Podcasts by With That Being Said

It's Always You... Even When It's Them from 2020-01-28T12:00

In this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica share about the importance of setting AND communicating your boundaries with others. No relationship is without boundaries, so Esther ...

Episode with James Bland from 2020-01-14T12:00

In this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica talk with special guest James Bland! James is a content creator, film maker, actor, writer, producer, and director. He is the creator,...

How Long is this Gonna Take?! from 2019-12-17T12:00

In this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica discuss how to set realistic expectations for therapy and answer the frequently asked question from clients - "How long is this going ...

Technology Won't Save You from 2019-12-03T12:00

On this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica discuss the times when technology is actually getting in the way of our relationships with others. Don't worry, this isn't like a lect...

Unpopular Opinion About Forgiveness from 2019-11-05T12:00

On this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica share their "unpopular" opinion about forgiveness. They dive into the complexities of forgiveness, from the strict dictionary definiti...

Don't Be Listening To Your Lil Instagram Friend from 2019-04-30T12:00

On this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica discuss all the internet advice you're reading and need to stop. They'll share examples of:

- bad advice they've seen online, a...

Let's Talk About Sex with Pam Costa from 2019-04-16T19:06:11

On this episode of "With That Being Said" we chat with sex and relationship coach Pam Costa.  We'll discuss a range of topics related to sex, including the importance of having a community ...

Self Care with Jerico Mandybur from 2019-04-02T12:00

On this episode of "With That Being Said" we chat with writer and self-care advocate Jerico Mandybur about how to manage your self-care and reclaim what brings you joy. We also discuss the role of ...

Bad Parents from 2019-03-19T12:00

On this episode of "With That Being Said" Esther and Erica discuss two tragic cases of 'what were the parents thinking?' and discuss why it's not helpful -- and even dangerous -- to view people ...

Our Fave TV Couples from 2019-03-05T13:00

 In this episode Esther and Erica share their 3 favorite TV couples - who they think have the ingredients for a successful marriage (with some debate of course).

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Getting to know Erica from 2019-02-19T13:00

 As we settle into our second season of the podcast, Esther and Erica finally decide it's time you get to know more about them! Tune in to find out what makes Erica Turner, LMFT really tick...

Who is Esther, really? from 2019-02-12T13:00

As we settle into our second season of the podcast, Esther and Erica finally decide it's time you get to know more about them! Tune in to find out what makes Esther Boykin, LMFT really tick. Here ...

I'll Never Retreat from 2018-10-31T01:15:47

In today's episode Esther and Erica discuss the pros and cons of going on a retreat. Erica makes the case that it's a lot like taking your work on vacation with you and Esther sets out to convince ...

Jay-Z Is Making Therapist Porn from 2017-12-29T15:14:26

Nearly every therapist fantasizes about creating a space where men are comfortable to openly discuss their feelings and  relationships. And this fall JAy-Z made all our dreams come true! Tune in...

#9 Adulting is Hard from 2017-08-25T16:00

Today we are joined by 4 smart, funny, and brutally honest college students for a frank discussion on what it means to really become an adult in the modern age. 

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#10 It Takes a Village with Sequoia Blodgett from 2017-08-25T16:00

Today we are joined by entrepreneur Sequoia Blodgett, star of ABC Family's StartUp U and founder of 7AM Life.

Check out ep...

#11 Your Therapist is Anxious with Jodi Aman from 2017-08-18T16:00

Today we are joined by Jodi Aman, therapist and author of You 1, Anxiety 0: win your freedom back from fear and panic.

Don't ...

#12 Get Your Life with Mo Seetubtim from 2017-08-11T16:00

Today we are joined by Mo Seetubtim, founder of the blog Brandmentalist and creator of Listen

#13 Alone in the Burbs with Traci Ruble from 2017-08-04T16:00

Today we are joined by Traci Ruble of Psyched in San Francisco and the founder/director of Sidewalk Talk.

Traci is one of those rare people who I (Esther) immediately clicked wit...

#8 Black People Really Do Go To Therapy with Minaa B from 2017-07-21T16:00

Today we are joined by Minaa B. of RespectYourStruggle.com.  Minaa is a on a mission and the first day of Black History month i...

#7 Pajamas All Day with Tara Jefferson from 2017-07-14T16:00

It's seems rather apropros that in the aftermath of one of the east coast's worst snow storms that today's episode is all about wearing pajamas all day!  Erica and I are joined by Tara Jefferson...

#6 Who wants to be happy: with Chianti Lomax from 2017-07-14T10:00

  Seems like an obvious question... don't we all want to be happy?  Maybe so but we also put up some serious barriers to happiness, including how we choose to define an...

#5 Motherhood Isn't Everything with Maimah Karmo from 2017-07-07T16:00

It feels almost blasphemous as a mom to say that motherhood isn't everything in my life... and yet it's not.  And I don't think it should be. {gasp} On today's episode of With That Bein...

#4 Let's Get Hitched With Steve Cooper from 2017-06-30T16:00

Today Esther and Erica are joined by Steve Cooper of HitchedMag.com to talk all things married life. Listen in as they talk about the ups and downs and genuine joys of being a couple and investi...

#3 Let's Heal Our Ish with Laura Probert from 2017-06-30T16:00

Today Esther and Erica tackle the sometimes ambiguous idea of awareness. With their guest expert, Laura Probert, we discover that "the difference between living a life that feels meh and living ...

#2 Marriage is not that hard from 2017-06-23T10:00

Marriage is work but is it really that hard?  Esther and Erica discuss the joys and challenges of married life, which may not be hard as we seem to think it is.  Join the conversation as we talk...

#1 Love is Not a Drive-Thru from 2017-06-14T20:41:55

Today Esther Boykin and Erica Turner are joined by writer, speaker, and dating expert, Kevin Carr. Kevin chats with us about all the reasons love is not a drive-thru and why killing your dreams ...

#0 - With That Being Said, Welcome to Our Podcast from 2017-05-19T14:40

We've got a fresh new look and are busy recording some fresh new episodes!  Check out the new look while catching up on our original episodes for the next several weeks.  

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