Podcasts by The Sex Wrap

The Sex Wrap

The Sex Wrap is a sexual health Podcast that was created to help fill the gaping hole in sexuality education. They answer listeners questions each week (or yours today) – typically questions that people are too afraid to ask at home, too embarrassed to ask at school, or too hard to ask their partners.

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Episode 124: What does BLM have to do with sex? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Check out Loretta Ross: https://www.lorettaross.com/ and also the reproductive justice collective at https://www.sistersong.net/ Want to do something? Check out https://docs.google.com/document/d/1...

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Episode 123: How do we talk about race? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode, we have a special guest, Dr. Renee Dickens Callan, on air to get specific about race. Specifically, we talk about how to talk to a partner (or fam or friends) about racism and #bla...

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Episode 122: How can I celebrate PRIDE at home? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

IT'S PRIDE!!! Happy June, y'all! Listen up to hear about ways you can celebrate and support PRIDE initiatives from the comfort of your home. Check our social media for our PRIDE contest. And, make ...

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Episode 121: Why won’t they use a condom? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode, we go through all the reasons people use for not wanting to use a condom... and teach you how to up your negotiation game! Get listening, and then get practicing so you aren't caug...

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Episode 120: Don’t try this at home! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The title says it all. Today we cover a few of the questions that we just can't believe... but, you know what they say, "there's no such thing as a stupid question!" ...or is there? You be the judg...

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Episode 119: How can I recover from being cheated on? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Cheating is, unfortunately, very common. Today we talk about what to do if you want to stay in a relationship after cheating occurs (from either side). Andrew and Spring have a bit of a NOrgasm abo...

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Episode 118: How can I ask for consent without “ruining the mood”? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

So many people think that asking about consent "ruins the mood," but it is actually the way to MAKE the mood! We've got tips on how to do it. Read more about this topic here! Learn more about your ...

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Episode 117: If a lesbian likes dildos, why wouldn't she have sex with men? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today we talk about the differences between dildos and penises, and what drives sexual orientation. Check out our partner uber lube and use code "THESEXWRAP" to save 10%, and check out the scientif...

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Episode 116: What do I do if my partner smells “weird”? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Um is this a quarantine question? (lol) Lots of things cause body and sex smells... and lots of them are normal! Here's your guide to what might not be and what you can do. Learn more about your ad...

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Episode 115: Quarantined Lovers (HELP!) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode we answer both HELP I can't see my lover and HELP I can only see my lover! (lol) Quarantine is stressful; we can help. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 114: All about PEGGING! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

What is it? How can I do it? What if my partner wants it/what if my partner doesn't want it? All of your answers about pegging are HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 113: What can I do about premature ejaculation? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

What can you do to handle premature ejaculation (also called rapid ejaculation)? Tips and tricks and, of course, how to communicate about it! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/ad...

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Episode 112: Can meditation help my sex life? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode, Spring takes us through why we should meditate: how it helps us individually and in relationships. And there's lot of science!! Here, here, here, here, and here. Learn more about y...

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Episode 111: Should I make a sex tape? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Creating sexy photos or videos can be fun. But it can also be risky. We've talked on a couple episdoes about sexting and about revenge porn. Today we talk about whether or not you should make a sex...

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Episode 110: Coronavirus is ruining my sex life! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

But seriously, check the CDC's website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 109: How long should sex last? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

How long should sex take? How long do people want it to last? What's the average? We get in to all the details about length of sex. Listen up; it won't take that long. ;) Read more here, here, her...

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Episode 108: How do I have sex again after traumatic sex? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Our question today was "The first time I had sex was traumatic and now I want try again to but am afraid. What should I do?" We get into all the reasons sex can feel traumatic and how to handle eac...

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Episode 107: How do I date with an age gap? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode we talk about all the factors you need to consider if you're going to date someone much older or much younger than you! After all, age is WAY more than just a number. Want more? Che...

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Episode 106: How do bisexuals date? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY WEEK! Today we talk about bisexuality and dating. We have three questions we answer today, including: I’m afraid to date a bisexual because I feel like I won’t be enough and t...

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Episode 105: Awks! (But HOW do I talk to my partner?) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In today's episode, we get into some specific how-to convos. People keep sending in questions where they need help communicating about sex, and here's what we cover today: 1) What if someone tells ...

