Podcasts by Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.
Further podcasts by Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor
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Sharing Some Sad News from 2023-11-30T20:31
Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." We are mindful of this promise as we share sad news about the unexpected death of Chris Tayl...
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Stocking Stuffers for Married Couples from 2023-11-22T00:00
We carry on our annual tradition of sharing Christmas season gift ideas with stocking stuffers that are sweet, surprising, sensual, and sexy! Happy holidays...
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What About Sex Toys? from 2023-09-27T17:31
One of our earliest episodes addressed sex toys, but we haven’t talked about it in a while. And yet, it’s one of the most often asked questions. Are they okay? How to use them? How not to use th...
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Listener Questions - Depriving, the Mess, and When It Can't Happen from 2023-09-14T01:01
Once again, we're answering your questions! Today, we'll cover three topics: what does "deprivation" really mean (1 Corinthians 7:3-5), dealing with the messiness of s...
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Fact or Fiction: Sex Edition from 2023-08-30T02:25
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Things Not to Do During Sex from 2023-08-16T00:16
We have often shared tips of things you can do to enjoy sex more, but today we're going to talk about things not to do. In this episode, we address 6 things not to do during sex.
Love Languages&Sexual Intimacy from 2023-08-01T12:25
You’ve probably heard of love languages, or maybe you haven’t. But when minister Gary Chapman noted that spouses often communicated love past one another, he realized that we express love in dif...
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Emotional Labor and How it Affects Sexual Interest from 2023-07-18T21:31
The term “emotional labor” has come to mean the emotional cost of outwardly acting with composure when inwardly we are feeling something different. Rose Hackman, an ex...
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Creating Fireworks in the Bedroom from 2023-07-04T13:51
We’re recording before the American Independence Day, but this episode will air on July 4th—a time when fireworks displays can be found all over the country. But what about the explos...
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What's Up with the Penis? from 2023-06-21T16:30
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Today we're talking about the penis. What exactly is it? How doe...
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Sex for Busy Moms from 2023-06-08T23:33
Today's episode focuses on a group of women who often struggle to enjoy sex or prioritize sex in their marriages – busy moms. This group includes women across a wide range of ages and life stage...
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Why We're Against Porn and Erotica from 2023-05-31T04:03
Today, we're discussing pornography and erotica, and you can probably guess where our collective opinions land. But we want to explore this topic just a little further to solidify where your val...
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Practical Tips for Reaching Orgasm from 2023-05-17T02:45
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One of the most frequent questions we hear is how can we more ea...
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What We'd Tell Your Pastor (About Sex) from 2023-05-02T16:24
While some Christian leaders and churches address the topic of sex well, too many either mishandle it or ignore it altogether. We here at the virtual kitchen table have heard the stories, good a...
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Q&A - Sex Tips, Fantasy, Refusing Sex&Elusive Orgasm from 2023-04-19T02:19
In this episode, we tackle listener questions, including where Christian wives can find sex tips and techniques, fantasizing during lovemaking, when it's okay to refuse sex, and how to grab hold...
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Perfectly Imperfect - Real Women, Real Bodies from 2023-04-06T16:53
We’re back at the virtual kitchen table, and today we’re talking about our bodies. That is, women’s bodies—what real women look like, how we view our bodies, and how we can care for and embrace ...
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Your Body, Your Health, and Your Sex Life from 2023-03-22T01:27
Today we’re talking about your health and health habits and the ways they can affect your sex live. As you know, we’re not medical professionals, so we won’t be talking about specific health con...
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Sex Scheduling 101 from 2023-03-07T18:11
Today, we are discussing sex scheduling. This is a term we throw around in our kitchen table conversations, and yet it’s been a while since we devoted a whole episode to this controversial topic...
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God, Sex, and Your Marriage, with Dr. Juli Slattery from 2023-03-01T03:20
Dr. Juli Slattery, the co-founder of Authentic Intimacy and author of numerous books, joins us at the virtual kitchen table to discuss some topics found in her latest book, Listen
The Spectrum of Sexual Desire from 2023-02-09T05:10
When it comes to sexual interest, we tend to talk about which spouse has the higher or lower drive. Whichever you are, it can be helpful to understand where the opposite is coming from. So today...
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When the Relationship Gets in the Way of Sex from 2023-01-23T03:02
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For women, sexual interest tends to be affected by many different factors. Of particular ...
