Podcasts by The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz
Are you the woman who has everything except your man? Dating coach Evan Marc Katz will help you find him. Evan is the author of four books, has a blog with over 35 million readers, and has coached 13,000 women through Love U, his signature course that helps smart, successful women find lasting love. With a rare blend of wit, wisdom, and warmth, Evan is an invaluable asset to any woman who is frustrated with dating and wants to fix her broken man-picker. Each week, Evan gives tangible, practical advice on how you can raise your standards, set healthy boundaries and attract a high-quality, commitment-oriented man. www.evanmarckatz.com/apply
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I Want to Quit Dating from 2023-12-12T13:00:22
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The Value of Conflict from 2023-12-08T22:00:23
I often mention that good relationships should be easy. It’s...
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Can I Change if I’ve Been a Doormat With Men? from 2023-12-05T13:00:53
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How You Can Date When You Make More Money Than Most Men from 2023-11-29T13:00:51
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Is There Male Privilege In Dating? from 2023-11-24T22:00:48
Men and women have different advantages in dating. Women have...
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What Should I Compromise on for Love? from 2023-11-22T13:00:17
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What Tradeoffs Are You Willing to Make for Love? from 2023-11-17T22:00:04
You’re willing to make tradeoffs at work. You’re willing to...
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Which Hinge Prompts Should I Use? from 2023-11-15T13:00:17
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Is Your Life Getting in the Way of Love? from 2023-11-10T22:00:19
You’re busy. You’ve got work. You’ve got friends. You’ve got...
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Should I Text Him to Get a Second Date? from 2023-11-08T13:00:31
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Run Toward Intimacy, Not Away From It! from 2023-11-03T21:00:53
When you’ve been hurt before, the obvious move is to...
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I HATE Being Single and Just Want to Find My Person from 2023-11-01T12:00:36
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It’s Not Only Men Who Are Emotionally Unavailable from 2023-10-27T21:00:58
It’s unfortunately commonplace for women to fall in love with...
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I Feel Bad for Dating Multiple Men at Once from 2023-10-25T12:00:34
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Are Your Needs Not Being Met By Your Man? from 2023-10-20T21:00:23
After 15 years with my wife, I realize I’ve lost...
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Are We Too Different To Make Things Work? from 2023-10-18T12:00:28
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Do Men Have Feelings, Too? from 2023-10-13T21:00:22
I know men are supposed to be heartless and soulless....
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How Can I Learn to Set Healthier Boundaries With Men? from 2023-10-11T12:00:51
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Your Inner Voice Is Lying To You from 2023-10-06T21:00:55
We all have a voice in our head. Michael Singer...
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I’m Sick of Alpha Guys AND Beta Guys. What Do I Do? from 2023-10-04T12:00:03
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Are You Unintentionally Pushing Him Away? from 2023-09-29T21:00:59
Love is scary, especially if you’ve been burned by men...
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My Boyfriend’s Mom Is Dying and He’s Pulling Away. What Should I Do? from 2023-09-26T12:00:25
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The Value of Being Nice from 2023-09-22T21:00:13
Nice is one of those words that everyone says they...
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How Can I Relax In Dating If I’m 40 and Want a Family? from 2023-09-19T14:12:40
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Does He Have to Be Interesting for You to Be Interested? from 2023-09-15T03:00:53
I’ll admit: I’m a bit of an intellectual snob. Okay,...
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Have Boys Become More Like Girls? from 2023-09-08T21:00:37
Second wave feminism was great for women in the United...
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My Thoughts on Barbie from 2023-09-01T21:00:41
The Barbie movie is now a billion dollar phenomenon –...
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Are You Afraid to Share Your Truth With Him? from 2023-08-25T21:00:34
Have you ever been in a relationship where you are...
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You’re Probably Passing Up Your Soulmate from 2023-08-18T21:00:36
After many years on Earth, it’s common to feel like...
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10 Ways Your Anxiety Drives Him Away from 2023-08-11T21:00:26
It’s normal to feel anxious about dating. Too many men...
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Why High-Achieving Women Struggle With Feminine Energy Guys from 2023-08-04T21:00:29
Masculinity is suddenly a hot topic in America. Is masculinity...
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Do Women Lie More Than Men? from 2023-07-28T21:00:17
Yes, it’s a provocative title. But there’s some science underlying...
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How Avoidant Attachment Is Killing YourLove Life from 2023-07-21T21:00:39
He’s fun. He’s sexy. He’s successful. And he’s into you....
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How Often Should You Hear from Your Guy from 2023-07-14T21:00:20
One of the biggest complaints I get about men is...
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How You Can Make Men Slow Down Physically from 2023-07-07T21:00:04
When it comes to sex, men usually seek speed and...
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4 Tips to Create Intimacy With Your Man from 2023-06-30T21:00:16
Ever notice that there are some good guys out there...
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5 Ways Your Negativity Shines Through on Dates from 2023-06-23T21:00:15
It’s easy to become negative after years of disappointing relationships...
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Do You Make Too Big a Deal About Small Differences? from 2023-06-16T21:00:24
Sure, you want to find someone compatible. But does compatibility...
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What To Do If You’re in Your Masculine Energy from 2023-06-09T21:00:32
Women need masculine energy to thrive in the workplace and...
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Are You Afraid of Getting Married? from 2023-06-02T21:00:50
Over half of divorced women say they don’t want to...
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How Do You Know If He’s Right For You? from 2023-05-26T21:00:41
Perhaps the biggest question I get – apart from “where...
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Do You Have Trouble Trusting Men? from 2023-05-19T21:00:45
Are you used to guys who cheat? Do you have a hard time trusting me? On his podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz shares how you can avoid men who lie.
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What to Do If You Hate Online Dating from 2023-05-12T21:00:05
Most people hate online dating. It’s easy to see why....
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How to Be an Amazing First Date from 2023-05-05T21:00:04
It’s really easy to focus on how terrible men are...
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The BEST Type of Man to Date Is… from 2023-04-28T21:00:08
Yes, there really is a best type of man to...
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12 Questions for All Long-Term Couples from 2023-04-21T21:00:29
Do you consistently discover that you want different things than...
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The End of Gender Roles? from 2023-04-14T21:00:17
Why are gay couples happier than straight couples? Why do...
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Does He REALLY Make You Happy? from 2023-04-07T21:00:02
All too often, you find yourself seeing a guy who...