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Episode 104: But we were on a break! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Welcome back! In this episode we talk about taking "a break" from a relationship. What does it mean; what does it entail; how do you know what's ok and what's not? All this and more... listen in! L...

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Episode 103: What is a unicorn? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Do unicorns exist? We aren't talking about the type of unicorns you see flying around on cartoons. We mean sexual unicorns! What makes someone a unicorn? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit meg...

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Episode 102: Toy Story from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Just in time for the holidays, an episode all about toys (sex toys, that is)! From partners that hate vibrators, to thinking about trying toys, to worry about vibrators desensitizing you, we have a...

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Episode 101: How do I cultivate a healthy relationship? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This episode is a long one--because healthy relationships are a lot of work! Whether you are in a romantic relationship or not, there are a lot of tips here to keep all of your relationships thrivi...

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Episode 100: Do I need a condom for oral sex? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This week we talk about oral sex and how to protect against STDs. And, as a special 100th episode excitement, we have a great new discount code for you! We LOVE Uber lube; visit them and use code “...

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Episode 99: Make-up/Break-up/Hate sex from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today we have a throuple question (three questions that love each other so much, they wanted to live together forever on an episode!). We answer why make-up, break-up, and hate sex have appeal, and...

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Episode 98: Should I date my ex (again)? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today, we run through all the questions you should ask yourself before you consider getting back on that horse. The ex-horse, that is. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 97: Do women look at packages/bulges? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Many men have written to us, asking whether women are checking out their bulges, and some people have written to us wondering whether this is normal. Today we talk all about that lump. That lump. T...

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Episode 96: Is the G-spot real? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In today's episode, we talk about the science about the g-spot. Has it been proven to exist definitively? Or is it just a (gasp!) ghost? (HAPPY HALLOWEEN!) Read the science here, here, and here. Le...

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Episode 95: Do you believe in soulmates? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

How do you know if someone is right for you? Is there "one" person who is the best fit? Today we talk about soulmates. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 94: Why aren't more people taking PrEP? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

PrEP, or pre-exposure prophylaxis, is a pill that people who are at higher risk for HIV take daily to prevent HIV. However, there are a lot of people who could be taking it who aren't yet.  Today w...

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Episode 93: CUM, the episode from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 93, we talk about all things CUM.  How do I get a bigger cumshot? How much precum is too much? Why does cum smell/taste weird? ...all your questions answered, cumming right up!   Learn m...

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Episode 92: Why does my pet always watch me have sex? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We LOVED answering this question!  And kinda wished that we had a pet psychic along to chip in their thoughts!  (lol!) ... We have some ideas about what might be bothering you and a few solutions! ...

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Episode 91: How do I deal with a sexually selfish partner? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

What if your partner just isn't interested in your pleasure? How on earth do you deal?  Or should you? Today we talk about sexually selfish partners, and what you should (or shouldn't) do.  Learn m...

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Episode 90: Should sex hurt? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode, we talk about what to do if sex (ANY TYPE OF SEX!) hurts.  Check out this article on genital pain during sex, and this guide on treating vaginismus.    Learn more about your ad cho...

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Episode 89: What is sex? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today we talk about definitions of sex.  What counts as sex? What do other people consider sex?  Listen in and then check out some of the research here, here, and here! Learn more about your ad cho...

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Episode 88: What do I need to know about Chlamydia & Gonorrhea? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We've got the bacterial fraternal twins of STDs on our show today!  Get the low down on Chlamydia and Gonorrhea so you know you can protect yourself with confidence!  Share the episode, not STDs!  ...

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Episode 87: What should I have on hand for sleepover guests? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

On this week's episode, we talk about those little things you might want to have at your house to make someone else's life better.  You know, for when someone stays over and doesn't have all the th...

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Episode 86: What’s a sex menu? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today we talk about what a sex menu is, why you might want to make one, and how you can use it to talk to partners.  Check out the links for additional help!  Here's a sex menu template.  And here'...

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Episode 85: What can I do to prevent sexual assault and rape? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This week, we invite Ashley Falcon to talk about ways to prevent sexual assault and rape. She answers a whole bunch of questions that our listeners have submitted over the last 3 years with practic...