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What About Quickies? from 2022-11-29T16:08
Quickie can be used as a noun or adjective to simply mean “something done or made in a hurry.” When it comes to lovemaking, quickies are drive-through sex, rather than the full meal or ...
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Holiday Gift Ideas for Wives and Couples from 2022-11-16T16:45
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Welcome to our 6th annual Christmas episode!
Sex, Stress, and the Holidays from 2022-11-01T16:09
It’s hard to believe, but today we’re going to start talking about the holidays. By the time we publish this episode, most of us will have started thinking about the upcoming holiday season.
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How to Do Oral Sex from 2022-10-19T17:19
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We hear from many wives who say they struggle with giving oral sex. In Listen
God and Your Sex Life from 2022-10-05T01:16
For many, sexuality and sexual experience are compartmentalized away from God. Today, we want to invite you to sit with us as we discuss how God is interwoven throughout every area of our lives,...
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Sexual Arousal from 2022-09-21T14:24:36
Sexual arousal describes physiological and psychological preparation for a sexual encounter and intercourse. Today, we talk about what it feels like, what gets in the way, and how to enhance you...
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4 Mindset Hacks that Can Lead to Better Sex from 2022-09-06T21:05:29
Today, Bonny and Gaye share fresh ways of thinking about changes you want to make in your sex life and offer practical tips for taking small, positive steps in that direction.
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Best of Summer 2022: Bonny's Pick from 2022-08-23T10:28:51
There are a lot of resources about sex now, some great and some terrible. But often, resources have some important truths, some debatable points, and some myths. Today we want to talk about what...
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Best of Summer 2022, Chris's Pick from 2022-08-09T21:56:56
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We understand the struggle wives often have with their body image and how it affects thei...
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Best of Summer 2022, Gaye's Pick from 2022-07-26T20:49:50
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Today we’re talking about something that most women are thinking about at this time of ye...
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Best of Summer 2022: J's Pick from 2022-07-12T21:52:59
Today we’re talking about higher desire wives. But whether your sexual interest is higher or lower than your husband, you’ll benefit from our conversation.
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How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex from 2022-06-28T19:26:19
We’ve talked a lot on this podcast about being able to discuss sex with your husband. And even have "more than one conversation," which is Gaye’s trademark advice. But today, we want to walk thr...
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The Orgasm Iceberg from 2022-06-15T10:07:33
When God created women, He gave us an amazing gift—the clitoris! Its only purpose is our sexual pleasure, but many of us don’t know too much about this part of our body. In this episode, we’re g...
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Simplify Summer for Better Sex from 2022-05-31T13:46:52
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In summertime, the living is supposed to be easy, but we often find it just as stressful ...
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Listener Questions - Answered! from 2022-05-19T00:51:23
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Bonny and Chris answer questions about older kids knowing that their parents are having s...
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Non-Sexual Ways to Increase Intimacy in Your Marriage from 2022-05-03T22:58:45
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You probably know from your own marriage, or from observing other marriages, that non-sexual interactions can make o...
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Foundations of Sexual Intimacy from 2022-04-19T18:42:08
Our listeners have varied experiences, and some may value knowing some basic principles from a physical and emotional perspective. So today, we're getting back to the foundations of sexual intim...
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Flirting with Your Husband, with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer from 2022-04-06T00:58:04
With Bonny out again, we’re down one wife today, but we’ve invited not one but two other wives to join us at today’s virtual kitchen table. We’re so happy to have Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Maso...
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Is Your Sex Life Boring? from 2022-03-22T19:51:54
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We’ve heard from many women that their sex life sometimes feels boring. Today, we talk about boredom in the bedroom ...
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Is Sex a Need? from 2022-03-09T02:39:36
Have you heard it said that sex is a need? We have too. Quite a few people talk about how a spouse can and should meet their mate’s sexual needs. Today we’re addressing that underlying assumptio...
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Touching Yourself, Sex Just for Fun&Erectile Problems (Answering Listener Questions) from 2022-02-23T03:18:26
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In this episode, we're responding to questions from listeners abo...
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Our 5th Anniversary Episode (with bloopers!) from 2022-02-08T14:30
When we started podcasting in February 2017, we didn't know whether we'd get through one year, much less five years. But here we are, celebrating this amazing milestone with a bit of reminiscing...
