I Want to Meet The Women My Husband Cheated on Me With - a podcast by Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst
from 2020-11-12T06:00
Rob and Tami dive right into how a betrayed spouse can work with their addict during times of close quarters and covid, how should a CSAT therapist interact with a betrayed spouse and addict, and whether or not a betrayed spouse should meet with her husband’s past affair partners.
TAKEAWAYS:
[0:30] Is there a way to co-exist without feeling triggered?
[3:00] Would talking to a lawyer about our marriage be helpful or hurtful?
[5:10] I feel like my partner is blaming me, when I call him out on this, he says I’m not listening. What should I do?
[7:30] I want to meet some of my husband’s affair partners. Would this make this worse or better?
[11:25] My husband speaks about the prostitute as if she was his wife. What should I do?
[14:35] When should my addict and I go into couple’s counseling?
[16:00] I developed an unhealthy bond with my mother. How do I regain control as an adult?
[19:45] What are Dr. Rob’s thoughts when an addict makes excuses and does not take his therapy seriously?
[23:05] How do I create a dating plan?
[27:05] Should my CSAT therapist talk to my addict about my codependency?
RESOURCES:
Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com
Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Book by Robert Weiss
Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss
Cruise Control Book by Robert Weiss
Further episodes of Overcoming Betrayal
Further podcasts by Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst
Website of Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst