Podcasts by Marriage Therapy Radio
Look... every couple struggles. You fight too much; you're bored; sex is either okay (or rare); maybe you're even considering divorce. OR... maybe your marriage is actually pretty good, but you want to go deeper. In this podcast, straight-talking marriage therapists Zach Brittle and Laura Heck tackle the most common complaints virtually every marriage experience. Along the way, they reveal the science behind strong relationships and talk about what's really going on for couples. Topics include conflict, communication, compatibility, money, sex, in-laws, infidelity, time-management, future dreams, and more. If you want relief? A deeper connection? A new way forward...? Then you've got to find out what's REALLY going on in your marriage. That's what this podcast is about. You can learn more about Zach and Laura, and their alternatives to traditional therapy at marriagetherapyradio.com.
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Ep 298 Can of Worms Part 2 from 2023-12-12T08:00
Zach and Laura get to the topic they teased last episode. It is an exercise that couples can use to safely discuss the unspoken topics in their relationship. If done well, it will lead to greater i...
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Ep 297 Can of Worms Part 1 from 2023-12-05T08:00
Zach and Laura's kid kind of sing a song together. Laura discusses toilet time with your partner, leading to a great discussion about different types of intimacy. She hoped to work out an exercise ...
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Ep 296 Holiday Hangover from 2023-11-28T08:00
Zach and Laura discuss the exhaustion and stress of the holidays and the relational struggles that can cause. Sponsors:Visit https://www.dipseastories.com/mtr for a free 30-day trial of erotic audi...
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Ep 295 Sazan&Stevie Hendrix on their Real Good Life from 2023-11-21T08:00
Zach and Laura welcome Sazan and Stevie Hendrix; authors, influencers, parents, and a real couple, to discuss their new book and more. Be sure to check out the book and all they have to offer at ht...
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Ep 294 Your New Hobby from 2023-11-14T08:00
Zach and Laura discuss hair length and how it works for each of them. They contemplate if there are any shared activities that they could enjoy doing together (besides podcasting). This leads to a ...
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Ep 293 What It's Like to Be Laura Heck from 2023-11-07T08:00
Today we break from our normal format to share an episode from Dan Heath's new podcast What It's Like To Be... Dan interviews Laura about what it's like to be a couples therapist. It's a chance to ...
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Ep 292 Real Couple, Real Struggles, Real Triumphs from 2023-10-31T07:00
Zach is flying solo this week and is joined by real-life couple Elizabeth and Steve Andrews. They share stories of what brought them together, the struggles they have overcome, and what keeps them ...
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Ep 291 Infidelity&Recovery with Dr. Monique Thompson from 2023-10-24T07:00
Zach and Laura sit down to discuss infidelity and recovery with Dr. Monique Thompson. Dr. Thomson offers insight and practical tips for navigating this traumatic event in any relationship. Learn mo...
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Ep 290 Ireland from 2023-10-17T07:00
Laura is trying to solve a persistent eye twitch. Zach shares about his recent trip to Ireland and what he learned about life and relationships in his travels. Learn more about your ad choices. Vi...
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Ep 289 Feedback from 2023-10-10T07:00
Zach quizzes Laura to see how well she knows him which leads to some discussion on expectations within your family system. Zach uses his personal example to revisit a helpful tool for giving and ...
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Ep 288 Freedom in Divorce with Dr. Karin Luise from 2023-10-03T07:00
Zach and Laura hear from Dr. Karin Luise (https://doctorkarin.com/) about what can happen when the changes we go through in our marriages end in divorce. Dr. Karin offers some personal stories as w...
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Ep 287 Partner in Pain from 2023-09-26T21:46:01
Laura is hoping to celebrate Christmas in her home. Zach lost one of his defining characteristics after scrolling Instagram one evening, but then used the 2 German words he used to escape being ent...
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Ep 286 Just Friends from 2023-09-19T18:03:35
Zach and Laura had to restart the podcast because they were so scattered. Zach revisits a dad joke. Laura tells you why she travels with a vibrator. They move on to answer a lister question about h...
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Ep 285 The Sober Life with Courtney Anderson from 2023-09-12T07:00
Zach and Laura discuss getting and staying sober with Courtney Anderson. They share some personal stories as well as some tips for navigating sobriety in your relationship. Courtney is the author o...
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Ep 284 Apologizing from 2023-09-05T17:33:26
Zach is getting ready to head to Ireland after 3 years of planning and Laura is off to Tuscany. They talk a bit about the good things that can come from traveling with your partner. They transition...
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Ep 283 Sexual Information from 2023-08-29T07:00
Laura is feeling a bit of a vulnerability hangover from the last episode. But that doesn't stop her from opening up about some ways that she is enlivening her sex life. She leads Zach in discussing...
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Ep 282 Your Deeper Story from 2023-08-22T07:00
Zach and Laura interview Chris Bruno and Tracy Johson of ReStory about their work taking both individuals and couples into deeper work about how their past stories inform their present and future. ...
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Ep 281 Feeling all the Feels from 2023-08-15T07:00
Laura is flooded with emotion and wants to figure out how not to bottle her feelings. Zach is also feeling some big feelings. This leads them into a conversation about the importance of connectin...
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Ep 280 Becoming a Couples Therapist from 2023-08-08T07:00
Laura has a twitchy eye. Zach remembers his favorite movie, but more important, just finished a year-long certification. They discuss a listener's question about how Zach and Laura got into couple...
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Ep 279 Make Up Stories from 2023-08-01T18:06:07
Laura thinks she may have broken her ankle, but is maybe more bothered by her unshaven legs. Zach is courting some guests for the podcast in very creative ways. They discuss how so much of life i...
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Ep 278 After the Argument with the Freemans from 2023-07-25T07:08:54
Zach and Laura discuss what to do after the argument with Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman. You can read more about the Freeman's work and their resources at https://www.meetthefreemans.com/ Learn more ab...
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Ep 277 The New Work from 2023-07-18T07:00
Laura is still moving out of her house and cutting back on the scope of the remodel. Zach asks how couples can appreciate the relational dynamics that got them to where they are today while relea...
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Ep 276 Testosterone with Dr, Kyle N. LaPoint from 2023-07-11T07:00
Laura brings in Dr. Kyle N. LaPoint to discuss the role of testosterone in maintaining overall health in both men and women. Dr. LaPoint is a Naturopathic Physician with a practice in Bend Oregon. ...
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Ep 275 House Rules from 2023-07-04T17:40:29
Laura is all done up for the podcast, which doesn't translate great in an audio format. She is also purging her house and running 30 miles. Zach, meanwhile, pulled a muscle walking a couple of mile...
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Ep 274 What about Me? from 2023-06-27T07:00
Zach shares some of what he learned about himself on his recent international trip. Laura continues to process her son's diagnosis and recounts her own travel stories. Zach asks Laura for advice ...
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Ep 273 In Each Other's Care with Stan Tatkin from 2023-06-20T07:00
Zach and Laura sit down with Stan Tatkin to discusshis work with couples and his new book In Each Other's Care. Dr. Tatkin shares some constructive frameworks for how to think about your relationsh...
