Are Emotional Affairs Actually Affairs? (it’s not difficult)–4.08S - a podcast by Jay & Lori Pyatt

Unfortunate ideas can get twisted in a person’s mind, leading them to have affairs; ideas like, “But if my wife were the right person…” We discuss this with author Matt Fray, and we also cover the question: Are emotional affairs truly affairs–and what can make it all less difficult?



TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)0:00 Intro / Defensiveness&intimidation
1:25 “I care about you, but I care about myself more”2:20 Can be abusive (“don’t ruin my good time”)
3:21 Are emotional affairs truly affairs? *6:39 One solution: Why not create that with your wife?
7:18 If (this) then it’s not difficult7:42 This blindness can lead to affairs *
10:05 “But if my wife were the right person…” *12:42 Getting help: what it is and isn’t
13:14 In the next episode: What if the goal is to have an affair?--https://thecouplecure.com - Jay and Lori's website
https://matthewfray.com - Matt's website
https://pornpainhealed.com - Lori's site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery#defensiveness
#affairs#emotionalaffairs
#relationships

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