91: Passivity is not the same as Peace - a podcast by Effy Blue
from 2021-11-12T04:00
Is it ok to be in a relationship when you are chronically dissatisfied if there are no arguments? Why do people end up staying in relationships that are not making them happy? What do we need to make us pull the plug on lifeless relationships?
Effy and Jacqueline jump on the airwaves to challenge the idea that passivity is the same as peace. They discuss what Esther Perel calls stable ambiguity or what Effy calls relationship purgatory where people remain in a holding pattern in relationships where things are undefined, lines are blurred, and desires go unsaid even though they are soaking in dissatisfaction, disharmony, and disconnection.
They explore what stable ambiguity looks like, why people choose to remain in purgatory, and what are some of the strategies to break the holding pattern.
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National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (1-800-799-SAFE)
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National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 (1-800-656-HOPE)
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