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Ep 272 Intimacy Report Card from 2023-06-13T07:00
Laura starts us off with a song that gets Zach talking about his new musical obsession. Laura shares some significant personal news and asks for your help. They transition to a discussion on crea...
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Ep 271 Good Enough from Germany from 2023-06-06T07:00
Zach and Laura are in Germany training military chaplains and misinterpret German words. Laura gives an update on her Iron Man. Zach learns a new German phrase that prompts a conversation about wha...
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Ep 270 Endurance with Steph Catudal from 2023-05-30T07:29:22
Zach and Laura chat with Steph Catudal about enduring death and suffering while finding life and joy on the path. Get Steph's book Everything All at Once wherever books are sold. Learn more about y...
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Ep 269 Coping Skills from 2023-05-23T07:00
Zach is STILL sick. Laura is anticipating a very hectic summer and is looking to prepare with some coping skills. Sponsor:Visit https://cozyearth.com/ and use code MTR for 35% off site wide. Lear...
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Ep 268 Core Negative Image from 2023-05-16T16:20:47
Zach is feeling really sick and his wife is not being as helpful as he would hope. Laura confesses that she has no patience for her family when they are sick. Zach had one of the best nights of his...
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Ep 267 Radical Integrity with River Faire from 2023-05-09T07:00
Zach and Laura interview holistic personal transformation guide, River Faire, about alternative ways to find healing and wholeness both personally and in your relationships. Be sure to check out Ri...
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Ep 265 Space Force, Mothers-In-Law, and Music from 2023-04-25T07:00
Zach and Laura record on the road after a long day of training at Space Force. They discuss validating your partner, stealing friends' cars, and personalized music. They go on to discuss a question...
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Ep 264 Grief with Dr. Shannon Curry from 2023-04-18T07:00
Zach and Laura are joined by clinical and forensic psychologist Dr. Shannon Curry to discuss grief. You can find Dr. Curry at https://currypsychology.com/ Join Zach and Laura for their workshop by ...
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Ep 263 30 Soft from 2023-04-11T07:00
Laura has a system for dealing with the boxes from online orders. Zach has set a new all time record for flossing. If you've heard of 75 Hard you are going to love Zach's idea for 30 Soft. Join t...
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Ep 262 Intentional Conversations from 2023-04-04T07:00
Laura is frustrated with the continuing snow in her town but crushing her triathlon training. Zach is leveling up his style with some new clothes. Zach brings up a topic he often wants to communi...
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Ep 261 Behind the Curtain from 2023-03-28T07:00
Laura has a song stuck in her head and is super excited about an upcoming guest. Zach has some questions for Laura offering a glimpse behind the therapist curtain. Check out the upcoming workshops...
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Ep 260 Getting Good from 2023-03-21T07:00
Laura needs to process the damage her puppy did to Zach's shoes. Zach has been hounding Laura to participate in a March Madness bracket. Laura brings some concrete steps to getting good at pretty...
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Ep 259 Repair Attempts from 2023-03-14T17:24:49
Zach's handyman has practically moved into his house. Laura had her, and her friend's, car stolen. They go on to discuss failed attempts at repairing the relationship. Sponsor:Join Thrive Market to...
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Ep 258 Money Matters with Matt Kane from 2023-03-07T08:00
Zach and Laura chat with financial advisor Matt Kane about the importance of values, communication, and alignment as a couple navigates their financial lives. Sponsor:Get $15 off your order at ht...
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Ep 257 Is it okay to say No? from 2023-02-28T08:00
Zach has been working hard to set a new meditation streak. He and Laura chat about some of the lessons he's learning in the process. Laura poses a question about whether or not it's okay to say "no...
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Ep 256 Rethinking Date Night from 2023-02-21T18:46:08
Zach&Laura discuss ways to re-think and re-energize dating your partner. Zach has a date night coming up and Laura gives him some tips. They brainstorm some ideas for dates that don't require a lot...
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Ep 255 Healthy Relationship Myths from 2023-02-14T08:00
Laura is a bit under the weather. Zach isn't so sure about K-Pop. They reflect a bit on valentines day past and present. Laura brings up the topic of debunking myths about healthy relationships. ...
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Ep 254 Make Your Marriage Work with Zach and Laura from 2023-02-07T23:53:19
Zach is stretching it out. Laura is feeling REALLY good about her husband. They discuss their upcoming workshop and what it takes for couples to make progress (hint: the tools alone are not enough)...
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Ep 253 Porn and Marriage with Candice Horbacz from 2023-01-31T08:00
Zach shares the story of his first date with his wife. Laura tells us about the power of a well-placed compliment. They enjoy catching up before they welcome their guest Candice Horbacz. Candice sh...
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Ep 252 Keeping Monogamy Hot with Ashleigh Renard from 2023-01-24T08:14
Zach and Laura (mostly Laura) have a great conversation with Ashleigh Renard about monogamy, swinging, teamwork, and more. You will get some great insights and tips for how to keep your relationshi...
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Ep 251 Sexual Intimacy with Emily Nagoski Part 2 from 2023-01-17T22:18:51
Zach and Laura continue their conversation with Emily Nagoski. Emily answers some listener questions and shares some wonderful resources to better connect with your partner. Register for our upcomi...
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Ep 250 Sexual Intimacy with Emily Nagoski Part 1 from 2023-01-10T19:04:12
Zach and Laura welcome Emily Nagoski to the podcast. Emily shares some of her personal story of building relationships and gives us a sneak peek into her latest book on maintaining sexual intimacy ...
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Ep 249 Happy New Year from Marriage Therapy Radio from 2023-01-03T08:00
Zach and Laura discuss their words for 2023 and some of the things their clients find most helpful in therapy. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Ep 248 End of the Year Mailbag from 2022-12-27T18:49:50
Laura is pitching a new cooking show. Zach is on his way home from Virginia. In this final episode of the year, they answer some listener questions and look forward to 2023.Sponsors: Visit Fabric...
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Ep 247 Biblical Marriage with Dr. Jennifer Bird from 2022-12-20T08:00
Zach interviews Biblical scholar (and childhood friend) Dr. Jenffifer Bird https://www.jennifergracebird.com/ about the notion of a "Biblical Marriage". Sponsor:Visit https://storyworth.com/mtr an...
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Ep 246 Taking a Break from 2022-12-13T16:47:58
Zach is sporting a hat that Laura does NOT love. Laura is putting together a pitch-black dinner. They reflect on their enneagram numbers and Laura is pumped about how she and her husband are using ...
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Ep 245 Know Your Type with Ian Cron from 2022-12-06T08:00
Zach and Laura have a great conversation with Ian Cron https://www.ianmorgancron.com/ about the impact that deeply knowing yourself and your partner can have on your relationship. Ian is an expert ...
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Ep 244 The Marriage Puzzle with A.J. Jacobs from 2022-11-29T08:00
Zach is flying solo this week. He interviews author A.J. Jacobs, about his recent book The Puzzler https://ajjacobs.com/books/the-puzzler/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adcho...