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Episode 84: Who needs sex therapy? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

One of our favorite guests is back!  Cyndi Darnell, the best sex therapist you know, is here to answer questions about who needs sex therapy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/ad...

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Episode 83: How did you know you were gay/bi/pan/straight? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 83, we talk about how we figure things out about ourselves, like sexual orientation/gender identity/relationship models.  How did you know? When did you know? What helped you know?   Lea...

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Episode 82: Vaginas, the episode. from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today we go DEEP with vaginas! We tackle three vagina questions: one from a female about her own body's looks and smells, and two from heterosexual men.  One of them is interested in learning more ...

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Episode 81: Why is my/his penis erect rn? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today we are talking about awkward erections: ones that you or your partner get at the most inappropriate times, whether it is a non-sexual time, or in the locker room.  We have answers for your HA...

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Episode 80: How kinky is too kinky? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

What is the difference between a kink and a fetish? We had a listener ask about a feeder fetish her boyfriend had, and in this episode we talk about how to explore kinks and where and how to set bo...

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Episode 79: Why do women fake orgasms (and what can we do about it)? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Faking orgasms is a cycle that can be SO HARD to break once you're in it!  We talk about motivations and rates of faking orgasms, as well as how you can break the cycle!  Just say NO to faking orga...

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Episode 78: My boyfriend/girlfriend wants a threesome; HELP!? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

So your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to have a threesome.  Congrats?  How you might feel:  excited/scared! Don't worry; we've got some advice! And don't forget about our PRIDE CONTEST - Post a pic...

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Episode 77: What can I do about "deathgrip"? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Is "deathgrip" real?  Why do we call it deathgrip when men can’t orgasm from sex but we don't have a word when women can't orgasm? And more!  Also, our PRIDE CONTEST!!  Post a picture of yourself a...

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Episode 76: When and how do I ask about a partner's sexual history? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Ever get cold feet bringing up sexual history with a partner or potential partner?  We've got you covered: here's the when, where, why, and how about it.  And, make sure you enter our PRIDE contest...

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Episode 75: Is being gay unnatural? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today we talk about nature/the world/sexual orientation.  Special shout out to June as PRIDE MONTH!  We’ll be having a contest starting next week where you can win condoms, gifts cards and MORE by ...

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Episode 74: What can I do about my depression affecting my sex life? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today, we tackle a big question about depression and sex: the relationships between them, the effects depression can cause, and some strategies to minimize the effects. If you or someone you know n...

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Episode 73: Instagram makes me feel insecure from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this week's episode, we discuss how social media, and Instagram specifically, sometimes make us feel bad about ourselves. AND, what we can do about it.  Here are some links we mention in the sho...

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Episode 72: Is PMS real? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Andrew and Spring discuss all things PMS.  Extra credit reading here, here, and here.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 71: What do I do when the condom doesn’t fit? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Episode 70 is all about condom myths and finding that perfect fit.  Don't ever believe someone that says "condoms don't fit me!" Also shout out to myonecondoms.com; they are giving our listeners a ...

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Episode 70: Bears and otters and twinks, OH MY! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 70 we talk about some of the terms used to describe gay men: what they are, how they're used, and what impact they might have.  Curious about the terms? Check the episode out!  And extra...

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Episode 69: How do I ask my bf to go down on me without feeling guilty? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

ALERT ALERT!  We hit episode 69!!!!  And, to celebrate, we are answering a question about oral sex! Today's episode is about how to ask a partner to give you oral sex without feeling guilty (someth...

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Episode 68: How can I keep up with my new girlfriend’s crazy high sex drive? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 68, we talk about discordant desire, or couples who have different levels of sex drives.  We talk about how each person in a couple can deal with that, and how to talk about it.  Super f...

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Episode 67: Will my vagina stretch out if I have a lot of sex? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 67, we get serious about the vagina.  Does it stretch? Does it stretch forever?  Will it un-stretch?  What's with all the jokes about stretched out vaginas?  This and more, in today's ep...

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Episode 66: Why is “coming out” a big deal? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Coming out (of the closet) is slang for people disclosing that they are "not straight." In this episode, we talk about coming out, why it is important, and how to support people in their process.  ...