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Self-Care for Wives from 2022-01-26T00:53:48
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This is a time of year when a lot of people are talking about taking better care of thems...
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New Year, New Sexual You from 2022-01-11T20:42:19
We’re back! It was an eventful December and early January for us and will share what we have been doing.
Today, we’re talking about a new sexual you. What does that mean? What does ...
Our Holiday Gift Guide - Sexy and Romantic Gifts for Couples from 2021-11-24T00:03:55
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We can’t leave off the year without providing another wonderful gift guide! We’ll link to...
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10 Best Things About Sex from 2021-11-09T21:47:23
What are the best things about sex? We compiled a list of ten and hope it will inspire you to pursue better and deeper intimacy in your marriage.
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Sex Is For You Too from 2021-10-27T00:46:55
We want you to understand that sex is for you too! This is an idea we discuss frequently in our episodes, but today it is our focus.
- Why do we even need to have this conversation? Listen
Prayer and Sex from 2021-10-13T00:07:51
About this episode
1 Thessalonians 5 tells us to rejoice alw...
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On Fantasy, Focus&Feeling Betrayed (Listener Questions) from 2021-09-29T02:23:32
We are down one host with Chris out today, but Gaye, Bonny, and I are here to answer your questions. If you have a question that you’d like us to address, head to Listen
Sex When Life is Overwhelming from 2021-09-15T02:43:22
Today we’re going to give you a little update on what’s happening with us, talk about what might be happening with you, and then discuss what that might mean for your sex life and your marriage....
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Pursuing Playfulness in Sexual Intimacy from 2021-08-31T22:42:50
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We are going to discuss practical ways to help you discover fun and playfulness between y...
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The Most Pleasurable Sex Positions from 2021-08-17T13:00:39
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Today’s episode has a tantalizing title, but what we’re really talking about are positions that work especially well...
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Are You Compromising Too Much? (Listener Question) from 2021-08-03T23:59:34
Today, we discuss a question that a reader submitted recently:
How far is too far? How much do I compromise? I know I'm not perfect. I know I could have showed...
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Accepting Your Body from 2021-07-20T20:15:16
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Today we’re talking about feeling comfortable in your body. This is a struggle for so man...
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The Sleep-Sex Connection from 2021-07-06T14:00
What do we do in our beds besides sex? Sleep, of course! Today we’re going to talk about the relationship between sex and sleep.
- A recent study of over 3,400 women noted that those “who di... Listen
Your Sexual Self from 2021-06-22T14:00
Today we are exploring the term “sexual self.” Your sexual self is an unfolding aspect of who you are, woven into the fabric of your being.
- What is identity and how would it relate ... Listen
Prioritizing Sex from 2021-06-08T14:05
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Today we’re going to talk about what prioritizing sex means, what it doesn’t mean, what g...
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Evaluating Sex Resources, with Phylicia Masonheimer from 2021-05-25T13:00
For many years, there were very few resources for Christians who wanted to learn how to have a healthy sex life. Now Christians can find more and more books, courses, and videos to help them. It...
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Improve Your Relationship to Improve Your Sex Life from 2021-05-11T14:54:21
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The marriage relationship overall can impact a wife’s sexual interest. Having a good marriage with intimacy in many areas can make it easier to want and enjoy sex. In...
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How Often Should You Have Sex from 2021-04-12T17:12:55
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As mentioned in the episode, Chris Taylor of Honeycomb & Spice is doing a survey...
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Take Time to Titivate from 2021-03-30T01:54:10
titivate (v). – to make a person or thing neater or more attractive (Merriam-Webster).
To titivate is to make small enhancing changes or to make oneself look attractive. For some women, t...
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What You Need to Know About Sex from 2021-03-16T18:52:44
There are a lot of resources about sex now, some great and some terrible. But often, resources have some important truths, some debatable points, and some myths. Today we want to talk about what...
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Enjoying Sex from 2021-03-02T12:00
Sex therapist and educator Joyce Penner joins us to talk about learning to enjoy sex more. Why do some women have a hard time seeing sexual intimacy as a gift? And what can these women do to pur...
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100th Episode from 2021-02-16T15:06:05
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Today is our 100th Episode! On this special episode, we share what we do when ...