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Ep 243 Spiritual Intimacy from 2022-11-22T08:00
Zach was confused by the lack of football. Laura likes the time change and had a bonkers half-marathon. They discuss hernias for a little too long but eventually transition to a great conversation ...
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Ep 242 Acrostic Toolbox from 2022-11-15T17:57:54
Zach and Laura talk about their old girlfriends and old dogs. Zach brings a few acrostics that have been helpful in both his parenting and work with clients. Sponsor: Visit Rocket Money at https:...
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Ep 241 Transitions to/in Parenting with Beth Goss from 2022-11-08T08:00
After a last-minute meditation session, Zach and Laura interview parenting educator/coach Beth Goss. Sponsors:Visit https://Manscaped.com and get 20% off + Free Shipping with code MTR20 Visit https...
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Ep 240 Empathy from 2022-11-01T16:06:31
Zach lost, but on a positive note, his shower wall is no longer adorned with dental floss. Laura also upped her oral hygiene game. Zach ponders what we do when we don't have all the information. I...
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Ep 239 Sexperiment from 2022-10-25T07:00
Laura gives us some info on water conservation. Zach is anticipating the final week of fantasy football. They provide some significant free air time to a cookie company. Zach brings a sex and int...
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Ep 238 Jungle Cats Need Love Too from 2022-10-18T07:00
Zach returns from Disneyland. Laura is continuing her training. Laura brings the discussion of what to do with the need for connection when you are at the end of your rope. Sponsors: Go to https:/...
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Ep 237 The Flip Side from 2022-10-12T04:30:18
Zach and Laura bring us in on a conflict they have right before recording this episode. They go on to discuss a concept Zach is playing with regarding exploring the flip side of both the good and ...
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Ep 236 How to Listen from 2022-10-04T07:00
Zach and Laura start off the episode with a free concert. Laura wants Jack Johnson to come to her son's class to watch him perform in a bacon costume. They get a lot of feedback on whose oral hygie...
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Ep 235 Press Pause from 2022-09-27T07:00
Zach has an interesting encounter with Kim Kardashian. Laura starts modeling for Gap. They discuss their oral hygiene which oddly leads them into a really great discussion of how to get what you wa...
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Ep 234 Catching Up from 2022-09-20T07:00
Laura needs some alone time after a trip to Hawaii to, potentially illegally, spread ashes. Zach completes a marathon - counseling session. His corn dish was not the hit of the Iron Chef party. Th...
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Ep 233 Listener Questions from 2022-09-14T01:45
Laura drops her kid off for the first day of school. Zach's kid got a piercing. They recap the fantasy draft. They answer some listener questions. Sponsors:Visit https://zoxdoc.com/mtr to find pa...
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Ep 232 Getting it Right from 2022-09-06T07:00
Laura shares her candle and melatonin routine. Zach is treating his potential COVID with ginger ale. They go on to discuss the characteristics of couples that are firing on all cylinders. Learn m...
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Ep 231 Gamify your Relationship from 2022-08-30T17:24:30
Zach is setting up an MTR fantasy football league. Laura continues her triathlon training. They discuss how getting what you want out of the relationship can involve giving as much as you can. Sp...
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Ep 230 Forgiveness from 2022-08-23T07:00
Laura is getting a new puppy. Zach shares all of his orange knowledge. Zach brings the topic of forgiveness. How we think about it, and how we do it.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaph...
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Ep 229 Atomic Habits from 2022-08-16T17:18:24
Laura got stranded in the middle of a lake. Zach is thirsty for that sweet blue check. They discuss a book that Laura has been reading in a book club and Zach's wife has been reading for work; Ato...
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Ep 228 Men Stepping Up in Community with Larry Hagner from 2022-08-09T07:00
Zach and Laura welcome Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge. They discuss how men can support each other to be better husbands, fathers, and leaders. Sponsor:Visit https://www.dameproducts.com/ ...
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Ep 227 Rock Paper Scissors from 2022-08-02T23:08:34
Zach and Laura call out some listeners who have responded recently. Laura is headed on ANOTHER vacation and has to coordinate kid care. This leads them to discuss what to do when you and your par...
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Ep 226 Shawn and Andrew join Zach and Laura to discuss couple things from 2022-07-26T07:00
Zach and Laura welcome Shawn and Andrew from Couple Things Podcast https://www.couplethingspod.com to discuss conflict, repair, sex, and clothes. It is a very fun, free-flowing conversation with ...
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Ep 225 Mailbag from 2022-07-19T07:00
Zach shares his reaction to a dog jumping on his lap. Laura's son has a riddle for us all. Zach was a bit troubled totally disconnecting from work while on vacation. They go on to field some list...
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Ep 224 Keys to Communication from 2022-07-12T20:45:30
Zach is headed to the Jersey Shore. Laura is off on yet another vacation and learning to swim. They go on to discuss the keys to good communication. Sponsors: Visit https://hiyahealth.com/MTR fo...
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Ep 223 Men Stepping Up with Beth Wylie from 2022-07-05T16:59
Laura is flying solo as Zach is away for the holiday. Laura welcomes Beth Wylie for her second visit to the podcast to discuss the need for men to step up and put in the work in their relationships...
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Ep 222 Your Conflict Roadmap from 2022-06-28T07:00
Zach and Laura spend a couple of minutes talking about me, their producer. They discuss how weird it is when folks they know listen to the podcast. They go on to talk about how to be more connect...
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Ep 221 Small Wins from 2022-06-21T07:00
Zach is feeling a bit out of breath post-workout. Laura apparently has bigger shoulders than expected. She tells the story of when she bought her really hot bike. They reflect on their interview w...
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Ep 220 How to Be Married (to Melissa) with Dustin Nickerson from 2022-06-14T08:00
Zach sits down for an interview with Dustin and Melissa Nickerson to discuss comedy, parenting, and marriage. Be sure to grab Dustin's latest book, How to Be Married (to Melissa), and catch him on ...
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Ep 219 Terry Real from 2022-06-07T16:35:39
Zach and Laura chat with Terry Real about his life's work and new book US: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship. There are many great takeaways that can transform the way you...
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Ep 218 Rules of a Changing Game from 2022-05-31T17:32
Laura is juicing it up and packing up her van for a foreign trip. Zach is getting fired. They discuss the importance of having a shared set of rules and boundaries in your relationship and how th...
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Ep 217 Commitment to Health from 2022-05-24T22:13
Zach and Laura on the health choices they are making for themselves which leads to a reflection from Zach on how partners can join and encourage one another on a health journey. Learn more about y...
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Ep 216 Laura is the Best Partner Ever! from 2022-05-17T22:12
Zach and Laura debrief a recent conflict and how each of them handled it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Ep 215 Anxiously Attached with Jessica Baum from 2022-05-10T09:00
Zach and Laura sit down with psychotherapist and author Jessica Baum. They discuss her journey to becoming a mental health counselor and her new book Anxiously Attached. It's a valuable discussion ...
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Ep 214 A Thousand Papercuts from 2022-05-03T19:00
Both Zach and Laura have been diving into some new books. Zach drops a dad joke. They go on to discuss the small breaches of trust that destroy relationships and what you can do about it. Learn ...
