Podcasts by Were Not Together with Zack & Haley
Zack and Haley are both gay, but they are definitely not together. Every week Z & H tackle queer topics from a gay and lesbian perspective featuring guests from within the community and the occasional straight-of-the-week!
DM us or email us with your own burning questions so we can answer them on the show! :D
Hopefully educational. Hopefully funny. Definitely gay.
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Episode 69: Racism In Theater ft. Heath Saunders from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
This week, Haley and Zack are joined by singer, songwriter, composer, writer, and actor Health Saunders to talk about their retrospective article on the use of black bodies in theater, redefining t...
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Episode 64: Delayed High School Experiences ft. Laura Ansill from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Zack and Haley chat about how queer people sometimes miss out on the stereotypical high school experience and end up acting out those experiences later in different ways. To do that we sit down wit...
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Episode 79: Listener Advice #9 from 2020-12-17T08:00:30
Tis the season for giving, and we're giving you a whole lot of love! You asked, we're answering!! It's another Listener Advice episode, where we chat when coming out to family doesn't feel like an ...
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Episode 78: Dads ft Brandon Shypkowski from 2020-12-03T08:00:35
No, no, no, no. Not "Daddies". DADS. We're talking Pops, your old man, father figures and the relationships us queer folks have with them. To help us do that we have writer/actor Brandon Shypkowski...
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Episode 77: Cults ft. Lola Blanc from 2020-11-19T08:00:51
Greetings from your fearless leaders! Do you think you could never be susceptible to a cult? Think again! This week Haley and Zack are joined by writer, director, musician, actor, and podcast host ...
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Episode 76: Throuples ft. Brandon Renfroe from 2020-11-12T08:00:28
We're back! And what better way to return from our long break than a discussion about throuples featuring our good friend Brandon Renfroe! We chat about how similar throuples can be to couples, how...
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Episode 75: Sex Toys from 2020-09-24T02:42:08
Let's talk about sex toys, baby! Haley gives us an in depth look at the sex toy industry from jade butt plugs to steam-powered vibrators and beyond! Then Zack has a little surprise in store a la an...
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Episode 74: Hobby Gays ft Ted Biaselli from 2020-09-10T18:27:03
Now that we're all stuck indoors there's no time like the present than to immerse yourself in your hobbies, so we're talking with Netflix exec and action figure collector, Ted Biaselli. We chat abo...
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Episode 73: Britney Spears ft. Seth Rabinowitz from 2020-08-27T07:00:07
This week, Haley and Zack are joined by returning guest, actor and social commentator Seth Rabinowitz. We talk about Britney Spears' conservatorship, the pros and cons of the #freebritney movement,...
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Episode 72: Trans Non-Binary ft. Kaek Mx from 2020-08-13T07:00:23
This week, Haley and Zack are joined by activist Kaek Mx to talk about their journey as a trans non-binary individual, chat about some common questions trans non-binary folx run into, and help us w...
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Episode 71 - "Bisexual-Lesbian" ft Emily Pearse from 2020-07-30T07:00:36
It's a pansexual pow-wow!! Zack and Haley discuss the hotly debated term "bisexual-lesbian" with our special guest Emily Pearse. We speak on where it came from, why it gives some people pause, and ...
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Episode 70: Listener Advice #8 from 2020-07-09T06:52:48
We're back at it again with another listener advice episode! We're answering YOUR questions on relationships during Covid, dog ownership, how having super powers is probably weirder in practice, an...
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Ep. 68: The Stonewall Riots from 2020-06-04T07:00:27
Zack and Haley are outraged by the murder of George Floyd (and many, many others), and will not remain silent. BLACK LIVES MATTER. Today, we discuss The Stonewall Riots, an important milestone in L...
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Episode 67: After the Breakup ft Josh Smooha from 2020-05-28T06:43:51
We talk with our friend, comedy writer Josh Smooha (twitter.com/joshsmooha), all about breakups, and specifically how the advice straight men are usually given is so toxic. We chat about what happe...
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Episode 66: It's Jay Jurden Y'all from 2020-05-21T07:24:16
Zack and Haley chat with comedian Jay Jurden (https://twitter.com/JayJurden), named one of the Timeout New York's Comedians to Watch of 2019. We talk about his debut comedy album "Jay Jurden Y'all"...