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Is He Toxic? from 2023-03-31T21:00:31
What is toxic? Is it lovebombing? Ghosting? Gaslighting? Narcissistic Personality...
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Why We All Need Connection from 2023-03-24T21:00:10
Independence is a good thing. You need to be independent...
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The Secrets of Male Desire from 2023-03-17T21:00:04
Are men really more sexually aggressive than women? Why do...
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How to Get Great Dates on Dating Apps from 2023-03-10T22:00:02
In a brand new Love U Podcast format – which...
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How to Deal With a Man With an Anxious Attachment Style from 2023-03-03T22:00:32
An anxious attachment style is marked by behavior that is...
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7 Powerful Tips for the Early Stage of Dating from 2023-02-24T22:00:16
SO MANY things can go wrong in the early stage...
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10 Steps for Talking About Politics When Dating from 2023-02-17T22:00:46
Trigger warning. No, I don’t do trigger warnings. But today,...
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4 Simple Tips to Stop Obsessing Over Your Crush from 2023-02-10T22:00:03
This is the first guy you’ve liked in a long...
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5 Questions to Ask When He’s Friends With His Ex from 2023-02-03T22:00:28
You discovered your boyfriend still talks to his ex. Maybe...
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9 Reasons Why Guys Don’t Commit from 2023-01-27T22:00:12
You’ve fallen in love with seemingly great guys who did...
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5 Signs He Just Wants Sex from 2023-01-20T22:00:33
He’s hot. He’s into you. He sleeps with you. He...
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Why Women in their 40’s, 50’s and 60’s Should Be Optimistic About Love from 2023-01-13T22:00:53
I know. It’s rough out there. You go online, and...
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What My Wife Doesn’t Like About Me from 2023-01-06T22:00:50
Fact: I’m a happily married dating coach. Fact: My wife...
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What Do You Do With a Guy Who Won’t Stop Texting? from 2022-12-30T22:00:43
There’s this cute guy you met online. You’ve been texting...
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Should I Text Him to Confirm a Date? Should I Thank Him Afterwards? from 2022-12-23T22:00:58
Dating apps can be confounding. He matches with you but...
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What To Do After You Sleep With Him On the First Date from 2022-12-16T22:00:29
It happens more than you’d like to admit. The chemistry...
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How Can I Tell If He’s the One? from 2022-12-09T22:00:03
He’s a good guy. He treats you well. But a...
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Are You TOO Happy Being Single? from 2022-12-02T22:00:58
Are you happy being single? Good. As a dating and...
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Should I Reach Out First on a Dating App? from 2022-11-25T22:00:52
You know when you match on a dating app and...
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How Soon Should You Act on Red Flags? from 2022-11-18T22:00:37
When a guy is cute and you’re tired of dating...
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How Important Are Common Interests, Anyway? from 2022-11-11T22:00:56
Check out an online dating profile. You’ll see lists of...
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5 Reasons You May Be Afraid of Commitment from 2022-11-04T21:00:45
Women who apply to Love U do so because they’ve...
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Is He Cheating or Not Cheating? from 2022-10-28T21:00:48
Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you stop...
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How Men And Women Pursue Sex Differently from 2022-10-21T21:00:29
Ever notice that men are willing to sleep with you...
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Should I Give a Chance to an Older Guy Who Has Never Been Married? from 2022-10-14T21:00:29
Should you consider dating an older guy who has never...
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Are You Choosing Your Man? Or Are You Being Chosen? from 2022-10-07T21:00:17
You wouldn’t take any food that someone forced onto your...
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How Do I Get Him to Plan a Date? from 2022-09-30T21:00:37
Gender roles have changed in the last 40 years. Women...
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Why It’s Hard For Successful Women To Date Successful Men from 2022-09-23T21:00:57
You’re the smart, successful woman who has everything but her...
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How Can I Attract A Quality Man If I’m Over 50? from 2022-09-16T21:00:40
It’s not just in your head. The older you get,...
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8 Reasons You Stay With the Wrong Man Too Long from 2022-09-09T21:00:40
Have you ever dated a great guy but had NO...
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Can I Date if I’m Overweight? from 2022-09-02T21:00:28
If you aren’t happy with your weight, you’re not alone....
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5 Things To Do When You’re OVER Dating from 2022-08-26T21:00:16
You ever want to give up on dating, relationships, and...
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When Can We Talk About Serious Things on Dates? from 2022-08-19T21:00:47
If you’ve ever struggled with trying to get to know...
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10 Life-Changing Relationship Tips for Women from 2022-08-12T21:00:52
For most people, relationships are hard. Finding someone who meets...
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I’m Not Attracted to Anyone. What Should I Do? from 2022-08-05T19:00:26
Have you ever noticed how hard it is to find...
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You May Be Passing Up Your Soulmate Online from 2022-07-29T21:00:30
You may not want to hear this but you may...
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How Do You Stay in Love and Keep a Relationship Fresh? from 2022-07-22T21:00:42
Once you’re past the honeymoon period of a relationship –...
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How Do I Break Up With Him? from 2022-07-15T21:00:49
How do I break up with him? As a dating...
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You’re Dating Completely Wrong (According to Science) from 2022-07-08T21:00:27
Race/ethnicity, religious affiliation, height, occupation, physical attractiveness, previous marital status,...
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Why Do Men Act So Horribly on Dating Apps? from 2022-07-01T21:00:51
You use dating apps and you hate them. Guys who...
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How Do I Know If I Can Do Better Than My Boyfriend? from 2022-06-24T21:00:05
Are you in a relationship with a man where you’re...
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8 Reasons Men Are Terrible At Dating from 2022-06-17T21:00:59
You’ve gone out with enough guys to realize that, well,...
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Why You’re Attracted to the Wrong Guys and What To Do About It from 2022-06-10T21:00:56
It’s normal to be attracted to guys who aren’t good...
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You’re Lying If You Say You Want To Be Alone from 2022-06-04T04:00:47
Every week, I talk with women who apply for dating...
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Why Doesn’t He Listen To Me? from 2022-05-27T21:00:47
You love your boyfriend and he loves you. But you...
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How Do You Navigate Sex When You’re Dating from 2022-05-20T21:00:37
Your first three dates were amazing. Now, it’s Date 4,...
