Podcasts by Were Having Gay Sex
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.
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Shannon Beveridge Caught on Tape from 2021-05-24T03:26:52
HOLY CRAP IT'S SHANNON BEVERIDGE! You've been requesting her for a year and now she's here. We talk about dating someone who won't come out, why it's sexy to almost get caught, and the origin story...
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Michaela Okland Catfishes on Club Penguin (Straight, Gay, No They) from 2021-05-17T04:35:08
Michaela Okland (She Rates Dogs) joins the podcast and we delve into her queer cat-fishing roots on club penguin. We discuss the origins of her podcast, which turn out to be the gay agenda, and tal...
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Marth Woertman Chooses to be Gay from 2021-05-11T08:35:40
Marth Woertman (@marthwatermelon on ig and @marthwubbles on tiktok) brings the heat on this episode and we both melted. She discusses being a queer model, being bi and having masc energy, and her g...
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Kate Willett Joined Scientology for a Girl from 2021-05-03T03:12:20
Kate Willett (Netflix, Colbert, Comedy Central, & Reply Guys podcast) relives the drama of losing her dream girl, and then attempting to join Scientology to get her back. We also cover bi-curiosity...
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Evan Ross Katz Questions Your Character from 2021-04-26T08:24:26
Evan Ross Katz (Shut Up Evan podcast) is totally un-cancel-able in this episode, no matter how hard Ashley tries to trick him. We get into sexting, how a relationship can start in a beautiful slow...
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Youngmi Mayer is a Chaotic Bottom from 2021-04-19T04:44:09
Youngmi Mayer (Feeling Asian podcast) bros out with us on the podcast this week and we talk about chaotic bottom-ing, fire sign energy, and the complexities of dating someone who is cis "passing". ...
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Alyx Weiss: Live & Die Loving Hot Moms from 2021-04-12T02:53:49
Alyx Weiss (YouTube @ayydubs) gives us some age gap loving lessons on this very steamy episodes. We talk hot moms, our celebrity crushes when we were kids, but also ostriches. Ashley gets f*cked in...
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Ellie Desautels Stars in You've Got Male from 2021-04-05T03:00:58
Ellie Desautels (NBC's Rise, Disclosure) gives us the deets about they meet their partner on Tumblr, asexuality and non-genital sex. We also dive deep into the merits of regular back rubs and soft ...
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Chrissy Chlapecka is Gay on Main but not in Maine from 2021-03-29T04:30:35
Chrissy Chlapecka (@chrissychlapecka on TikTok and IG, @chrissyschlapp on twitter) reflects on her very gay days of denial, what it means to be a bimbo, and does some very sexy ASMR. Ashley gets fi...
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Sammie Cimarelli Does Not F*ck w/ a Turkey Gobbler from 2021-03-22T04:30:13
Sammie Cimarelli (The Circle on Netflix) does not take shit from anyone, especially when it comes to bi-phobia, coming out, and poultry. We talk boundary setting, and realizing you're in love at Wa...
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Violet Benson Leaves The Cameras On from 2021-03-15T04:16:09
This week Violet Benson (Too Tired To Be Crazy podcast, Daddy Issues on IG) schools us on zodiac signs, rebounding, and general self awareness. We get into how she discovered she was pan, hooking u...
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Remy Kassimir is Themy Kassimir from 2021-03-08T05:14:53
Remy Kassimir (Netflix, How Cum podcast) is BACK and they are GONNA CRY. No seriously we get to some really deep shit on this episode, and we are so honored that Remy came back. Ashley shares her e...
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Kevin McHale; Glee Star Best Known from The Office from 2021-03-01T07:03:04
Kevin McHale (Glee & The Office), if you are reading this, honestly, why did you do our podcast? We didn't deserve you. Kevin shares discovering fanfic about himself and his co-stars on Glee, getti...
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Shea Diamond Proves Everything is Gay from 2021-02-22T04:01:57
Shea Diamond (Spotify "I am Her", "American Pie", "I am America", "Good Pressure") blesses us by breaking into song on this episode. Shea recounts her tale of running away from home so that she co...
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Francesca Farago: Never Have I Ever from 2021-02-15T04:20:59
Francesca Farago (Netflix Too Hot To Handle, Farago The Label) made our dreams come true on the podcast this week. We talk about her budding love story with her new girlfriend Demi Sims (Towie), ho...
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Taylor Strecker Doesn't Need a Label from 2021-02-08T03:56:33
This episode we do a deep dive w/ actual radio royalty Taylor Strecker! We cover her entire coming out process from divorcing her husband, wondering if she was asexual (and might still be a little)...
