Podcasts by The Narcissist in Your Life Podcast
The Narcissist in Your Life Podcast is hosted by Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D., LMFT, specializing in the Narcissistic Personality--Overt and Covert Narcissists. She offers in-depth knowledge about the origins and dynamics of the narcissistic personality and strategies and practices for those who have been psychologically and emotionally abused by toxic narcissistic personalities through her global podcasts and her books: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist and Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life.
Further podcasts by Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.
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High Level Classic Narcissists Demean You and Your Feelings from 2023-11-27T16:13
Classic narcissists, larger than life, bombastic, charismatic to some, sail through their days in the fast lane---always moving to their next cascade of narcissistic supply. If they are very suc...
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Empaths Rescue Themselves from Marriage to High Level Narcissists from 2023-11-21T15:56
Empaths are highly perceptive, exquisitely sensitive individuals. They are finely attuned to their external and internal environments. They feel deeply and are often misunderstood by spouses, fa...
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Freedom From Childhood Shame Projected by A Narcissistic Parent from 2023-11-14T02:39
Shame is a dreadful, intolerable feeling, a visceral reaction that goes deep inside of us. Often, children carry their shame into adulthood, especially if they are raised by narcissistic parents...
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Recovering from Chronic Exhaustion After the High Level Narcissist from 2023-11-06T17:22
"The narcissist is at all times a deceiver, never straight, clear or true. He/she has mastered the ability to delude himself and others. Like a socerer, he hatches intricate plots in secret..."...
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Narcissists - Screamers, Passive Aggressives, Covert Operators from 2023-11-04T18:11
Each narcissist is unique in his or her inimitable way. We learn a great deal about a person by the way he/she communicates.
With Narcissists there are several styles that stand out. The...
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High Level Narcissists - Secretive, Shameless, Devious from 2023-10-30T19:46
High level narcissists are highly secretive. They often compentalize their private lives. They are never concerned about deceiving partners since they don't have a fully developed conscience. Listen
Appreciating and Integrating Your Shadow Self from 2023-10-26T17:08
The Shadow is that part of us that rises from the unconscious. It is mysterious and unique to each individual. Carl Jung describes it this way: "The Shadow personifies everything that the subjec...
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Take Back Your True Identity from Your Narcissistic Father from 2023-10-21T20:46
Narcissists cast dark shadows over our lives, especially when we are very young. Deep inside, instinctively, we know that we must survive. Many of us go along not only to get along but to stay v...
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Scapegoated Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers from 2023-10-19T03:18
Narcissistic mothers are completely absorbed with themselves. Many of them have children to enhance their image of having a perfect family. The work of raising, nurturing and protecting one's ch...
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Greedy High Level Narcissists from 2023-10-06T18:06
Today we are surrounded by countless greedy narcissists in a society that has become exceedingly materialistic, coarse, Darwinian, soulless. The high level narcissist is all ac...
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For Empaths - Practice Self Care and Self Kindness from 2023-09-28T03:26
High level Narcissists – Playing Their False Self Roles from 2023-09-16T21:21
High level narcissists stand at center stage, commanding all the attention. He/...
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Narcissistic Mother Creates Her Masterpiece - A Golden Child Narcissistic Daughter from 2023-09-06T22:49
"In every block of marble I see a statue as plain as though it stood before me, shaped and perfect in attitude and action. I have only to hew away the rough walls that imprison the lovely appari...
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High Level Narcissists Discard Their Spouses and Partners Without A Second Thought from 2023-08-29T16:57
High level narcissists are essentially solo acts. They are incapable of forming genuine relationships, especially with their spouses, partners and children. Narcissists are duplicitous. They hav...
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The Practice of Self Kindness from 2023-08-24T20:14
You are in charge now unlike the days of childhood when you were under the control, expectations and pscyopathologies of your parents. Your partner, spouse, ex-spouse, siblings and other family ...
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Your Insights into the Covert Narcissist's True Nature from 2023-08-22T03:51
Covert narcissists fly under the radar. It can be very difficult to identify them before they have psychologically ambushed you. Polite, humble, soft spoken, respectful in manner, the covert nar...
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About To Marry A Second Narcissist? Remember What You have Learned from 2023-08-13T17:58
Our hearts are drawn quickly and beat fiercely with someone who is irresistible. That often is a narcissistic man or woman. They have our "numbers", are often very attractive and compelling. Th...