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No Chemistry? Here’s What to Do. from 2022-05-13T21:00:57
Chemistry. It’s the greatest drug in the world. When you’re...
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Why You Should Stop Recycling Men from 2022-05-06T21:00:36
Did your ex text you a happy birthday? Did that...
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10 Painful Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore from 2022-04-29T21:00:15
We’ve all been there. Everything was going great – until...
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Love Bombing, Future Faking, Zombieing and Ghosting, Oh My! from 2022-04-22T21:00:19
With the advent of dating apps that sit on your...
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What To Do When He’s Not Ready For A Relationship from 2022-04-15T21:00:08
You’ve seen it before. Girl likes boy. Boy likes girl....
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Do You Really Want Him? (Or Do You Just THINK You Do?) from 2022-04-08T21:00:52
Have you ever been in a relationship with a guy...
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How To Get Over Cheating And Betrayal from 2022-04-01T21:00:06
Have you had a boyfriend who cheated on you? Have...
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Why Older Men Are Better Than Younger Men from 2022-03-25T21:00:03
You go online and note the men who are swiping...
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Why Younger Men Are Better Than Older Men from 2022-03-18T21:00:23
You go online and note the men who are swiping...
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Do You Worry What Others Think About Your Guy? from 2022-03-11T22:00:55
If you’re a smart, strong, successful woman, you’re familiar with...
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He Doesn’t Need a Girlfriend. He Needs a Mommy. from 2022-03-04T22:00:52
You ever date a guy who was just so cute,...
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How To Get Him To Commit (4 Proven Ways That Work) from 2022-02-25T22:00:33
It’s pretty much THE question, isn’t it? You’ve done your...
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Can You Really Have An Equal Relationship? from 2022-02-18T22:00:29
You’ve been in relationships where you gave and didn’t receive...
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How To Find A Quality Guy Online (That Other Women Miss) from 2022-02-11T22:00:49
You go online. You set your search criteria. No more...
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What Men Want In A Relationship But Don’t Ask For from 2022-02-04T22:00:53
You want to understand men? Great. I’m a man who...
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The Real Reason To Not Have Sex With Men Too Early from 2022-01-28T22:00:37
You were seeing a guy. And by seeing a guy,...
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How To Tell Him You Miss Him Without Sounding Needy from 2022-01-21T22:00:29
It’s really common for men to think women are needy....
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How You Can Make Time for Love No Matter How Busy You Are from 2022-01-14T22:00:34
Are you a busy woman? Do you have a meaningful,...
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6 Undeniable Signs He’s Your Soulmate from 2022-01-07T22:00:06
You’re dating a guy. You’re falling in love. But you don’t trust your judgment because every other time you’ve been in love, you ignored some serious red flags. How can you make sure that this time...
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The 3 Main Fears That Stop You From Finding Love from 2021-12-31T22:00:50
If you’re a smart, strong, successful woman who has everything but a man, you may not identify as a fearful person. But as a dating coach who has been helping women like you for 17 years, I can tel...
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Love U Masters Scholarship from 2021-12-24T22:00:55
I want YOU to be my next Love U Masters...
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What to Do When He Doesn’t Call You Back from 2021-12-18T02:05:19
We’ve all been there. You have a great date. You...
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Why You Should Break Up with The Nice Guy You Don’t Want to Marry from 2021-12-10T22:00:40
"You’ve dated enough selfish toxic guys to appreciate when you’ve found a good one. He’s cute. He’s sweet. He’s sensitive. He’s honest. He’ll do anything for you. But, no matter what he does, you’r...
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5 Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy You’re Interested in from 2021-12-03T22:00:29
You consider yourself smart. Friendly. A good conversationalist. Interested in many subjects. So why would any guy not want to take you on another date? Well, because you dates don’t always feel li...
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The 3 Main Things Blocking You From Love Right Now from 2021-11-26T22:00:55
If you’re single and looking for love, you’re probably stuck in a pattern. Maybe it’s conscious. Maybe it’s not. But if your goal is to have a fun, passionate, safe, unconditionally loving relation...
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How to Recover Emotionally After a Breakup from 2021-11-19T22:00:36
Breaking up is always difficult. Whether it was an intense one-month fling where you fell deeply in love only to get ghosted or the demise of a marriage where you slowly grew apart, there’s nothing...
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How to Use Dating Apps Better from 2021-11-12T22:00:36
So you’re using a dating app. Tinder. Bumble. Hinge. CoffeeMeetsBagel. You have hundreds of men at your fingertips and you’re getting lots of matches. The problem is that it’s overwhelming. Guys wi...
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7 Tips to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work from 2021-11-05T21:00:53
Long distance relationships are challenging for two primary reasons: Your relationship isn’t “real” until you’re in the same city full-time. You’re not in the same city until someone is willing to ...
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7 Texts That Turn Off Men from 2021-10-29T21:00:41
Have you ever noticed how terrible guys are at texting? I have. It’s like they can only be bothered to write the shortest, lamest thing because anything else would be too taxing for their little br...
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6 Virtual Date Ideas That Aren’t Boring from 2021-10-22T21:00:17
Bad news: you may have heard that there’s a pandemic that passes along a coronavirus even if you don’t have symptoms. Good news: because of the circumstances, people have had to get really creative...
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The 3 Ways You HAVE to Connect With Men on a Date from 2021-10-15T21:00:34
If you’ve ever gone out with a guy where you thought you had a great time but you didn’t hear from him again, listen up. Dating is a skill. The way to master the skill is to practice. The way to pr...
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6 Nonsexual Types of Physical Touch That Men Love from 2021-10-08T21:00:46
There are a million places to get sex advice. YouTubers will give you tips on oral. Cosmo will teach you some crazy move that requires props. Your friends may share their own secrets. But what’s so...
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7 Reasons Men on Dating Apps Don’t Turn Into Dates from 2021-10-01T21:00:32
You’re a quality woman with high standards. You swipe right on only 5% of men. You have hundreds more swipe on you. Now you’re texting a bunch of guys and you’re perpetually shocked at how low-qual...
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7 Proven Ways to Overcome Dating Anxiety from 2021-09-28T21:00:37
Anxiety is human. Anxiety takes place when you’re doing something new, when you’re doing something you feel is risky, when the results are uncertain, and where there’s a chance you may get hurt. Fo...
