You Can’t Fix Your Partner. You Can Only Work on Your Addiction and Your Healing - a podcast by Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst

from 2020-10-23T06:16:15

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Rob and Tami discuss how to best keep boundaries with your mother, how to work through betrayal as a betrayed spouse in a way that encourages your addict to be honest with you, and Rob explains how sexuality works and why you might be attracted to men vs. not. 

 

TAKEAWAYS:

[0:45] How can I communicate my boundaries without making it into a threat?

[7:25] There’s three rules you want to keep in mind when you want to make it work and there’s been a betrayal in the relationship. Dr. Rob explains. 

[9:50] How do I sent boundaries with my mother who subjected me to covert incest? 

[15:05] Can a man be bi or gay without being sexually arrosed by male bodies?

[21:45] My wife caught me and is now hypersensitive to stress. How long will this last? 

[28:20] My boyfriend has a porn addiction. What’s next? 

 

RESOURCES: 

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

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