Podcasts by Being Honest With My Ex
Once upon a time, this painfully honest pair were engaged. Now, they live on opposite sides of the world. Each week they get together and chat life, love, and how to be better.
Further podcasts by Peter C. Hayward and Honor Eastly
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Being Frank With My Frankie from 2022-02-18T10:15
"I think when you feel safe with someone and you let out all of your insides, you really let out all of your insides. Like, once it started spilling you can't stop it. And that ...
Listen83 - Freelensers With My Ex from 2019-10-19T17:35:51
Peter guests on an episode of Freelensers (originally recorded December 2018)
Christmas Break With My Ex from 2017-12-12T18:04:20
We're on a break over Christmas! Maybe a bit beyond that as well, depending on how "new baby" treats Peter.
We'll be back next year!
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Listen82 - Warming Up With My Ex 2 from 2017-12-06T01:29:07
A compilation of The Warmup, episodes 6-12.
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Listen81 - Two Wizards With My Ex from 2017-11-28T22:29:27
Peter guest-stars on a podcast about wizards hanging out. For more, visit tommclean.com/twowizards
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80 - Full Circle With My Ex from 2017-11-14T23:38:40
Peter and SJ were both interviewed for the call-in podcast Full Circle.
Listen79 - Warming Up With My Ex from 2017-11-09T00:58:03
A compilation of the first 6 Warmups.
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Listen78 - First Date With My Ex from 2017-11-02T21:25:15
SJ and Peter walk the streets of Melbourne.
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Listen77 - Calling My Ex A Cunt from 2017-10-24T19:36:18
In which Peter and SJ conclude their argument from the previous episode.
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Listen76 - Gaslighting My Ex from 2017-10-17T22:55:35
In which Peter gets mad at SJ for the joke he made in the last episode.
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Listen75 - Consent With My Ex Live from 2017-10-11T16:39:50
In which Peter is a sexy robot and SJ is sick of his shit.
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Listen74 - Dharmas With My Ex Live from 2017-09-27T05:13:42
The first half of the second live show! SJ explains dharmas and Peter tells the tale of his broken penis.
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Listen73 - Wank Chat With My Ex Live from 2017-09-20T14:02:36
Part 2 of the first Being Honest With My Ex: Live! The most Peter thing that Peter's ever said, public authenticity, and - of course - The Wank Chat.
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72 - Fashion With My Ex: Live from 2017-09-12T19:28:58
In which Peter and SJ recount their fashion experiments and blunders over the years.
Slideshow: https://imgur.com/a/eGQZa
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Listen71 - Believing In Money With My Ex from 2017-09-06T00:26:32
In which Peter and SJ record in the same room, for the first time ever.
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Listen70 - Being Honest With My Cousin from 2017-08-30T02:18:50
In which Peter interviews the ex he's had for the longest.
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Listen69: Starving Artist With My Ex from 2017-08-26T14:27:14
SJ revisits the past!
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Listen68 - My Superstitious Ex from 2017-08-16T05:22:47
SJ develops superstitious tendencies, and Peter makes fun of her for them.
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Listen67: Korean Skincare With My Ex from 2017-08-09T01:50:10
SJ gets obsessed with Korean skincare products and Peter reroutes the path to his mountain.
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Listen66: Weird Porn With My Ex from 2017-08-02T01:54:32
This week's episode includes incest, mind control, government conspiracies, and gangrene.
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Listen65 : The Boyfriend of my Ex (extended edition) from 2017-07-26T14:39:07
This week we travel back in time to visit the extended edition of SJ meeting Peter's new partner.
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Listen64: Talking Dirty to My Ex from 2017-07-19T10:08:25
Peter has an idea for a new podcast, and wants SJ to talk him out of it.
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Listen63 - Food Poisoning With My Ex from 2017-07-11T21:06:14
SJ's salmonella tells her that she really, really doesn't want to be Peter.
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Listen62: Surprising My Ex from 2017-07-04T13:00
Peter has news. SJ, miraculously, does NOT have a panic attack.
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Listen61: Wasting Money With My Ex from 2017-06-27T13:00
What has Peter wasted the most money on?
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Listen60: Body Image With My Ex from 2017-06-20T13:00
Peter and SJ talk about feeling sexy and comfortable in their own skin.
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Listen59: Dieting With My Ex from 2017-06-13T13:00
Peter and SJ talk body image, dieting, and really large numbers.
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Listen58 - sothisis.love from 2017-06-07T06:17:44
Check out Peter's new podcast at http://www.sothisis.love!