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5 Feminine Traits That Men Find Totally Irresistible from 2021-09-21T21:00:15
One of my most popular videos starts with this counterintuitive premise: Men are about feelings, not about looks. What that means is that men may be drawn in by how you look, but what keeps a man i...
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Do You Choose Men Based on What Was Wrong With Your Ex? from 2021-09-17T21:00:09
You were in a relationship with a man who had no money. You break up. What do you look for? Money. You were in a relationship that had no passion. You break up. What do you look for? Passion. I cal...
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How To Get Over A Crush (Even When It Seems Impossible) from 2021-09-14T21:00:09
You’ve been crushing on this guy for a long time. It feels great - to see him, to talk to him, to think about what it would like to be with him. That feeling is electric and it’s carried you...all ...
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Why Masculinity Causes Problems in Relationships from 2021-09-10T21:00:26
If you’re like most women I coach, you like masculine men. I do, too. They’re smart. Confident. Bold. Decisive. Big personalities. The willingness to take a stand and lead. But what’s the downside ...
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When You Should Know He’s “The One” from 2021-09-07T21:00:37
You know the feeling. It’s magical. It happens only a few times in your entire life. That moment when you’re dating someone and you know, deep in your heart, that he’s your soulmate and that you tw...
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Are Men Actually Intimidated By You? from 2021-09-03T21:00:55
You’re a beautiful woman and you’ve achieved a lot professionally. You have an education. You have a nice home. You have sophisticated tastes. You know what you’re worth and you’re not going to set...
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How to Handle Trust Issues in Relationships from 2021-08-31T21:00:41
You’ve had relationships where you couldn’t trust the guy. Maybe you caught him in a series of lies. Maybe he had a history as a player. Maybe you have a history of being cheated on. Whatever it is...
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Does Your Boyfriend Have to Be Growth-Oriented, Too? from 2021-08-27T21:00:20
You ever date a guy who was just set in his ways? You ever wish you could change a man and help him do the work to reach his potential? Go to therapy. Take a self-help class. Write in a journal. Me...
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What He’s Thinking Before He Dumps You from 2021-08-20T21:00:59
There are few worse feelings than getting dumped. You trusted. You made yourself vulnerable. You gave your time, your energy, your body, your soul to this man. You bent over backwards to compromise...
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What To Do When He Doesn’t Appreciate You from 2021-08-13T21:00:17
You’ve been in a relationship before with a man you genuinely loved. He said you were the one. He said he couldn’t live without you. He said he’d do whatever it took to make you happy. Except you’r...
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The Best (and Easiest) Text You Can Send To Make Him Like You from 2021-08-06T21:00:48
You’ve seen other dating coaches'videos. Here are the FIVE SEXY TEXT MESSAGES THAT WILL MAKE HIM CRAVE YOU. Here are the SEVEN THINGS YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW THAT WILL BREAK DOWN HIS WILL AND MAKE HIM...
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Why Doesn’t He Ask Me Questions? from 2021-07-30T21:00:10
You’re dating a guy and things are going great. He’s bright, confident, comfortable in his own skin, and overall, he’s pretty good company. Then, why do you feel so drained at the end of every date...
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How to Talk to Him About Your Darkest Secrets (Without Scaring Him Away) from 2021-07-23T21:00:09
Everybody’s got baggage. You’ve been divorced twice.You have herpes. You’re a former alcoholic. You take anti-depressants. You can’t have biological children. Whatever it is, you’re not alone. But ...
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Who Pays for the First Date? from 2021-07-16T21:00:41
The check comes. It sits on the table. You wait for him to reach for it. You think he’s waiting for you to reach for it. You continue your strained end of meal conversation, wondering who is going ...
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If He Doesn’t Put In The Effort, Do This! from 2021-07-09T21:00:20
It feels the worst when it starts out strong. That first month, he was so into you. Texting dozens of times a day. Planning the next date while you’re still on a date. Telling you effusively how be...
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Why Men Never Get Things Right When It Comes to Sex from 2021-07-02T21:00:22
There are many ways it’s more challenging to be a woman in today’s world. There is latent misogyny. There are double standards for strong women as compared to strong men. And it’s an understatement...
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How To Deal With One Word Replies While Texting from 2021-06-25T21:00:13
I know something you absolutely hate. You’ve got a cute guy you’re texting. You’re kind of excited about him and hoping to make a connection. Yet it’s almost impossible to get anything out of him. ...
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Do You Love Being Single More Than You Want to Be Married? from 2021-06-18T21:00:42
"You’re single and fabulous. You’ve got a career you enjoy, friends you love, and passions you pursue. You’re extremely busy doing things that bring you pleasure: travel, yoga, reading, personal d...
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Why Men Don’t Court Women Anymore from 2021-06-11T21:00:01
Dating apps are everywhere. Texting is ubiquitous. Hookup culture is rampant. If courtship isn’t dead, it’s surely on a respirator. And while I did a Love U Podcast episode called Why Men Should Co...
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3 Limiting Beliefs That Stop You From Finding The Right Man from 2021-06-04T21:00:16
You know the power of belief. Maybe you believe in God. Maybe you believe in your own inherent goodness. Maybe you believe that each day is a gift that should be lived to the fullest. To some degre...
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Texting First After a Date from 2021-05-28T21:00:06
You had a good date. You’re open to seeing him again. He said at the end of the date he’d talk to you soon. And now you don’t know what to do.
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When You Want to Know“What Are We?” from 2021-05-21T21:00:46
Imagine going out with a man for three months. He texts you nearly every day. He sees you nearly every weekend. He’s really sweet. He compliments you often. The sex is great. There’s only one prob...
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Is He Shy or Is He Not Interested? from 2021-05-14T21:00:27
You ever start dating a guy who was just a little...passive? He texts you but he doesn’t say that much. He stays in touch but he doesn’t ask you out. He takes you out on a nice date but he doesn’t ...
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5 Things Men Need In A Relationship In Order To Commit To You from 2021-05-07T21:00:22
You’re struggling with your love life. You can find a guy who’s attractive. You can find a guy who treats you well. You can find a guy who wants to commit to you. You just can’t find them all in on...
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5 Things Not To Do On A First Date (Especially If You Are A Professional Woman) from 2021-04-30T14:33:13
As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I...
