32: Cheating On My Ex - a podcast by Peter C. Hayward and Honor Eastly

“I definitely did something wrong. I betrayed the trust of the person that I love, and that’s a fucked up thing to do. I just didn’t do it as badly as you did.”



This week we sail our polyamory ship into the treacherous Cheating Sea. Neither of us come out unscathed.











Things discussed this episode:





Turns out breasts are a secondary sexual characteristic





Episode of This Feels Terrible, hosted by Erin McGathy, where she talks about her relationship with her first boyfriend, and the verrry long conversations they had when she didn’t want to leave and go home





Turns out it’s called Correspondence Bias or the Fundamental Attribution Error. Note, Jacqui (a patreon backer) linked me to this fascinating article about the difference in Correspondence Bias between East and West cultures. Give it a read!





Alain De Botton - contemporary philosopher. Check out The School Of Life YouTube channel, particularly the videos on relationships.





Old Man’s War by John Scalzi





Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, or for the quicker run-down check out the TED talk





Turns out it’s hard to know how many people cheat because well, no one wants to admit to it. Also, it’s hard to know definitively what constitutes cheating (an issue discussed this episode!)





Episode 20 of Being Honest With My Ex: Naked Photos Of My Ex





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