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Episode 65: Chasing Chasing Amy ft. Sav Rodgers from 2020-05-14T07:00:23
On this week's episode, Zack and Haley are joined by director and filmmaker Sav Rodgers(http://savrodgers.com/) to discuss how important, and sometimes life-saving, queer representation is in medi...
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Episode 63: Straight Queer Icons? ft Drew Droege from 2020-04-30T07:00:38
What is it about certain straight celebrities that elevates them to queer icon status? We love our Judy Garlands, our Golden Girls, our Britney Spears...es. Zack and Haley chat with comedian and wr...
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Episode 62: Listener Advice #7 from 2020-04-23T07:00:33
How do you define romantic love? Is sex needed in order to validate one's queerness? And when is the first season of Seven Dog President finally coming out? Zack and Haley answer all of YOUR questi...
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Episode 61: Gaysian AF ft. Chris Renfro from 2020-04-16T07:00:35
Get ready to laugh! This week Zack and Haley are joined by actor/comedian Chris Renfro (https://www.instagram.com/themeatskeleton/) to talk about the Asian American experience in the LGBTQ communit...
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Episode 60: Theater ft. Andrew Barret Cox from 2020-04-09T07:00:43
This one's for you theater kids! Zack and Haley chat with writer-composer-choreographer Andrew Barret Cox (https://www.instagram.com/andrewbarretcox/) to talk what theater means to queer people, di...
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Episode 59: Porn (Part 2) ft. Sonia Harcourt & Erik Todd from 2020-04-02T07:00:22
Let's talk about sex, baby! We're sitting down with adult performers and real life married couple Sonia Harcourt (twitter.com/soniaharcourtxx) & Erik Todd (https://twitter.com/eriktoddxxx). We disc...
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Episode 58: Horror (aka "We're Not Filth") ft Michael Varrati from 2020-03-26T06:23:47
Third time's the charm! It's yet another We're Not Together/Dead For Filth Crossover with our very special guest, writer/director Michael Varrati (www.twitter.com/michaelvarrati). In light of thes...
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Episode 57: Listener Advice #6 from 2020-03-19T17:21:03
Zack and Haley are back at it again - special quarantine edition! We're answering YOUR questions! Questions on how to spend your time during quarantine, if "turning" is a real thing, AND the return...
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Episode 56: Health ft Adam Winney from 2020-03-12T07:37:56
Zack and Haley are coming to you live from their end-of-the-world bunker to talk health in its many forms with comedian/performer Adam Winney (https://www.instagram.com/adamisdiabetic/). They talk ...
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Episode 55: Listener Advice #5 from 2020-03-05T07:12:20
Zack and Haley are back at it again! We're answering YOUR questions! Questions about when to start talking about sex when you're dating, about queer film and who can tell queer stories, AND (possib...
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Episode 54: Allies ft. Andie McMahon from 2020-02-27T08:39:15
Zack and Haley have their first ever call in guest!! Phoning in all the way in New York, it’s Haley’s #1 college bestie (Zack’s not jealous at all, we swear), prop stylist Andie McMahon (https://ww...
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Episode 53: Listener Advice #4 from 2020-02-20T08:00:40
Time to get your fix! Zack and Haley answer YOUR questions yet again! Is cum flammable? Don't google it! We've got your answers here! Email or DM your questions for a chance to be included in the n...
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Episode 52: Living Positive ft. Eugene Huffman from 2020-02-13T08:00:20
This week Zack and Haley are joined by artist, advocate, and curator Eugene Huffman(instagram.com/eugenehuffmanart). They chat about the stigmas of being HIV+, the lack of STI prevention informatio...
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Episode 51: Listener Advice #3 from 2020-02-06T08:00:20
Time to get your fix! Zack and Haley answer YOUR questions yet again! They also do a quick pitch for the new, very real film "7 Dog President". Email or DM your questions for a chance to be includ...
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Episode 50: Camp ft. Danin Jacquay from 2020-01-30T08:00:30
Pack your bags because Zack and Haley are talking Camp! Not the great outdoors, fresh air and all that junk; we're talking in-your-face, schlocky, creepy, campy goodness and why queer people are dr...
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Episode 49: Listener Advice #2 from 2020-01-23T08:00:20
The doctors are in... again! This week Zack and Haley read messages from listeners and offer advice for their sticky situations. Email or DM your questions for a chance to be included in the next a...