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Valentine's Day from 2021-02-02T20:16:47
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Today we’re talking about Valentine’s Day. It’s coming up soon, and women feel all kinds of different things about it. Some women love it, some hate it, and some feel...
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Overcoming Boredom in the Bedroom from 2021-01-19T15:00
With people staying home more than ever these days, monotony is overwhelming our lives. However, there is one area of your life than can certainly move from monotonous to mind-blowing with just ...
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Getting a Fresh Start with Your Sex Life from 2021-01-05T01:55
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Sometimes we need to hit the reset button with sexual intimacy. Maybe it’s not been going...
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35 Gifts for Your Marriage from 2020-11-24T20:58:45
Bonny, Chris, Gaye, and J have a list of gifts that can help you learn, love, and laugh in your marriage!
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How Does Depression Affect Sex? from 2020-11-10T18:36:46
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Thanks for joining us at Sex Chat for Christian Wives. Today we’re going to talk about something that affects more tha...
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What Research Tells Wives About Sex, with Shaunti Feldhahn from 2020-09-29T16:00
We are so privileged today to have Shaunti Feldhahn—social researcher, bestselling author, and popular speaker—pulling up a chair at our virtual kitchen table.
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Feeling More Sensual from 2020-09-15T19:20:25
Today we’re talking about sensuality and how wives can feel more sensual. What does it mean to feel sensual? Why can it be difficult, and why does it matter? And what can you do to feel more sen...
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Getting Him to Touch You Where You Want from 2020-09-01T13:00
It’s a common scenario we hear: She wants him to touch her body in various places, and he wants to focus on the “good bits.” So today, we’re going to talk about where you’d like to be touched, b...
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4 Tips to Improve Your Sex Life from 2020-08-18T12:00
We want to encourage you to just think of one thing you could do to improve your sex life. To give you some ideas, we're each going to share one thing we did to improve our sex life.
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The Worst&Best Sex Advice We've Ever Received from 2020-08-05T01:44:09
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There is some really bad sex advice out there, most of it because the people giving the advice don’t know any better themselves. Today we’re sharing with you the wors...
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Talk to Friends from 2020-07-21T18:41:15
Our podcast is hosted by four friends talking biblically and authentically about sexual intimacy. How can you find your own friend group to talk with about sex? We've got some tips!
Making Space in Your Life for Sex from 2020-07-06T23:52:49
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Today we’re talking about making space in your life for sex. And whether you’re listening...
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Trying New Sex Positions from 2020-06-23T04:01:38
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Is it time to expand your sexual position repertoire? We discuss going beyond "missionary" to include other positions, with a dose of reality on what's...
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Self-care and Sexual Interest from 2020-06-09T10:00
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Self-care is important—and it helps our sexual interest too! In this episode we talk abou...
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Dating Your Spouse During Challenging Times from 2020-05-26T13:20:37
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We’re recording this at a time when many people are still living with some form of stay-a...
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Listener Questions May 2020 from 2020-05-13T02:47:01
Today, we are answering some of your questions.
- How can I get over being sexually shy with my husband? Listen
Doing the Best We Can from 2020-04-27T19:09:12
About this episode
We’re wingin’ it! Hang out with us as we ramble about life during a global pandemic, the reality of trying to continue intimacy despite circumstances, and where our h...
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Intimacy During Lockdown from 2020-04-14T22:26:11
We're recording this during the Coronavirus global pandemic, but today we’re focusing on the positive with some practical tips for fostering intimacy during lockdown.
- What aspects o... Listen
Maintaining Sexual Intimacy During a Crisis from 2020-03-30T23:37:19
About this episode
As we record this, we are in the midst of a global pandemic. Life feels far from normal.<...
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Breasts and How They Impact Female Sexuality from 2020-03-17T23:32:57
Today, we are discussing breasts and how they can impact your sexuality. Song of Solomon calls them twin fawns of a gazelle and clusters of fruit. Whether your twins are gazelles, grapes, or g...
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How to Ask for What You Want from 2020-03-03T15:27:22
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Today we are discussing how to ask for what you want, in marriage overall, and more speci...
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Our Best Tips for Initiating Sex from 2020-02-04T16:45:38
About this episode
We all want to be wanted, and our husbands are no exception. Initiating sex is a great way to communicate “I want you” to your husband, but it isn’t always easy.
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Out with the Old, In with the New from 2020-01-07T10:00
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Today we’re talking about letting go of something old and taking hold of something new in 2020. Sometimes we hold on...
