. It's so annoying!


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INFJs Are Happy And Sad All The Time At The Same Time from 2019-01-20T10:46:07

I have noticed this weird thing about myself. I am always happy, and also sad, at the same time, and all the time. 


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INFJs Are Natural Born Philosophers - Its In Our Genes from 2019-01-20T10:44:29

INFJs are thinkers - they spend a majority of their life thinking. That's why I think we are natural-born philosophers.


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Are INFJs Acquired Emotional Savants? from 2019-01-20T10:43:16

A viewer, David Harris, asked me a really interesting question about whether INFJs are acquired, emotional savants. I decided to answer the question in this format.


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For INFJs, Respect Is Earned Not Given Willy-Nilly from 2019-01-20T10:41:52

In this episode, I chat about the specific direct way in which INFJs perceive respect. It is something to be earned, both for us and for the person in front of us, not given willy-nilly.


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INFJs Are Always Dealing With The Logic/Feeling Conundrum from 2019-01-20T10:40:20

INFJs are feelers, but they are also the most logical of the feelers. Thus, we are always being pulled backward and forwards between the logical and feeling side of our heads.


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It Can Be Hard To Live In This Hard World As An INFJ Softie from 2019-01-18T20:10:42

INFJs might not seem like it, but we are huge softies. Our minds and hearts are filled with empathy and that creates an issue because this world does not reward softness.


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INFJs Forget That They Are Human All Of The Time from 2019-01-18T20:09:42

INFJs behave as if they are robots, with no feelings and no needs. Robots with just a head, and no body. No need to eat, or drink water, or sleep, or do anything human.


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INFJs - Please Don't Pretend To Be Something Else For Others from 2019-01-18T20:08:46

INFJs are always pretending to be something else, either to make other people comfortable around us or to make ourselves feel more in line with the normal world. Why do we do this? It's so fooli...

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INFJs Have A Saviour Complex And That Can Be A Disadvantage from 2019-01-18T20:07:47

INFJs believe that everyone around them needs their protection, and thus, we spend hours and hours taking care of and worrying about everyone else, to the detriment of our own health and work. Listen

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INFJs Are Soft Delicate Flowers, Until We Are Not from 2019-01-18T20:06:50

INFJs are full of contradictions. We can pretend to be soft delicate flowers until someone gets on our nerves, and then we blow up like the Incredible Hulk. We are both sides of the coin. We con...

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INFJs Need A Beginner Mentality To Beat Perfectionism from 2019-01-18T20:05:50

INFJs don't do as much with their talents and abilities (like most people) because they are perfectionists. They are afraid to put something imperfect out there. Therefore, they need to cultivat...

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INFJs Love Talking And Thinking About Death from 2019-01-18T20:04:52

INFJs just love chatting about death. And thinking about it. And reading about it. We are obsessed with it. Here's why.


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What Do INFJs Think About Violence In And Around Them? from 2019-01-18T20:03:59

I read a post recently that said that perhaps INFJs love violence, have violent thoughts and would like violence in their lives, and I was actually surprised by this.


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How An INFJ Intuition Works And How To Use It Better from 2019-01-18T20:02:56

There is so much information out there about intuitions. I wanted to share my own version of what I think intuition is, and how we can use it. Hope you enjoy it!


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INFJs - Carefully Sift Through The Advice You Receive from 2019-01-18T20:01:43

INFJs receive a lot of unsolicited advice in this world because everyone thinks they know better than us. And maybe they do. Maybe they don't. We need to be the judge of that.


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INFJs - Please Start Becoming More Consciously Attentive from 2019-01-18T20:00:40

INFJs are awake, more awake than others. But this is just a reminder to start becoming more consciously attentive to everything, all of the signs and signals coming at us.


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What Is This Nonsense About A True INFJ? from 2019-01-18T19:59:38

There are no true INFJs out there - those are just the ravings of a fanatic. There is no true anything out there. There are just people who are trying to do the best they can.


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INFJs Wait All Their Lives For Success To Drop Into Their Laps from 2019-01-18T19:58:36

INFJs wait for success. Because of their perfectionist tendencies, they wait for success to drop into their laps, and they are filled with fear. 


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INFJs Perform Autopsies On Long Dead Conversations from 2019-01-18T19:57:38

I know I have done this in the past, where I will take a conversation that happened ages ago, and then perform an autopsy on it, dissecting it, and analyzing it to death.


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INFJs Need To Learn How To Trust The Universe More from 2019-01-18T19:56:39

INFJs have a hard time with trust, and this episode is all about building that trust, one little step at a time, like building a building, brick by brick. It's so important that we start that pr...

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INFJs Have A Strong Relationship To Music from 2019-01-18T19:55:08

So many INFJs messages me saying that they love music and how strong their relationship to music is. This episode is all about why music matters to INFJs so much.


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INFJs Love It When They Make Plans And They Get Cancelled from 2019-01-18T19:53:33

As INFJs, we love to make plans. We absolutely love to make plans. But we always hate the follow-through. We would rather the plans fail. 


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INFJs - Share Yourselves With The World Starting Now from 2019-01-18T19:52:18

INFJs have this weird thing about sharing themselves with the world. Basically, we don't. We ask the world to share all of its sorrows, joys, and secrets with us. But when it comes back to us, w...

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INFJs - Loneliness Is The Only Path Out There from 2019-01-18T19:50:42

People think that they can alleviate their loneliness by doing so many random things, but they can't. Loneliness is a human path. It's because we are born alone and we die alone.


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INFJs Can And Do Get Jealous In Relationships from 2019-01-18T19:49:33

I have been asked this question a lot - do INFJs get jealous? And what does it look like? Here's the answer to that interesting question in audio format.


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INFJs Are Their Biggest Doubters And Critics from 2019-01-17T06:17:54

INFJs are their biggest doubters, no one else can doubt us more than we doubt ourselves!! Same thing with criticism.


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INFJs - Do Something Small, Do Anything, Just Do Something! from 2019-01-17T06:16:49

INFJs have a tendency to get paralyzed by their big dreams, and they end up doing nothing. I want every INFJ to do something small, to get the ball rolling.


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INFJs Hate Wasting Their Time On Useless Things from 2019-01-17T06:15:52

INFJs have this weird fear of wasting their precious time on this planet on something useless, anything useless. We are very careful of this!


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INFJs Ration Their Energies, Time And Stuff from 2019-01-17T06:14:54

INFJs have this tendency to not use all of themselves up because we are conserving ourselves for some random time in the future, whenever that might arrive.


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INFJs Feel Like They Are Bad With No Real Reason from 2019-01-17T06:14:02

INFJs have this weird thing where they think they are bad people, with no real evidence to prove that. Why is that?


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Dating An INFJ - What To Do When We Go Cold from 2019-01-17T06:13:02

Dating an INFJ is a land filled with dangers, and one of them is when we go cold, without previous notice. Here's how to navigate that.


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INFJs And Empathy - An In-Depth Look At It from 2019-01-17T06:11:56

INFJs are always major empaths. We are highly sensitive to the emotions and feelings that are present around us


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INFJs Are Planners And Over-thinkers - Which Can Be Great from 2019-01-17T06:10:58

INFJs spend most of their brainpower in overthinking. They are always in planning mode. Planning out their days, months, years, lives, and everything else.


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INFJs Tend Towards Dramatic Thinking In Daily Life from 2019-01-17T06:09:54

INFJs have a tendency to be worst-case scenario thinkers. We are always thinking of the worst thing that can happen, and that's why I say we tend towards dramatic thinking.


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INFJs Self Medicate To Prevent Strong Emotions from 2019-01-17T06:08:57

A viewer asked me about self-medicating and how INFJs perhaps sometimes take that route because they don't want to feel. This is a response to his question.


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INFJs - Why Do Narcissists Love Us So Much? from 2019-01-17T06:07:36

So many of you have asked me about narcissists and how to deal with them. We attract narcissists as bees who gravitate towards honey. It's insane how much they like being around us.


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INFJs Hate Being So Empathic All The Time - It's Draining from 2019-01-17T06:00:41

One of the things that INFJs say all of the time to me is why do they have to be so empathic. It hurts us so much, and it's so hard to live in this world sometimes. 


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INFJs Are Future Thinkers, Not Concerned With Past Or Present from 2019-01-17T05:54:10

INFJs are future thinkers. They spend more time thinking about the future, more than anything else. They don't care about the past, it's already gone. They don't really live in the present. But ...

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INFJs Seem Like They Would Be Promising In Relationships from 2019-01-17T05:52:50

INFJs seem like they would be the perfect partner in a relationship, but we all know that isn't true. We might be loyal, empathetic, and kind, but we are also all kinds of crazy that doesn't jib...

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INFJs Show Up As Different Types On Tests Due To Chameleon Mode from 2019-01-17T05:51:52

INFJs are always messaging me saying, "I have done the test 1,230 times, and 80% of the time I show up as INFJ, but the other times I showed up as INTP, or ENTP, or INTJ. What type am I, really?...

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INFJs Like To Be Gently Invisible And Do Their Own Thing from 2019-01-17T05:50:16

INFJs don't like being in the spotlight. We just don't. That's the truth. But we don't want to hide completely either, because we want to observe this world. We just want to be gently invisible....

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INFJs Cannot Bear Distorted Meanings So We Hide Our Work from 2019-01-17T05:49:15

All INFJs are great at communicating through writing, because our imagination is great, and we love to write. All INFJs will have some piece of writing that sits in their hard drive hidden and l...

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An INFJ's Whole Existence Involves Hiding Their True Nature from 2019-01-17T05:46:09

INFJs are all about hiding their true selves. We don't want to be judged, believe us, we have experience of being judged. And we don't want to be rejected for our true selves. So we hide. We spe...

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INFJs Need To Learn How To Use The Word 'No' from 2019-01-17T05:44:36

INFJs really, really, really need to learn the word 'No'. We don't use it enough. We think we are strong and able, so we keep on saying 'yes' to everything. Don't do that. It will burn you out.<...

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INFJs Are Natural Scholars - Learning Is Their Passion from 2019-01-17T05:39:36

INFJs love to learn. They love to read and understand and grow and learn. We are natural scholars. We just love to learn something new and use it in our daily life.


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Dating An INFJ - Don't Cling To An INFJ, & Don't Try Too Hard from 2019-01-15T20:05:55

I have received many questions from people dating INFJs and they always tell me that they want the INFJ to really love them, so they are trying really really hard. And that always rings a warnin...

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INFJs Shift Their Personality To Accommodate People Around from 2019-01-15T20:04:39

When someone is being really active and extroverted around INFJs, they will adapt their personality according to the situation, to balance this person out, or to emulate them to help them feel m...

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Dating An INFJ - We Don't Find Typical Things Romantic from 2019-01-15T20:03:45

INFJs don't find typical things that 99% of the population finds romantic, romantic. We don't. So you need to up your game, find new things to entice us, and figure out what in God's name makes ...

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Dating An INFJ - What Is An INFJ's Love Language? from 2019-01-15T20:02:51

If you know anything about the book, the Five Love Languages, you will probably have thought about your own love language, and how if you are an INFJ, it is probably quality time.