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Episode 136: I'm thankful for sex. from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode, we chat about Thanksgiving, families, COVID, and obvs sex. We're thankful for our listeners. What are you thankful for? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 65: Will "blue balls" kill me? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Curious about whether blue balls are deadly?  What are blue balls, anyway???  Today we talk about blue balls, blue lips, and how to prevent them.  And your extra credit reading here:  https://www.n...

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Episode 135: What's up with butt plugs? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Do you need to up your sex toy IQ? Are you ready to move beyond vibrators and masturbation sleeves? We've got you. This episode is all about butt plugs: how to use them, why you might want to use ...

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Episode 64: How do you heal a broken heart? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today we talk about how to get over a break up, how to find closure, how to get back to feeling whole again!Shoutout to Khloe Kardashian and everyone else working to un-break their heart!  In this ...

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Episode 63: How can I make real friends? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Is it really harder to make friends as you get older?  Today we talk about how to develop friendships.  And, our tip of the day:  Sometimes reconnecting to existing friends is the fastest path!  An...

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Episode 62: What the hell is a female condom? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In honor of International Women's Day this week, we are talking about the female condom, also known as the internal condom.  Not only is it functional, but it puts a barrier method of protection in...

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Episode 61: Why do relationship titles stress me out? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Relationship titles like "boyfriend," "girlfriend," or "partner" can really be stressful.  There are a lot of expectations around relationship titles, both within the relationship and external to t...

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Episode 60: Should trans people be allowed to serve in the military? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This week Andrew and Spring discuss people who identify as transgender and their right to serve in the military. (And also tune in to hear about dance injuries!) Here are a few journal article link...

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Episode 59: How can I “Valentine’s” as a single? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This episode is all about love.  SELF-love, that is.  That's right; masturbation is the topic of the day!  Make sure you tune in to hear about Spring and Andrew's best/worst Valentine's Days as wel...

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Episode 58: Is it ok to talk about my sex life with my friends? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 58 we address a question submitted where a woman stated that her boyfriend doesn’t like it when she talks about their sex with her friends.  This episode was a couple of months in the ma...

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Episode 57: How can I ask my girlfriend to dress less sexy? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 57, we talk about clothing choices, insecurities, and jealousy.  (oh my!) Additionally, we continue with our new sexy reviews: this week we review Netflix's "Sex Education!" And, you can...

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Episode 56: Where is the clitoris? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Welcome to Season 2 of The Sex Wrap, where we are introducing a few new and exciting segments into our show!  We talk all about the clitoris today: where she is and how to get to know her!  Further...

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How sexy are the holidays though?!? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This is just us taking a moment to express some gratitude for YOU and to let you know we will be back in a few weeks with more great content!!!  xoxo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megapho...

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Episode 55: When do you say "I love you"? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

It can be really hard to express your feelings.  BUT ESPECIALLY THOSE THREE LITTLE WORDS!! On today's episode, we talk about how to figure out the right timing!  Aaaaand, use code SEXWRAP at the Su...

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Episode 54: When do you put the condom on? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode we discuss the condom: all things condom!  Make sure to check out the academic links if you want more in-depth info:  https://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/png/ajhb/2006/00000030/0...

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Episode 53: Can I have sex on my period? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

OF COURSE you can have sex on your period!... and other aspects of the question answered. We  mention both THINX and Dear Kate period underwear! Here's a code for 20% off Dear Kates: FRIEND-KGFKBTL...

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Episode 52: Is pulling out a good form of protection ? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Please don't listen to us sing at the beginning of this episode.  But the rest--on "the pull out" method of birth control--is fantastic!  Just like JENGA! Academic Links:https://www.cdc.gov/reprod...

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Episode 51: Why is virginity important? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode we talk about what virginity is and what it isn't... and what it might be.  We give a special shoutout to the Manwhore podcast, hosted by friend of the podcast Billy Procida! And he...

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Episode 50: That's so gay! (the episode) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The whole question is: "Why do people get upset when I say 'that’s gay'?  ...I’m not homophobic!" and we are here to answer it! Special shoutout to the "It gets better" project, plus lots of links!...