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Gift Guide from 2019-11-26T17:38:02
Welcome to our Christmas episode! Listen as we share a little about ourselves. Plus, we thank you for listening by offering gift suggestions to build your lovemaking experience, your bedroom amb...
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Support from Other Women from 2019-11-11T18:02:11
About this episode
When we struggle with sexual intimacy...
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Sexless Marriages from 2019-10-30T00:06:13
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Around 20% of marriages are sexless. That is, the couple has sexual activity ten or fewer times per year. About ten years ago, a New York Times...
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Shower Power from 2019-10-15T00:48:48
Episode 69: Shower Power
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Today we’re talking about bathing and showering—not jus...
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Romance and Your Bedroom from 2019-09-17T10:00
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Today we’re talking about bedrooms, specifically the effect of your bedroom on the qualit...
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Higher Desire Wives from 2019-09-04T00:03:52
About the Episode
Today we're talking about higher desire wives. But whether your sexual interest is higher or lower than your husband, you’ll benefit from our conversati...
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Female Sexual Health from 2019-08-20T12:00
About the Episode
Today, we are discussing female genital and reproductive health. What we affectionately call "hooha" health.
- What are some issues that women have in terms... Listen
Healing from Sexual Abuse from 2019-08-06T10:00
Episode 64: Healing from Sexual Abuse, with Mary DeMuth
Many of our listeners are survivors of sexual abuse, or we know someone who is. We’d like to talk to...
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Sexy Talk from 2019-07-23T18:02:26
We’re addressing the topic of how we talk with our husbands to create a sexier and more intimate atmosphere for the bedroom.
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Vacation Sex from 2019-06-25T19:54:01
Episode 60: Vacation Sex
Today we’re talking about vacation sex. We’re recording this episode at the beginning of summer, a time when many couples and families take a vacation. But, whe...
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Myths We Learned from Pop Culture from 2019-06-11T13:28:19
Episode 59: Myths We Learned from Pop Culture
About this episode
Where did you learn about sex? Was it from your church? From your parents? From yo...
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Orgasm from 2019-05-28T09:00
Christian Sex Therapy from 2019-04-30T09:00
Episode 56: Christian Sex Therapy, with Dr. Jessica McCleese
About this episode
Have you ever wondered what happens in sex therapy–especially Christian sex therapy? Listen in w...
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Interruptions from 2019-04-02T16:40:11
Today we’re talking about the challenge of interruptions, what form they take, and what to do about them so you can still have and enjoy sexual intimacy in your marriage.
Listener Questions from 2019-03-19T14:09:09
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We're answering your questions today!
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Resources for Great Sex from 2019-03-05T17:11:14
Episode 52: Resources for Great Sex
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Today we’re talking about resources for your...
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2 Years of Our Best Sex Tips from 2019-02-19T10:00
We'd like to thank today's sponsor: Everpillow by Infinitemoon
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Happily with Kevin A. Thompson from 2019-02-04T17:56:47
Our guest today is Kevin A. Thompson, the lead pastor at Community Bible Church in western Arkansas, speaks at marriage and parenting conferences, and has authored three books, the most recent o...
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49-New Year for Intimacy from 2019-01-22T16:08:08
Today, we’re talking about creating a new year for intimacy in your marriage. Although we’re already a few weeks into 2019, there’s still plenty of time to make a plan for growing closer to your...
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48 - Rethinking Sexuality, with Juli Slattery from 2019-01-08T10:00
Dr. Juli Slattery, president of Authentic Intimacy, joins us for this episode. Her most recent book,
Episode 46: Listener Questions from 2018-11-06T10:00
In this episode, we answer listeners' questions about struggling to initiate sex, catching your husband ogling another woman, having an orgasm during intercourse, and filming yourselves having s...
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Having Sex When Kids Are Home from 2018-10-09T18:12:21
About this episode
It's been a while since the four of us had young kids, but today we're hosting special guest Keelie Reason, marriage and sex blogger at Listen
43-Dealing with Sexual Baggage from 2018-09-24T18:56:47
For many Christian wives, one of the biggest battles they face is with their own past. What we've learned, experienced, and done can affect the marriage bed for years. In this episode, we're goi...
