“Aren’t You Over That Yet?” (his pain vs. her pain)–4.12S - a podcast by Jay & Lori Pyatt

This video covers 3 places guys get stuck in broken trust, how he can connect with her pain after broken trust, and what to know if a guy is saying, “Aren’t you over that yet?”.



TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)0:00 Intro / Boys don't cry?
0:40 One Solution: How guys can connect with her pain *3:27"Aren't you over that yet?"(Therapists said it will take this long) *
5:52 Guys say,"But I don't agree with her."(agreeing vs validating)
8:12 3 places guys can get stuck *9:15"If he doesn't agree with me, he abandons me"11:16 The person I want to be11:54 One Solution: An important mindset to have *
15:08 In the next episode: “... why does she keep attacking me?”--


https://thecouplecure.com - Jay and Lori's website
https://matthewfray.com - Matt's website
https://pornpainhealed.com - Lori's site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery

#validation#trust
#safety#relationships

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