You Can’t Fix Your Partner. You Can Only Work on Your Addiction and Your Healing - a podcast by Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst
from 2020-10-23T06:16:15
Rob and Tami discuss how to best keep boundaries with your mother, how to work through betrayal as a betrayed spouse in a way that encourages your addict to be honest with you, and Rob explains how sexuality works and why you might be attracted to men vs. not.
TAKEAWAYS:
[0:45] How can I communicate my boundaries without making it into a threat?
[7:25] There’s three rules you want to keep in mind when you want to make it work and there’s been a betrayal in the relationship. Dr. Rob explains.
[9:50] How do I sent boundaries with my mother who subjected me to covert incest?
[15:05] Can a man be bi or gay without being sexually arrosed by male bodies?
[21:45] My wife caught me and is now hypersensitive to stress. How long will this last?
[28:20] My boyfriend has a porn addiction. What’s next?
RESOURCES:
Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com
Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Book by Robert Weiss
Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss
Cruise Control Book by Robert Weiss
Further episodes of Overcoming Betrayal
Further podcasts by Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst
Website of Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst