Ep. 411: Are You Setting Boundaries, or Are You Just an Asshole? - a podcast by Danny-J Johnson & Jill Coleman
from 2023-11-29T19:06:14.862611
We’ve been hot on setting boundaries for a while now, but it seems like people who aren’t in the personal development space are starting to talk more about them. The problem is, a lot of people get the concept of boundaries a little mixed up. What someone sets as a “boundary” is actually more like just being an asshole. Boundaries aren’t about making people do what you want, they’re about monitoring your own reactions and behaviors. If you find yourself resenting everyone and everything in your life, it doesn’t mean you should start telling everyone what to do. Sometimes the best option is just to walk away.
Do you have boundaries? Or are you just an asshole? [1:49]
Boundaries are about *you* show up [4:35]
You can’t blame others for acting how you allow them to [7:50]
Resentment is your biggest clue [10:09]
Setting boundaries with yourself [12:30]
Do you secretly enjoy playing the victim? [14:16]
Getting validation from complaining [17:37]
Let people be resilient [20:30]
Warmth and boundaries can coexist [23:53]
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