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Episode 49: Can you help me have sex with the lights on? (How body image affects sex) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 49, we discuss how our society and environment impact our body image and how our body image can affect our sexual interactions.  How dare that billboard prevent your orgasm?! Shoutout to...

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Does voting make you SEXY?! from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This is a Sex Wrap teaser///a reminder to VOTE tomorrow (or a reminder to get someone to vote if you are under 18!).  xoxo, America.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 48: How do I teach my friends about sex? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This week we talk about how to share all this awesome information you're learning through our podcast!  How do you share it? How do you spread it?  Also, if you'd like to delve into the topic a lit...

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Episode 47: What about long distance relationships? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Episode 47 is all about long D.  (long distance that is!)  We talk about strategies for keeping long distance relationships healthy and sexy!  We also give a shout out to the new season of Big Mout...

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Episode 46: #whydontwomenreport sexual assault? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

The hashtag #whydontwomenreport has made a splash recently, and we think it needs to be talked about MORE.  The reasons people don't report sexual assault are as diverse as we, as humans, are.  And...

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Episode 45: What is GGG? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

If you listen to podcasts about sex, or do searches about sex, or use dating apps, it's likely that you've come across the acronym "GGG" before.  We talk about what it means, both the abbreviation ...

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Episode 44: What about anal sex? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Anal sex is the question today.  We talk to expert sex therapist Cyndi Darnell about tips on how to get started and how to not get too anal about anal sex.  Cyndi also offers y'all a discount code ...

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Episode 42: What about herpes? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

What's the big deal with herpes anyway? Doesn't everyone have it? We talk stats, prevention, treatment, and de-stigmatization! And check out this from Adam Ruins Everything! Learn more about your a...

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Episode 41: Why can't boys wear makeup? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Are you ever frustrated at some of the sexual double standards that exist in our society? We're here to keep talking about them! In this episode, we get into makeup! We mention a few people you mig...

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Episode 40: How do I use online dating apps? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Curious about how to set up a profile, what to include, or how to message someone in the online dating world? Look no further; here's your intro! There's also a reminder about our upcoming booth at...

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Episode 39: Why don't women like sex? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 39, we talk about ORGASM STEALERS! And some myths about female sex drive, some facts around female sexuality, and why there are perceptions that women just don't like sex. Take a listen!...

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Episode 38: Does penis size matter? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

There are a few questions that we just get over and over: emailed, sent over social media, asked in class, asked at parties... and this is one of them. In this episode, we talk about penis size, av...

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Episode 37: Is it ever ok to "out" someone? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This week we talk about "outting" someone: is it ever ok? What does it mean to be "outted" and how do you handle it if someone outs someone else to you? Also, we will be at The Sex Expo in Brooklyn...

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Episode 36: Should I NoFap? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

What is NoFap? Is there science behind it? Does it make sense to participate in? All of these questions and more will be answered on the podcast today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megap...

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Episode 128: Are you clean? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

What's wrong with asking the question: "Are you clean?" is up today. We discuss how to ask the questions you really want to ask about sexually transmitted infections and how to do it, all without ...

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Episode 35: Why has ghosting become so common? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 35, we discuss the phenomenon of ghosting. We talk about what it is, why people do it, how to get over it, and how it affects our whole society. GHOSTING IS THE WORST!! Listen in and joi...

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Episode 127: Can I get a little privacy? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

For a lot of people, September means back to school. And even though this year's back to school may look very different, it will always come with MORE QUESTIONS ABOUT SEX! This week we talk about h...

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Episode 34: What's wrong with slut shaming? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 34, we talk about what slut shaming is, and how it affects both us, as individuals, and the collective us, as a society. We also present a few ideas about how to call it out! Learn more ...

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Episode 33: What are your secret single behaviors? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 33, we talk about what secret single behaviors: what they are in general AND what ours are!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 32: Why do we celebrate PRIDE? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Episode 32 talks about why we celebrate PRIDE, including some of the history of PRIDE celebrations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 31: What is "Plan B"? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 31, we discuss the morning after pill: everything you need to know, including when it is most effective, what it actually does, and how to access it. Learn more about your ad choices. Vi...

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Episode 30: What is revenge porn? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This episode is more personal than most: Spring talks about her experiences with having revenge porn posted of her. We also talk about what to do if you find out that images/gifs/videos have been s...