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How to Know If Your Relationship Will Work Out from 2021-04-16T21:00:41
Have you ever put your heart and soul into something? Have you ever had big dreams about what your life could look like? Have you ever placed your trust in others with no guarantee that things woul...
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How Long Should You Wait Until He Commits? from 2021-04-09T21:00:49
You’ve been seeing a guy for three months. You like him a lot. He seems to like you just as much. The chemistry is great. The sex is stupendous. When he takes you out on dates, you have an amazing ...
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Are You Afraid of Rejection? from 2021-04-02T21:00:28
Rejection triggers feelings of anxiety, low self-esteem, deep questioning. It’s normal to have these thoughts after things don’t go right. The problem is when you start to internalize these thought...
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Are You Staying With Him For Too Long? from 2021-03-26T21:00:15
Admit it: You’ve spent years suffering through relationships with the wrong men. Your fears are real and valid and I’m not going to deny you those feelings. What I will point out on today’s Love U ...
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Is Marriage Worth It? Why or Why Not? from 2021-03-19T21:00:41
For you, marriage means pain, angst, misunderstandings, silent treatments, and the endless drudgery of compromise and housework. I hear you. But if that’s all that marriage was, there wouldn’t be 1...
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Dating Advice For Women: The #1 Question All My Clients Ask from 2021-03-12T22:00:45
As a dating and relationship coach since 2003, I’ve fielded thousands of questions. And, not surprisingly, many of those questions are the same question asked differently. This leads me to the #1 q...
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Online Dating Tips: We’re Exclusive But His Dating Profile Is Still Active from 2021-03-05T22:00:42
You ever start dating a guy and things are going great and at some point, you ask him… Um, what are we? And he says: Well, I’m not sleeping with anybody else. So I guess you can say we’re exclusive...
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How to Date a Guy During Social Distancing from 2021-02-26T22:00:39
A pandemic is not an ideal time for dating, I think we can all agree. But as we approach the one year mark of our national semi lockdown, how do you date a guy during social distancing? How can you...
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Should You Try a Long-Distance Relationship? from 2021-02-19T22:00:12
There’s no limit as to how far you’ll go for love. You are now searching the globe for your soulmate. That may feel good right now but be careful what you wish for, you just might get it. Stick aro...
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Why Get Married When Most Marriages End In Divorce? from 2021-02-12T22:00:32
It’s a reasonable question. Why get married when most marriages end in divorce? And if you came to this video believing that this was true, you’re in the right place.
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Is Dating an Older Man a Bad Idea? from 2021-02-05T22:00:37
Most women I work with do NOT like older men....
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Women Over 40: How to Attract the Right Men and Avoid the Wrong Ones from 2021-01-29T22:00:03
In your experience, dating in your 40’s is trickier than dating in your 20’s or 30’s. But does it have to be? What’s so different about dating after you turn the big 4-0? In this Love U Podcast, I...
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Dating Men With Kids: Good Or Bad Idea? from 2021-01-22T22:00:45
So, you’re thinking of dating a single Dad. Maybe you’re...
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The One Feeling You CAN Trust When Choosing a Good Man from 2021-01-15T22:00:43
You’ve opened your heart and had it broken. You’ve poured...
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What is the Best Dating Site or Best Dating App? from 2020-12-18T22:00:10
The most popular question I get is “what’s the best dating site or app?” Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Match, OkCupid. Where should I go to find quality men? I’m going to answer that in a moment, but firs...
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Why You Should Never Be Exclusive With a Guy from 2020-12-14T22:00:38
Have you ever slept with a guy who wasn’t your boyfriend? Have you ever noticed that most of the guys you were exclusive with never became boyfriends? You’ve been falling into the same trap, over a...
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The #1 Thing You Can Do in Dating That Men Will Love from 2020-12-11T22:00:38
You turn to me to know the secrets of the male mind. You listen for aha moments about how men think. You watch to understand what makes commitment-minded guys choose to commit to some women and not...
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How Not to Be Jealous of His Ex-Wife from 2020-12-07T22:00:30
You’ve been with men who are liars. You’ve been with men who are cheaters. You’ve been with men who had eyes for other women. You’ve been with men who are close with their exes. And it. Drives. You...
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Are You Dating A Man Going Through A Divorce? from 2020-12-04T22:00:12
You can’t help who you fall in love with. This is true - but that doesn’t mean it’s the full story. When you fall in love with a man going through a divorce, you’re taking a huge risk, no matter ho...
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Are You Afraid of Getting Hurt in a Relationship? Listen To This. from 2020-11-30T22:00:49
You’ve had moments where you wanted to give up on love. We all have. You sink your time, energy, and emotion into a guy, only to determine, after a long, tortuous process, that he is not the man yo...
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5 Clichés of Love That Are Hurting You in Dating from 2020-11-27T22:00:19
Cliches are cliches for a reason. Often, they have a solid basis in truth. But what happens when you believe in a cliche so deeply that it actually sabotages your desire to have a successful long-t...
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Too Busy To Date? What To Do If You Want To Find Love from 2020-11-23T22:00:39
Your job is demanding. You are a single mom with lots of responsibilities. You feel like dating is one huge time suck. As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women who have everything but ...
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How to Find a Guy on Online Dating Sites from 2020-11-20T22:00:35
You go online and browse through men. You know what you’re attracted to. You set your search criteria to get all these traits and come to the conclusion that dating sites suck and there no men on c...
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Are You Trying Too Hard to Find Love? from 2020-11-16T22:00:09
It’s lonely out there. And if you’ve been alone for a while and you have a vision of what you want your life to look like, I can appreciate if finding love is your top priority. It’s mine, too and ...
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6 Hot Tips for Dating Over 50 from 2020-11-13T22:00:57
Age is just a number. If you’re 60, I assume you feel 50. If you’re 50, I assume you feel 40, and so on. But when it comes to dating - specifically online dating - age isn’t just a number. It’s a r...
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Why You Keep Ending Up in Bad Relationships from 2020-11-09T22:00:03
You haven’t been happy for a while but you didn’t do anything about it. How did you get here? And what can you do in the future to ensure this never happens again? In this short Love U Podcast, I’m...
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Why It’s So Hard to Meet the Right Guy from 2020-11-06T22:00:30
You go online and you swipe through thousands of guys. The guys you’re not attracted to pursue you hard. The guys you like the most are wildly inconsistent and don’t follow through. You have moment...