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First Time Daddy w/ Watts The Safe Word from 2021-02-01T04:03:25
It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp from "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for...
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Carlene Purcell Doesn't Booby Honk from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Carlene Purcell opens up about learning to orgasm again after her spinal cord injury. We discuss her incredible psychosexual therapist, Michelle Donald, stimulating all different parts of your anat...
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Jeff Perla has Lazer Ass from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Jeff Perla, famous for taking pictures of asses around the world (you can see them on @thetravelinbum), sits down with us to talk all things BUTTS. We also discuss his hook up with a 27-year-old ba...
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Milo Alosi is DONE with Canadians from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Milo Alosi (Aladdin on Broadway) joins the podcast to discuss his horrible track record with Canadian men and his coming out story as a cis-male pansexual. Ashley has a fling with a single mom from...
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Remy Kassimir's Threesome Was Poorly Configured from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Remy Kassimir (Netflix, How Cum Podcast) has a poorly configured threesome. Ashley picks up a straight stranger on the subway. Gara fights with a girl about who is the top. We discuss what goes int...
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Rayna Greenberg's Dad is Proud She Eats Pu**y from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Ashley has sex with someone in the witness protection program. Gara eats pussy for the very first time. Rayna Greenberg (Girls Gotta Eat) hooks up with a ballet bear. We also discuss how to thought...
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An Introduction to Gay Sex from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Enjoy a preview of what's to come on WE'RE HAVING GAY SEX, and yes, straight people are welcome too. After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for a life of slee...
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Mila Myles: Champion Squirter from 2021-01-25T05:00:51
Mila Myles (New York State of Mindfulness podcast) is on the podcast this week and they finally answer your most burning sex questions: What is knuckling? Can everyone squirt? And is sex better on ...
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Georgia Bridgers Names Names from 2021-01-18T05:22:22
Georgia Bridgers (YouTube, ok anyway podcast) guests on the pod this week and brings *major* star power and leo energy. We discuss the first time she *did it*, coming out on YouTube, and being bi b...
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Demi Burnett Wants The Meatloaf from 2021-01-11T06:34:09
HOLY SH*T DEMI BURNETT IS ON THE PODCAST!!!! On this episode we talk about coming out on national TV (Demi is a Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise alum) her big top energy and the people who can top...
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Chris Sapphire Gets Lonely, Drunk, and Plays Avril Lavigne from 2021-01-04T04:47
Chris Sapphire (Netflix's The Circle) brings all the energy on this episode and we're here for it. We talk about why hook up life wasn't right for him, being gay *and* spiritual, and loving yoursel...
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Lorelei Ramirez Starring in BUM BUM TIME! from 2020-12-28T04:24:05
Lorelei Ramirez (Los Espookys on HBO, and the New York Times) joins us for an incredibly avant garde, poignant episode where we get into codependency and boundaries to keep relationships healthy. A...
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Jared Freid is the Straight Ambassador of Male Ass Play (JTrain & U Up?) from 2020-12-21T04:23:26
Jared Freid (JTrain Podcast & U Up? Podcast) might be our first ever straight male guest, but his official title is the ambassador of male ass play. We talk toxic masculinity, and the differences b...
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Breanne Williamson: Eat, Bre, Out (The Bre-peat) from 2020-12-14T06:37:43
Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain Podcast) is back for a BRE-peat episode and it's even better than the first. Breanne talks about the time she nearly died using ice cubes in bed. Jen (@jenparkerda...
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Brooke Lynn Hytes Pops the Cum Gutter Line (RuPaul's Drag Race) from 2020-12-07T04:34:24
Queen of all Drag Queens Brooke Lynn Hytes (RuPaul's Drag Race, Drag Race Canada) joins the podcast this week to discuss her love of pimple popping, dislike of anal, her desire to be alone and why ...
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Mat George is Straight for Love Island from 2020-11-30T04:21:08
Mat George (She Rates Dogs) tells us about how he is faking straight for Love Island casting and going viral twitter. He also discusses how he lost his virginity story and how he was outed. Ashley ...
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Alayna Joy Works on the Itty Bitty Bush Farm from 2020-11-23T04:58:41
Alayna Joy (1 billion YouTube followers) not only tells us about her first time giving and receiving oral sex, but it was also her first ever experience as a fully out gay woman. We also cover comp...
