My Parents Are Addicts and They Trigger Me. How Do I Cope? - a podcast by Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst
from 2021-06-03T04:00
Rob and Tami talk about how to deal with family conflict, especially if the family dynamics are unhealthy and riddled with addiction. Dr. Rob offers a different perspective on how you can forgive, and be grateful, for the caretakers in your life despite all of their shortcomings. Remember, addiction is a mental illness and your caretakers were just mentally ill.
TAKEAWAYS:
[0:30] I find myself feeling sad when I have feelings of joy. What’s going on?
[3:50] My dad is a sex addict and my mom is a gambler. How do I be grateful vs. distance myself from these people?
[9:15] I’m a love addict and my ex is now engaged. How do I cope?
[13:10] My husband had an ongoing love relationship with a prostitute. I’m not sure what to do?
[20:15] Can a love addict also practice prodependence?
[22:45] What’s the difference between love and sex addiction?
[25:20] Can you be asexual and a sex addict at the same time?
[27:25] Our teenage daughter knows we have problems. When is it a good time to tell her why?
RESOURCES:
Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com
Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Book by Robert Weiss
Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss
Cruise Control Book by Robert Weiss
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Further podcasts by Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst
Website of Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst