Ep. 3 Daddy Where were you? - a podcast by XoJBes

Daddy Where Were You?

Absent Parent.

Does the absence of a father in a household really matter? 

Can a queen be a queen without first having the proper love from a king “her dad”.

Does it really take the love from a dad to shape future healthy relationships with men?

Daddy Issues- is an informal phrase for psychological challenges resulting from an absent or abnormal relationship with ones father. Often manifesting in a distrust of or sexual desire for men who act like father figures.

Some ways to identify that you may have daddy/parental issues

1.Trust issues- Your defective parent gave you no reason to trust him so you would possibly have an issue with trusting a partner. You been hurt by that absent parents inconsistency and broken promises. So you protect yourself from having your hopes up. You question someones intentions for you, instead of trusting that they want your best interest. You’re always checking if someone’s story checks out rather than focusing on making a connection with them.

2.Youre emotionally unavailable- your absent parent hurt you and now you’re possibly afraid to love.

3.You prefer sexual relationships too emotional, you strictly want sexual relationships because emotional relationships mean you risk getting hurt.

4.you constantly need reassurance- you constantly look to the person you’re with for reassurance. Do you still love me? Am I being too clingy? 

5. You seek emotional unavailable partners. We seek out what we are comfortable with, if your father didn’t give you the time of day you might be comfortable with this behavior.

6. You become easily attached. Instead of pushing me away you can become attached. When you find someone you are really interested in it can be hard to

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