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Listen57: Panic Attack With My Ex from 2017-05-31T04:52:56
In which Peter has news, and SJ has a panic attack.
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Listen56 and Three Quarters: Ending a Hiatus With My Ex from 2017-05-23T11:23:59
We're back!
Starving Artist: Becky Sui Zhen from 2017-04-25T04:41:30
Check out SJ's new podcast at http://www.starvingartistpodcast.com!
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Starving Artist - How I made $87,000 on my first Kickstarter from 2017-04-10T17:12:12
Check out SJ's new podcast at http://www.starv...
Listen56 and a half: Unexpected Hiatus with My Ex from 2017-03-15T00:52:42
"Where have we been SJ?"
"I have been many places in my mind" *laughs maniacally*
In this mini episode we explain ourselves (...
Listen56: Erotic Fanfiction With My Ex from 2017-02-19T01:41:30
Peter: “My first arousal was Monty Python, then Harry Potter slash fic, then incest bestiality”
This week: our first sexual experiences, cyber sexing as a 13 year old, and nev...
Listen55: Managing Money With My Ex from 2017-02-07T06:56:18
“Fiscally conservative in the streets and socially liberal in the sheets”
This week: SJ quits her job, and no surprise, immediately regrets it.
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We are now LIVE ON KICKSTARTER! from 2017-01-31T00:06:15
Check out our Kickstarter here! https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/honoreastly/being-honest-with-my-ex-live-a-podcast-about-feeli
Also, we have a fancy new website: http://www.bein...
Listen54: Getting Dumped With My Ex from 2017-01-28T04:25:17
“I think I have such a high opinion of you I don’t know why anyone would break up with you”
This week: both SJ and Peter got dumped. How / why c...
Listen53: Being Honest With My Mortal Enemy from 2017-01-14T14:13:32
This week we talk to the author of an email that started like this:
I have been trying to continue listening to your podcast for months now. I am so enamoured with SJ but Peter is ho...
52: A Year With My Ex from 2017-01-05T12:47:30
“I think one of the biggest changes as a result of doing this podcast is that you and I are so much closer than we were a year ago. We are probably as close as when we were dating if you ignor...
51: Running A Patreon With My Ex from 2016-12-26T21:55:36
"With the patreon I feel like I have all this opportunity and I’m just crumbling underneath it"
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50: The Boyfriend of My Ex from 2016-12-17T07:30:19
This week: SJ sits down with Peter’s new partner to discuss love, exes and how shameless Peter really is.
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49: Surviving a Car Crash With My Ex from 2016-12-11T07:03:34
“The next twenty seconds were really interesting cause I was like “oh, I could die now. This could be it.””
This week: Peter’s car accident, and what SJ would’ve done if he’d died.
No episode this week! from 2016-11-30T10:09:35
Peter was in a car accident!
(He's totally fine)
But it meant we decided not to put out an episode this week. We'll be in your earholes next week.
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48: Happy Birthday To My Ex from 2016-11-24T09:36:13
“I don’t see you as the SJ I dated. You are my ex SJ, my friend who I used to be engaged to who I do a podcast with. I don’t like the SJ I dated.”
Big talks, plus it’s Peter’s birthd...
47: Staying Friends With My Ex from 2016-11-17T02:55:16
SJ tells Peter of the horrible things she’s learned about him, and the pair try to decide whether or not they should stay friends.
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46: Terrible Pet Ownership With My Ex from 2016-11-13T01:34:34
This week: the time Peter tried to placate SJ with rabbits, convenient veganism, and Peter realising he’s a bit of an asshole.
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45: Working From Home With My Ex from 2016-11-05T02:25:11
This week: the trials, tribulations and masturbatory habits of those who work from home.
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Here’s the Mil...
44: I Want An Apology From My Ex from 2016-10-27T03:47:49
“I’m not saying that I’m easy to date, I’m saying dating me does not in any way prepare you for having a kid.”
Peter insults SJ, and she makes the mistake of trying to ...
43: Having Kids With My Ex from 2016-10-22T05:56:10
“I have recurring baby-related nightmares. I lose them like a set of car keys.”
After a week surrounded by tiny humans, SJ unpacks all of her ideas about whether or not to have k...
42: Finding My Mountain With My Ex from 2016-10-12T21:01:42
"I am really really talented at not achieving my goals."
In this episode, Peter reveals that he has been aggressively sabotaging himself for the last, oh, 8 years now.<...
41: Social Enterprise With My Ex from 2016-10-07T10:54:19
“Fuck! I bought a food truck before I realised I hate hospitality.”