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Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers - Restoring Your Authentic Self from 2023-08-08T04:23
Daughters of narcissistic mothers have a particularly difficult pathway to travel. From childhood they have had to contend with mothers who were cold, distracted, self-absorbed, coercive, dismis...
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Breaking the Psychological Fusion with the High Level Narcissistic Spouse from 2023-07-31T19:25
Psychological fusion represents the need to identify and merge with the high level narcissist. This occurs as a result of emotional and psychological deficits and causes a sense of being incomp...
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Classic High Level Narcissists and Their Adoring Followers from 2023-07-27T21:18
Classic narcissists are bombastic and charismatic, running through their days in the fast lane---always moving to their next cascade of narcissistic supplies. If they are very successful they ha...
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Step Away from the Delusional World of the Grandiose Narcissist from 2023-07-19T19:17
Some grandiose narcissists are egomanical. Their bloated sense of self is without boundaries. They are delusional, believing that they are all powerful, omniscient, demi gods.
They are ob...
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Malevolent High Level Narcissist Re-creates A Sparkling New Identity from 2023-07-07T17:03
From the time he/she was very young, the budding narcissist was convinced that he was brilliant, talented, resourceful, socially gifted at magnetizing people to him/her. Often the golden child, ...
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High Level Narcissist's Money Lust - A Fever that Doesn't Break from 2023-06-30T03:11
Running a fever is a sign that we are fighting an infection. Your temperature rises; you are very hot. Your sweat glands activate and you cool down. Your fever has broken and you are in the proc...
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Your Evolution As An Individual After the Narcissist from 2023-06-24T03:34
The narcissistic personality leads his/her life in psychological delusion. Wearing a series of false self masks, the narcissist convinces so many that he/she is authentic. There are many stories...
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Rescue Yourself from the Toxic Shadow of the High Level Narcissist from 2023-06-18T03:44
"The shadow personifies everything that the subject (person) refuses to acknowledge about himself." CG Jung
"Those who have no conscious acquaintance with their shadow project forgotten, ...
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Breaking the Pattern of Marrying Covert Narcissists from 2023-06-07T19:01
I have communicated with many individuals who tell me that they keep marrying, divorcing and then partnering with another covert narcissist. How could they have known that they would repeat this...
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Is Your "Friend" A High Level Narcissist from 2023-05-30T19:45
Many individuals have narcissistic friends who are taking advantage of them and who cannot be trusted with confidences or personal information. High level narcissists, those who are socially sm...
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The Despicable Duplicity of the High Level Narcissist from 2023-05-24T16:23
We are flawed human beings. We make small and big mistakes. It is difficult to admit that we are wrong. It takes dropping our egos and acknowledging that we were in error. If we hurt someone emo...
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Deflecting the Narcissist's Poisonous Projections from 2023-05-20T18:25
The high level narcissist is a projection machine. Rather than internalizing, introspecting or encouraging insight, the high level narcissist is always in the process of externalization. He/she ...
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Winning the Battle with Narcissistic Family Members from 2023-05-18T00:00
Some of our greatest challenges are narcissistic personalities within our families. The first move is to learn to recognize these individuals as narcissistic personality disorders who are not go...
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Covert Narcissistic Spouse Dysregulates Your Nervous System from 2022-04-15T15:51:27
Covert narcissists are concealed beneath their many false self persononas. Unlike the center stage overt narcissist they play their parts in the background, quiet, self effacing, even humble. I...
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You Become Invisible to the High Level Narcissist from 2022-04-12T15:53:52
The high level narcissist is exploitive and deceptive. He/she knows exactly what he wants. He has written the plot and cast the characters for his narrative. The high level locates himself at st...
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Healing and Restoration from Childhood Re-Traumatization by High Level Narcissist from 2022-04-08T11:44:26
As a young child you were a psychological captive to your narcissistic parent.(s). You grew up in a house where trauma reigned day and night. You never felt safe, cherished or wanted. Your mothe...
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Holding Your Own with A Covert Narcissist from 2022-04-03T01:26:30
The covert narcissist is a chameleon-- highly skilled at blending into any business and social terrain. Covert narcissists, because they wear the mantle of false humility so comforably, manuever...
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High Level Narcissists - Dripping with Self Adulation from 2022-03-31T00:42:27
There is a distinct vibration, a psychological scent you detect in the high level narcissist. Charming, often spell binding, these individuals reveal themselves fully when we are open to our int...
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High Level Narcissists - Secretive, Suspicious, Devious from 2022-03-28T00:32:42
Highlevel nracissists are very secretive. They create special compartments for their innumerable secrets. There are narcissists who lead a series of impenetrable compartmentalized private lives....
