My Husband of 45 Years is a Sex Addict and A Cross-Dresser - a podcast by Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst
from 2021-12-03T21:00:52
Dr. Rob and Tami answer your questions on this week’s episode. What do you do when your partner’s CSAT doesn’t feel like you’re ready to receive a formal disclosure? How do you handle your husband’s addiction + his cross dressing tendencies? All of this and more on this week’s episode.
TAKEAWAYS:
[1:00] How likely is reconciliation with my partner? I heard it’s only 25%?
[5:20] Who are you in recovery for? You or for your partner?
[7:00] What consistent behaviors can I do to prove to my spouse I am serious about my recovery?
[9:55] D-day was five months ago. We are going to go on vacation. How can I make my wife feel safe?
[14:10] My spouse’s CSAT won’t allow us to go through disclosure until I’ve addressed my addiction. I have my own CSAT as well. How do we move forward? Also, I’m getting triggered by my friends. How do I fix that?
[18:55] 45 years of being together and I found out my husband is an addict and a cross dresser. I am struggling with all of this. What can I do?
[25:25] When and how do fetishes form?
[28:10] Tami explains what the FANOS acronym is.
RESOURCES:
Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com
Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss
Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss
Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss
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