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Ep 213 Partnering in Life and Money from 2022-04-26T09:00
Zach is flying solo this week. He sits down with Dan&Kay Ockey, Co-Founders of Centsei. They share what it took for them to get on the same financial page early in their marriage and what lead them...
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Ep 212 Sexpectations from 2022-04-19T09:00
Laura is upping her mindfulness game. Zach is seeing how different clients draw out different aspects of himself which leads to a great conversation about which roles they each like playing as ther...
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Ep 211 Better Conversations from 2022-04-12T09:00
Laura is not looking forward to meeting and greeting. Zach shows off his auctioneering skills. They go on to discuss some great tactics to get to better conversations in your relationship.Learn m...
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Ep 210 What You Want from 2022-04-05T21:03:24
Laura fell down the stairs and hurt her foot. Zach doesn't want to talk about Will Smith. Or does he. Laura says "yes" to her husband but then immediately regrets it ,so she asks him for what sh...
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Ep 209 The Empty Nest / Mid-Life Episode from 2022-03-29T09:00
Laura is feeling a bit homesick for a place that is no longer her home because she longs to relax into the feeling of being known. Zach recounts, word for word, exactly how he would become best fri...
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Ep 208 Solvable Problems from 2022-03-22T09:00
Laura finished up some sex school so it hitting the road again. Zach cut off all his hair to look less like the father of his youth. They go on to discuss the importance of finding solutions to...
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Ep 207 The Art of Relationships with Austin Kleon from 2022-03-15T09:00
Zach and Laura sit down with writer, artist, and speaker, Austin Kleon. They discuss the intersection of art and relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Ep 206 State of the Union from 2022-03-08T09:00
Zach goes on a rant about Instagram that leads to some solid marriage advice. Laura is saying yes to some of her husband's dreams. They talk about the importance of having intentional conversations...
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Ep 205 Start with the End in Mind from 2022-03-01T09:00
Zach and Laura each return from vacations in Mexico with their families. They discuss their different approaches to these vacations and how knowing what you want on the outset helps set the stage f...
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Ep 204 Marriage Helper with Kimberly Beam Holmes from 2022-02-22T09:00
Ep 203 Mail Bag from 2022-02-15T09:00
Laura's pretty tired. Zach is tired of his daughter.
They open up the mailbag to answer some listener questions.
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Ep 202 The Divine Tedium of Marriage | with Heather Havrilesky from 2022-02-08T09:00
Zach and Laura have a wonderful conversation with Heather Havrilesky about her new book, Foreverland: On the Divine Tedium of Marriage.
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Ep 201 February is the new January from 2022-02-01T09:00
Zach shows off his singing voice. Laura is relinquishing control as she plans a family getaway.
They go on to discuss a number of ways to reframe your approach and reaction to your partne...
Ep 200 Polyvagal Theory&Getting to 200 from 2022-01-25T09:00
Laura is hoping to learn to swim this year. Zach brings back his dad jokes.
Laura brings the topic of Polyvaga Theory as a way to identify how we feel in a moment, giving us another tool ...
Ep 199 Reconnecting with Steve&Lisa Call from 2022-01-20T01:01:57
Zach and Laura connect with Zach's first clinical supervisor and his wife, Steve & Lisa Call. They discuss the Call's unique approach to inviting couples into a reconnected intimacy through the ...
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Ep 198 Consent from 2022-01-12T17:22:17
Zach's hair is apparently looking good. Laura shows her lack of knowledge of the Marvel Universe. Zach is getting into meditation. They both share some insights they have recently received from ...
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Ep 197 New Year's Values and Practices from 2022-01-04T09:00
Laura had a hard Christmas. Zach is leaning into virtual reality. They discuss the fun new games they have been playing lately.
Ep 196 Asexuality with Anthony Bogaert from 2021-12-28T18:39:23
In this final episode of 2021 Laura interviews leading researcher in asexuality Listen
Ep 195 5ish Ways to Ruin Your Holidays from 2021-12-21T09:03:17
Laura has been looking back at what a good last few months she has had. Zach has whittled down his social media list to two.
Ep 194 Marriage and Parenting with Stephen James from 2021-12-14T09:00
Laura is out with a migraine so Zach flies solo to interview his long-time friend Stephen James. Stephen shares some great nuggets of wisdom on both marriage and parenting.
Ep 193 Attribution from 2021-12-08T01:27:58
Both back from separate trips to Disneyland, Laura is getting ready for her 75 Hard challenge. Zach is pacing it with a 45 Medium.
Ep 192 Age and Power Differences from 2021-11-30T08:55:47
Prompted from Taylor Swift's latest single (and Laura's love for Jake Gyllenhaal), Zach brings the topic of age differences in romantic relationships. It leads to a great conversation about powe...
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Ep 191 Spreading Hope and Giving Love with Craig Smith. from 2021-11-24T01:52:05
Ep 190 Journey Beyond Divorce with Karen McMahon from 2021-11-16T10:00
Zach and Laura jump right into an interview with Karen McMahon from Journey Beyond Divorce,
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Ep 189 Emotional Banking from 2021-11-09T10:00
After some discussion of Zach's morning routine, Laura brings up a struggle she is seeing in some couples: one or both of them not contributing to the emotional bank account.
Ep 188 Relational Life Therapy with Shane Birkel. from 2021-11-02T10:20
Zach and Laura get a chance to discuss different couple therapy models with Shane Birkel of The Couple Therapist Couch podcast.
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Ep 187 Simple Pleasures from 2021-10-27T17:04:14
Zach is fretting about the sizes of circles. Laura is sniffing strangers in parks. This leads to a great discussion and exercise about finding simple pleasures in life and allowing those to grou...
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Ep 186 Being on the Same Team with Kristine Lilly from 2021-10-19T08:00
Zach talks with Kristine Lilly, a USWNT legend, about what it means to be part of a team and also how to balance work and play both on the field and in a relationship. They also discuss the univ...
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Ep 185 Zach&Laura Hash it Out from 2021-10-12T08:00
Laura brings a grievance she has with Zach to work it out in real-time. The tension is real and leads to a genuine conversation that displays both skill and care in resolving the conflict.
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Ep 184 You Go, Girl from 2021-10-05T08:00
Zach and Laura wish their very first listener a happy birthday. Laura is getting her wardrobe together.
Ep 183 Building Trust from 2021-09-28T08:00
Laura is taking into a shoe on an uncomfortably long girl's weekend while looking for age-appropriate clothes. Zach is using all his human resources.
Ep 182 Working Through Conflict | with Jayson Gaddis from 2021-09-21T07:21:24
Zach and Laura interview Jayson Gaddis, founder of The Relationship School and author of Listen
Ep 181 Advance Skydiving Skills from 2021-09-14T13:20:41
Zach's wife is a little concerned that his brain doesn't work. He and Laura extend the skydiving conflict metaphor from Listen
Ep 180 Strong-Willed Tiny Humans | with Danielle Bettmann from 2021-09-07T09:00
Zach and Laura are recording from the same house, but different rooms as they interview Danielle Bettmann. Danielle is a parenting coach for those of us with "strong-willed small humans". She sh...