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42-Oral Sex from 2018-09-06T22:08:34
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41-Flirting with Your Husband from 2018-08-29T01:57:18
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Author Charlotte Bronte said, “Flirting is a woman’s trade, on...
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40-Healing after Porn Discovery from 2018-08-14T09:00
This episode concludes our “Conversation about Porn” 3-part series. The four of us are return as a group around the virtual kitchen table to help give some perspective and thoughts on moving fo...
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A Conversation About Porn (Part 2) from 2018-07-31T09:00
Pornography affects so many marriages--even Christian marriages. Although porn can be a problem for both men and women, we're going to spend some time looking at a situation we know many of our ...
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Episode 38: A Conversation About Porn (Part 1) from 2018-07-17T09:00
Join us for the first of three episodes about a wife dealing with her husband's pornography use. In this episode, Bonny chats with Chris about what she experienced in her marriage.
Be sur...
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37 - Periods and Sex from 2018-07-03T17:55:19
In ancient Judaism, a woman was unclean while she was on her period. She could only return to the marriage bed 7 days after her period stopped and only then after going through ritual ...
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36 - Pregnancy and Sex from 2018-06-19T15:43:10
It's been a while since any of us ladies were pregnant, but we remember. Mostly. So today, we’re tackling an important issue for many of y’all out there: sex when you’re pregnant. Because when y...
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35 - Listener Questions from 2018-06-05T09:00
We're answering your questions in this episode!
- How can a wife teacher husband about her body?
- What can a wife do if she is embarrassed about queefing?
- Is it possi... Listen
34 - Food and Sex from 2018-05-22T09:00
We've encouraged you to use all your senses to better experience sex, and that includes the sense of taste. The Song of Songs is filled with reference to both food and sex. Does that mean we can...
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33-Getting in the Mood 2 from 2018-05-08T12:47:20
The four wives revisit the topic of "Getting in the Mood." How to rev up your engine in anticipation of lovemaking. Each lady brings her favorite idea to the table and they all discuss.
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32-Advice for Our Newlywed Selves from 2018-04-23T14:47:50
What do we wish we'd known when we first got married?
In this episode, the four wives chat about what they wish they'd understood earlier in their marriages and what they would like to ad...
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31-Listener Questions from 2018-04-09T20:31:21
Again, we address listener questions. Specifically:
- I would love if you could discuss how to get OUT of the mood (for those of us with husbands who just aren't that interested). I a... Listen
30-Lies Women Believe, Part 2 from 2018-03-26T10:00
What are the lies that affect our marriages and limit our ability to enjoy sex and intimacy? And what are the truths that we need to embrace instead?
We address two more lies in this epis...
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UPDATED 29-Lies Women Believe, Part 1 from 2018-03-12T23:59:06
What are the lies that affect our marriages and limit our ability to enjoy sex and intimacy? And what are the truths that we need to embrace instead?
The four wives talk about two lies in...
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28-Male Anatomy from 2018-02-27T21:51:14
Today, we’ll try to provide a tutorial on what we wives need to know about our husband’s body to have quality sexual intimacy in marriage.
- Let’s first break down the actual makeup o... Listen
27-Celebrating One Year at the Kitchen Table from 2018-02-13T06:28:56
Welcome to the party! We are celebrating. It is Sex Chat for Christian Wives’ first anniversary! (Woohoo! Cue noisemakers!!!)
You have allowed us to chat with you for a whole year now. Listen
26-listener questions from 2018-01-29T11:00
This episode features your questions about love languages, male-centered sexual expectations, sexual fantasies, and oral sex.
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25-Sex Is Funny from 2018-01-15T17:00
Sometimes as Christians, we can focus so much on the deeper meaning of sexual intimacy in marriage, on its emotional and spiritual aspects, that we miss a sense of playfulness—or even downright ...
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24-Health and Sex **UPDATE** from 2018-01-02T16:48:09
*UPDATED AUDIO FILE*
Taking care of your health can lead to better sex and intimacy in your marriage.
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23-Enjoy Your Marriage During the Holiday Season from 2017-11-27T20:43:43
We’re entering one of the busiest times of the year – the holiday season that runs from Thanksgiving Day (in the U.S.) through Christmas and on to New Year’s Day. For many women, this is also on...
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22-Sexual Harassment #UsToo from 2017-11-13T11:00
Our conversation touches on a difficult topic: sexual harassment and assault. We share some of our own stories and talk about how sexually traumatic experiences affect our marriages, about what ...