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People Seem To Get Insecure Around INFJs, For Some Reason from 2019-01-15T20:01:59

INFJs have this weird thing where people get intimidated by us. I don't know why. But we tend to make people insecure around us, and that shows up in the way they behave towards us.


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What Is The Main Difference Between A Younger And Older INFJ? from 2019-01-15T20:00:42

Melike, a 15-year-old INFJ from Turkey, asked me the difference between a younger (less mature) and older (more mature perhaps) INFJ. 


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INFJs Are Non Communicative About Their Needs from 2019-01-15T19:59:42

INFJs are so disconnected from their minds and bodies, that they themselves don't know what they are feeling and thinking, let alone able to communicate that to others.


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INFJs Hate Themselves When They Share Too Much from 2019-01-15T19:58:51

INFJs don't share much about themselves. But sometimes, just sometimes, we are too tired to filter, and then we share something, a little too much about ourselves, and then we spend the entire d...

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INFJs Come Across As Extroverts All The Time from 2019-01-15T19:57:47

INFJs have this weird thing where we come across as extroverts all the time. It's so odd because we are definitely introverts, but because we can talk to strangers easily and because we defend t...

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INFJs Hate Forced Friendships, So Please Stop That from 2019-01-15T19:56:56

Why are there so many people on this planet who want to be friends with an INFJ, and who force the issue over and over again? Why does that happen? I don't understand.


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INFJs Would Rather Cut Their Own Hair Than Do Small Talk from 2019-01-15T19:55:59

INFJs hate small talk. They hate sitting in that hairdresser's chair and waiting for the ax of small talk to fall. In my case, I would rather cut my own hair rather badly than go through that or...

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INFJs Seem Disconnected Or Distant From Their Own Thoughts from 2019-01-15T19:55:01

A viewer, Jessica Bullock, asked me this question where she wondered if I had ever felt disconnected from my thoughts as if they were coming from someone else, or from somewhere far away. This i...

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How Can INFJs Deal With The Repeating Cycles Of Grief? from 2019-01-15T19:53:57

A viewer, Jessica Bullock, asked me how she could deal with the grief that was still remnant from 5 years ago, and which seemed to never dissipate. I had to do an episode on this because I mysel...

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INFJs Are Late Bloomers Which Looks Like Failure from 2019-01-15T19:52:55

INFJs look like they are never going to launch, because it takes us forever to learn about ourselves enough to say, 'Okay, I'm ready to do what I am meant to do now.' So don't fear. Don't fret. ...

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INFJs Follow The Policy Of Leave No Human Behind from 2019-01-15T19:50:30

INFJs have this weird thing where they hate leaving anyone behind. This means that from a very young age, they start pulling forth the outcasts, and the nobodies, and giving them a name, and a s...

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INFJs Punish Themselves For Crimes Known Only To Them from 2019-01-15T19:49:38

I have this thing I do when I want to rectify some of my mistakes or crimes. I punish myself in ways that are only known to me. 


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Stop Worrying About If You Are Truly An INFJ Or Not from 2019-01-15T19:48:38

INFJs always ask me the same question over and over again. If they are really an INFJ because their test keeps on showing something else, but they relate to my videos or vice versa.


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Some Tips On How To Nurture Your INFJ Child from 2019-01-15T19:47:29

A viewer asked me about how to build her special relationship with her INFJ daughter, being that she's an INFJ mom. And I loved the question and the topic, so I thought I would expand on it in t...

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A Daily Yoga And Meditation Practice Creates A Balanced INFJ from 2019-01-15T19:46:11

INFJs can find true balance in themselves over time if they start a daily yoga and meditation practice. It can help them with their anxiety, ego, insomnia, and more.


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INFJs Disappear For Long Periods Of Time To Recharge from 2019-01-15T19:39:43

INFJs have this tendency to run away and hide in their caves for long periods of time depending on how much recharging they need to do. Their social battery is recharged only by disappearing awa...

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INFJs Feel A Lot Of Shame When Receiving Luxurious Care from 2019-01-14T22:58:35

INFJs have this shameful thing that they enter when they are receiving love or massages or luxurious manicures/pedicures. 


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Loneliness Isn't Just An INFJ Thing - Everyone Feels It from 2019-01-14T22:57:36

INFJs msg me all the time blaming their loneliness on being an INFJ, and I wonder if that's actually really true, when there are millions of lonely people on this planet and they are not all INF...

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INFJs Miss Books And Their Obsessions More Than People from 2019-01-14T22:56:39

INFJs don't miss people. We have already spoken about that before. But more than that, we miss our obsessions and books and the characters from our favorite shows more than people.


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What Kind Of Job Would Suit An INFJ Best? from 2019-01-14T22:54:59

INFJs are introverts and they don't like being micro-managed, which means that there are many jobs that will not suit our temperament and make us go crazy. 


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INFJs Are Deathly Quiet Until They Feel Safe Enough To Speak from 2019-01-14T22:53:57

INFJs stay quiet, deathly quiet, until we are ready to speak, or we feel safe enough to speak in the company we keep. It's not because we are dumb or stupid. We are just careful and cautious. Listen

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INFJs Are Not Fickle Or Impulsive, But Flexible And Adaptable from 2019-01-14T22:52:41

INFJs get told over and over again that we seem uncommitted to our principles because we take in new information and change our minds easily sometimes. It's not being fickle, but being flexible,...

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INFJs Take Eons To Get Comfortable With Physical Closeness from 2019-01-14T22:51:14

INFJs hate physical closeness with strangers, but even with people they love, it takes them a while to become comfortable with them sitting close to us, or touching us, or hugging us.


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INFJs - Stop Using Your Traumatic Childhood As An Excuse from 2019-01-14T22:50:24

INFJs sometimes use their traumatic childhood as an excuse not to move on and not to live their ideal lives. I know I did that for the longest time. I don't want you to do that anymore.


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INFJs Hide From The World To Build Up Their Hope Meter from 2019-01-14T22:48:42

The more time I spend in the world, the less hope I have. And then I hide from the world, and then as an INFJ does, my hope returns. Back and forth the dance goes.


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INFJs Are Attracted To The Soul, Not The Body from 2019-01-14T22:47:36

INFJs have this tendency to doubt themselves because they are afraid of their attraction to people who might not fit in their boxes of sexuality. Don't worry. We aren't attracted to the outside ...

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INFJs Don't Know How To Fangirl Or Fanboy from 2019-01-14T22:46:35

My friends are always freaking out about some star or another, while I sit there looking at them thinking what is wrong with them. I don't know how to do it. How to be a fangirl or fanboy for IN...

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I Believe INFJs Exist To Balance The Stupid In This World from 2019-01-14T22:45:30

I get this question from viewers all the time. Why do I think INFJs exist? We don't really seem like a good bet by evolution or by the universe sometimes. But this episode is my answer to why we...

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INFJs Need To Do A Lot Of Shadow Work To Build Self-Love from 2019-01-14T22:44:01

I am fascinated by shadow work and all the growth that it entails. I absolutely recommend it to all INFJs. I speak more about it in this episode.


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INFJs Really Need To Learn How To Rest Better To Avoid Burnout from 2019-01-14T22:42:47

INFJs can burn themselves out really easily because they get distracted by work and forget to eat and sleep. We need to learn to rest better. 


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All INFJs Are Empaths, But Not All Empaths Are INFJs from 2019-01-14T22:41:30

This viewer messaged me asking me if there was some confusion between empaths and INFJs as they seemed really similar to each other. I created this episode to answer that question.


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INFJs Can Seem Gullible And Trusting Because We Believe People from 2019-01-14T22:40:34

INFJs always do what they say they are going to do. If we say we are going to do something, we do it. No ifs, ands, and buts about it. But that means that we believe when others say they are doi...

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INFJs Hate Most Traditional Holidays - They Seem Artificial from 2019-01-14T22:39:30

INFJs hate not only their own birthdays but also traditional gaudy holidays that are perpetuated in our culture to make us buy more shit and pretend to have more fun with people we don't like. Listen

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INFJs Define Success Differently From The Masses from 2019-01-14T22:38:13

INFJs have this weird definition of success. It doesn't mean the same thing to them as it does to other people. We don't seek fame or fortune. We seek something else. It's different for each INF...

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INFJs - Try To Accept Gifts And Compliments With Grace from 2019-01-14T22:37:02

INFJs get free stuff all the time. But, I wanted to remind you that there is a reason for all of this. We are giving a lot of ourselves first, to receive some stuff back. So it's okay to accept ...

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INFJs - Don't Worry About Giving The Wrong Advice To Strangers from 2019-01-14T22:35:43

INFJs always worry about all of those strangers who come up to them and ask them for advice about things we are unfamiliar with. Why are these people asking us these questions? The answer is sim...

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Are INFJs Made From Their Environments Or Born This Way? from 2019-01-14T18:17:43

I get asked this a lot. Are INFJs made through their tormented childhoods and their narcissistic environments? Or are they born genetically made to be this way? Such an interesting question, wit...

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INFJs Play The Self-Blame Game Really Well from 2019-01-14T18:16:41

INFJs are great at blaming themselves for everything that's wrong with the world. Everything that has happened is their fault, so don't even bother blaming them, cos they have already done that....

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An INFJ Rants On How She Hates Fake Spiritual People from 2019-01-14T18:15:44

INFJs hate anything fake, but I particularly hate fake spiritual people, because they can be more dangerous than just outright fake people. That's how cults form.


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Dilemma - Should INFJs Speak Up Or Keep The Peace? from 2019-01-14T18:14:26

There is always this dilemma with INFJs. Should we keep the peace or should we speak up? It's so hard because if we speak up, we might lose our friends. If we say nothing, we might lose ourselve...

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INFJs - Remember Everything You Do Matters, Everything! from 2019-01-14T18:13:13

INFJs have this need to change the world, but we aren't happy just changing one or two things. We want to help billions of people, we want to eliminate world hunger, and we want to do it all in ...

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INFJs Are Told Over And Over Again That They Have ADD from 2019-01-14T18:12:05

INFJs have a tendency to be interested in many things and to jump from topic to topic or interest to interest because the world holds so many treasures for us to explore.


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INFJs Suppress Their True Selves To Fit In With The World from 2019-01-14T18:10:41

INFJs know they are weird, and they know people freak out when we behave like ourselves. So we spend a lot of our time suppressing our true selves as we walk through the world. It's alright to d...

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INFJs Want To Walk The Walk, Not Just Talk The Talk from 2019-01-14T18:09:37

There are way too many people on this planet who just talk about what they want to do, but never actually take any action towards it. We hate that as INFJs. We want to be doers and we want to ha...

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INFJs Stock Up On Our Fav Items, So We Never Ever Run Out from 2019-01-14T18:03:58

INFJs have special relationships with their favorite items. We love them to death, so we are extremely careful, especially when we are dealing with the wear and tear of our special items. We sto...