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Episode 48: Gender Expectations ft. Jon Orner from 2020-01-16T18:43:36
This week Zack and Haley are joined by their good friend, illustrator Jon Orner! They chat about gender expectations, Jon's hilarious experience at the beauty salon, the merits of the not-so-hit fi...
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Episode 47: Going Home ft. Aaron Pagniano from 2020-01-09T08:00:16
This week Zack and Haley are joined by one of their best friends Aaron Pagniano! They chat about going back to their hometowns to visit family and friends, what it’s like seeing people who may not ...
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Episode 46: Rope Play ft. Argent The Pirate Gentleman from 2019-12-18T08:00:13
This week Zack and Haley are joined by rope artist and fetish performer Argent The Pirate Gentelman! They chat about the history and styles of rope play, ways to ensure that it's done safely, rope ...
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Episode 45: Living With Invisible Illness ft. Tamára Nicole Jewel from 2019-12-11T08:00:23
This week Zack and Haley are joined by makeup artist and burlesque sideshow performer Tamára Nicole Jewel! They discuss Tamára’s personal experience with invisible illnesses, how it affects her dat...
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Episode 44: Working At A Suicide Hotline ft. Milo Rubi from 2019-12-04T08:00:23
This week Zack and Haley are joined by suicide hotline counselor Milo Rubi. They chat about what it’s like to work at an lgbtq+ hotline, bullying and social media’s affect on mental health, the imp...
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Episode 43: Sex Parties ft. "Cole" from 2019-11-27T08:00:13
This week Zack and Haley are joined by their friend "Cole"! They discuss the do's and don'ts of sex parties, hear Cole's stories from his experiences at them, share tips for staying safe and comfor...
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Episode 42: Cosplay ft. Sky Fernandes from 2019-11-20T08:00:23
This week Zack and Haley are joined by cosplayer Sky Fernandes! They chat about what goes into assembling character costumes, attending fan events and conventions, queerness in the cosplay communit...
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Episode 41: Exes ft. Ella Schaefer from 2019-11-13T08:00:23
This week Zack and Haley talk EXES with guest Ella Schaefer! They chat about navigating social and work environments that your ex is a part of, maintaining friendships with previous partners, night...
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Episode 40: Toxic Relationships ft. Brittany Gutheim from 2019-11-06T08:00:12
This week Zack and Haley talk toxic relationships with friend and filmmaker Brittany Gutheim! Together they discuss past problematic relationships, toxic red flags, ways to create healthier relatio...
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Episode 39: "Halloween: Dead 2gether" ft. Michael Varrati from 2019-10-30T07:00:22
This week Zack and Haley are joined by writer, director, and host of the horror podcast "Dead For Filth", Michael Varrati! They chat about his new short film "The Office is Mine", writing and direc...
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Episode 38: Kinks (Part 3) ft. Cherys Fair from 2019-10-23T07:00:22
This week Zack and Haley are joined by their friend Cherys Fair! They chat about Cherys starting a kink club at USC, discovering your own kinks, problematic elements in “Fifty Shades of Grey”, and ...
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Episode 37: Slaying the TERFs ft. Arisce Wanzer from 2019-10-16T07:00:28
This week Zack and Haley are joined by supermodel and comedian Arisce Wanzer! They chat about Arisce’s humble beginnings, modeling, dealing with TERFs, and more!
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Episode 36: Demisexuality ft. Brandt Snyder from 2019-10-09T07:00:14
This week Zack and Haley are joined by Zack’s boyfriend Brandt! They discuss Brandt’s experience navigating dating as a demisexual, hookup culture, getting together with Zack, and more!
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Episode 35: Microaggressions ft. Noah James from 2019-10-02T07:00:14
This week Zack and Haley are joined by writer, actor, and podcaster Noah James! The gang chats about Noah’s show "King Falls AM", dealing with microaggressions, stereotypes queer actors face, and m...
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Episode 34: Queer-Coding ft. Michael Sullivan from 2019-09-25T07:00:15
This week Zack and Haley are joined by former entertainment reporter Michael Sullivan! Together they discuss “queer-coding” in the media, villainous queer characters, tropes that perpetuate damagin...
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Episode 33: Nerd Culture ft. Ben Mekler from 2019-09-18T07:00:16
This week Zack and Haley are joined by writer/director Ben Mekler! They chat about his podcast "Mortal Podkast", what attracts queer people to fantasy heroes, queer representation in nerd culture, ...