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What Does It Mean When He Says I Love You? from 2020-11-02T22:00:18
Hearing the words “I love you” from a boyfriend feels like the most important thing in the world and we imbue it with great meaning. It means he’s invested in you. It means he’s thinking of a futur...
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Why Finding a Good Man Is Hard from 2020-10-30T21:00:51
It’s a jungle out there. There are guys who love bomb you, then pull away. There are guys who are needy, clingy, and controlling. There are guys who say they want to find love and once they get it,...
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Why Finding a Good Man Is Hard from 2020-10-30T21:00:51
It’s a jungle out there. There are guys who love bomb you, then pull away. There are guys who are needy, clingy, and controlling. There are guys who say they want to find love and once they get it,...
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How Can I Be a Better Girlfriend? from 2020-10-26T21:00:02
Congratulations! You’re in a small percentage of women who have taken the time to wonder how you could do things better. Virtually no men have asked this question which is why I’m answering it for ...
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Why You’ve Never Been Closer to Lasting Love. (Really!) from 2020-10-23T21:00:17
Every relationship you’ve ever had ultimately disappeared or disappointed. But what if I told you that you’ve been preparing your whole life for this moment?
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Is He Interested Or Just Being Nice? (7 Obvious Signs) from 2020-10-19T21:00:08
He seems interested but you know that guys often show interest at the beginning and then do the slow fade,
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Dating for Marriage: Are Your Standards Unrealistic? from 2020-10-16T09:00:56
Nobody likes the word picky. Picky suggests that there’s something wrong with you, that if you didn’t have such high standards, you’d already be married by now. Picky sounds like your fault. So let...
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The One Feeling You CAN Trust When It Comes to Choosing a Good Man from 2020-10-12T21:00:09
If you’ve never had a lasting relationship with a man where you could relax, let down your guard and know he would accept you, in full, for the rest of your life, why would you think that it would ...
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How You Can Double The Number of Quality Men Right Now from 2020-10-10T12:00:37
You wonder why the younger men don’t seem to respond as much. You wonder why men who are FAR older than you keep responding. It’s all very frustrating and sometimes emotional. What you didn’t know ...
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The Biggest Lie You’ve Ever Been Told About Relationships from 2020-10-06T12:00:35
Relationships take work. You heard this from your parents, your friends, couples counselors, and dating gurus. You believed that it was true because, for you, indeed relationships have taken a lot ...
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How to Fight With Your Partner from 2020-10-03T12:00:35
70% of arguments with your partner are the same argument. If that’s the case, you need a different way of approaching things to get a different result. Your relationship doesn’t need to be a consta...
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Is He Committed to You? If Not, This is Why. from 2020-09-29T12:00:54
He’s seeing you regularly. You’re sleeping with him. He’s acting almost like a boyfriend but he’s not your boyfriend. Welcome to one of the world’s most common dating dilemmas. Join me on this Love...
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What 2 Romantic Comedies Can Teach You About Love from 2020-09-26T12:00:29
So, back in the day, they used to make romantic comedies. They made us laugh, they made us cry, they made us watch them again and again. But occasionally, one of these movies had a valuable lesson ...
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If You Believe This, Your Relationship is Doomed. from 2020-09-22T12:00:40
If you're single, all of your romantic relationships ended. That devastating truth may cause you to mistrust your own judgment and assume all your future relationships are doomed to fail as well. B...
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Why Do Men Ghost You (And What to Do About It) from 2020-09-19T12:00:19
You ever have a really strong connection with a guy? The attraction is incredible. He’s really into you. You can’t stop thinking about him. He quickly becomes your boyfriend. You haven’t been this ...
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Do You Act Like You’re Fine Being Alone? from 2020-09-15T12:00:14
Do you spend more time working than anything? Do you have close friendships but no successful romantic relationship? Do you take long breaks from dating and tell the world you’d rather be alone? At...
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The Most Empowering Dating Advice For Women Ever! from 2020-09-12T12:00:51
You ever feel that you, as a woman, are the gatekeeper to sex? And that, after you have sex, men become the gatekeepers to long-term commitment? If so, you’re not alone. But today I’m going to shar...
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What it Feels Like to Be in a Healthy Relationship from 2020-09-08T12:00:02
Butterflies. Excitement. Chemistry. Obsession. These are the words we associate with being in love. But if you ask anyone in a happy long-term relationship, that's not what it actually feels like. ...
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How to Turn Your Dating Failure into The Ultimate Success from 2020-09-05T12:00:02
You feel like a failure when it comes to dating. Years spent on the wrong men. Years avoiding intimate relationships. Dread when it comes to meeting new guys and potentially getting hurt once again...
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4 Signs You’re Wasting Your Time On The Wrong Man from 2020-09-01T12:00:58
You’ve been in a relationship where you felt off-balance before. Your feelings for him were strong but the longer your relationship went, the more anxious you felt. Chances are, you fell into one o...
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Are Your Trust Issues Hurting Your Relationships? from 2020-08-29T07:01:32
If you've ever been in love with a liar, been cheated on by a boyfriend, or don't feel you can trust any man until he earns it, you have a lot of hard-won scars. The problem is that honest men need...
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These Six Thoughts Are Killing Your Chances of Finding Love from 2020-08-25T07:01:53
A limiting belief is one that is partially true but not totally true. When you've struggled with dating for years, it's easy to lapse into such false beliefs that hold you back from finding love.
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Do You Stay Single Even When You Want to Find Love? from 2020-08-21T07:00:25
There’s a part of you deep inside that you try not to look at. It’s the part of you that longs to be in a relationship. It’s the part of you that knows life is better when it’s shared. It’s the par...
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The 10% Rule from 2020-08-18T07:01:29
Does it seem like there are no good men out there? Does it feel impossible to find a guy you're attracted to online? Have no fear. Follow the rule of 10% and you can keep your high standards on you...
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How To Get The BEST Guys Online To Go Out With You from 2020-08-15T07:01:26
Sick of swiping right and texting? Want to meet quality men who are invested in you instead of putting up with flakes? Listen to this Love U Podcast to learn what you can do to ensure that the rela...
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What You Should Do When You’re Confused About A Guy from 2020-08-11T07:01:56
Have you ever dated a guy who would be great - if he changed just a few things about himself? Listen to this Love U Podcast to discover how to determine whether you should stay or go from a relatio...