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High Level Narcissistic Spouses Project Their Venom On To You from 2022-03-25T00:45:05
A highlevel narcissistic spouse during a divorce is a meancing figure. With all of the pain, the deceit, manipulations and lies that you internalized and sustained during the marriage, when the ...
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Rescue Yourself From Marriage to Covert Narcissist from 2022-03-15T04:38:59
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High Level Narcissists - Ruthless, Predatory Climbers from 2022-03-11T04:02:04
To be ruthless is to treat another person without mercy. Because of the narcissist's skillful use of seductive charm and social graces, it is difficult for most people to believe that a narcissi...
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Unholy Alliance - Empaths Married to High Level Narcissists from 2022-03-07T06:07:54
High level narcissists seek partnerships and marriages to empaths. These are individuals of high discernment, intuition and deep emotional and psychological sensitivity. They are unique in their...
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High Level Narcississts Watch Out for Number One - Themselves from 2022-03-03T23:57:41
High level narcissists are pleasure seeking plotters and planners. They map out their future goals and conquests like commanding generals. I remember a story about one of these individuals. He h...
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Rescue Yourself From the Ruthless Power of the High Level Narcissist from 2022-02-28T05:17:42
Infused with incandescent charm, gifts of seduction and persuasion, the high level narcissist possesses a kind of magic presence that is drawn from one of their enchanting personas. We feel thei...
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Covert High Level Narcissists Induce Shame in Their Spouses, Ex-Spouses, Partners, Children from 2022-02-24T01:16:28
The high level covert narcissist is the trickiest and most subtle individual to identify as a personality disorder. he/she appears to be impeccable in facade, character, integrity, professional ...
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Greedy High Level Narcissist - Psychological Emptiness from 2022-02-19T01:03:56
High level narcissists are extraordinarily greedy. Gree is an extreme desire and pursuit to obtain more than what one needs, especially with regard to material possessions and wealth. They are n...
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Marriage to and Partnership with High Level Narcissists Can Weaken Your Psychological and Physical Immune System from 2022-02-12T04:06:35
Being marrried to or partnered with a high level narcissist can cause harm to your psychological and physical immune system. You are in a constant state of fight or flight, the sympathetic nervo...
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Blatant Hypocrisy of the High Level Narcissist from 2022-02-03T05:37:38
The focus of the high level narcissist is obsessively on himself/herself: what they are entitled to have, whom they will control, how much money and power they will acquire.
The more enti...
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High Level Narcissist - Creating a False Heroic Identity from 2022-01-27T22:03:48
High Level Narcissist – Creating A false Heroic Identity
High level narcissists compose a fictional identity that is portrayed as authentic, so real and believable. These are great dramat...
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High Level Narcissists - Masters of Varieties of Lies from 2022-01-22T15:52:12
Quoting from my book "Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life" : A lie is a handy tool the narcissist uses to enhane and protect the image he has sopainstakingly built. Lies are autom...
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Restoration and Healing From Extreme Fatigue Caused by High Level Narcissists from 2022-01-18T05:52:14
Those who are married or partnered with high level narcissists are constantly under extreme stress. Many individuals report about demanding, demeaning, manipulative individuals that cause a vari...
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Perpetual Shaming of You by High Level Narcissist from 2022-01-09T22:06:11
Shame is a complex intolerable feeling of being exposed, wanting to disappear, emotional vulnerability, feeling inferior and worthless.
A child who feels shame has been shamed by parent(...
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A Special Message to Empaths - A Melange from 2022-01-01T07:21:34
Empaths are highly perceptive, exquisitely sensitive individuals. They are attuned to their external and internal environments. They feel deeply and are often misunderstood by spouses, family me...
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High Level Narcissists Double and Triple Down on Their Ever-Present Hubris from 2021-12-28T22:51:53
Hubris in man is ever-present, even found in prehistoric caves. Wherever there is pride there is hubris. The story of the angels cast into Hell for their hubris remains with us.
The word...
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Entourages of the High Level Narcissist - A Grand Show and Delusion 2 from 2021-12-21T21:49:15
The high level narcissist is playing a part of the grand special unique glorified individual. This is complex with many chosen to be part of his/her special circle.
The high level narciss...
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Narcissistic Families - Driven by Greed, Manipulation, Deception and Control from 2021-12-18T05:33:55
Today we are surrounded by narcissistic personalities, including narcissistic families. These highly dysfunctional individuals are driven by their egos rather than conscience or empathy. Members...