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Rayna Greenberg Accidentally Dated a Woman (Girls Gotta Eat) from 2020-11-16T04:35:14
Rayna Greenberg is BACK (Girls Gotta Eat) and she's here to evaluate whether or not Mayor Pete has B.D.E. and tells us about a time she accidentally went on a date with a woman. Ashley may or may n...
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Dyking Out w/ Carolyn Bergier & Melody Kamali from 2020-11-09T04:42:07
Carolyn Bergier & Melody Kamali (Dyking Out Podcast) join the podcast to discuss CBD lube, sex on a bunk bed, and hate banging on a Trump supporter's bed. Ashley laments not being able to eat more ...
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Medinah Monroe Soothes Your Hairy Swole from 2020-11-02T05:23:25
Medinah Monroe (Cocktales Podcast, Temptation Island, Dipsea) lends us her very sexy voice on this sensual episode. We talk about bringing a dildo into your hetero sex experiences and sexy authorit...
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Emery Pan F*cked in a Graveyard (Spooky Halloween Special) from 2020-10-26T03:59:42
Cosplay Icon Emery Pan (OnlyFans) curses this episode and gets our soundboard possessed. She discusses growing up in a religious cult and escaping to sexually experiment in a graveyard. Ashley has ...
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Ali Kolbert Says Men are Sweaters from 2020-10-19T03:46:16
Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show and the new host of TruTV's Top Secret Videos) drops in to debate whether or not she is a lesbian or bisexual. No one wins. We also get into quarantine break ups, and ...
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Dylan Adler *burp* is a Top from 2020-10-12T04:01:56
Comedian and composer Dylan Adler not only sings on this episode, but he also burps twice. We talk about his random threesome in a gay bar bathroom, getting strep twice from the same person, and no...
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Krystyna Hutchinson Milks a Prostate from 2020-10-05T04:12:08
The queen sex of podcasts Krystyna Hutchinson (Guys We F*****d, The Voices In Our Heads) joins the podcast to discuss her bi-curiosity, first time going down on a woman, and milking prostates. Ashl...
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Mac Kahey does Poppers, Poopers, and Poopcasts from 2020-09-28T03:42:14
WILDLY successful YouTube Comedian Mac Kahey loosens us up for a conversation about poppers, poopers, morning sex, and also his farm boy boyfriend. Ashley gets rejected. Gara dates a robot alien. <...
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Matteo Lane: Pro-Horse. Anti-Horse Girl. from 2020-09-21T04:12:24
Comedian Matteo Lane (Netflix, Colbert, Inside The Closet Podcast) drops some seriously hilarious opinions on the pod this week. We get his thoughts on horses and horse girls, Alice in Wonderland, ...
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Only Jayus is Ashley's Gay-Bred Daughter from 2020-09-14T02:25:33
Isabella Avila (Only Jayus) joins the pod to discuss coming out to her religious family at age 14, and choosing clothes to suit one's sexuality. We also do a lightning round of sex questions. Ashle...
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Joe Dombrowski Won't Join Your Manekin Party from 2020-09-07T04:35:27
Comedian Joe Dombrowski (Ellen) tells us his horrifying, manekin-filled story of nearly getting murdered via Grindr. We also dive into his experiences with Ellen (yes, Ellen of Ellen), being a gay ...
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Robin Tran Keeps Her Clothes On from 2020-08-31T04:45:16
Robin Tran (Comedy Central Roast Battle) joins us on the gay sex couch to discuss why she thinks sex with your clothes on is the hottest thing ever. Ashley has sex w/ Jen while her parents are home...
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Breanne Williamson is Quick Switch Bre from 2020-08-25T03:59
Breanne Williamson (YouTube) dishes on her favorite dirty talk and sexting techniques, and re-tells the story of how she met her girlfriend of 5 years. We also get into the perks of being in an "op...
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Amber Martinez is a Witch from 2020-08-17T04:25:09
Amber Martinez (MTV's Are You The One) blesses the podcast with her witchy knowledge on this possibly hexed episode. We discuss witches and the queer community, being cheated on, and handcuffs in b...
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The Jelly Filled Girls Love Boston Creams from 2020-08-10T03:42:14
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Jaye McBride Books BJ Appointments from 2020-08-03T04:23:27
Jaye McBride (Pride Parade of Stand Up on iTunes & more) talks about her first sexual experience with a man, her boob job, and tells one of the hottest sex stories we've had on the pod (it involves...
