Podcasts by The Undesirables
A dating podcast by two guys who definitely shouldn't have a dating podcast.
Further podcasts by Tucker Winstanley, Tom Ella
Podcast on the topic Tagebücher
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"Oh god, what are we doing?" from 2023-12-13T12:46:33.646581
Your introduction to Tucker and Tom, two guys just trying their best.
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Listen"Oh god, what are we doing?" from 2022-03-07T02:04:37.552832
Your introduction to Tucker and Tom, two guys just trying their best.
If you like what you hear, please leave a five-star review on iTunes; it really does make a difference! Giv...
Listen"I have chlamydia" from 2019-07-31T12:35
We all knew it would come to this.
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ListenThe Sexual Fantasies Quiz from 2019-07-24T09:00
Tom, Tucker and official Undesirables senior gay correspondent James dive into a sexual fantasies quiz from Listen
Reporting LIVE from Tucker's bedroom from 2019-07-17T09:00
With Tucker out on assignment, Tom drops the hard news: There's only three episodes left in the season.
"Only three episodes left in the season?!"
O...
ListenPete and Josh, hosts of Poe Boys, a Star Wars podcast from 2019-07-10T09:00
Tom, not able to take the idea of asking Tucker another single question about his dating life, decides to hop on a train out of the city to catch up with his old friends and hosts of the Listen
Kissin' dudes, dating profile review, and shout outs from 2019-07-03T09:00
Tucker and Tom decide to let their natural charisma take over to talk about something other than kissin' ladies for a change... and end up talking about kissin' dudes. They talk about th...
ListenJames, senior gay correspondent, on Grindr, hookup culture, and tongue from 2019-06-26T09:00
No one has more dirt on Tucker and Tom than James. No one. He's known them for decades, lived with them for a full year, and liked them for weeks.
Official Undesirables seni...
ListenRead receipts, dating attrition, and tangents from 2019-06-19T09:00
After so many out-of-order or months-delayed episodes, Tucker and Tom take a quick squat and chat about what going on in their dating lives right now. Tom's soliciting teens for "journal...
ListenB & L, the anonymous hosts of Not Your Girlfriend's Podcast from 2019-06-12T09:00
Imagine Tucker and Tom unleashed. No more of this weak "let's rein it back to protect our friends and loved ones." That's what it's like for B and L, the anonymous hosts of N...
ListenDr. Maggie Dancel, psychologist and sex therapist from 2019-06-05T09:00
Finally seeking outside help, Tucker and Tom bring in Dr. Maggie Dancel, a clinical psychologist specializing in sex, to answer burning questions like: What is "too much masturbation"? W...
ListenA Song of Ignorance and Identity from 2019-05-29T09:00
When Tom downloads a new dating app called Feeld and discovers a whole new world of gender identity and sexual orientation, he and Tucker decide it's high time to confront their towering ign...
ListenTom's Jenny debacle, pt. III, an extreme ghosting from 2019-05-22T09:00
In the last episode Jenny, Tom's friend turned romantic interest, seemingly dropped off the face of the planet. A few days later, Tom finally gets a response. Tune in to find out what happen...
ListenKait Emery, pt. II, on Tom's great Jenny debacle from 2019-05-15T10:05:19
In the second half of our chat with Kait, Tom tells the story his rom-com gone wrong while Kait weighs in on topics like how to take your own wants into consideration when defining the relations...
ListenKait Emery, senior relationship expert correspondent from 2019-05-08T09:00
In the first of three gripping installments, Tucker brings in official Undesirables senior relationship expert correspondent Kait Emery to dissect and diagnose Tom's latest lady problems. Th...
ListenTori Piskin, pt. II, on texting, chivalry and Tinder disasters from 2019-05-01T16:00
Comedian Tori Piskin is back with more hilarious stories in this second part. Learn all about whether calling or texting is worse, whether chivalry is dead (and whether it's sexist), whether...
ListenTori Piskin, comedian and host of Got It From My Mama podcast from 2019-04-24T09:00
Tucker and Tom sit down with Tori Piskin, an incredible comedian who hosts a dating podcast with her mom called Got It From My Mama. They chat about divulging their sex lives to their m...
ListenTucker's big breakup from 2019-04-17T09:00
Tom's been going on too many dates and Tucker breaks the news about his breakup with Planetarium Girl. Along the way, we talk about Tom's first (and likely only) date from Bumble, casual...