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Episode 32: Drag ft. Luis AlvarezSchacht from 2019-09-11T07:00:25
This week Zack and Haley are joined by Luis AlvarezSchacht! They chat about Luis’s time as Bob the Drag Queen’s assistant, his own experiences in drag, using the art form as an outlet for creative ...
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Episode 31: Bigender ft. Robyn Blake from 2019-09-04T07:00:16
This week, Zack and Haley are joined by comedian Robyn Blake! They discuss being bigender, navigating the cis comedy & roast battle scenes, come up with a new ad campaign for Angry Orchard, and mor...
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Episode 30: EQUUS Pony Play Event from 2019-08-28T07:00:45
This week Zack and Haley recap their visit to the EQUUS International Pony Play Event and share interviews with participating ponies, judges, and handlers!
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Episode 29: Queer Anxiety ft. Anne Hodder-Shipp from 2019-08-21T07:00:15
This week Zack and Haley are joined again by sex & relationship educator Anne Hodder-Shipp! They discuss the ways queer people may feel like they’re “not enough”, the anxiety some bisexuals feel wh...
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Episode 28: Daddies ft. Adam Ramzi from 2019-08-14T07:00:15
This week Zack and Haley are joined by adult film actor Adam Ramzi! They discuss Adam’s "Favorite Daddy" award win at the GayVNs, what makes someone a "daddy", working in the porn industry, being a...
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Episode 27: Religion (Part 2) ft. Seth Daniel from 2019-08-07T07:00:25
This week Zack and Haley continue discussing religion with actor Seth Daniel! The gang talks about Seth's Jewish upbringing, finding acceptance from family and peers, Judaism’s relationship with th...
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Episode 26: Nightlife ft. Ian DeVoglaer from 2019-07-31T07:00:25
This week Zack and Haley are joined by Ian DeVoglaer! He dishes about what it’s like to work with iconic drag duo The Boulet Brothers, pros and cons of working in nightlife, selling underwear onlin...
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Episode 25: Kinks (Part 2) ft. Emily Browning from 2019-07-24T07:00:14
This week Zack and Haley talk kinks with comedian, writer, and host of the "Making Love & Growing Up" podcast Emily Browning! Together they chat about attending kink parties, open communication wit...
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Episode 24: LGBT D&D ft. Carlos and Katie from 2019-07-17T07:00:24
This week Zack and Haley play Dungeons & Dragons with Katie and Carlos! Listen as the gang encounters hags, wigs, and minotaurs, oh my!
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LGBT D&D Pre-Show from 2019-07-16T19:01:42
This is the pre-show for We’re Not Together’s Dungeons & Dragons campaign! Listen to the full D&D episode this Wednesday.
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Episode 23: Coming Out (Part 3), A Year Later ft. Jon from 2019-07-10T07:00:24
This week Zack and Haley's friend Jon returns to give an update on life after coming out! Together they talk about gaining acceptance from friends and family, feeling accepted in queer spaces, expl...
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Episode 22: Listener Advice #1 from 2019-07-03T17:22:29
The doctors are in! This week Zack and Haley read messages from listeners and offer advice for their sticky situations. Email or DM your questions for a chance to be included in the next advice epi...
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Episode 21: Religion ft. Joey Comes from 2019-06-26T07:00:14
This week Zack and Haley are joined by their friend Joey Comes! Together the gang talks about Christianity’s relationship with the queer community, coming to terms with being gay while being raised...
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Episode 20: Bisexual Brunch (Part 2) ft. Molly Cohen from 2019-06-19T07:00:09
This week Zack and Haley do brunch with Molly Cohen! The gang chats more about the misconceptions of bisexual people, dating while bi, coming out, feeling out of place sometimes in both straight an...
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Episode 19: Asexuality ft. Mikayla from 2019-06-12T07:00:25
This week Zack and Haley are joined by their good friend Mikayla! The gang chats about the spectrum of romantic and sexual attraction, navigating dating as an asexual, asexual representation in med...
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Episode 18: The Workplace ft. Carissa Dorson from 2019-06-05T07:00:25
This week Zack and Haley are joined by cinematographer Carissa Dorson! Together they chat about working in the "boys' club" of Hollywood, workplace discrimination against women and queer people, of...
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Episode 17: Body Positivity ft. King Hassan from 2019-05-29T07:00:27
This week Zack and Haley are joined by comedian and straight of the week King Hassan! Together the gang discusses body dysmorphia, the pressure to be conventionally attractive in the gay community,...