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INFJs Have To Protect Their Heart Fields And Energies from 2019-01-14T18:02:56

INFJs are extra sensitive to other people's energies. We see and feel more than we sometimes realize. That's why we have to be ruthless about protecting our heart field.


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INFJs Are Very Careful Who They Are Physically Intimate With from 2019-01-14T18:02:01

INFJs have this weird thing with physical intimacy. We don't treat it as casually as everyone else on this planet does. It is sacred to us somehow, and it's all to do with energies.


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INFJs Need To Build Better Boundaries With People from 2019-01-14T18:01:07

Boundaries are the hardest thing for an INFJ to build. We can do everything else reasonably well, but with boundaries, we are terrible at it. Absolutely so.


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INFJs Hate Being Micromanaged - It Irritates Us A Lot from 2019-01-14T18:00:06

INFJs don't enjoy being picked at and micromanaging is the worst of it. Why don't people trust us? Why can't people just let us be? Don't micromanage us. Just leave us be. 


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INFJs Feel Guilty About Injustices And Want To Bring Balance from 2019-01-14T17:59:09

INFJs feel shame a lot, but also guilt. Guilt pervades our soul because we are luckier than others because we have more than others and other reasons. We are always trying to balance things out....

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INFJs Want To Leave The World A Better Place Always from 2019-01-14T17:58:06

INFJs have this thing about leaving their world a better place than when they came into it. It's a thing. We try very hard to fulfill this random thing of ours.


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INFJs, Like Elephants, Remember Everything Forever from 2019-01-14T17:57:07

INFJs remember everything. We have excellent memories. Why? And how? I explain more in this episode.


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INFJs Can Soothe Themselves By Sitting In Quiet Darkness from 2019-01-14T17:56:02

So many INFJs tell me they feel tired being around people all the time, but they don't know how to rejuvenate themselves quickly. This method of sitting in a quiet and dark space has worked real...

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INFJs Need To Train Others To Understand Their Weird Quirks from 2019-01-14T17:55:01

INFJs always complain that people don't understand them. We barely understand ourselves, so how can we expect others to understand us? It makes little sense. So train them, teach them about your...

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INFJs Can Use Lists And Notes To Sleep Better And Longer from 2019-01-14T17:53:55

INFJs always have issues with sleep and insomnia. It's just one of those things. We have a hard time switching off our brain, and just going off into oblivion. 


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INFJs - Remember Your Past Doesn't Dictate Your Present from 2019-01-14T17:50:03

INFJs always focus on their past and let it dictate their present. They believe that just because they did something wrong in their past, that they are a bad person forever, and ever. That's abs...

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I Want All INFJs To Have That Aha Moment Of Self-Discovery from 2019-01-11T17:27:47

I remember when I first realized that I was an INFJ, and I am not crazy. That lightbulb moment really changed my life completely. I want that moment for every INFJ out there.


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INFJs Are Annoyed When Others Don't See Someone's True Colours from 2019-01-11T17:26:50

INFJs see someone as they are almost instantaneously. And we get really annoyed when we see someone's true colors, and no one else sees them like that. It makes us feel like we are crazy, and it...

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INFJs Don't Miss People - So Don't Wait For It To Happen from 2019-01-11T17:25:46

INFJs don't miss people. We know people come in and out of our life, just like stuff does, just like animals do, just like everything else. There is a season for a friendship and then it goes aw...

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INFJs - Here's How To Get Over Being Doorslammed from 2019-01-11T17:24

This viewer messaged me to ask how her husband who is an INFJ could get over being door slammed by his INFJ brother. Such an interesting question that I answered in this format. Check it!

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INFJs Don't Like Being Part Of An Audience - Don't Force Us from 2019-01-11T17:22:44

INFJs have this weird thing about not being in the spotlight, but also not giving the spotlight. We don't want to have an audience, and we don't want to be in an audience. 


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INFJs Care About People And Stuff With A Cause Behind from 2019-01-11T17:21:19

INFJs usually hate most superficial people, causes, or organizations. They just don't interest us. But if there is someone or something that has a cause that matters, suddenly our interest level...

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INFJs Believe Empty Vessels Make The Most Noise from 2019-01-11T17:19:54

INFJs hate people who talk too much, who make noise just for the sake of making noise. I believe the Zen saying, "Empty vessels make the most noise." The wiser you are, the less you speak or nee...

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INFJs Use Different Techniques To Balance Themselves Out from 2019-01-11T17:18:51

Sarah Fountain, a long-time supporter of my channel, said something using the shower to come back to some sort of balance, and I told her how I use staring off into space for the same thing. Thi...

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INFJs Need To Own Their Intensity And Passion Authentically from 2019-01-11T17:14:45

Everyone treats INFJs like outsiders for being so intense and passionate. Because of that, we change ourselves and become less intense. I hate when we do that. Don't do that anymore, my fellow I...

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INFJs Don't Like Being An INFJ Or Bragging About It from 2019-01-11T17:13:40

Other people believe we love being an INFJ or being special, or rare. But that's really not the case. We hate it; we want to be normal, and accepted, first.


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INFJs Hate When People Interpret Everything We Do Sexually from 2019-01-11T17:11:58

INFJs have this weird thing where even when we are being asexual, and trying to stay away from sex, people still interpret everything we do and say as sexual. Why, God, why????


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INFJs Are Mostly On Both Sides - We Hate Taking Sides from 2019-01-11T17:10:56

INFJs never really take sides until they have all the information. And we don't really have all the information ever, because there's always more information coming in all the time. So, we reall...

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INFJs Hate The Flock Mentality That Is In Society Today from 2019-01-11T17:09:15

We live in a world right now that is full of sheeple. Or flock mentality. Everyone has to agree with everyone else, or they are labeled an outsider and ostracized. INFJs hate that. We really do....

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INFJs Hate Putting People Down Or Embarrassing People from 2019-01-11T17:08:03

INFJs would rather look foolish themselves than make other people feel foolish or put other people down. That's one of our things.


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INFJs Don't Like Getting Caught In A Lie - So We Don't Lie from 2019-01-11T17:06:33

INFJs are terrible liars, and we have horrible poker faces. So we don't lie. We hate it. We hate getting caught up in it. It's so embarrassing.


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INFJs - Here's How To Become Better At Receiving Criticism from 2019-01-11T17:05:28

INFJs are perfectionists, and we have this insane fear of criticism. We are afraid of criticism because we think it says that we are bad human beings somehow. In this video, I chat about how I h...

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What Are Some Physical Signs That Say Time Out To INFJs? from 2019-01-11T17:03:47

INFJs are major empaths, so they need to take time out when certain things irk them or give them warning signs. How do we know when to take a time out? What are some physical signs?


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INFJs Forget To Eat Food Because It's Unimportant To Them from 2019-01-11T17:02:16

INFJs have this weird thing about food. We love to eat, because we are sensual, and it's delicious. But, we also get distracted and forget to eat food. 


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INFJs Can Be Highly Indecisive Sometimes - Why? from 2019-01-11T17:01:09

A viewer, Atum, asked for this video, and so here it is. Are INFJs decisive or indecisive? It's another one of those paradoxes of our nature. That contradiction that we always are. 


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INFJs Go Through Periods Of Disillusionment With The World from 2019-01-11T16:59:26

INFJs have this weird seesaw they go on every time they think of the world that they live in. They gain some hope for the world and want to believe in the future, and then they lose hope because...

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INFJs Hate When People Expect Us To Laugh At Their Jokes from 2019-01-09T17:52:55

INFJs have this weird thing about humor. Not only do we have a weird sense of humor, but we don't get other people's jokes. So when people are waiting for us to laugh at them, we get really irri...

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Most People Don't Get An INFJ's Sense Of Humor from 2019-01-09T17:51:26

Most people think INFJs are being serious when they are joking or being stupid. They don't get our jokes. They don't get our sense of humor. It's really sad cos we think we are the funniest peop...

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INFJs Can Become Better Communicators Through Practice Alone from 2019-01-09T17:50:17

So many INFJs ask me how I have gotten so good at communicating my thoughts to the world. I tell them the same thing repeatedly - I was a terrible communicator before. Absolutely horrible. It's ...

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Am I An INFJ Or Not? - The Question I Get Asked The Most from 2019-01-09T17:48:53

One of the most common questions I get asked on email or Facebook is if someone is truly an INFJ. It's such a dilemma for so many people. And I wanted to do this episode to answer that dilemma. ...

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INFJs Seem Like They Have Asperger's Or Autism Sometimes from 2019-01-09T17:47:10

INFJs seem like they are Autistic or have Asperger's sometimes. A viewer asked me if all INFJs are actually autistic, or is that just a misdiagnosis? I am not a doctor or an expert. But I share ...

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INFJs Want To Be Platonic With Everyone - Not Romantic from 2019-01-09T17:46:11

INFJs aren't interested in 99% of people. Everyone else is like a brother or sister to them. They want to be platonic with everyone. Only occasionally, their interest gets piqued.


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INFJs - The Onus Is On Us To Make People Understand Us from 2019-01-09T17:44:44

INFJs have certain typical speech patterns - one of them is asking if the person they are chatting with is still with them. We lose so many people on the way to getting somewhere with our conver...

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INFJs Are Mission-Oriented - They Need A Higher Purpose from 2019-01-09T17:43:11

INFJs are mission-oriented, which means we won't do anything we don't truly believe in. We have to believe in something to complete it. That's why we procrastinate so much because we don't belie...

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INFJs Are Terrible At Accepting Praise (No Matter The Source) from 2019-01-09T17:42:03

INFJs are terrible, absolutely terrible at accepting praise. They just have way too high standards for themselves. And that's why we are always striving and working so hard.


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INFJs Are Always Checking Up On Their Insanity Level from 2019-01-09T17:40:38

"Am I insane? Not yet?" INFJs check up on their insanity level several times a day. To make sure they are normal or at least they can pretend to be normal.


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INFJs Are Heartbroken When People Have No Layers To Them from 2019-01-09T17:37:58

INFJs feel extreme sadness, even grief when they meet people who have no layers to them. It is such a terrifying and depressing thing.


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INFJs Fall Into Relationships Only With Absolute Trust from 2019-01-09T17:36:45

INFJs don't get into relationships without a lot of forethought. They need to know, absolutely, that they can trust this person they are going to date. That takes a lot of time and effort.

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INFJs Will Do Anything To Avoid People They Dislike from 2019-01-09T17:35:27

It's very rare that INFJs outright dislike people. Most people we are indifferent to. But sometimes we dislike someone, and we will go to extreme lengths to avoid them.


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INFJs Can Be Extremely Intense And Passionate (Don't Change) from 2019-01-09T17:34:30

INFJs are really intense and passionate but we are told repeatedly, not to be. Don't listen to them and don't worry about being yourself. Just be intense. That's our power.


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INFJs And ENFPs - Can We Date Each Other? from 2019-01-09T17:33:02

In this episode, I speak about my experience with dating an ENFP, and how I don't think I would date an ENFP again. But again, just one INFJ's experience.