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How Vulnerability Makes Men Fall In Love With You from 2020-08-08T07:01:59
As a smart, strong, successful woman, you have a full single life, filled with work, friends, family, and hobbies. Yet this isn't your primary strength when it comes to dating. If you don't let men...
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The ONLY Kind Of Man You Should Marry from 2020-08-04T07:01:02
Were you ever in a draining relationship in which you felt that you gave too much? Have you considered that you should probably give less to your partner in the future? It's a painful problem, but ...
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Do You Give The Wrong Guys A Chance? from 2020-08-01T07:01:38
If you've ever vacillated between being"too picky"and spending time with men you don't like, check out this Love U Podcast. In it, I tell the story of two clients who are learning to trust their ju...
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The 3 Ways Your Relationship Can Go (Only One is Worth Your Time) from 2020-07-28T07:01:34
Love U is a six-month curriculum that teaches you how to understand men and find love. In today's Love U Podcast, I'm going to teach you one simple idea about 3 ways your relationship can go.
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What Does Your Dream Relationship Look And Feel Like? from 2020-07-25T07:01:56
When I interview women like you who apply to Love U, I invite you to consider what your life will look like when you found the relationship you've always dreamed about. Sure enough, some women stru...
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Five Questions To Consider When Dating A New Guy from 2020-07-21T07:01:48
Have you ever been afraid that the next guy is going to turn out just like the last guy? If so, I'm going to give you a five-step process to evaluate if he's worth your time BEFORE you get in too d...
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Do You Treat Hot Guys Different Than Regular Guys? from 2020-07-18T07:01:07
When you meet a guy you're intensely attracted to, your common sense and boundaries go out the window. You're not alone. Listen to this Love U Podcast to hear my own tale of verbal abuse and learn ...
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Do You Want Your Coupled Life To Look Like Your Single Life? from 2020-07-14T07:01:07
Are you an independent woman with a rich, full single life? Are you generally busy with your work, family, friends, hobbies, and travel? Does your vision of couple-hood look a lot like your life no...
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8 Red Flags That Should Send You Running From A Man from 2020-07-11T07:01:19
Are you tired of wasting your time on the wrong men? Listen to the story of two of my Love U clients - one too passive, one too picky - to discover the 8 things men say that should be instant dealb...
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Why You’re A Dating Hypocrite from 2020-07-07T07:01:50
Ever start off hot and heavy with a guy who suddenly pulled back or ghosted? Of course you have. Every start off hot and heavy with a guy and realize he's not the man for you? Of course you have. C...
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How You Can Get Closer To Your Boyfriend After A Fight from 2020-07-04T07:01:57
All relationships have conflict. The difference between a great relationship and a horrible one is how you manage that conflict. Listen to this very personal Love U Podcast where I share the one th...
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How You Can Stop Beating Yourself Up About Your Ex from 2020-06-30T07:01:29
After a breakup, it's normal to ruminate on what went wrong. But from what I see from my Love U clients, you're probably focused on what YOU did rather than what HE did. In this Love U Podcast, let...
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How to Have a GREAT First Date from 2020-06-27T07:01:36
Are you sick of going on dating apps, swiping right, texting a million guys, and having horrible coffee dates? If so, you have the power to have a completely different dating experience and go on g...
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Are You Jealous? from 2020-06-23T07:01:27
Have you been cheated on? Have you had men leave you for other women? Have you experienced a lack of trust? It's not easy to come back from that, but it's imperative for the health of your future r...
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The 5 Qualities He MUST Have To Be A Great Partner from 2020-06-20T07:01:48
Welcome to the 100th episode, in which I barely celebrate a milestone achievement, reintroduce myself and the Love U Podcast, and let you know the secret behind all successful marriages - the 5 qua...
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The 2 Things You Must Stop Doing To Meet Your Soulmate This Year from 2020-06-16T07:01:34
Have you ever felt that dating is a big, ol'waste of time? After years on and off dating sites, swiping through thousands of men, and the endless revolving door of losers, players, and flakes, you ...
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Is He Serious About Dating You During Coronavirus? from 2020-06-12T18:55:06
It's a pretty weird time to be dating. Even so, Love U members are meeting wonderful, highly motivated men, even during this pandemic. So how can you tell if a guy is keeping busy or stringing you ...
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The #1 Thing You SHOULD Pay Attention to After Your First Date from 2020-06-09T13:00:19
You ever go out on an incredible date? The connection was real, the chemistry is intense, and you feel like you just met someone with real long-term potential? Of course, you have. But what usually...
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Marry Him–an Interview With Lori Gottlieb from 2018-02-21T08:00
Longtime readers know about my friendship with Lori Gottlieb. Lori...
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The All-Or-Nothing-Marriage–an interview with Eli Finkel from 2018-02-07T08:00:24
Eli Finkel wrote perhaps my favorite relationship book of 2017,...
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The Tao of Dating–an Interview With Dr. Ali Binazir from 2018-01-31T08:00:46
I’m not the only guy who gives dating advice to...
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No More Mr. Nice Guy–an Interview With Dr. Robert Glover from 2018-01-24T08:00:10
Have you ever felt powerless in a relationship? Have you...
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Three Day Rule–An Interview With Talia Goldstein, CEO from 2018-01-17T08:00:18
When you think of matchmaking, you probably think of Patti...
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5 Ways You Can Overcome Rejection and Find Love from 2018-01-03T08:00:22
We’ve all been there. You fall in love. It’s the...
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Why Do Men Not Want to Understand Women? from 2017-12-20T08:00:50
There’s an entire self-help world built on women looking in...
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A Book About Love–an Interview With Jonah Lehrer from 2017-12-13T08:00:28
Want to understand how to choose a long-term partner that’s...
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What Makes a Good First Date? from 2017-12-06T08:00:40
If you’re sick of endless texts from flaky guys… If...
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Should Your Partner Also be Your Best Friend? from 2017-11-29T12:45:21
Marriages struggle and collapse all the time because, in many...
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Forgiveness–An Interview with Marcy Neumann from 2017-11-15T08:00:45
Marcy Neumann is special. Ever since we met this summer,...
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Why Good Men Were Shocked by the #MeToo Movement from 2017-11-08T08:00:58
Harvey Weinstein was the tip of the iceberg. After millions...