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High Level Narcissists Create A Perfect External World from 2021-12-14T00:56:54
High level narcissists are obsessed and preoccupied with the impressions they are making. Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life gives you a keen sense of this o...
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Rescuing Yourself from the Ruthless, Ego Driven High Level Narcissist from 2021-12-09T22:33:49
High level narcissists are very restless individuals, ego driven and shameless they spend their days acquiring material possessions, forcing others to do their bidding with special emphasis on t...
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For Daughters of Janus Faced Narcissistic Mothers from 2021-12-03T06:16:22
Quoting psychoanalyst Alice Miller about the dilemma of the child of a narcissistic mother: "The art of not experiencing feelings - A child can experience her feelings only when there is somebod...
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Marriage to a High Level Narcissist Re-Activates Childhood Toxic Shame from 2021-11-28T06:20:47
Growing up in a highly pathological family you experienced a deep shaming of the self since you were a very small child. You remember the feeling, so intolerable that came over you when your nar...
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Free Yourself from Extreme Exhaustion and Stress Caused by High Level Narcissist from 2021-11-22T03:12:30
Individuals who are married to high level narcissists are enduring dreadful stress that is affecting their psychological and physical immune systems. Our immune systems are designed to keep us h...
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Intuition - An Invaluable, Powerful Gift of Truth from 2021-11-19T05:24:12
Intuition is an instantaneous knowing of the truth. It is faster than rational thought. You cannot study or analyze the truth that comes forth from intuition.
Growing up in a narcissisti...
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Shameless High Level Narcissists Double Down on Their Deceits and Exploitations from 2021-11-14T16:07:28
High level narcissists commit cruel deeds of deceit and exploitation throughout their self absorbed, venal, conniving, exploitive lives. Filled with an extreme sense of entitlement they believe ...
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Free Yourself from Unrelenting Exhaustion Caused by Marriage to High Level Narcissist from 2021-11-09T05:25:08
You can't fall asleep at night; you are anxious, your mind is racing. You listen to your thoughts and wonder when you will get respite. Morning comes and you face exhaustion as if you had been u...
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Don't Underestimate the High Level Narcissist's Cunning from 2021-11-06T00:22:29
The high level narcissist is a restless individual who must continuously keep his ego fully inflated. He believes he is superior to others and highly entitled. He seeks grandiose goals of power ...
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Disengaging Psychologically and Emotionally from High Level Narcissistic Spouse from 2021-10-31T03:12:24
For years and even decades you have been under the control of the high level narcissistic spouse.
How to disengage from the high level narcissistic spouse after separating from them:
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High Level Narcissistic Spouse Fused with His Narcissistic Mother from 2021-10-26T04:58:12
There are exasperating choices some women have to make. Stay married to a spouse who is psychologically fused with his narcissistic mother or make the decision to sever the marriage because you ...
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Recovering From High Level Narcissists - Your Spiritual Pathways from 2021-10-19T21:42:57
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "Spiritual waters are without boundaries. The spiritual connection is personal, constant and present. There ar no horizon...
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High Level Narcissists - Masters at Re-Inventing Themselves from 2021-10-16T01:32:30
High level narcissists create and revise their biographies out of whole cloth . The high level conjures up stories about himself and his origins. They paint an illuminated heroic picture of thei...
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Marriage to High Level Narcissist - From Dream Come True to Nightmare Scenario from 2021-10-11T20:26:46
You were chosen by the high level narcissist because you fit his/her specifications as the perfect partner. You are bright, socially savvy, quite attractive, magnetic, empathic. You shimmer ins...
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High Level Narcissists - Their Insatiable Greed and Manipulations from 2021-10-05T02:25:54
Human greed has been with us for tens of thousands of years. Greed is one of the great sins - the relentless pursuit of money, properties, luxurious possessions and the dark manipulations that ...
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High Level Narcissists - Devious Exploiters from 2021-09-30T20:15:23
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "A...high level...narcissist doesn't waste time on those who cannot perform for him/her. By seduction or guile he draws t...
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Your Extreme Fatigue - Exacerbated by High Level Narcissist from 2021-09-29T04:53:07
Spouses and partners of high level narcissists are constantly under extreme stress. As a result of many years or even decades of marriage to one of these demanding, demeaning, manipulative indiv...
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Stop Acting as the High Level Narcissist's Primary Source of Narcissistic Supply from 2021-09-25T22:51:18
You have been a primary resource of ego supply to the high level narcissist: adulation, praise, loyalty, creative collaboration.