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Sarah Schauer Tells Jokes in Bed from 2020-07-27T04:36:30
Sarah Schauer (of internet fame and irl talent) blesses us with her presence. We discuss making jokes while banging and covertly masturbating in public spaces. We also discuss growing up queer in r...
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Kai Wes is Mr. Bigwood from 2020-07-06T03:45:47
Kai Wes (MTV's Are You The One) talks about getting on Grindr for the first time, taking testosterone, and androgynous privilege. Ashley last minute hook up decision. Gara gets kicked out of their ...
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Corinne Fisher is Begging You to Take Off Your Acrylics from 2020-06-28T04:00
Corinne Fisher (Guys We F****d) tells the WHGS duo about the traumatizing time she got fingered in a nightclub by a woman with acrylics on. Ashley breaks her rule and has sex with a straight girl (...
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Izzy McCalla Comes Towards The Light from 2020-06-22T03:43:07
Izzy McCalla (star of Aladdin and The Prom on Broadway) dishes on all the times she's had sex in public. Ashley "swallows" for a squirter. Gara comes for the first time on the floor of their commun...
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Rita Brent Knows That Scissoring is Hunchin' from 2020-06-15T04:16:10
Rita Brent (Comedy Central, TruTV) joins WHGS to discuss female wet dreams, the differences between scissoring, hunching, and tribbing, and what it was like to marry a man despite knowing she was g...
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Dida Ritz Cleans Her Pipes w/ Drain-O from 2020-06-08T03:34:27
Dida Ritz (RuPaul's Drag Race, Queer Table) joins Ashley and Gara to discuss how preparing for gay sex is a lot like playing Candy Land. Ashley swears she did not put her teeth on the clit of her f...
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Black Lives Matter: Conversations w/ 3 Black Comedians from 2020-06-01T04:18:10
Featuring Jourdain Fisher (Comedy Central, The Tonight Show), Jay Jurden (HBO, Comedy Central, The Tonight Show) and Alysia Brown (Vulture). This week we are highlighting the work of black artists ...
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Brian Bahe Loves Your Hairy Butthole from 2020-05-25T03:25:09
Comedian Brian Bahe (Sketchfest) opens up about his fight against the fear of eating ass, while Ashley repeatedly gets strep throat from eating too much of it. Gara has sex with their twin (figurat...
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Emma Willmann Straps Into Her Strap-On from 2020-05-18T03:48:55
Comedian Emma Willmann (Netflix, Colbert, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend) recalls the first time she went into a sex store (to purchase a strap-on). Ashley has sex with a strap-on for the first time. Gara hoo...
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Paige Cole Uncorks The Pork from 2020-05-11T03:17:04
Paige Cole (MTV 's Are You The One) dives deep into her intense break up with her boyfriend from the show, getting off while living w/ your parents during quarantine, and the best and worst behind ...
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TikTok Ban Bonus: Dedicated To The Youth from 2020-05-08T17:51:54
As Ashley battles a ban on her TikTok account (@ashgavscomedy is the new one) the WHGS gang decides to dedicate a special episode to the youths from TikTok that made the podcast go viral. On this e...
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Jay Jurden Takes a Nude Every Morning from 2020-04-20T04:01
We discuss all things quarantine/online sex with thirst trap expert Jay Jurden (Tonight Show, Comedy Central, HBO). From gay alter-identities on twitter, to nudes, to thirst traps, we cover it all....
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Hannah Berner Has Big D**k/Denise Energy from 2020-04-13T03:15
We sit down with Hannah Berner (Bravo’s Summer House, Berning In Hell Podcast) to discuss her BDE, being a “butchy” straight girl, and watching solo female porn. Ashley accidentally says “I love yo...
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Jes Tom Deep Fists Gynecologist from 2020-04-06T02:08
Ashley prepares for gay sex the hottest woman she's ever seen. A stranger slides into Gara's DMs for the very first time. Comedian Jes Tom has the best sex of their life with a gynecologist. We als...
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Fat Carrie Bradshaw is Straight Bait from 2020-04-06T02:07:26
Ashley and Gara are surprised by unexpected bodily fluids inside their sexual partners. Chris Burns AKA Fat Carrie Bradshaw (Betches, Middle Children) gets kicked off Grindr. We also discuss what i...
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Rayna Greenberg's Dad is Proud She Eats Pu**y (Girls Gotta Eat) from 2020-04-06T02:07:04
Ashley has sex with someone in the witness protection program. Gara eats pussy for the very first time. Rayna Greenberg (Girls Gotta Eat) hooks up with a ballet bear. We also discuss how to thought...
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