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INFJs Have A Very Androgynous Personality from 2019-01-09T17:31:42

INFJs are androgynous, so female INFJs have more masculine qualities, and male INFJs have more feminine qualities. I explain it further in this episode.


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INFJ Speech Patterns Explained Further Here from 2019-01-09T17:30:35

INFJs have this tendency to say, 'Does this make sense?' a lot! It's because of a lot of random reasons that I have explained in this episode.


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INFJs Do Extremely Frightening Instantaneous Mood Shifts from 2019-01-09T17:29:04

INFJs have this weird thing they do. They will go from zero to sixty in a matter of seconds. So they will be happy-go-lucky one second, and the next second, they will rage.


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An INFJs' Gift Lies In Their Shadows - So Use It Wisely from 2019-01-09T17:27:53

So many INFJs messages me saying that they hate themselves because they are so quirky and insane. But I always tell them that their gifts and their greatness lie in their shadows, in those parts...

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INFJs Are Never Looking For More Relationships from 2019-01-09T17:26:16

INFJs are not looking for more relationships. Or more friendships. They are already so exhausted with everything they have on their plate. So don't add it to it, please.


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INFJs Spend Most Of Their Free Time Lost In Thought from 2019-01-08T18:02:22

INFJs spend most of their waking time lost in thought. That's their typical modus operandi. Don't sneak up on them, because it will scare them! That's what happens to me all the time.


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INFJs Aren't Usually Friends With Coworkers from 2019-01-08T18:01:05

INFJs take a long time to trust someone and become their friends. So when we land a new job, we are not usually friends with someone we work with right away. We take a long time. A very long tim...

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INFJs Hate When Someone Comes Into Our Personal Space from 2019-01-08T17:59:54

INFJs hate it when people intrude into their personal space or time or energy. Also, we hate it when people touch us. Don't touch us, okay? Our bodies are not your bodies.


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INFJs Love Luxurious Items But Are Also Minimalists from 2019-01-08T17:58:29

INFJs have this weird thing about wanting luxurious items in their life, but also being afraid that they are being greedy and not minimalist enough. Contradictions as always are INFJs.


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INFJs Care Deeply About People But Have A Hard Time Showing It from 2019-01-08T17:57:19

INFJs care deeply about the people that are in their life, but they can't say it or show it. It's just impossible. How can they show their weakness like this??


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INFJs Gravitate Towards Self-Help Books In The Bookstore from 2019-01-08T17:56:17

INFJs love fiction, because it builds their imagination, but their genuine love is always going to be self-help and psychology novels. It teaches them about themselves and the world they live in...

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INFJs Will Relate To 80% Of Things About INFJs from 2019-01-08T17:54:40

INFJs message me all the time wondering if they are truly INFJ if they don't relate to something I talk about on these episodes. This explains my thoughts on the matter.


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INFJs Feel Lost And Bored If Not Working Towards Goals from 2019-01-08T17:53:06

INFJs need something to work on, some goals, that they themselves set up and that they can check off. That makes them feel like they are doing something worthwhile and worthy on this planet.

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INFJs - Stop Trying To Be Something You Are Not from 2019-01-08T17:51:39

INFJs get influenced sometimes by others into thinking that they should be something they are. I wish I could be more extroverted, which is one thought that comes into their head a lot.


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INFJs - What Does The J In Our Personality Mean? from 2019-01-08T17:49:15

INFJs are judgemental and critical, yes, but that's not all the J in our MBTI personality type stands for. There's much to it, and I wanted to share some of my perspective on it.


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INFJs Can Only Take It So Far Before Going Into HULK Mode from 2019-01-08T17:47:53

INFJs can be the kindest person ever, but they have limits. And once they reach them, they will go into HULK mode immediately with no preambles or warnings. 


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INFJs Attract Random Strangers Like Bee To Honey from 2019-01-08T17:46:38

INFJs will sit somewhere, anywhere, and random strangers will come up to them and start chatting with them. It's rather funny and interesting when that happens.


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Your Special INFJ Likes You If They Do These Four Things from 2019-01-08T17:45:01

So many non-INFJs messages me asking me if their particular INFJ likes them because they are giving them mixed signals or no signals at all. These are our signals, these four things. So use them...

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INFJs Have Suicidal Thoughts Due To Feelings Of Unworthiness from 2019-01-08T17:43:34

INFJs have feelings of worthiness and shame, especially when they are really young. I wanted to do this video because I wanted to let you know that there is hope. There is always hope. 

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INFJs Are A Beacon Of Hope For This Broken World from 2019-01-08T17:42:18

Hope fills an INFJ, no matter what. No matter what is going on in their world, hope fills them. And that's why they are meant to be on this planet, to bring hope to everyone in this world.

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INFJs Can Be The Craziest Person At The Party If In The Mood from 2019-01-08T17:40:53

INFJs can be the craziest person at the party if they are in the mood. We can be the quietest person at the party as well if we are not in the mood. So it really depends on which side of ours yo...

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INFJs Judge People For Being Rude To Service Staff from 2019-01-08T17:39:40

INFJs judge people for being rude to anyone who's in a position lower than them. In fact, I door slam anyone who's rude to service staff. I know that's drastic, but that's what I think.


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INFJs Are Ardent LifeTime Learners Always Asking Why And How from 2019-01-08T17:37:43

INFJs love to learn. They are forever learning, growing, and becoming better and better. They wish to become the best version of themselves through learning. Constantly.


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INFJs Don't Wear Makeup Cos It's Fake And Hypocritical from 2019-01-08T17:36:31

How can an INFJ hate fake people and then be fake themselves? It is hypocritical and therefore, we will not do it. Makeup is the essence of being fake. So it's a simple decision for us.


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Male INFJs Vs Female INFJs - How Do We Compare? from 2019-01-08T17:34:59

So many of you have asked me what the difference between male and female INFJs might be. This episode results from that question. Enjoy!


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INFJs Really Need To Learn To Enjoy The Journey from 2019-01-07T19:05:31

INFJs are so obsessed with end results and end products. We need to know where all of this is going. I get it. But then we forget that there is a life we need to live while we work on the end re...

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INFJs Listen Politely To Advice And Then Do Whatever They Wanted from 2019-01-07T19:04:34

INFJs spend a lot of time in self-reflection and they take a long time to decide. But once they do, it sets them up, and they don't want or need outside interference.


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INFJs Run Alone Because We Feel Unsafe In Packs from 2019-01-07T19:02:46

INFJs don't enjoy hanging out in groups, because we feel even more alone when there are people around us. We would rather run alone, than in packs. Whereas, most people feel safer in packs.

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INFJs Try Very Hard To Avoid Losing Things Or Being Lost from 2019-01-07T19:01:14

INFJs like being in control, and we enjoy being perfect. So, we don't enjoy losing our things or losing our way. We don't enjoy being lost or in an unfamiliar situation.


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INFJs Are Polite To All, But Intimate With Few from 2019-01-07T18:59:29

INFJs love people, we really do, or at least we try to. But we also believe in treat others as you would like to be treated. So we are nice to people, which they mistake as a sign of friendship....

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INFJs Hate When People Talk Or Laugh Loudly To Get Attention from 2019-01-07T18:58:31

INFJs hate loud noises. We despise anything loud, especially for no real apparent reason. So when people speak or laugh loudly, it really irks us.


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INFJs Are Not Impressed By Money, Titles, Or Degrees from 2019-01-07T18:57:01

INFJs are rarely impressed by anything tangible, like fortune, or fame. But we ARE extremely impressed by the intangibles, like kindness, goodness, and generosity.


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INFJs Will See Your Energy And Vibe Even Before You Speak from 2019-01-07T18:55:43

INFJs see everything, and we don't really want to, but we do. So we know you and know what your energy looks like even before you utter a single word. So don't even try to lie. Please don't.

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INFJs Oscillate Between Loving Mankind And Despising Them from 2019-01-07T18:53:49

INFJs have these moments when we love humanity and human nature. And then we have these moments where we truly hate humankind and want to banish them all to hell.


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INFJs Want Everyone To Be Truly Themselves Around Us from 2019-01-07T18:52:38

INFJs want everyone to take off all of their masks and be themselves around us. So that we can really go deep with them without games.


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INFJs Don't Just Like, They Obsess Endlessly from 2019-01-07T18:50:55

INFJs don't just like someone or something. We don't do things by halves. Either we obsess about you or we are indifferent.


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INFJs Spend Their Time Feeling Too Much Or Not Enough from 2019-01-07T18:48:48

INFJs are always thinking either that they are being too much, too intense, or that they are not enough, not worthy enough, not good enough. It's a typical back and forth with us.


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INFJs Will Never Misuse What You Share With Them from 2019-01-07T18:47:05

INFJs will never ever misuse the secrets that you hand to them. We will treat them as carefully as if they were our own. You can rest assured.


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INFJs Greatly Enjoy Being A Mysterious Puzzle Piece from 2019-01-07T18:45:45

INFJs want to be a mystery, we don't want people to know anything about us. It irks us and scares us when people figure out anything about us. Eeek!


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INFJs Love Discussing Weird, Deep Topics With Everyone from 2019-01-07T18:44:43

INFJs love discussing weird, deep topics with new people. It helps us realize what people are really like, and how they think, and if we can be friends with them.


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INFJs Think They Are Broken, And Want Someone To Save Them from 2019-01-07T18:43:18

INFJs are always under the mistaken impression that they are broken, that there's something wrong with them, and that they need fixing. You are not broken, and you don't need saving. 

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INFJs Get Really Excited When Plans Get Cancelled from 2019-01-07T18:42:11

It would disappoint most people when plans get canceled, but not us. INFJs love it when plans get canceled because then we get to hang out on our own, and that's just so much fun.


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INFJs Are Never Truly Alone - We Always Have Our Imagination from 2019-01-07T18:40:45

INFJs are never ever truly alone, even if we are technically alone. We have myriad worlds in our heads, and we have imaginary people around us all the time. How can we be alone?


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INFJs' Spoken Word Is Like A Binding Contract from 2019-01-07T18:39:31

INFJs word is like a spoken contract. If they say they are going to do something, they are going to do something. That's all. There is no doubt about it.


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INFJs Look Intimidating To Drive Weak People Away from 2019-01-07T18:38:09

INFJs have this tendency, without even trying, of looking intimidating and intense. We don't even have to try at it, but we do use it in order to drive weak, fake, and unwanted people away.

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INFJs Hate Bullies - We Are Advocates For The Weak from 2019-01-05T21:40:46

INFJs hate anyone in the world who puts other people down or takes advantage of other people who are in a weaker position than them. It is one of our biggest pet peeves.


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INFJs And Bitterness - Do They Even Go Together? from 2019-01-05T21:39:30

INFJs can become bitter, right? I don't think so, and that's what I try to prove in this video of mine. Listen and learn.


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INFJs Are The Kindest Evil People In The World from 2019-01-05T21:38:08

INFJs are kind. Or they can be. Until you push them and then they are evil. We have both sides in us. So don't mistake one side for all of us.