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Ep 179 Types of Couples from 2021-08-31T08:00
Laura is figuring out carpooling. Zach is taking a break from exercise.
Ep 178 A.R.E. you there for your partner? from 2021-08-24T08:00
Laura helps Zach reminisce about his favorite bar that closed down a few years ago. Laura is thrilled about her sex ed.
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Ep 177 Agreements from 2021-08-17T16:56:58
Ep 176 Mailbag from 2021-08-10T08:00
After kicking it off with a couple of dad jokes, Zach and Laura get right into some questions from listeners.
Ep175 David Wilcox from 2021-08-03T16:53:11
Zach and Laura have a wonderful interview with singer/songwriter David Wilcox. He shares what he has learned about life, love, and marriage through his jou...
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Ep 174 A Shared Story from 2021-07-27T07:11:26
Zach vows not to get Laura anything for her birthday, but he might end up getting her a chessboard. Operation "Blue Check" continues in earnest. To help out, be sure to follow Listen
Ep 173 This Workshop Won't Work from 2021-07-20T06:45:18
Zach is moving his schedule around so he can be at his kid's soccer games. Laura is gearing up for her triathlon. They discuss the need for couples to do the work when seeking help for their rel...
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Ep 172 Context>Content from 2021-07-13T19:37:37
Laura is jumping into her local fitness scene with both feet and possibly into sex therapy with both hands. Zach is exercising his social media skills. They go on to discuss the impact of words;...
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Ep 171 Attraction to Coworker from 2021-07-06T08:30
Project "Blue Checkmark" is well underway. Laura just got back from a camping trip and Zach is thinking about watching a Netflix show that is sweeping the nation. They go on to discuss a listene...
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Ep 170 Trust the Process from 2021-06-29T08:00
Laura is back in school. Zach is learning about how social media works. They discuss the process of therapy and the importance of being the author of your own story.
Ep 169 How to Not Die Alone | with Logan Ury from 2021-06-22T18:03:29
Zach and Laura welcome Logan Ury to the podcast (for the second time, kind of) to share her data driven insights into finding, growing, and keeping love. ...
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Ep 168 Repair vs. Perfection from 2021-06-15T09:00
Zach is in sync with Chicago while in Charlotte. Laura is losing sleep thinking about her clients. In his jetlagged state, Zach shares how a mistake in a text message led to a great insight abou...
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Ep 167 Life Themes from 2021-06-08T23:48:30
Zach and Laura saw each other in person after nearly 2 years and it was less eventful than you would think. Laura shares some thoughts on a book about life themes.
Ep 166 "Pride&Prejudice" with Candice Czubernat from 2021-06-01T17:52:24
Zach and Laura talk with Candice Czbubernat about topics and issues relevant to LGBTQ relationships. It's a wide-ranging interview with more than a few surprises. Also, Zach doesn't throw rocks....
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Ep 165 The Magic Relationship Ratio from 2021-05-25T09:00
Zach is feeling really good about some stuff in life. Laura is reminded about how the good things in life fill our account, which leads to their discussion of the Gottman Magic Relationship Rati...
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Ep 164 The Empowered Wife - With Laura Doyle from 2021-05-19T06:59:12
After confirming that they would survive the interview, Zach and Laura learn about Laura Doyle and her book, Listen
Ep 163 Finding Life Balance from 2021-05-11T08:29:05
Laura is needing some self-care. Zach doesn't want any more friends. They discuss a listener question about life balance and also discuss some current client concerns.
Ep 162 Quadrants from 2021-05-04T22:00:30
Zach has a microphone puppet. Laura wants to get a different kind of puppet. They go on to discuss the power of using quadrants to identify where you are and where you want to be.
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Ep 161 WandaVision Wisdom from 2021-04-27T08:01
Ep 160 Start Stop Continue from 2021-04-21T17:50:05
Zach is sitting in the dark. Laura has a burning throat. Laura brings a skill-building topic that is sure to help any relationship.
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Ep 159 The 80/80 Marriage from 2021-04-13T07:12:33
Zach and Laura interview Nate and Kaley Klemp about their new book The 80/80 Marriage.
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Ep 158 Emotional Intelligence Part 2 from 2021-04-06T09:36:54
Laura's kid is in the basement and her husband is on vacation. Zach is ramping up for college visits. They proceed to talk about Part 2 of Emotional Intelligence. Grab a pen and paper because yo...
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Ep 157 Emotional Intelligence Part 1 from 2021-03-30T09:00
Laura is exhausted after a whirlwind road trip. Zack is continuing his LEGO builds. They go on to have a great discussion on the importance of emotional intelligence and offer some great tips on...
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Ep 156 Dumb Dads from 2021-03-23T06:40:43
Zach is flying solo this week and gets to interview Kevin and Evan from The Dumb Dads Podcast, two stay-at-home dads doing the best they can.
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Ep 155 Mailbag from 2021-03-16T08:51:50
Zach is watching Stranger Things while building even stranger things. Laura got outplayed by her husband.
They pick a couple of listener letters to respond to on the podcast. Although th...
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Ep 154 Partner in Pain from 2021-03-10T20:29:57
Laura is flying solo today. She shares a story of how you can show up for your partner when they are in pain.
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Ep 153 Gratitude from 2021-03-03T17:47:12
Zach reflex on his trip to Mexico. It leads to a great conversation on gratitude, but probably not in the way you would think.
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Ep 152 Happy with Baby with Catherine O'Brien from 2021-02-23T10:00
Laura is flying solo this week as Zach is away. She gets to interview Catherine O'Brien author of Happy with Baby about ways to protect the relationship when you add a baby to the mix.
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Ep 151 Let's Talk about Valentine's Day from 2021-02-16T21:41:07
Zach kicks us off with some jokes. Laura is the gift-giving master. This leads them into a discussion about the importance of Valentine's Day and what it represents.
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Ep 150 Enduring Vulnerabilities from 2021-02-09T10:00
Zach is loving Marriage Therapy Radio. Laura cashed in on Gamestop. They go on to discuss how the vulnerabilities that get triggered in our relationships can be understood and navigated.
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Ep 149 10 Rules of Good Communication from 2021-02-02T09:23:44
They go on to discuss Dan Wile's 10 Rules of Good Communication from his book Listen
Ep 51 New Year's Intentions from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Zach and Laura kick off the new year reflecting on the importance of intentions.
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Ep 49 Happy Festivus from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Zach has had a busy day with clients. Laura spent some of her day upside down, and she wrote a joke. They discuss their holiday traditions and importance of ritual in every relationship.
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Ep 109 Maybe it's Grief from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
After a couple dad jokes, Zach and Laura discuss a bit how they are dealing with working out while quarantined. They talk about order, grief, relationship roles and finding peace in this chaotic...
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Ep 86 - Anatomy of Marriage from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Zach and Laura get to team up with Melanie and Seth of the Anatomy of Marriage Podcast.
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Ep 83 - The Importance of Predictability from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Zach and Laura quickly catch up on all that has been going on in their lives the last month or so. Laura details upcoming topics. They go on to discuss the importance of predictability in your r...
