Love Languages&Sexual Intimacy - a podcast by Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor

You’ve probably heard of love languages, or maybe you haven’t. But when minister Gary Chapman noted that spouses often communicated love past one another, he realized that we express love in different ways. So, he proposed that there are five love languages—and his book of the same name became a bestseller and perennial favorite. Today, we’ll talk about those languages and what they mean when it comes to our favorite topic: sex.

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From the Bible

Gifts: Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. Song of Songs 7:12

Quality Time:
My beloved is mine and I am his;
    he browses among the lilies.
Until the day breaks
    and the shadows flee,
turn, my beloved,
    and be like a gazelle
or like a young stag
    on the rugged hills.
Song of Songs 2:17

Physical Touch: His left arm is under my head and his right arm embraces me. Song of Songs 2:6, 8:3

Acts of Service:
I would lead you
    and bring you to my mother’s house—
    she who has taught me.
I would give you spiced wine to drink,
    the nectar of my pomegranates.
Song of Songs 8:2

Words of Affirmation:

HE
How beautiful you are, my darling!
    Oh, how beautiful!
    Your eyes are doves.

SHE
How handsome you are, my beloved!
    Oh, how charming!
    And our bed is verdant.

(Many other passages in Song of Solomon demonstrate Words of Affirmation!)

Resources

• The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary Chapman
• Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
• Identify Your Spouse's Love Language - Love Languages Quiz (calmhealthysexy.com)
• Speak Your Husband's Love Language- and Strengthen Your Marriage (calmhealthysexy.com)
• Why Knowing Your Low Drive Wife's Love Language is Important • Bonny's Oysterbed7
• "Do You Enjoy Getting Flowers?" What Your Answers Tell Me About Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Help Your Husband Speak Love in Your Language | The Forgiven Wife
• Loving My Husband | The Forgiven Wife
• Episode 67: Romance and Your Bedroom
• Fuzu Massage Candle | MarriedDance
• Astroglide Strawberry-Flavored Water-Based Personal Lubricant | MarriedDance
• Episode 10: Tending Your Garden
• Bedazzled, Bothered, and Bewildered - Hot, Holy & Humorous (on vajazzling)
• Episode 120: Our Holiday Gift Guide – Sexy and Romantic Gifts for Couples

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Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives (Bonny Burns)
Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmas)
Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)

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