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Episode 16: Commitment ft. Brittany Rosoff from 2019-05-22T07:00:17
This week Zack and Haley talk commitment with Brittany Rosoff! The gang chats about setting the right pace when seeing a new person, why many gay men settle down later than lesbians, commitment pho...
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Episode 15: Pet Play ft. Tony & Anne from 2019-05-15T07:00:39
This week Zack and Haley are joined by pet play experts Tony & Anne! The gang dives into the world of pup and pony play, talk about sexual vs non-sexual roleplaying, what draws people to the commun...
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Episode 14: Gay Porn ft. Beaux Banks from 2019-05-08T07:00:29
This week Zack and Haley are joined by adult film star Beaux Banks! Together they discuss Beaux's beginnings, porn's best kept secrets, stories from the set, the difference between work and pleasur...
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Episode 13: Toxic Masculinity ft. Logan Rees from 2019-05-01T07:00:39
This week Zack and Haley sit down with writer and “straight of the week” Logan Rees! They chat about all things toxic masculinity from male privilege, women being portrayed as sex aliens, and what ...
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Episode 12: Open Relationships ft. Michael & Michael from 2019-04-24T07:00:24
This week Zack and Haley chat with Husbands Michael Feldman and Michael Rockless. Nothing is off limits as they discuss orgys, "sex toy people", and… adding another Michael?
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Episode 11: Queer Films ft. Clarke Wolfe from 2019-04-17T07:00:24
This week Zack and Haley are joined by film buff and “straight of the week,” Clarke Wolfe. Together they chat about all things queer in cinema from casting Emma Stone as Billie Jean King, feeling r...
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Bonus Episode: The Orgy House from 2019-04-10T07:00:22
In this special bonus episode Haley recounts a truly wild incident that you must hear to believe. Tune in next week for an all-new episode!
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Episode 10: Vibes ft. Ean Weslynn from 2019-04-03T07:00:12
This week Zack and Haley are joined by their good friend Ean Weslynn. They chat about reading situations, differences in interpretations, preserving the culture, and more!
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Episode 9: Kinks ft. Phil from 2019-03-27T07:00:19
This week we get kinky with Phil! The gang chats about the fascinating things that get people off, talk about their own kinks, speculate about the sub/dom status of famous characters, and more!
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Episode 8: The Future ft. Ashley Bratland from 2019-03-20T07:00:29
This week Zack and Haley are joined by Ashley Bratland. They chat about planning for the future, learn about the miracle of childbirth, play a celebrity baby name game, and more!
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Episode 7: Bisexual Brunch ft. Emily Pearse from 2019-03-13T07:00:28
This week Zack and Haley do brunch with their good friend Emily Pearse! They chat about bisexual stereotypes, compare the experiences of bi men and bi women, play a very difficult game of F**k, Mar...
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Episode 6: Coming Out (Part 2) ft. Jon from 2019-03-06T08:00:28
This week Zack and Haley are joined by their newly out of the closet friend Jon! They talk more about coming out, chat about the types of people they're attracted to, give advice for baby gays, and...
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Episode 5: Coming Out ft. Travis Campbell from 2019-02-27T08:00:26
This week Zack and Haley are joined by friend and “straight of the week” Travis Campbell! They chat about coming to terms with your sexuality, early gay encounters, coming out to parents, and more!...
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Episode 4: Queer Bars ft. Carlie Craig from 2019-02-20T08:00:25
This week Zack and Haley are joined by numbers expert Carlie Craig! They chat about gay bars, the disturbing lack of lesbian bars, working with Todrick Hall, and more!
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Episode 3: Sex Ed ft. Anne Hodder from 2019-02-13T08:00:25
This week Zack and Haley are joined by sex and relationship educator Anne Hodder! They chat about her background as an educator, human sexuality, mental and spiritual health, and more!
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Episode 2: Dating Apps ft. Cole Marshall from 2019-02-06T08:00:35
This week Zack and Haley are joined by their friend and “straight of the week” Cole Marshall! They chat about dating app etiquette, hookup culture, horror stories from dates, and more!
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Episode 1: Animal Kingdom ft. Eric Jaffe from 2019-01-30T17:42:59
In their first episode, Zack and Haley talk about the gay "animal kingdom", create some lesbian tribes, and quiz their straight guest Eric Jaffe on some queer slang!
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