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Ep 81 - Let's Talk Relationships from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Laura is away in Europe so we get to hear a replay of a live radio interview with Zach this week. He was a guest on Let's Talk Relationships. They interview him about his book The Relationship A...
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Ep 63 The One Question Experiment from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393
Ep 148 Anxiety and Depression from 2021-01-26T11:00
Zach details his Peleton "buying" experience. Laura is looking forward to a Spring Break RV trip. They go on to discuss how to deal with anxiety and depression as it comes up in your self and yo...
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Ep 147 Making it Through the Flooding from 2021-01-19T09:00
Zach really wanted to sleep in, but Laura wants to get everything done early. Zach just celebrated 27 years of watching The American President, and they both are feeling a bit hungry. They go on...
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Ep 146 Laura's Favorite Things from 2021-01-13T05:51:02
Laura is flying solo today. She wanted to share some of her favorite things and how they have benefited her marriage.
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Ep 145 Navigating Different Communication Styles from 2021-01-07T09:46:30
Ep 144 Supporting Habits and Rituals from 2020-12-22T23:38:02
Zach updates us on his fantasy football success and bemoans 1-star reviews. Laura is getting her health groove on. This leads to a discussion of how to support new habits and rituals in your rel...
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Ep 143 Add SPARK to your Marriage in 48 Hours from 2020-12-16T01:02:55
Zach and Laura discuss how many folks are looking for therapy these days. Laura's practice is full, but Zach doesn't believe in full. Zach has some fantasy football scores to settle. They go on ...
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Ep 142 Three Tools for an Intentional Relationship from 2020-12-08T21:33:14
Zach applies for a game show. Laura is opening a home gym and going BIG on Christmas. They discuss three tools that can help you create an intentional relationship.
Ep 141 Three Reasons Your Conversations Become Conflicts from 2020-12-02T02:41:17
Zach and Laura reflect on the strangeness of Thanksgiving in the midst of a pandemic. They go on to discuss Zach's theory that knowing the What, Why, and Who when beginning a conversation can pr...
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Ep 140 Sex: Brakes&Gas from 2020-11-26T01:11:34
Zach is working out a new joke. He and Laura both agree that they would like to be a lumberjack and lumberjill, respectively. They go on to discuss how understanding your most fulfilling and lea...
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Ep 139 The Pendulum Swing from 2020-11-17T23:20:09
Zach and Laura discuss the pendulum swings we take in relationships.
Ep 138 Listener Questions from 2020-11-10T11:00
Laura is dealing with a full load and tiny balls. Zach forgot how to solve a Rubik's Cube. They go on to address two listener questions and provide a TON of practical tips for improving your rel...
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Ep 137 Do You Want to Build a Snowman? from 2020-11-04T22:31:40
Laura is flying solo today and interviews Hyrum Osmond, Disney animator. They discuss the path to his dream job and the impact on his relationship.
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Ep 136 The In-Laws from 2020-10-20T08:19:34
Laura is not liking her soup. Zach is not liking Laura's house or the person who administered his COVID test. But, rest assured, he's negative.
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Ep 135 Anger Management from 2020-10-13T07:46:01
Laura is headed on what sounds like a pretty sweet vacation. Zach circles back on the conflict he was in with his wife last week. Laura's husband is getting some internet traffic. They go on to ...
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Ep 134 Disrupting the Pattern from 2020-10-06T07:19:54
Both Zach and Laura talk about the importance of walks for each of them personally and in their therapy. They go on to discuss some ways of disrupting the established patterns of conflict in you...
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Ep 133 The Pilot Episode from 2020-09-29T23:16:12
Zach and Laura welcome Ed Rush, an author, speaker, and advisor, to discuss how his experiences as a decorated Marine fighter pilot translate to his relationshi...
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Ep 132 Three Practices to Get You Through the Pandemic from 2020-09-22T09:00
Laura finds the wrong Zach on Instagram. Zach expresses an opinion on a Netflix movie and gets some push-back from the social square. They go on to discuss how couples can not just get through t...
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Ep 131 Hurt Feelings from 2020-09-15T18:42:26
Laura is a superhuman with self-healing powers. Zach is reminded of the importance of kindness. They go on to discuss a listener's question regarding what to do with hurt feelings when feel your...
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Ep 130 After the Fight from 2020-09-08T19:22:53
The kids are headed back to school. Zach is excited to get back in therapy. This leads to a discussion about the frequency of therapy and how often is helpful. Laura gives an update on her bikin...
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Ep 129 Interrogation vs Invitation from 2020-09-01T09:00
Laura is nursing some wounds after a bike accident. Zach has a finger out of whack. This leads them into a discussion of attractive doctors they have had over the years. They go on to discuss th...
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Ep 128 Pause and Attribute from 2020-08-25T22:30:44
Zach is now a hand model and cracking afternoon beers. Laura is business up top and casual on bottom. They discuss different strategies for disrupting the negative patterns of communication in y...
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Ep 127 Listener Question on Leadership from 2020-08-18T09:00
Laura is rocking her trailer skills, even with the Austin Powers' style turns. Zach is thinking about yoga and stepping up his health game. They then address a listener's question about leadersh...
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Ep 126 Too Much and Not Enough from 2020-08-11T20:07:12
Laura has a trailer in her front yard. Zach's t-shirts are fitting better. They discuss what is sometimes the core fear for a man and a woman.
Ep 125 The Enneagram with Ni'coel Stark from 2020-08-04T21:02:52
Recorded while Laura was on the road, Zach is joined by Ni'coel Stark to discuss the Enneagram. Ni'coel is a corporate intelligence strategist who brings a great deal of experience into the valu...
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Ep 124 Insta Inspiration from 2020-07-28T22:43:05
Laura is back from her travels and COVID has hit close to home. She is celebrating a birthday. Zach is experimenting with glass blowing, kind of, and has mastered the Rubic's Cube. They go on to...
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Ep 123 Getting it Right vs Being Right from 2020-07-22T03:20:35
Zach and Laura discuss some of their favorite clients. Laura tries to convince you to listen to a different podcast. They then discuss the importance of valuing the relationship over being "righ...
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Ep 122 The Hamilton Question from 2020-07-15T06:34:45
Zach and Laura have to work out their own communication conflicts. Laura is headed out on a great adventure and Zach is welcoming back his kids. They throw out a Hamilton challenge, and go on to...
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Ep 121 Love in the Time of the Coronavirus from 2020-07-08T06:18:17
With Laura out gallivanting around the Northwest in her RV Zach is sharing a recording of a talk he did for ParentMap It's full of valuable takeaways. You might want to have a notebook handy for...
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Ep 120 Good Defenses from 2020-07-01T02:15:48
Laura controls the weather and gets into a great intense conversation with her husband about switching household roles. Zach is pretty certain he is not interested in that for him and his wife. ...
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Ep 119 The Truth About Marriage with Roger Nygard from 2020-06-23T19:29:51
Zach and Laura hop straight into a great conversation with Roger Nygard, filmmaker, author, and producer, about his latest project, The Truth About Ma...