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21-Talking with Our Kids about Sex, with Sheila Gregoire (Part 2) from 2017-10-30T10:00
How can we talk with our kids about their bodies and sex? We continue our conversation with Sheila Gregoire.
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20-Talking with Our Kids about Sex, with Sheila Gregoire from 2017-10-17T01:29:15
Talking to our kids about sex can be super uncomfortable. So how do we do it?
Sheila Gregoire from To Love, Ho...
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19-Initiating Sex from 2017-10-02T17:55:10
The women talk about why initiation matters and share some ideas to help you get things going!
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18-Listener Questions from 2017-09-18T10:00
We discuss listener questions:
- Does anyone really have sex like they do in the movies?
- Is role play okay in a Christian marriage, even if it involves imagining something th... Listen
17-Body Image from 2017-09-04T16:45
Today’s topic is body image, and specifically how our thoughts and feelings about our bodies affect sex and intimacy in our marriages. We want to help you think about how body image might be aff...
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We Need Your Help from 2017-08-16T21:16:51
Sex Chat for Christian Wives needs your help! Listen in for more information.
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16-Guy Talk: Men's Sexuality from 2017-08-14T10:00
J, Gaye, Chris, and Bonny talk about what marriage blogger husbands had to say about what they wish women understood about their sexuality.
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15-Listener Questions from 2017-07-31T12:25:23
Gaye, Chris, and Bonny answer listener questions about menopause, communication, breastfeeding, spicing it up, and more.
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14-Guy Talk: A Wife's Beauty from 2017-07-17T10:00
When a woman sees her body's flaws, it can be confusing when her husband tells her that she's beautiful. She wonders how he can see past her flaws.
Listen in as five marriage blogger husb...
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13-Mismatched Sex Drives from 2017-07-04T13:35:57
Today we are exploring mismatched sex-drives and how your marriage can thrive in spite of it. We will be answering the questions:
- What are some reasons th... Listen
12-Guy Talk: The Importance of Sex from 2017-06-19T09:00
Listen in as five marriage blogger husbands answer the question, "Why is sex important?"
Paul Byerly (The Generous Husband and The XY Code), Scott Means (Heaven-Made Marriage), Brad Aldri...
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11-Introducing the Podcast Team from 2017-06-05T10:00
Meet Gaye, J, Bonny, and Chris!
Why do we all blog about sex? Why are we podcasting?
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10-Tending the Garden from 2017-05-24T19:07:06
Despite making two recordings, we encountered sound difficulties that could not be completely fixed. About halfway through, you may hear some echo (reverberation). But hang in there! It will...
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Audio Difficulties from 2017-05-23T21:47:06
We're due for a podcast episode, but we've having audio difficulties. So we're postponing the next episode until we can work out the technical issues. We promise another interesting conversation...
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9-listener questions from 2017-05-08T10:00
Gaye, Bonny, and Chris tackle some questions from our listeners:
- What if my husband says my feelings aren't valid?
- How can I experience multiple orgasms?
- What do I... Listen
Exercise and Sex from 2017-04-11T00:30
About this episode
Today we’re talking about exercise and sex. Wow, that sounds like a weird combination, doesn’t it? What in the world do those two things have to do with each other?<...
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Women's Sexual Response from 2017-03-27T09:00
Episode 6: Women's Sexual Response
About this episode
Today we’re talking about women’s sexuality ...
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Sex Scheduling from 2017-03-13T23:43:44
Episode 5: Sex Scheduling
About this episode
The busyness...
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Stress and Sex from 2017-02-27T11:00
Episode 4: Stress and Sex
About this episode
In this episode we're...
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50 Shades of Here-We-Go-Again from 2017-02-14T11:00
About this episode
Out in theaters right now is Fifty Shades Darker, the second film based on Fifty Shades series. These novels have spurred a lot of conversation and questions...
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Sex Positions from 2017-02-13T17:00
About this episode
Practical tips on positioning to help you find gain greater pleasure and intimacy in your marriage bed.
1. Why should wives be interested in learning new posit...
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Getting in the Mood from 2017-02-04T01:07:41
About this episode
How can we help ourselves be interested—and ready—for sex?
- What are some of the challenges women face when it comes to getting in the mood?
- What... Listen