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Understanding the Male Dating Timetable from 2017-11-01T07:00:22
There’s how fast you want to go, how fast he...
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The Art of Charm–an interview with A.J. Harbinger from 2017-10-25T07:00:07
The Art of Charm podcast is a BIG deal. Which...
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How to Deal With Your Ex from 2017-10-18T07:00:01
You may still love and miss your ex, but that...
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Are Gender Stereotypes True? from 2017-10-11T07:00:04
Aggression. Rape. Murder. Dominance. With which gender do you associate...
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Swearing, Unicorns, and Boundaries–an interview with Kira Sabin from 2017-10-04T07:00:04
Do you want to have fun? Do you want to...
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How to Apologize (and mean it)! from 2017-09-27T07:00:53
I have a big mouth and have never had an...
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Why Women Who Hate Men and Men Who Hate Women are Exactly the Same from 2017-09-20T07:00:53
Feminists who hate men and MRA/MGOTWs who hate women are...
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The Breakup Doctor–an interview with Kevin Kurgansky from 2017-08-23T07:00:59
Sensitive, smart, and spiritual are the first three words I’d...
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The 8 Agreements About Sex from 2017-08-16T07:00:27
You want to know what guys think about sex? Just...
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5 Ways to Make Him Fall in Love with You from 2017-08-09T07:00:36
Let’s start here: if you have a selfish, abusive, lying,...
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How to Be a Magical Man Magnet–an interview with Lauren Frances from 2017-08-02T07:00:10
Lauren Frances has a thing. Charisma. Sex appeal. Fierce intelligence....
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What Are Your Limiting Beliefs About Love? from 2017-07-26T07:00:12
A limiting belief is one that is partially true, but...
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Do You Want Him to Lie to You? from 2017-07-19T07:00:27
You may say you want 100% honesty from your partner,...
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Soulmate Passion–an interview with Arielle Ford from 2017-07-12T07:00:33
Arielle Ford may just well be The Fairy Godmother of...
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Do You Take Responsibility for Your Love Life? from 2017-07-05T07:00:46
It’s quite easy to identify when someone else is a...
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Can You Change Your Man? from 2017-06-28T07:00:50
People can change, but they only change when they want...
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Have the Relationship You Want–an interview with Rori Raye from 2017-06-07T07:00:24
Rori Raye is a wildly popular relationship coach for women...
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Are You Compromising or Are You Settling? from 2017-05-31T07:00:38
“Settling” is a bad word. I didn’t settle. I would...
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What Is So Confusing About Men? from 2017-05-24T07:00:47
If you ask women, the answer is “everything.” If you...
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For Her Pleasure–an Interview with Sexologist Patti Britton from 2017-05-17T07:00:12
A well-respected world leader in sexology, Dr. Patti Britton is...
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Highly Sensitive People Who Get Hurt Easily from 2017-05-10T07:00:39
I don’t entirely understand highly sensitive people. In fact, I...
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How to Date When You Want to Have Biological Children from 2017-05-03T07:00:32
I’m not one of those guys who thinks that you...
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What Image Are You Projecting?–an Interview with Kimberly Seltzer from 2017-04-26T07:00
Kimberly Seltzer of Elite Image Makeovers is a friend who...
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Are Men and Women the Same? from 2017-04-19T07:00:03
Sure, men and women are equal, but are we the...
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How Do You Know When It’s Time to Leave Him? from 2017-04-12T07:00:57
On this week’s Love U Podcast, I offer my strong...
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Breaking the Six Deadly Dating Patterns–an interview with Dr. Diana Kirschner from 2017-04-05T07:00:19
Dr. Diana Kirschner is a psychologist, author and relationship expert...
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What To Do When You Don’t Trust Men from 2017-03-29T07:00:25
You may think a little mistrust is healthy. It’s not....
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Are You a Great Girlfriend? Are You Sure? from 2017-03-22T07:00:51
Being a great girlfriend isn’t about who you are, it’s...
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Pregnantish with Andrea Syrtash from 2017-03-15T07:00:26
Relationship expert Andrea Syrtash’s new venture, pregnantish, helps people navigate...
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Are You The Difficult One In Your Relationship? from 2017-03-08T08:00:01
Type A. Opinionated. Passionate. Informed. That’s the positive spin. The...
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Should You Move in With Him Before Marriage? from 2017-03-01T08:00:12
Living together doesn’t guarantee a great marriage, but it is...
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How Your Bedroom’s Decor May Be Secretly Sabotaging Your Love Life–An Interview with Bumi Lauren Kristen from 2017-02-22T08:00:01
Does your bedroom impact the way men see you? Does...
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How to Date as a Single Mom from 2017-02-15T14:00:17
Dating as a single parent is like regular dating, with...
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What Should You Expect on Valentine’s Day? from 2017-02-08T08:00:49
How do you handle this Hallmark holiday? With equanimity and...
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Date Like a Grownup–an Interview with Bobbi Palmer from 2017-02-01T08:00:03
I’m a pretty opinionated guy, which is why I’m surprised...
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What Behavior Is Unacceptable in a Relationship? from 2017-01-25T08:00:09
Sure, cheating, lying and abuse are no-nos. But what about...
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Should You Date Against Your“Type”? from 2017-01-18T08:00:14
My thesis — as well as most relationship experts’ thesis...
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Creating Love on Purpose–an Interview with Orna Walters from 2017-01-11T08:01:48
Orna Walters is one half of a dynamic couple that...
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What Does It Mean to Be Cool? from 2017-01-04T08:01:58
The definition of being cool changes as you get older,...
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Do You Feel Like You’re Not Good Enough? from 2016-12-21T08:01:40
You’re not alone. Even though I claim to have enough...
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When Does Chatting Become Cheating–an interview with Dr. Sheri Meyers from 2016-12-14T08:01:27
Friendships are great. Emotional affairs are trouble. If you’re sensing...
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Sexclusivity: Why Women Should Make Men Wait for Sex from 2016-12-07T08:01:13
Holding out for sex is not about holding out until...
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Why a Good Marriage Is the Ultimate in Freedom from 2016-11-30T08:01:29
In a good marriage, you have the freedom to be...
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Dating the Divorced Guy–an interview with Jonathon Aslay from 2016-11-16T08:01:24
There aren’t many men who do what I do, but...
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How to Make the Texting Guy WANT to Call You. from 2016-11-09T08:01:42
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