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INFJs - Forgive Yourself For The Perfection You Haven't Achieved from 2019-01-05T21:36:41

INFJs are imperfect, but they forget that significant fact when they are moving about this world. They forget to be nice to themselves if they end up making mistakes. This episode is a reminder....

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INFJs Are Mad Loyal To The Things And People They Love from 2019-01-05T21:34:38

INFJs love the things they love to a fault. And they hate the things they hate, also to a fault. We are always living at extremes.


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INFJs Are Private And Quiet Individuals from 2019-01-05T21:33:31

INFJs have a very hard time revealing anything about themselves to the world. We are quiet for a reason because we are private people. We don't enjoy sharing. Period.


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INFJs - Here's An Alternate Doorslam Confession from 2019-01-05T21:31:32

INFJs door slam. Yes, we do that to get rid of toxic energy. But we also have an alternative way of getting rid of people from our life. 


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INFJs Crave Harmony But Conflict Seeks Them Out More from 2019-01-05T21:29:17

INFJs crave harmony like a fish craves water. But conflict seeks us out because they need us to fix them or heal them or whatever it might be.


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INFJs Need To Become Better At Translating Thoughts Into Words from 2019-01-05T21:27:51

INFJs have lots of thoughts that run really fast, and into each other. So when it comes out, it's a complete mess.


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INFJs End Up In Leadership Roles Even Though They Hate It from 2019-01-05T21:26:35

Why do INFJs always end up in leadership roles, even though we hate being leaders so much? We despise being in the spotlight, but people place us there all the time.


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INFJs Are Always Worried About Revealing Too Much from 2019-01-05T21:24:46

INFJs have this weird thing about privacy. We don't want to reveal too much about ourselves to people, so we are always asking ourselves, what am I revealing by saying this?


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INFJs Have A Powerful Psychic Ability That Sees All from 2019-01-05T21:22:12

INFJs sometimes seem to know it all, not because we actually know it all, but because we are great at observing the world and forming connections. We see everything. So don't be afraid of us. Listen

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INFJs Spend A Lot Of Time In Existential Contemplation from 2019-01-05T21:20:45

INFJs are brooders, and we spend a lot of our time brooding on our existence. Why am I here? This is a question we ask ourselves a lot. A lot, a lot.


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INFJs Are Always Checking The Time, As They Live In The Future from 2019-01-05T21:15:13

INFJs live in a different world. A world that's not here right now. So they don't know what date it is, or what time, or what year. They have no clue. So don't ask them.


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INFJs Are Demisexuals - Emotional Over Physical Attraction from 2019-01-05T21:14:05

INFJs are more attracted to an emotional connection, rather than a physical body. They are demisexual. We need an emotional connection to have a sexual attraction, not the other way around.

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INFJs Need Hours Of Psyching Up In Order To Go Out from 2019-01-05T21:12:42

INFJs are true introverts. They fear the outdoors, and other people. They want to be on their own. They want to stay at home. Sometimes they do go out, but they need hours of psyching up to do s...

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INFJs Love Music Because It Speaks For Them from 2019-01-05T21:11:22

So many INFJs have told me that music is really important to them because it helps them speak about their emotions and feelings when they can't find their own words. It's so useful to us.

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INFJs Need To Make An Impact To Be Proud Of Who They Are from 2019-01-05T21:07:35

INFJs are unique individuals, but we have this need inside of us. We need to create an impact on this planet in order to feel proud of who we are and worthy of this life.


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INFJs Are Terrible At Dating Websites In General from 2019-01-05T21:06:23

INFJs are absolutely horrendous at dating websites. We don't know how to use them, and we don't know how to deal with people who are on these dating websites.


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This Is What INFJ Rage Looks Like - So Be Aware And Careful from 2019-01-05T21:04:55

Yes, we are nice. INFJs can be the nicest people on this planet. But, and this is a big but, we can also get angry and once we get angry, you will see a side to us that is absolutely horrifying ...

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Leave INFJs Alone When We Retreat Into Our Caves from 2019-01-04T16:57:12

When people message me about wanting to date INFJs, or being with one, and being confused about their caves, I say this. When we are in our caves, leave us alone. For however long it takes. Do n...

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INFJs Are Not Joiners - Don't Ask Us To Join Your Team from 2019-01-04T16:56:11

INFJs are not joiners by heart or head. We don't want to be part of your clique or your team. We are happy being on our own, and we hate it when groups exclude others for being themselves. Reall...

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INFJs Don't Like Hogging Space Or Stuff - It's Not Fair from 2019-01-04T16:54:30

INFJs have a weird sense of justice, and part of it includes hogging stuff or space. It's not fair, so don't do it around them. Or we will door-slam you. :) Fair warning.


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INFJs Don't Like Asking For References (It's Icky) from 2019-01-04T16:53:29

INFJs don't like asking others for help, and asking for reference is just part of it. We want people to know us for our qualities, not for what someone else says about us.


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INFJs Are Either Hated Or Loved - No Middle Ground from 2019-01-04T16:51:52

It's weird how the world is so divided upon INFJs. People either hate us or love us. There's no middle ground with us.


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INFJs Empathize Equally With Prey And Predator from 2019-01-04T16:49:20

INFJs have a weird empathy system, where they feel bad for both the prey and the predator equally. They are both in pain, so we should empathize with both of them equally. At least according to ...

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How To Find INFJs If We Are Always Hiding, And Rare? from 2019-01-04T16:48:02

So many MBTI personality types message me asking me how to find an INFJ for themselves. They want to hunt for them, but they don't know where to go.


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INFJs Can Reduce Anxiety And Worrying By Using Lists from 2019-01-04T16:46:55

INFJs spend a lot of time in anxiety mode. Worrying about the present, worrying about the past, and about the future. I use lists to get over the worry. But I also know that it can make me too r...

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INFJs - Here's How To Turn Off Your Empathic Nature from 2019-01-04T16:45:12

It isn't easy for us to be INFJs all the time - open, caring, empathic. It's actually quite easy for us to burnout if we are always on. So here's what I do to turn myself off for a few hours to ...

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INFJs Start Off Thinking People Are Not To Be Trusted from 2019-01-04T16:42:14

I want you guys to believe that people are inherently good. Even though that might not be the case every time, let's start off believing that as INFJs. We should and must have hope.


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INFJs Cry At All The Small Things, But Not The Big Ones from 2019-01-04T16:40:51

It's weird being an INFJ sometimes. We are forever explaining to others, why certain things bother us so much, and other things that should technically bother us, don't. Ugh.


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INFJs Hate People Having A False Image Of Them from 2019-01-04T16:39:37

INFJs hate it when people have a weird false image of them. It feels like they are lying to them somehow, and they want to correct any untruths right away. It's imperative.


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Why I Think INFJs Have A Hard Time With Traditional Justice from 2019-01-04T16:38:10

People have been asking me if they think INFJs would be skilled lawyers or judges. And what we think about justice. I wanted to do this episode to explain my viewpoints on it.


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INFJs Love, Love, Love Directness And Honesty from 2019-01-04T16:36:33

INFJs love it when people around them are really honest. And direct about their feelings and emotions. It is so important to them. Words can't describe it.


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INFJs Have Hundreds Of Layers That Are Revealed Over Time from 2019-01-04T16:35:20

Everyone has many layers to them, but I feel like INFJs have more layers than anyone I really know. So many freaking layers that it's a little crazy. Listen and learn.


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Why Do INFJs Have Trust Issues?? from 2019-01-04T16:33:35

INFJs have trust issues. Period. That's the gist of us, and of our relationship problems.


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INFJs Think Being Helpless Or Hopeless Is The Worst Thing Ever from 2019-01-04T16:32:09

INFJs think being helpless is the worst thing on the planet. They would rather die than rely on someone else. It's not a wonderful quality of ours. It makes us strong, but it also makes us alone...

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INFJs Work Well In Non-Traditional Relationships (I Think) from 2019-01-04T16:30:26

This was a really hard video for me to create, so be easy on me. It's an important topic to talk about, but definitely triggering.


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INFJs Crave Order In Trivial Ways To Feel Sane Again from 2019-01-04T16:28:51

INFJs like routines and they don't like those to be disturbed. But sometimes it's hard to have those big routines, so we can bring sanity into our lives in small, trivial ways.


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If You Want To Be With An INFJ, Take It Real Slow from 2019-01-04T16:27:20

INFJs are fast in most ways, but in relationships, we are slow as hell. We like to take our time with it, so be patient with us, please.


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INFJs And Their Ideal Jobs - Some Of My Thoughts from 2019-01-03T16:56:30

INFJs have a hard time working in traditional jobs. It is an unfortunate thing, but it's the truth. We hate open-concept offices, and we despise noisy environments. Here's what I think would be ...

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INFJs Are Good Social Chameleons from 2019-01-03T16:55:05

INFJs can be chameleons in any setting, but specifically so, in a social setting. We change and mold ourselves to the people around us, especially at a social event.


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Do INFJs Become INFJs Over Several Lifetimes? from 2019-01-03T16:54:01

Do INFJs become INFJs over several lifetimes? Or are we born this way? I answer this question with my belief system. Take a listen and let me know what you think.


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If An INFJ Is Weird Around You, They Are Comfortable from 2019-01-03T16:52:37

INFJs have a hard time being themselves because they have been told so often to be normal. They hide their true selves, normally. But if they are abnormal around you, that means they trust and l...

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The Myth Of The Good Little INFJ Busted! from 2019-01-03T16:51:37

INFJs are not good little people. They are not always nice. In fact, they can be downright mean and touchy. Get used to it. Don't make us apologize for that.


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INFJs Have A Lot Of Emotional Bursts (And How To Deal) from 2019-01-03T16:50:14

INFJs feel a lot - they are feelers all the time. Feeling sometimes too much and wanting it all to stop. How to make it stop? How to deal with it properly? Let's chat.


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INFJs Are Usually A Jack Of All Trades (A Generalist) from 2019-01-03T16:49:10

Should INFJs stick to being a jack of all trades, or should they specialize? What works better in this world? What do you think?


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INFJs Hate Having Their Routines Disturbed (It Irks Them) from 2019-01-03T16:47:51

INFJs always have strict routines with their days, and they hate, absolutely hate having it disturbed or disrupted by anything. Really, just don't.


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Two INFJs Dating Each Other - Would It Work Or Not? from 2019-01-03T16:46:47

INFJs can date each other, can't they? I mean, they would understand each other, right? That could work. Here's what I think about that.


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INFJs Have Background Music Running Constantly In Their Heads from 2019-01-03T16:45:19

INFJs have told me this more than once - they have this background music or hum running in their heads or minds constantly, all the time, without fail, without stop.


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INFJs Spend 75% Of Their Time Alone (And They Love It) from 2019-01-03T16:44:03

INFJs love spending time on their own, and it isn't because they don't like people. We love people, but we love being on our own so we can ask ourselves the important questions about life - why ...

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INFJs Get Overstimulated Very Quickly (And Then We Run) from 2019-01-03T16:41:32

INFJs don't like to go to hair salons, malls, or social events. Because we get overstimulated so quickly, and then we want to run and hide. Eek!