ListenTom tries speed dating 2.0 from 2019-04-10T09:00
Tom sits down with Ben Goodman from CitySwoon to find out what the hell is "speed dating 2.0" and how fast is he going to get rejected by how many people, exactly? Then, Tom and Tucker d...
ListenLindsey Metselaar from We Met At Acme from 2019-04-03T09:00
Tom and Tucker sit down with Lindsey Metselaar, the amazing and talented host of the hit dating podcast We Met At Acme, for a lively chat about astrology, what it's like to date with a datin...
ListenLaura and Dylan Petro, founders of dating app Bounce from 2019-03-27T09:00
Tucker and Tom sit down with Laura and Dylan Petro, sister-brother duo and two of the founders of Bounce, a new spontaneous dating app where you match and make plans for a date ~tonight~ all wit...
ListenTom's blind date from Time Out's The Undateables from 2019-03-20T12:40:28
Tom went on a blind date through Time Out magazine's The Undateables column and has a lot to say about it. Then he sits down with Will Gleason, the matchmaker behind the column, to debrief a...
ListenLong distance woes and having a type from 2019-03-13T09:00
Tucker and his girlfriend *REDACTED* grapple with having different long distance styles, how much to communicate, and how specific a person's "type" can get (answer: very). Tom reach...
ListenRachel, pt. II, on "Facebook official" and exes from 2019-03-06T10:00
While Rachel and Tucker re-litigate their breakup, Tom gets sad over his own.
Along the way, they answer some important questions like does Piggly Wiggly still exist and how sen...
ListenRachel, Tucker's ex, on her first ever Tinder date from 2019-02-27T10:00
Tucker and Tom's friend Rachel is BACK by popular demand! She drove all the way to the Big Apple to finally try this whole "Tinder" thing out for real and actually go on a date!
They addre...
Phone sex, bad sex and the morning after from 2019-02-20T10:00
Tucker and Tom explore the awkward beginnings of phone sex and the awkward endings of bad dates.
It's been a few months since Tucker and Tom got to sit down one on one and catch each other...
Deanna Richards, relationship therapist, on polyamory from 2019-02-14T11:00
Tucker and Tom are back... in relationship therapy.
After what some would call "a season's worth of misery" and others would call "friendship," Tucker and Tom decide it's time to bring the...
Season 1 recap trailer from 2018-11-28T10:00
The Undesirables are coming back for season 2 on Valentine's Day 2019! Catch up on season 1 now.
Season one finale: Are dating apps good? Are we bad? from 2018-05-30T09:00
Season one is over so Tucker and Tom take a hot minute to reflect on all the mistakes they made along the way.
Lucy Sweetkill, professional dominatrix and sex educator from 2018-05-09T09:00
Special guest and professional dominatrix Lucy Sweetkill teaches Tucker how to choke someone sexually without totally murdering them and tells Tom exactly what kind of bottom he is.
Short-term relationships and unreciprocated texts from 2018-04-25T09:00
Tucker breaks up with New York for the weekend while Tom perfects the art of not getting dates.
Labels, how soon to meet up and breakup stories from 2018-04-11T09:00
Tucker and Tom swap stories to figure out who breaks up with people the worst. Is it too close to call? Let us know.
Jacques Boudreau, resident married guy, on being married from 2018-04-04T09:00
Not even 10 episodes in, Tom finally replaces Tucker.
Rachel, Tucker's ex-girlfriend, on swiping without intention from 2018-03-28T09:00
Tom reveals the results of his human experiments while Tucker and special guest Rachel pat each other on the back for leading on romantic interests.
Fetish requests and defining the relationship from 2018-03-21T09:00
Tom sabotages his chances at finding love by being too cheap again. Tucker has an anxiety attack LIVE ON AIR.
Failed hookups and dating multiple people from 2018-03-14T09:00
Tom sees the sunrise. Tucker sees only guilt.
Tom's big breakup and Tucker's sex hang-ups from 2018-03-07T10:00
Tom's got big news and Tucker pulls defeat from the jaws of success.
Hitting it, quitting it and actively flirting from 2018-02-28T10:00
Tucker and Tom both score dates and immediately find themselves in over their heads.
Tom's desperate quest on hookup app Pure from 2018-02-21T10:00
In a desperate quest for intimacy, Tom finds himself with a fresh perspective on the hookup app Pure.
"Oh god, what are we doing?" from 2018-02-14T10:00
Your introduction to Tucker and Tom, two guys just trying their best.