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Ep 118 Speaking in Code from 2020-06-16T18:58:59
Zach is mayor of grouchy town but he solved a Rubik's Cube. Laura shares her creative spellings. They go on to discuss the importance of having code language in your relationship.
Ep 117 Tapping into Your Inner Adult from 2020-06-11T00:50:29
Laura is obsessed with Magnificent Sex. Zach is starting some stuff and counting cats. They go on to discuss the work of Terry Real and the impact it has in their own lives and the lives of thei...
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Ep 116 Listener Question on Pot from 2020-06-02T19:33:32
Zach and Laura discuss the odd ending of last week's show. Zach is celebrating over 1 million views on the Vanity Fair videos. They field a call from a listener about different perspectives on m...
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Ep 115 Selfish or Self-Care from 2020-05-28T16:17:10
Zach is super proud of his kids. Laura shares about some of the Vanity Fair video that ended up on the cutting room floor. They go on to discuss the difference between selfishness and self-care....
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Ep114 Self Love with Jonathon Aslay from 2020-05-19T22:03:56
Zach finally put the doors on his shed.Both he and Laura showered today, but for different reasons. They move on to discuss self love and self care with mid-life dating and relationship coach, <...
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Ep 113 Dream, Discuss, Decide from 2020-05-12T10:00
Laura is stocking up on bikes. Zach is spotting pigs in his neighborhood. They discuss what it looks like to bring on a new client. They go on to discuss the importance of having conversations o...
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Ep 112 Better Sex Through Mindfulness | with Dr. Lori Brotto from 2020-05-05T23:52:52
Zach and Laura discuss a recent video they created with Vanity Fair. Check it out, it's a really fun look at relationships in Disney fi...
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Ep 111 What's your Next from 2020-04-29T10:00
Zach opens up about some of his struggles in this time and the importance of getting his own therapy. Laura joins him in discussing the importance of having purpose and a next.
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Ep 110 Stop Being so Helpful from 2020-04-21T19:21:29
Zach is building stuff around the house. Laura wants him to drive down and build her some planter boxes while she reads. They then address a listeners question about what to do about wanting to ...
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Ep 108 Listener Questions from 2020-04-08T06:11:46
Zach and Laura discuss what Beyonce, Goonies, Tiger King, and hot tubs have in common. They go on to address a number of listener questions that have piled up in the last few weeks.
Ep 107 Stir Crazy from 2020-03-31T20:15:42
Zach is a bit grumpy. Laura is feeling really positive. Zach has a movie recommendation and the two of them contemplate who might want to be a guest on upcoming episodes. They go on to discuss t...
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Ep 106 Birdhouse for your Soul from 2020-03-24T23:07:58
Laura's kid starts us off with some solid dad jokes. She and Zach go on to discuss self care and creating sacred spaces for yourself and for your relationship.
Ep105 The Inevitable Podcast about Relationships in the Age of the Zombie Apocalypse from 2020-03-17T22:44:34
Recorded almost a week ago, Zach and Laura discuss the Coronavirus, OJ, oysters, and turning toward your partner. They also have a generous offer for folks looking to improve their marriage whil...
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Ep 104 Fight, Flight, or Freeze from 2020-03-10T10:00
Zach and Laura touch base real quick on the Coronavirus. Laura has a long run she's preparing for. They announce some upcoming live virtual training for couples. A listener question regarding el...
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Ep 103 Asking for What you Want from 2020-03-03T11:00
Zach is worn out from fighting with a woman (in his martial arts class). Laura is basking in the late winter sun. They discuss common dreams and particularly a dream Zach had about losing his te...
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Ep 102 - How to Ruin Your Marriage from 2020-02-25T11:00
Laura is heading to Hawaii and a little annoyed that her husband will be golfing every day. Zach is headed to Mexico and will be seeing his private magician again. They go on to discuss some of ...
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Ep 101 - Keeping the Relationship Strong When You are Hustling at Work from 2020-02-19T06:24:54
Zach is away with his family so Laura is sharing a recording of a keynote she recently gave to door-to-door salespeople. These folks are highly commited to succeding at work, but wanted some hel...
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Ep 100 - We Celebrate 100 Episodes from 2020-02-12T02:17:03
Zach just finished his taxes, has already spent his refund and is headed on vacation. Laura is working on her taxes... from a few years ago. Together they celebrate some of the milestones of Mar...
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Ep 99 - Date Night with Tyler Turk from 2020-02-04T19:36:11
Laura kicks us off with a dad joke. She and Zach go on to discuss desire and creating desire in your partner. This leads to the importance of date nights and intentional time set aside for the t...
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Ep 98 - ADHD with Dr. Ari Tuckman from 2020-01-28T23:21:54
Zach is sporting a 14 year old girl's headband. Laura shares about caring for aging parents. With guest Dr. Ari Tuckman, they go on to discuss the impacts of ADHD on your relationship
Ep 97 - Great Questions from 2020-01-22T06:24:44
Zach and Laura discuss their shower and workout schedules. Let's just say, one of them likes to "stew". Zach is in the home stretch of a new project. They go on to discuss the power of a good qu...
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Ep 96 - Parenting Teen Girls from 2020-01-14T09:10:48
Zach's 17 and 13 year old daughters join him for this week's podcast. They discuss what it's like to be a teen today and how parents can better connect and encourage them.
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Ep 95 - Try it This Way from 2020-01-03T05:13:36
Zach and Laura recount their respective New Year's Eve celebrations. Zach has a couple gripes and Laura isn't quite sure about science. They go on to discuss a powerful practice that could resha...
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Ep 94 - Holiday Grab Bag from 2019-12-24T11:00
Laura is dressed like an elf -sorry this is not a visual medium-. Zach took a tumble. Vasectomy gets discussed at length. Laura introduces a cool experiment for wives to help improve their marri...
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Ep 93 - Laura's Holiday Blues from 2019-12-10T11:00
Laura discloses that she has been feeling a bit down with the holidays and her current move. She and Zach discuss a bit of what might be behind that which leads them to a broader topic of figuri...
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Ep 92 - Man's Burden from 2019-12-03T23:03:23
What does "Your Face" have to do with a playful disagreement? Zach shares his strategies. He and Laura also talk about their relationships with you, the listeners. They go on to discuss the uniq...
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Ep 91 - Sharing the Load of the Relationship from 2019-11-20T11:00
Laura is jogging from her son's house to school and back twice a day. That's about the same about of jogging Zach has done in the last year. They go on to discuss what happens in a relationship ...
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Ep 90 - Couples that Work Together from 2019-11-07T06:02:43
Zach just got out of therapy and is having all the feels. Laura's thinking about starting her own therapy as well. They discuss the complexities of having a close friendship as well as a busines...
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Ep 89 - Considering Relational Life Therapy from 2019-10-30T23:22:51
Zach and Laura discuss Halloween and the MANY parties that accompany. Zach thinks Laura would be a VSCO girl. Zach relays an eavesdropped conversation of first encounters. They move on to discus...
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Ep 88 - Coupling with Purpose from 2019-10-23T10:00
Zach has limited his beverage choices. Laura is getting settled in her new town. After some interviews they reconnect and discuss the what it is to have a purpose as a couple.