This episode: SJ’s embarrassing past as a boldly naive young person trying to save the world.
40: The Facebook Wall Of My Ex from 2016-10-01T11:41:09
This week: the wild wild west of Peter’s Facebook wall.
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39: Burned Out With My Ex from 2016-09-24T13:52:05
"You don’t have capacity for a sandwich let alone complex emotional situations"
This week: burning out, being afraid of feelings, and how to cry well on a podcast.
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38: PhD In Shame With My Ex from 2016-09-16T01:14:05
“I have a PhD in shame, but I don’t even have a Cert II in happiness”
This week: shame, the creative driving force, and the dangers of true crime documentaries.
37: Back In Time With My Ex from 2016-09-08T18:07:27
In 2012, SJ recorded an interview with Peter for her radio show “Your Life The Musical”. We couldn’t resist sharing the audio of these younger and much smarmier versions of ourselves.
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36: Voluntary Euthanasia With My Ex from 2016-09-01T04:23:05
If Peter was dying, would SJ help put him out of his misery?
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SJ’s favourite show at the moment, Listen
35: Proposing To My Ex from 2016-08-24T19:24:32
Peter and SJ tell the story of the worst thing he ever did to her: a surprise proposal in front of all her friends and family. Ew.
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34: Becoming a Millionaire With My Ex from 2016-08-19T04:30:56
This week: SJ’s Patreon success, Peter’s insane aspirations, and how much the pair have grown since they started dating.
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33: Talking To Cats With My Ex from 2016-08-12T03:11:14
This week: feminism, atheism, AA, religion, and talking to your pets during sex.
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SJ's new favourite podcast, Listen
Mental Health With My Ex from 2016-08-07T22:15:46
A compilation of conversations we've had about mental health, assembled by fan of the show Ben Kuebrich - you can find his blog at neuroamer.wordpress.com Listen
32: Cheating On My Ex from 2016-07-31T12:01:17
“I definitely did something wrong. I betrayed the trust of the person that I love, and that’s a fucked up thing to do. I just didn’t do it as badly as you did.”
This week we sail...
31: Poly-splosions With My Ex from 2016-07-24T00:51:21
“I just lay down on the gravel and sobbed into the dirt” - SJ
This week we dive into way more dirty laundry than we realised as we unpack the gigantic mess we made of polyamory.<...
30: Polyamory With My Ex from 2016-07-17T12:50:01
This week: Peter was banned from the US because he’s too honest, and we talk polyamory!
Polyamory flag aka the ugliest / most non-sensical flag in t...
29: Getting Therapy With My Ex Again from 2016-07-11T11:31:16
SJ talks her troubles with the mental health system and Peter is reasonably unhelpful.
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28: Making Money With My Ex from 2016-07-03T08:47:09
This week: quitting your job and living creatively. How do you go about it?
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27: Arguing With My Ex Again from 2016-06-28T03:15:22
“I love that we can have these conversation but I also hate having them”
This week: part 2 of unpacking The Big Fight.
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26: Arguing With My Ex from 2016-06-18T06:06:40
“I think that’s the biggest fight we’ve had since we broke up”
This week they try to unpack that argument.
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25: Fucking Up Pronouns With My Ex from 2016-06-12T01:56:08
Peter falls in love, and it’s way more complicated than he imagined.
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24: Feeling Unsexy With My Ex from 2016-06-04T02:49:14
SJ on the shame of losing your sexiness and Peter on the realisation that he’s never going to be Steve Jobs.
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23: Entertaining Flies With My Ex from 2016-05-28T05:51:42
This week: realising the government governs your life, entertaining flies, and what the hell is a millenial anyway?
The (really good!) article about...
22: Pouring Fucks Into My Ex from 2016-05-22T03:15:49
“At the end of our relationship, when you cried, I just couldn’t care. I had no fucks left to give.”
This week: a sombre episode about that sad moment when you run out of fucks t...
21: Emotional Support From My Ex from 2016-05-14T06:36:27
This week: an episode that almost got deleted. Listen in to hear an awkward conversation about whether SJ is a shit friend.
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20: Naked Photos Of My Ex from 2016-05-09T08:47:50
“Why do I have to delete the naked photos I have of you?” Peter asked.
“WTF?!” SJ replied.
Also in this episode, SJ reads Peter’s first (and only) love letter. It is a surpri...
19: Collecting Tears With My Ex from 2016-04-30T03:25:03
SJ has been collecting her tears for over a year. Peter thinks this the weirdest thing she’s ever done.