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Why Are INFJs So Freaking Secretive? Why? from 2019-01-03T16:40:34

We will share random details about our life without blinking an eye, but INFJs have this weird thing about secretive about certain details. Why??


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INFJs Are Not Happy If Their Partners Are Not Happy from 2019-01-03T16:39:20

INFJs find it impossible to be happy if their partners are not happy. It's just not possible. Just not. Don't even ask why.


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About This INFJ - Where I Live, What I Do For Fun And Work? from 2019-01-03T16:38:23

So many of you ask me questions about my life, what I do, where I live, and so on. So here it is. :)


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To An INFJ, A Doorslammed Person Is Essentially Dead from 2019-01-03T16:37:04

I have done videos on door slamming, and how we do it, and why we do it. But I haven't done a video on what do we do after we door slam??


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INFJs Are Terrible At Receiving Criticism Gracefully from 2019-01-03T16:35

INFJs get upset when someone criticizes them or we feel threatened or defensive. I want to show you how I have learned to accept feedback gracefully and properly over the past few years.


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INFJs Don't Like Making Their Good Deeds Visible from 2019-01-03T16:33:12

INFJs don't enjoy making their good deeds visible. It makes them feel weird about it. They don't want to do good deeds because they want to get credit for it or karma points. They want to do it ...

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INFJs Have No Middle Ground - Either Obsessed Or Indifferent from 2019-01-03T16:31:50

INFJs really don't have any middle ground in life. We are all in or we don't give a care. That's all. Either extreme. Nothing in the middle.


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INFJs Deal With Insomnia Often With Minds That Don't Shut Off from 2019-01-03T16:30:09

INFJs have a mind that is forever moving and moving and moving. It never stops. Not even at night. So we spend a lot of time lying in bed, counting sheep, wanting to sleep, but unable to sleep.<...

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INFJs Hide In The Kitchen At Family Gatherings from 2019-01-03T16:28:33

INFJs are not good with crowds. We just aren't. But what we do at family gatherings, where emotions are really charged, is something different. We hide in the kitchen. Are you serious, you might...

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INFJs Love Abstract Conversations And Concepts from 2019-01-02T16:20:12

INFJs have a weird way of looking at the world. We look at, think about, and speak about everything, in abstract terms.


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INFJs - Try To Spend A Few Hours A Week Being Truly You from 2019-01-02T16:19:12

INFJs spend a lot of time being chameleons. It's what we do. That's why I take a few hours off every day now (used to be every week), being truly myself. Don't know what your true self looks lik...

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INFJs Have This Deep Bond With Their Siblings from 2019-01-02T16:18:13

INFJs are extremely loyal and kind to their siblings. In fact, they are usually super blind to their siblings' faults. They love them and no one can say two bits about them. Otherwise, it's war....

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INFJs - Our Opinion On God, And Religion from 2019-01-02T16:17:19

What do INFJs think about organized religion, and how do they see God? This is what I have gathered from conversations with my viewers. 


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INFJs Despise Being The Centre Of Attention from 2019-01-02T16:16:09

INFJs don't enjoy being the center of attention. We want the spotlight far away from us. Far, far, far away. That's an INFJ thing.


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INFJs Can Always Sense Other People's Personality Types from 2019-01-02T16:15:12

No matter how long I have known someone, from the point I meet them, I know things about them they haven't actually told me. It's an INFJ thing. We are so intuitive, it's scary.


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How To Tell If An INFJ Likes Someone For Their Brain Or Body? from 2019-01-02T16:14:03

A non-INFJ viewer asked me this question. How do I tell if an INFJ is interested in me, fully, or is just interested in my body and is lusting after me? And this is the episode I created as a re...

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INFJs Need Constant Feedback From Everyone Around Them from 2019-01-02T16:12:38

INFJs need feedback, positive or negative, it doesn't matter. But we want to know we are getting better.


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INFJs Get Attached To Inanimate Objects (More Than People) from 2019-01-02T16:09:43

INFJs get really attached to inanimate objects. It's a little odd, how that works out. I don't get it, myself. I am strange when I do that.


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INFJs Listen A 100 Times More Than They Speak from 2019-01-02T16:08:44

INFJs spend 100 times more time listening and observing, rather than speaking. We are quiet for a reason. We don't speak unless absolutely necessary.


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INFJs Have A Hard Time Showing Weakness from 2019-01-02T16:04:53

INFJs have a hard time showing our soft side, our underbelly, our vulnerabilities. We want to be strong all the time. But we are not.


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INFJs Have A Non-Existent Mind Body Connection from 2019-01-02T16:03:48

INFJs have a hard time realizing that they are not only mind but also body. That's why we have a hard time with physical experiences.


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Do INFJs Even Feel Emotions?? Or Are We Robots? from 2019-01-02T16:02:39

Sometimes I wonder about myself. Do I have feelings? Do I even care? Or am I a robot? I don't know. It's a complete mystery to me.


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INFJs And Our Dark Side - What Is It All About? from 2019-01-02T16:01:42

A viewer asked me to expound on our dark side, and so I am. I hope this makes sense to all of your outstanding viewers. It is definitely a difficult topic to chat about.


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INFJs Do Not Want To Inconvenience Others from 2019-01-02T16:00:36

INFJs do not want to inconvenience others. They don't want to cause a ruckus. They want to ensure everything runs as smoothly as possible.


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INFJs Run Away When The Chameleon Effect Takes Place from 2019-01-02T15:59:28

INFJs have a tendency to run away and hide whenever they realize they have been playing the role of the chameleon, rather than being their own person.

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INFJs Would Do Great On A Deserted Island (Or Would They?) from 2019-01-02T15:58:25

A viewer said INFJs would do great on a deserted island, and I wondered to myself if that is actually true. What do you think?


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INFJs Deal With Intense Emotional Bursts This Way from 2019-01-02T15:57:26

INFJs are very intense human beings, and they feel deeply. But how do they deal with such intense emotions? What can they do to quell the tide of these feelings??


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INFJs Don't Remember To Eat Or Sleep - It's A Hassle To Them from 2019-01-01T18:36:50

INFJs don't realize that they are a body and a mind. So they forget to eat, or sleep, or drink water, or pee. It's really a major issue with us. We need to remember that we have a body and we ne...

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INFJs And One-Sided Loves - How To Try To Get Over Them from 2019-01-01T18:35:54

INFJs have obsessive personalities, so we fall into these one-sided loves pretty often. That's why this viewer asked me to do this episode. Check it out and let me know what you think.


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INFJs Love, Absolutely Love, Deep, Probing Conversations from 2019-01-01T18:34:38

INFJs absolutely love deep conversations. They want those more than they want to breathe. They hate small talk, and they love those ethereal conversations. Please more, they say.


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INFJs And Sexuality - A Preliminary Look At It from 2019-01-01T18:33:18

INFJs have an interesting way of looking at sex and sexuality. I am going to delve deeper into it, but this episode is just the first look at it. Let me know what you think.


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INFJs Thrive When They Live On Their Own (No Roommates!) from 2019-01-01T18:32:08

INFJs thrive, really thrive when they live on their own. No roommates, no parents, no one else. Just them, and their own stuff, and energies to deal with. Believe me, I know.


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INFJs Can Sense When Someone Around Them Is Fighting from 2019-01-01T18:31:10

INFJs can always tell when someone around them is experiencing some intense negative or positive emotion. It's just a weird sense we have. Not unlike a sixth sense, but is it useful?


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INFJs Are Ardent Learners - We Love To Learn from 2019-01-01T18:30:03

INFJs love to learn - about themselves, about this world, about the people in this world, random topics, quirky topics, and everything else. We get obsessed and we learn to the max.


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INFJs Prefer Listening To Speaking Anytime from 2019-01-01T18:29:09

INFJs know that it's easy to speak, but hard to listen. The people who listen more, have more data to work with and end up sounding smarter than the ones who speak too much and don't listen. We ...

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INFJs Think Intelligence Is A Major Turn-On from 2019-01-01T18:28:06

INFJs don't care about physical attractiveness. They are more interested in intelligence as a turn-on. They know how fickle physical beauty can be. But intelligence lasts forever.


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INFJs Need A Clear Sign Of Interest From The Other Side from 2019-01-01T18:27:13

INFJs are afraid to make the first move and look foolish. We are always forever waiting to make that move. That's our thing. But if you show us one sign of interest, it's a completely different ...

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INFJs Stand On The Side Of Justice Always from 2019-01-01T18:25:52

INFJs have this weird sense of justice, and they are always forever tweaking it based on additional information. It's the way they look at the world, in a forever-changing cloud of reform.

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INFJs Start Reading People From A Very Young Age from 2019-01-01T18:24:32

INFJs start reading people from a very young age, because they need to, in order to understand the surrounding situations, especially if they were brought up in a volatile home. With lots of fig...

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INFJs Want To Make People Happy And Comfortable from 2019-01-01T18:03:53

INFJs want to make the important people in their lives comfortable and happy. They care a lot. Even if people think they don't. But making someone else happy isn't possible. It's not possible, p...

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INFJs vs INFPs - What's The Difference Between Them? from 2019-01-01T18:02:58

What is the difference between an INFJ and INFP, a viewer asked me? They were confused if they were one or the other. I created this episode to answer, and I hope it helps.


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INFJs - Get Rid Of The Controlling People In Your Life from 2019-01-01T18:01:51

A viewer asked me a question about how INFJs should deal with controlling and manipulative people. I created this podcast episode to answer because that's what I do. But I don't know if everyone...

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INFJs Are The Secret Keepers Of This Realm from 2019-01-01T18:00:18

INFJs are given secrets. All the time. People tell them things all the time. We become holders of secrets. Deep and dark ones. That's our gift. And our privilege.


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INFJs Are A Complete Mystery To Themselves from 2019-01-01T17:59:17

INFJs don't know themselves, even if they have been studying themselves for ages. They don't know themselves at all. Not even a bit. So don't ask them. They don't know. I'm serious.


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INFJs Are Always Questioning Their Sanity (Seriously!) from 2019-01-01T17:58:13

INFJs are always wondering quietly and loudly if they are insane. I mean, we do a lot of crazy, quirky, and insane things. So perhaps we are. Or perhaps, we are just normal in our way weird way....

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INFJs Always Get Everywhere Super Early from 2019-01-01T17:57:17

INFJs have this weird and annoying habit of getting everywhere really early. Why? Well, we need to do recon, and we hate making people wait. Because we hate waiting. Is this a conundrum I sense?...

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10 Ways INFJs Seem Bipolar To The World (Normal To Us) from 2019-01-01T17:56:19

INFJs are not bipolar. But we come across because we are filled with so many contradictions. There are too many to list, but I will speak about ten in this episode. Enjoy!


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INFJs Do Not Trust So-Called Experts (Heebie-Jeebie Alert) from 2019-01-01T17:55:11

INFJs know that mastery of anything is impossible. No one can know anything and everything on a subject. The term 'expert' is a misnomer. No one is really an expert. So when people proclaim it, ...