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Ep 87 - Addiction Recovery with Dr. Bob Navarra from 2019-10-15T10:00
Zach & Laura sit down for a conversation with Dr. Robert Navarra. Bob is a Certified Gottman Therapist, Master Trainer, Consultant, Speaker, and Master Addiction Counselor. His research has surf...
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Ep 85 - Playing with Your Partner from 2019-09-24T10:00
Zach is back to coaching soccer, but this time for boys. Laura is planning some upcoming trips and is a bit nervous about her largest speaking gig coming up. They go on to discuss the importance...
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Ep 84 - Blended Families with Beth Wylie from 2019-09-17T16:28:06
Zach and Laura have a great conversation with Beth Wylie. Beth is a long time friend who is also an expert on blended families.
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Ep 82 - We've Had This Fight Before | An interview with Dr. Claudia Grauf-Grounds from 2019-08-27T10:00
Zach interviews Dr. Claudia Grauf-Grounds, author of We've Had Th...
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Ep 80 - The 4 Horsemen with Art of Charm from 2019-08-13T19:42:22
Laura is away in Europe for vacation so while she is away we will be playing a couple of solo shows. This first one is a rebroadcast of The Art of Charm podcast. They interview Laura on the The ...
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Ep 79 Happy Endings from 2019-08-06T10:00
Zach shares why root canals are fantastic. Laura isn't buying it, but strangely offers to clean Zach's teeth. A major transition in Laura's life sparks a great conversation about ending therapy...
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Ep 78 Book Recommendations from 2019-07-30T10:00
Zach is wearing a hoodie in July. Laura is getting her investing on. They go on to share what they are currently reading and offer some book recommendations.
Ep 77 Hot Cheetos - Worth Fighting For? from 2019-07-23T10:00
Laura brags about her golf game. Zach shares about his unnamed friend with good fashion and a boat. They go on to discuss a listener question regarding a fight about Hot Cheetos.
Ep 76 Infidelity - The Involved Partner from 2019-07-18T06:08:43
Zach gets Laura up to speed on the World Cup. Laura is dropping some Lbs, but not for a good reason. They go on to address the involved partner of an affair.
Ep 75 Premarital Therapy - Why Bother from 2019-07-09T10:00
Laura had a nice stay-cation. Zach isn't quite sure where is youngest daughter is. They go on to discuss is premarital therapy is worth it and what it's really for.
Ep 74 How to Take a Break. from 2019-07-02T16:42:28
Zach shares a bit of his experience helping facilitate The Art and Science of Love workshop for The Gottman Institute. Laura gets Zach to commit to a future webinar. They go on to share the sign...
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Ep 73 Reunions and Parting from 2019-06-25T10:00
Zach and Laura don't see eye to eye on dog park etiquette. They discuss an outdoor adventure for couples and awkward proposals. They then provide some really great practical advise for how to se...
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Ep72 Do You Validate? from 2019-06-18T10:00
Zach and Laura reflect on the future (weird, I know). They go on to talk about he importance of validating feelings.
Ep71 How to say Yes and No at the same time from 2019-06-11T10:00
Laura had to kick her husband out (don't worry it was just out of the studio so she could record.) Zach extols the power of checking off your to do list. Dad joke throw downs are happening on so...
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Ep 70 Be an Action Taker in Your Marriage from 2019-06-04T10:00
Zach and Laura discuss their Memorial Day Weekend getaways. Both got out into nature with their families. They look forward to their workshop in June and throwing some axes. They go on to discus...
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Ep 69 Interview with Sex Therapist Tina Schermer Sellers, PhD from 2019-05-28T10:00
Zach and Laura discuss what chaffed nipples, stylish hair, and sexy times have in common. They go on to have an in depth interview with sex therapist Ti...
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Ep 68 Listener Question from 2019-05-21T10:00
Laura is taking care of her gut. Zach is loving individual therapy. We get a great dad joke from listener Dustin's son. They go on to discuss a question from a listener.
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Ep 67 Social Media Breakup from 2019-05-14T10:00
Laura gets a truck. Zach grills Laura on her dog buying process. Zach is growing out his hair and cleaning up his house. They go on to discuss how to manage your social media profiles when there...
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Ep 66 Masturbation from 2019-05-07T10:30
Zach and Laura discuss their sleep habits. Zach is switching it up and Laura is afraid she is getting older. She shares some interesting beliefs about what getting older allows you to do. Sparke...
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Ep 65 The 4 Habits of a Joy Filled Marriage from 2019-04-30T17:30:47
Zach tells us about his blanket fort he retreats to from time to time. Laura completed her first half marathon. And they welcome their first guest, Chris Coursey, to the podcast. Chris joins the...
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Ep 64 Expectations of Your Partner from 2019-04-23T07:00
Laura's husband is working from home and she has found that their expectations about what daily life should look like are not totally aligned. Zach shares some stories of folks in similar situat...
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Ep 62 Breaking Up is Hard to Do from 2019-04-09T12:00
Zach and Laura are excited to announce their first real sponsor, Ana Luisa. You can find their fine jewelry and get an exclusive discount at Listen
Ep 61 Sleep Tight from 2019-04-02T12:00
Zach is finishing up some food. Laura just returned from a great ski trip. Zach unpacks his last teaching gig. They go on to discuss your sleeping arrangements.
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Ep 60 We've Had This Fight Before from 2019-03-19T23:54:10
Zach and Laura recount the ways Jimmy John's has saved them from hunger. Laura is heading off road with her new trailer, while Zach is booking last minute 5 star hotels. They go on to discuss th...
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Ep 59 Maintaining Connection while Traveling from 2019-03-13T20:03:47
Laura's workout's just upped their intensity for a very specific reason. Zach questions whether it is ok for him to compliment a stranger. They go on to discuss the importance of maintaining a c...
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Ep 58 Anger Management from 2019-03-05T12:00
Ep 57 Finances from 2019-02-26T12:00
Laura circles back to the principle of rewarding desired behavior, noting that is has caused Zach to be more punctual. Zach is proud of his daughter and emoting more than usual. Laura reflects o...
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Ep 56 Are you Lovable? from 2019-02-19T12:00
Ep 55 Defensiveness from 2019-02-06T12:00
A snow day is gave Zach the opportunity to introduce his kids to the wonders of Monty Python. Laura is NOT finding it funny and is more than a little frustrated with someone canceling their plan...
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Ep 53 Sexual Desire from 2019-01-30T12:00
Zach and Laura discuss their preferred work attire when meeting with remote clients. Zach is looking for something to look forward to so Laura invites him and the family to Salt Lake (just don't...
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Ep 53 When one partner is leaning out from 2019-01-22T12:00
Laura is feeling a bit grouchy, but rising to the occasion. Zach shares his secret for loving every Christmas gift he ever receives. They go on to discuss the dilemma when one partner leaning ou...
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Ep 52 Marriage Hacks from 2019-01-16T12:00
Zach and Laura celebrate one years worth of weekly podcasts. Laura can't leave the house as she cares for a new puppy. Zach is sending his daughter off to LA by herself. They go on to share ways...
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