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Episode 29: What is Vanjie? (What is DRAG?) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Hot topic alert! Episode 29 talks about DRAG: the what, the why, the culture, and, of course, Miss Vanjie. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 28: How does polyamory work? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This week we discuss polyamory: what it is, what it isn't, and how people negotiate it. Ever been curious about what an open relationship is or how it works? Here's your chance to learn! In the sho...

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Episode 27: Why should I get tested? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This is one of those questions that we have been asked too many times to count. So, here you go! All the reasons to get tested; how to make it habit; how to make it fun; how to involve your friends...

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Episode 26: How do I act sexy? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Episode 26 answers the age old question "how do I act sexy?" It's one of those things people struggle with over the course of their lives and relationships, and we're here to help! Learn more about...

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Episode 25: How can I help a trans partner feel comfortable? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 25, we have an extra special guest: Jax! Jax is a transwoman who joined our show to helps us answer a listener-submitted question about helping to create a positive environment for a pot...

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Episode 24: What is toxic masculinity? (Why does my boyfriend refuse to cry?) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 24, we talk about what toxic masculinity is, why it is a problem, and what we can do to combat it. Along with a call to action!!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adc...

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Episode 23: Why do I keep getting friendzoned? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 23, we discuss the concept of "friendzoning" and what it means. What does the term really imply? What harm does the term do? And how can we relate to each other more honestly? Learn more...

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Episode 22: What is a dental dam? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 22, we answer the age old question, what in the heck is a dental dam? Also, why you might want to use one, what you use it for, and even how to make your own! Top of the show features a ...

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Episode 21: What are the pros and cons of sexting? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 21, we talk about sexting, including all the pros and cons you need to take into consideration. We cover the legal issues, the privacy issues, and, of course, Snapchat! (And don't forget...

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Episode 20: Is it ok to watch porn? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 20, we talk about the concerns people have about watching porn. Is it healthy? Is it normal? Is there anything to be concerned about? Is there an age that is becomes ok to watch? Learn m...

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Episode 19: LGBTQQIP2SAA: Why do we need the whole alphabet? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 19, we discuss what the letters in LGBTQQIP2SAA stand for, and why they're important. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 18: Can you believe it's been 1 year? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This is our 1 year anniversary episode! Spring and Andrew reflect and ask each other a few questions! HOORAY FOR ONE YEAR OF THE SEX WRAP!! Hit us with your questions for the new year!!! Learn more...

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Episode 17: How do you move from "vanilla" to "kink"? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 17, we talk about strategies for discussing trying new things with your partner. And WHAT to try. And WHEN to ask. All of the things! UnderCovers and Kindu are example apps that you can ...

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Episode 16: Why do people like cuddling? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 16, we talk about everything cuddly. Why do people like cuddling? What's the best way to do it? Does it lead to sex? Can it lead to sex? AND this is our first episode with new music from...

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Episode 15: Why are we still talking about #metoo? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 15 we talk about the campaign #metoo: why it is important, why we are still talking about it, and what you can do to get other people to understand its importance and/or start to shift t...

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Episode 14: Is bisexuality a legit orientation? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 14 we discuss bisexuality: what does it mean when someone identifies as bisexual? Is bisexuality really just a stop on the way to gay? Tune in to hear us hit the B in LGBT! Learn more ab...

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Episode 13: How do I prevent rejection? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Episode 13--unlucky13--is all about rejection. How do you prevent it? How do you handle it? How do you get the f*ck over it? All this and more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/...

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Episode 12: Does he/she/they like me? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 12 we answer the age old question: how do you know if someone likes you? What do you do if you think someone likes you? How do you go from wondering to dating or a relationship? And ever...

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Episode 11: Is there a pill to prevent HIV? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In Episode 11 we talk about all things PrEP, the pill that prevents against HIV. How it is used, who it is for, and how to tell if it is right for you! This week our usual co-host Andrew was withou...

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Episode 10: What's your number? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Episode 10 dares to ask the age old question: What's your number? As in, how many people have you hooked up with? How many people have you done the nasty with? How many people have you rounded the ...