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4 Everyday Tools INFJs Can Use To Protect Their Hearts from 2019-01-01T17:54:05

INFJs are always looking to protect their hearts and their energies from the surrounding negativity. It is something that is imperative for them to be alive here now. These are four tools that I...

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INFJs Make Invisible Beings Visible By Really Seeing Them from 2018-12-31T17:52:56

INFJs have a tendency to make eye contact with people who are normally unseen and unheard. That's why people tell us their secrets because, for the very first time, someone has seen them!

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INFJs Get Free Stuff All The Freaking Time (It's Scary) from 2018-12-31T17:51:34

It's weird how often INFJs end up getting free stuff. It's like people love us or something! I know it's weird but true. We are likable and people want to give us stuff. Keep the circle of trust...

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INFJs Tell Everyone They Meet Of Their Numerous Flaws from 2018-12-31T17:50:35

INFJs know they are flawed, and they know it really clearly. So they keep that in mind before and after they meet anyone knew. They want everyone to know everything about them. So they tell ever...

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INFJs Can Be Very Decisive In Their Day-To-Day Life from 2018-12-31T17:49:33

INFJs are some of the most decisive people you will meet. They know what they want and they stick to it unless some additional information meets their eye that changes their parameters. Black an...

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INFJs Love Recon Missions In Unfamiliar Situations from 2018-12-31T17:48:14

INFJs don't like unfamiliar situations. We like to be in control of everything. Or at least in a semblance of control. So we go out to recon every unfamiliar situation beforehand to get knowledg...

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INFJs Love Online Shopping And Shopping Alone from 2018-12-31T17:47:19

Let's face it. INFJs are introverts at heart. When we have people around us, we get distracted, and tired, and cranky. We need a lot of time alone. When we are shopping, we prefer to shop alone....

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INFJs Are Trusted By All Beings Without Question from 2018-12-31T17:46:14

INFJs have this weird combination of intense stares, gullible personalities, and trustworthy personas. Everyone trusts us, from animals to humans to children. It's a weird thing for sure.

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INFJs Hold The Emotions Of The People Around Them from 2018-12-31T17:45:09

Sometimes, I will feel something from another person and not realize that I am taking on their emotions as an empath does. It's actually quite scary. Not knowing if that emotion is mine or someo...

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INFJs Like One-On-One Interactions The Best from 2018-12-31T17:27:47

We could interact with a crowd of people as INFJs, but it would drain us faster than we could say Geronimo. We hate it. We prefer one-on-one interactions with deep long conversations. They are s...

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INFJs Never Ever Make The First Move, Ever from 2018-12-31T17:26:50

INFJs have trust issues, and we are afraid to be vulnerable. So we have a hard time making the first move in a relationship or a friendship. We will wait forever to do it, and then it's too late...

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INFJs Think They Are Only 10% Good (The Rest Is...) from 2018-12-31T17:25:56

INFJs think they are not good people. That's the burden we bear. We hate ourselves or think ourselves unworthy. We are bad. We are not good. We deserve nothing good.


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INFJs Have No Filter On Their Thoughts And Words from 2018-12-31T17:25

INFJs have no filter. They blurt out things that they should have kept inside of them tightly locked on a leash. They are socially awkward in that way sometimes. Are you?


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INFJs Love To People Watch And Gather Data from 2018-12-31T17:23:56

INFJs are constantly gathering information and data about humanity. They are watching, learning, and analyzing. That's what they do. That's what I do, at least. What about you?


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INFJs Need To Have Meaningful Careers (It's All Or Nothing) from 2018-12-31T17:22:56

INFJs need meaning in their work. Without it, we get bored, lose interest, and go off the rails. We can't work at something if it doesn't have a meaningful impact on us.


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INFJs Are Called Old Souls - What Does That Mean?? from 2018-12-31T17:21:10

A viewer on my YouTube channel suggested this topic - why are INFJs considered to be old souls? What does that mean? In this video, I explain a little more of what I think it means. Enjoy!

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INFJs - This Is How I Get Myself To Be Social And Outgoing from 2018-12-31T17:18:56

Sometimes it's easy to be social. But most times for an INFJ, being social is like pulling teeth. We hate it. We would rather do anything else. But we are social beings, and we need sometimes to...

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INFJs Spend A Lot Of Time In Their Shame Spirals from 2018-12-31T17:17:59

INFJs hold themselves to such impossibly high standards that they can never reach them, and they deal with shame regularly. The feeling of never being good enough, no matter what they do. Do you...

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INFJs Are Usually Ten Steps Ahead In A Conversation from 2018-12-31T17:16:57

Does this happen to you, INFJs? You are ten times ahead in a conversation and everyone else is having a hard time catching up? C'mon, people! 


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INFJs Don't Like Leaving Their Caves For Anything from 2018-12-31T17:15:42

INFJs have a lot of introverted needs. We need to stay at home for long periods of time. Sometimes for weeks on end. We love our caves. We don't enjoy going out. Unless absolutely necessary.

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INFJs Are Absolutely Crappy At Dating And Flirting (Part 2) from 2018-12-31T17:14:33

So many of you related to the episode I did about flirting and dating, and how INFJs are miserable at this. I promised a part 2, and here it is. Enjoy!


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INFJs Think They Are Born Broken And Imperfect from 2018-12-29T18:06:29

So many of you message me on the daily saying that you thought for the longest time that there was something wrong with you, that you were broken somehow, and slowly, you realize that you are no...

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INFJs Crave Harmony Within And Without Themselves from 2018-12-29T18:05:30

We want harmony around us and inside us. It is paramount to our mental sanity. So what do we do about that and how do we bring it about?? The episode explains further.


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INFJs Will Not Give Compliments Willy-Nilly from 2018-12-29T18:04:23

So we have a hard time with fake-ness not only with others but within ourselves. We are very careful giving out compliments, because we don't want to give them for the sake of giving them, but b...

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INFJ Children Are Obsessed With Death And Misunderstood from 2018-12-29T18:01:38

In this episode, I chat about how I was as a child. How obsessed I was with death and dying. How much fear I had all the time. And how misunderstood I was because I was too intensely emotional.<...

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INFJs Have A Weird Way Of Friending And Unfriending People from 2018-12-29T18:00:29

INFJs love people and we hate people. We want to be around people and we want to be in our cave. We gather friends, and then we run away from said friends. We are so freaking complicated and ann...

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INFJs Are Absolutely Crappy At Dating And Flirting from 2018-12-29T17:58:50

INFJs are so great at so many things, but one thing we are terrible at is dating. We can't do it. We do not know how to do it. How to tell someone we like them?? Oh god, what a conundrum. Can't ...

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INFJs Have Extremely Obsessive Personalities from 2018-12-29T17:57:53

I can listen to a song I love a million times over. When I get obsessed with something, I am super obsessed. I am crazy obsessed. I am madly obsessed. That's the INFJ in me. 


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INFJs Behave Like This At Parties from 2018-12-29T17:56:42

Recently, I went to a party with 150-200 people. I wanted to share my experience with you guys, and how I behaved in a typical INFJ manner at this party. Hopefully sparks some recognition in you...

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INFJs Have Bad Postures As They Try To Hide Themselves from 2018-12-29T17:55:20

INFJs want to hide from the world. We don't want to be in the spotlight. We do that physically by cowering and hiding our hearts. We have terrible postures. But the world still finds us. Because...

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INFJs Spend A Lot Of Time Daydreaming And That's Good from 2018-12-29T17:54:09

INFJs love to spend a lot of time in their heads. And they spend a lot of that time daydreaming, letting their mind wander through the world on its own escapade. It's lovely, and it's great for ...

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INFJs Are Not Flirting When They Stare Deep Into Your Eyes from 2018-12-29T17:25:56

INFJs are all about learning about the human beings around them as quickly as possible, to see where they stand. So they stare intensely into your eyes, to learn about you. But weirdly enough, e...

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INFJs Love Being Unique And Rare (But Also Crave Being Normal) from 2018-12-29T17:24:51

It's the mass of contradictions in INFJs, showing up again. We want to be weird and quirky, in fact, we love being rare. But we also crave being normal. Being the same as everyone else. Not stan...

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INFJs, Stop Engaging With Negativity Right Now! from 2018-12-29T17:23:49

INFJs get stressed out by negative energy, but it follows us around like a moth to a flame. So what do we do? We engage with it; we let it affect us, and then we spend a lot of time exhausted an...

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INFJs Pendulate Between Extreme Emotions And Extreme Logic from 2018-12-29T17:22:50

INFJs have this tendency to be feelers, but because we are afraid to feel so much and it can be overwhelming, so then we go into stages of extreme logic and control. Back and forth, like a pendu...

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INFJs Need A LOT Of Silence, And Alone Time from 2018-12-29T17:21:30

INFJs are always hungry for peace, solitude, silence, and alone time. We crave it, and we want it bad. Especially after we have spent so much of our time giving and giving, we need to go back ho...

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INFJs Have Really Thick Walls/Boundaries Surrounding Them from 2018-12-29T17:20:08

We have such thick walls, or boundaries, surrounding our hearts, minds, and bodies. It is an INFJ thing. You might peel off one layer, and there will be a hundred more below.


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INFJs Laugh Out Loud To Themselves In Public A Lot from 2018-12-29T17:18:39

I get so many people asking me why I am laughing out loud at nothing in public while I am walking around or sitting by myself. It is a mystery to them.


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INFJs Need To Be Extremely Careful Of Their Environments from 2018-12-29T17:17:15

INFJs need to be careful of the city they live in, the country, the apartment, the suburb, the circle, the job! Everything. It is crucial we take care of our environments, to maintain our sanity...

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INFJs Survive In Crowds By Using These Techniques from 2018-12-29T17:15:49

INFJs are not good with crowds, or a lot of randomly mixed energies. But sometimes the best things happen in a crowd, like a beautiful lantern festival. This is how I survive in a crowd.


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INFJs Recharge By Retreating Into Their Mental Inner World from 2018-12-29T17:14:13

INFJs come across as self-assured, self-reliant, and independent. We come across as not needing anyone but ourselves. Why? I analyzed it, and this is my conclusion.


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INFJs Need To Schedule In Sleep And Meals from 2018-12-23T22:10:27

We are terrible at taking care of our own bodily needs. I recommend we schedule our meals, sleep, and other important things, so we can take care of ourselves automatically.


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When Two INFJs Door Slam Each Other from 2018-12-23T22:09:18

What happens when two INFJs door slam each other? Does a tree make a noise if it falls in a forest and no one hears it?


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INFJs Have A Weird Sense Of Justice from 2018-12-23T22:08:05

INFJs have a weird sense of looking at the world. It all has to be balanced, or equal, and I explain more in the video.


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INFJs Don't Know All The Answers - Stop Asking Them Questions from 2018-12-23T22:06:47

No one else knows your life's path and answers better than you. Don't ask an INFJ, even though we are supposed to be confidants, counselors, and protectors.