The article that SJ read that made her want ...
18: Life On The Streets With My Ex from 2016-04-22T02:02:47
If this episode were a high-school essay topic it would be:
Peter spent a month living on the streets of Melbourne, and it made him both broken and invincible. Discuss.
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17: How I Met My Ex from 2016-04-18T07:26:02
How did a broken penis get SJ and Peter together? Find out this week!
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16: Having Opinions With My Ex from 2016-04-08T04:04:01
Peter has no filter. SJ has a bunch of filters. This time they discuss why.
Also included: SJ momentarily forgets that she ever went out with Peter. It's a lot of fun....
15: Shit’s Complicated With My Ex from 2016-03-26T07:17:50
How did Peter manage to make several terrible TV shows on unbridled self-confidence alone? Was SJ really The Messy One? Does the mental health system make you sick? Find out this week with the fanc...
Listen14: Having A Kid With My Ex from 2016-03-20T00:16:08
This episode the pair chat How Not To Propose, How Not To Get Un-Engaged, and SJ starts her hunt for a baby co-producer. Is it you? Things mentioned this episode:Chore wars - a online role pl...
Listen13: Being Jealous of My Ex from 2016-03-12T00:29:50
This episode Peter gets his feelings hurt for the first time, SJ reveals why she’s so jealous and the pair do a call out for someone to draw a picture of SJ’s vulva. This Feels Terrible - great...
ListenNo Podcast This Week! from 2016-03-05T22:35:16
Hi Guys! No podcast this week because Peter = sick and SJ = v busy, but next week we will be all around your ear holes again! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Listen12: Getting It Right With My Ex from 2016-02-26T09:40:04
In this episode the pair discuss privilege in creativity, SJ considers an experiment in honesty on social media, and Peter looks at nude photos. Awful selfie of SJPeter's webcomic (bleventy iCousi...
Listen11: Being Vulnerable With My Ex from 2016-02-19T04:20:29
This episode the pair talk Peter’s questionable dirty talk, showing your genitals to strangers and how Peter caused SJ’s current creative existential crisis. Warning: may not be fit for consumpti...
Listen10: Behind the Scenes With My Ex from 2016-02-11T09:40:08
In which we go behind the scenes, try to justify why SJ isn't the weirdest person in her family, and get fucked from the inside. List of Presidents of the USA (fuck you Peter)Capital city of e...
Listen9: Embezzling Money From My Ex from 2016-02-05T14:16:24
This episode Peter learns that somewhere a bank-teller thinks he is the worst human of all time. Things mentioned in this episode:Sheryl Sandberg - chief officer of Facebook - her book Lean In W...
Listen8: Visiting The UAE With My Ex from 2016-01-29T10:27:54
Where SJ tells Peter exactly the kind of person he is (the kind that likes Disneyland) and the pair realise how uninformed they are about the United Arab Emirates, Nikola Tesla and Islamic veils. ...
Listen7: No One Likes My Ex from 2016-01-22T05:49:21
In this episode we explain why SJ / Honor Eastly has two names and why nobody likes Peter. Things mentioned in this episode:That Sexy Show - comedy show that SJ and Peter made. WARNING: website...
Listen6: Defining Success With My Ex from 2016-01-15T01:30:30
Where the pair try to decipher what success is and realise they have very different memories of their First. Big. Fight. This is an extended hour-long "2015 in review" special episode where we go...
Listen5: Christmas Against Humanity With My Ex from 2016-01-08T00:49:54
In which the pair try to discuss Christmas but end up talking about the benefits of Tumblr porn and the moral issues that arise when playing "Cards Against Humanity". Things mentioned in this epi...
Listen4: Getting Therapy With My Ex from 2016-01-02T01:46:25
In which SJ has a question about a big decision she has to make by morning and Peter learns a lot about the mental health system. The cat poster the pair were talking about:If you want to record...
Listen3: Mourning Facebook With My Ex from 2015-12-26T02:33:11
The pair discuss how SJ avoids the timehole that is Facebook, why Peter hates cats and what it’s like to watch something die for the first time. Things mentioned in this podcast:Buffer - app f...
Listen2: Genitalia-Based Medical Procedures With My Ex from 2015-12-18T13:41:29
In which SJ teaches Peter what a pap smear is and the pair discuss his adult circumcision. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Listen1: Introducing My Ex from 2015-12-11T07:38:50
In which the couple introduce each other, Peter tells SJ she isn't the ex he's loved the most and SJ finds her life purpose. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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