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Episode 9: My partner has HPV; what do I need to know? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Episode 9 answers all your (burning?) questions about HPV, the sexually transmitted virus that causes some cancers and genital warts. Have a partner with it? Worried you have it? We tell you everyt...

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Episode 8: Is masturbation healthy? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 8 we talk about masturbation and its relationship to health, including: emotional health, physical health, and relationship health. Tune in! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megap...

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Episode 7: What does it mean when someone asks for your "preferred pronouns"? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Episode 7 of The Sex Wrap is all about preferred pronouns. What does it mean when someone asks for your preferred pronouns? What are acceptable answers? What do you do if you mess up preferred pron...

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Episode 126: Welcome to Season 3! (Can I just wear a mask and have sex?) from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Welcome back! In our intro to season 3 we do an update on BLM and dating during COVID. Is it ok to wear masks and not get your faces near each other and hook up with someone? What does our relation...

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Episode 6: 13 Reasons and What should consent look like? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today we talk about the Netflix series "13 Reasons" and the examples of sexual assault and rape it portrays. What should consent look like? Listen for more! Link to "the tea video" is here: https:/...

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Episode 5: Can I get pregnant on my period? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Episode 5 answers one of our most common questions: Can I get pregnant on my period? (Or, can you get someone pregnant while they are on their period?) ...and we explain why it may be possible. #cy...

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Episode 4: Why do I need to use lube? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In episode 4, we answer the question "Why do I need to use lube?" along with why you might WANT to use it, what types to use, and how we might re-frame the conversation around it. #luberocks Learn ...

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Episode 3: What do you wish you had known about S-E-X at 16? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode, we discuss what we wish we had known when we were younger, a question we get quite often. From "keeping up" with friends, to being confident, check our recs! Learn more about your ...

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Episode 2: What does pubic hair have to do with sexually transmitted diseases? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode, we discuss public hair, and how it relates to STDs. An article in the news we discuss: http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-12-06/frequent-pubic-hair-removal-linked-to-stis-study-finds/...

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Episode 1: Welcome to The Sex Wrap and How do women orgasm? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This is THE ONE, THE ONLY, THE FIRST episode of THE SEX WRAP! We discuss a bit of our origin story, and the female orgasm. intro/outro credit: Stephen Cavaliero Learn more about your ad choices. Vi...

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Episode 134: What do I actualy need to know about pregnancy? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

One of the problems with sex ed is that we usually don't get information on a topic until it's too late. Sure, you're not pregnant. But are there things you should know about pregnancy? Are there s...

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Episode 133: How and when to have the “what are we” conversation? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

D-T-R! D-T-R! Defining a relationship has a lot of emotional baggage, but today we talk about how to do it, when to do it, and some general tips for getting you through it. Learn more about your ad...

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Does voting makes you a good lover? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Make sure you know where your voting location is: check here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Episode 130: How do you balance your relationship with your friendships? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

We are constantly seeking balance--in our work vs personal lives, in our URL vs IRL lives, and in our romantic vs platonic relationships. And this episode gets into the whys, hows, and tips related...

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Episode 132: Texting Bootcamp from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

This is the episode you've been waiting for! All your text etiquette (textiquette) is outlined and your hardest text replies drafted for you. Spring's got your back on this one; you can even text y...

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Episode 129: What if I get kicked out for coming out? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In honor of National Coming Out Day, we tackle a hard one this week: what to do if you think your parents might kick you out for coming out of the closet. This is especially important now, with so ...

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Episode 131: Why can't I stay hard? from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Today we talk about what is happening when someone loses an erection--internally and externally. How does it affect each person in the situation? And how do you get through it and possibly preven...

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Episode 1: Welcome to The Sex Wrap and How do women orgasm? from 2016-12-14T05:43

This is THE ONE, THE ONLY, THE FIRST episode of THE SEX WRAP! We discuss a bit of our origin story, and the female orgasm. intro/outro credit: Stephen Cavaliero ***This show is a part of the Podgl...

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Episode 1: Welcome to The Sex Wrap and How do women orgasm? from 2016-12-14T05:43

This is THE ONE, THE ONLY, THE FIRST episode of THE SEX WRAP! We discuss a bit of our origin story, and the female orgasm. intro/outro credit: Stephen Cavaliero ***This show is a part of the Podgl...

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