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INFJs Don't Like Clingy Or Needy People from 2018-12-23T22:05:29

I don't know if this is an INFJ thing or just my thing, but I dislike neediness in people. When people are too needy or clingy, then I want to run in the opposite direction. Eeek!!


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INFJs - Stop Trying To Save Everyone Around You from 2018-12-23T22:04:19

We are not the saviors of this planet. We are not counselors, or therapists, or social workers. We cannot save everyone. Especially those people who don't want to be saved. Stop wasting your tim...

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INFJ Are Chameleons - So What Does Our Real Self Look Like? from 2018-12-23T22:02:58

If we are always playing the chameleon role to fit in and make people trust us, then what does our real self look like?? Do you know? Have you ever shown it to people?


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INFJs Need Major Bribing To Be Social from 2018-12-23T22:00:50

We love it when we are out and about, but to get us INFJs out there is a major endeavor in analysis, bribing, and forcing. We have to be forcibly ejected from our caves to be social.


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INFJs Seem Cold And Unemotional On The Outside from 2018-12-23T21:59:22

While we can be really emotional on the inside, we have a really hard time displaying that emotionality on the outside, as we are afraid of alarming people who think of us as their rock.


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INFJs Have Trouble Asking For Help from 2018-12-23T21:57:32

INFJs want to seem perfect, so we don't ask for help. But that isolates us and makes us an island. And no man is an island, people!


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INFJs Have These Intense Soul-Piercing Stares from 2018-12-17T22:40:22

Have you ever been told to stop staring at people, because your gaze is freaking them out?? Ha! INFJs seem to have that unnerving effect on people because we are literally staring/gazing into yo...

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INFJs' Dreams Turn Into Reality Scarily Often from 2018-12-17T22:39:13

So many times I have dreams that come true in actual life as if I am predicting the future or seeing into that other dimension. I don't know what that is about, but perhaps it is our powerful in...

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INFJs Get Asked For Directions A Lot, Literally, Metaphorically from 2018-12-17T22:37:59

Do you get asked for directions a lot? I will be walking on the street and random people will ask me how to get to where they want to get to. And I will be at a party and people will ask me what...

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INFJs Have A Lot Of Anxiety - Nature And Meditation Helps from 2018-12-17T22:36:45

We have a lot of anxiety as an INFJ, because we spend way too much time in our heads, analyzing, thinking, and pondering. Time in nature really helps with bringing us back to our bodies, and bac...

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INFJs Don't Understand Why People Like Them from 2018-12-17T22:35:28

Maybe this is just me, but I don't get why people like me and want to hang out with me. I'm always surprised when people tell me they like me and miss me and want to see me. My reaction is, "Rea...

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INFJs, You Need To Ground Yourself With These 3 Techniques from 2018-12-17T22:34:14

INFJs spend way too much of their time in their heads, and they are way too scattered all of the time due to that. I use these 3 grounding techniques to get me back into my body and back onto th...

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INFJs Are Extreme Empaths - Learn To Defend Your Heart, People from 2018-12-17T22:32:50

We are empathic by nature. INFJs are filled with feelings, oh so many feelings. But that's not necessarily a good thing. Actually, it can be a killer for us, so protect yourself. Stop it now. Pr...

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INFJs Let Their Idealism Hold Them Back from 2018-12-17T22:31:20

We could do more being INFJs because we have the talent for it, but we don't. We end up hating ourselves and this world, and sitting in our caves, ruminating, analyzing, and procrastinating. Let...

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INFJs Are Obsessed With Being An INFJ from 2018-12-17T22:29:59

Why do I CARE so much about this INFJ thing that I do so many videos on it and talk about it constantly with every person I meet? What is this insanity that has taken over me? :)


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INFJs And Love - Afraid To Show Our True Self from 2018-12-17T22:28:34

This is a personal episode on how I view love and how I think my INFJ feelings and emotions affect my love relationships. Eek... Let me know what you think.


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For INFJs, Friendships Aren't Permanent Fixtures from 2018-12-11T20:37:48

My friend said these beautiful words to me, that I wanted to share with you guys:: I don't see relationships as permanent fixtures. Humans are so multidimensional and ever-changing. It seems unr...

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INFJs, Meditate And Go Forth Towards Balance from 2018-12-11T20:36:42

Until I started a regular mediation practice, I was scattered, crazy, all over the place, unfocused, unreliable, and a crazy INFJ. Basically, out of sorts, and out of balance, I took up meditati...

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INFJs And Ayurvedic Body Types, Especially Vata from 2018-12-11T20:35:38

A viewer reminded me of the relationship between INFJs and the Vata Ayurvedic body type and I decided to do a video on this, to share more of my opinions and varied judgments. Enjoy!


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INFJs Are A Beacon For Lost And Broken Souls from 2018-12-11T20:33:43

Why are these random people telling us their secrets, and attracted to us, even when we don't say a word? It must be an INFJ thing. Why? Let me explain.


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INFJs Are So Neurotic Sometimes (All The Time) from 2018-12-11T20:32:33

INFJ - listen to me - no one is thinking about you, so stop thinking about other people thinking about you. Stop worrying about that! Stop it, now.


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INFJs Are So Neurotic Sometimes (All The Time) from 2018-12-11T20:32:33

INFJ - listen to me - no one is thinking about you, so stop thinking about other people thinking about you. Stop worrying about that! Stop it, now.


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I Am An Ambivert INFJ Which Is Confusing AF from 2018-12-11T20:24:22

I am an INFJ, but I am also an ambivert. That's why I can do videos like this without crawling into a pit and wanting to die. What's an ambivert? Are you one as well?


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INFJs Can Be Self-Righteous And Mean from 2018-12-11T20:22:43

I received a message from a fellow INFJ and she was so on point that I had to share it with you. Check it!


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INFJs Don't Lose Hope For This World from 2018-12-11T20:21:13

So many INFJs I speak to, and other people as well, are losing hope for the future of this planet. Please don't do that. We can make a difference, even if it's a tiny one.


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INFJs Are Black And White Thinkers from 2018-12-11T20:19:54

We live in a world filled with shades of grey, but INFJs like to believe that their opinion is the only one that's right and everyone else is wrong. Believe me, I have an issue with this as well...

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INFJs And Spirituality - Only My Opinion from 2018-12-11T20:17:53

This is an episode of my opinion as an INFJ on spirituality, religion, and reincarnation. All interesting and volatile topics, so please don't make this a debate of any sort. I am not interested...

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INFJs - Stop Listening To Everyone Else's Opinion from 2018-12-03T19:50:02

So many INFJs message me and say that they are annoyed by or upset by other people who say negative things about them. Why are you giving your power away like that? You know who you are, and the...

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INFJs Need To Be More Selfish To Do More Of Their Work from 2018-12-03T19:48:56

This is in reply to the individual who has told me I have no core purpose in life because I am being selfish. I write 4,000 words a day; I create novels, stories, and blog posts, I create podcas...

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INFJs Don't Like People Who Don't Know Themselves from 2018-12-03T19:47:33

For an INFJ, people who don't know themselves are a complete mystery. How does that work? How can you not have analyzed yourself to death, as we do? So we don't like people like that. It seems w...

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The INFJ Door Slam - Why Do We Do It? from 2018-12-03T19:46:22

Why as mature individuals do we as INFJs slam the door in the faces of friends whom we have known for a while? What is this tendency all about??


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INFJs Are Terrible Liars, But Great At Catching Liars from 2018-12-03T19:44:40

This topic was kindly suggested by Matt Deitzel, and I thought it was a great one. It's one of my longer videos because I had so much to say in it. Lying is definitely one of my pet peeves. Chec...

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INFJs Are Rigid And Inflexible Only When Stressed from 2018-12-03T19:42:41

Most people think of INFJs are extremely rigid. And we can be. But only when we are stressed out, because we aren't taking enough care of ourselves. Again, I can't emphasize enough how much self...

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INFJs Hate Talking About Themselves - It's A Trust Thing from 2018-12-03T19:41:18

INFJs have trust issues. It's the truth. We take a long time to trust anyone with our thoughts, feelings, and emotions. You will never hear the deep thoughts from me unless I trust you. Unless y...

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INFJs Can Spot A Fake A Mile Away from 2018-12-03T19:39:58

I'm an INFJ, and I am highly intuitive. I trust my intuition when it tells me someone in front of me is a fake. I trust it because, over decades, it has never ever been wrong. How is your intuit...

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INFJs Are Great Listeners And Alchemists from 2018-12-03T19:26:07

INFJs are great at listening, but most people on this planet are not. Most people do not listen but wait to speak. That's how it goes. So we listen and we take in all of this negative energy and...

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INFJs Are Afraid To Show Their Imperfect Side from 2018-12-03T19:24:17

So many times INFJs lose out on friendships or deeper relationships because we are so afraid to show our imperfect side. We are afraid to let the world see all of us, all of our true selves. So ...

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INFJs Are So Critical And Pushy With Advice from 2018-11-27T23:18:37

I have noticed this terrible quality of mine. I am way too critical of people, and I am always pushing my advice on them, although they don't care, and they don't want it. Why do we do this to p...

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INFJs Are Idealistic And Perfectionists from 2018-11-27T23:16:33

In this episode, I chat about how idealism and perfectionism are actually two things that kill the creativity that INFJs can bring to the world, as a writer, or an author. 


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INFJs Absolutely Despise Small Talk from 2018-11-27T23:13:02

INFJs do not like small talk. Do not engage us in small talk, because we will hate you forever, and never want to hang out with you ever. Talk to us about your dreams, and ambitions, and about Q...

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INFJs Are A Mass Of Contradictions from 2018-11-27T23:06:42

People sometimes think that INFJs are inconsistent because they are always changing their minds. But in actual fact, we live in a world of greys. We do not live in a black and white world at all...

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INFJs Are Hyper Aware Of Everything from 2018-11-27T23:03:41

You never need to tell an INFJ how you are feeling, they already know. They already know everything there is to know about you, so don't even bother. That can be an issue when we are in a relati...

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INFJs Are Chameleons - We Mimic Our Surroundings Perfectly from 2018-11-27T22:47:50

In this episode, I wanted to chat about a peculiar characteristic of INFJs that is actually a survival technique for us, socially awkward creatures. Check it out!



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INFJs And ENTPs Are The Perfect Pair from 2018-11-27T22:38:21

INFJs have a hard time being friends with most people. We get tired easily of the same old, same old. But ENTPs are the exception to that rule. The video explains more.


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How Do INFJs Think About Relationships? from 2018-11-27T22:30:06

In this episode, I wanted to explain specifically how INFJs think about relationships and time and space. We are odd in our thinking, and that's why we are mostly single and alone. 


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I Am An INFJ And Here's How We Think from 2018-11-27T22:18:31

In this episode, I chat about how I as an INFJ think and what I do with people and their energies, why I spend so much time alone, and why I love being single.


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What Do You Know About The INFJ Door Slam? from 2018-11-27T22:06:22

In this episode, we chat about the INFJ door slam, why we do it, how we do it, when do we do it, and how does it feel when we do it. So much to talk about. Hopefully, you gain something from the...

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