Beneath the extreme confidence, self entitlement and char...
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High Level Narcissists - Beneath the Elaborate Facade from 2021-09-20T04:49:15
In a culture rife with hyper-narcissism, the high level narcissist stands out as an individual who gets away with multiple forms of narcissistic abuse visited by spouses, ex-spouses, children, b...
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Leaving Your Narcissistic Parent Behind - Five Steps from 2021-09-14T17:42:23
Growing up as the child of a narcissistic parent is one of the most difficult and complex life histories a child can experience. The psychopathology of the narcissist is deep and daunting. As a ...
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High Level Narcissists Re-Traumatize Children of Narcissistic Parents from 2021-09-11T21:59:19
If you were traumatized as a child, growing up in a narcissistic family, you were often in a state of distress, hypervigilance, chronic anxiety. Your sympathetic nervous system, the fight or fli...
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High Level Narcissists Double Down on Their Hubris and Toxic Greed from 2021-09-08T05:28:14
Today we are surrounded by narcissistic personalities, some of them high level: those individuals who are financially and socially successful. Many are exceedingly charming and easily psychologi...
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Are You Telling the High Level Narcissist - Keep Lying to Me from 2021-08-31T00:33:31
You made a secret deal with yourself. If you keep giving the high level narcissist a pass on his/her lying by omission and commission he will stay with you---you will not be abandoned! It is ver...
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Addicted to the Image, Power and Extreme Self Entitlement of the High Level Narcissist from 2021-08-29T05:57:25
You watch them make their entrances at prestigious private events---their overall "look" is impeccable. There are no flaws anywhere that you would discover even with an illumination device. You...
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Psychological Ambush by the Covert Narcissist from 2021-08-25T02:24:31
Many of them go unnoticed at social events, appearing to be self effacing with a low grade ego. Meet the covert narcissist---that individual who is a narcissistic personality without the elabora...
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Disengaging Yourself From the Lifestyle Perks of the High Level Narcissist from 2021-08-21T05:09:20
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "The narcissist lives in a world of his making, dominated by inflated illusions of self-importance. His version of realit...
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Removing Yourself From the Grand Delusions of the High Level Narcissist from 2021-08-14T05:20:08
As much as you have studied, analyzed and experienced the high level narcissist, the unbounded heights of their grand delusions of self are astounding. Watching them perform is both riveting and...
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Empaths - Discover Parasympathetic, Restorative Zones from 2021-08-11T22:36:56
Quoting from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist:
"In the parasympathetic some individuals hear words of healing insight. Others see rich beautiful colors...As you experi...
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Step Out of the Disquieting, Chaotic, Stressful World of the High Level Narcissist from 2021-08-05T22:17:20
Married to and partnered with a high level narcissist, you are constantly trapped in their psychological quicksand. Like gravity you are drawn back to them
In the beginning they stood out...
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Calming, Strengthening Practices for Child Inside the Empath from 2021-08-01T02:49:55
The small child inside the empath needs and is entitled to special attention. Here are some of the ways that you activate kindness, appreciation and understanding. You become calmer, stronger an...
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Empaths - Embrace the Dance of Your Individuality from 2021-07-31T04:15:44
As a child you were the peacemaker, child servant, invisible child, the quiet one in your family. As a child you didn't fit in with your family. They had an image of themselves that was develope...
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Special Message to Empaths Married to High Level Narcissists II from 2021-07-28T03:08:55
Empaths are high ly perceptive, exquisitely sensitive individuals. They are attuned to their external and internal environments. Tehy feel deeply and are often misunderstood by spouses, family m...
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Creativity Heals, Soothes and Grounds the Empath from 2021-07-24T05:25:56
Quotes from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist: "Creativity is occurring every moment, whether we are awakening, asleep or dreaming. It is a transpersonal experience that redee...
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Empaths - Choosing Simplicity from 2021-07-20T05:13:46
Empaths are often informal. They don't have a retinue of followers or adorers, those that do their bidding. There are certain qualities that empaths possess. They are sensitive to their external...
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The High Level Narcissist Can't Stop Lying to You from 2021-07-11T20:43:07
Lying for the narcissist is as predictable and natural as the sun rising i the East. High level narcissists lie through commission and omission and by intricate combinations of the two. They pil...
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You No Longer are the High Level Narcissist's Beast of Burden from 2021-07-05T21:40:49
A beast of burden is defined as an animal who caries heavy loads or must do very hard work.
High level narcissists often put their children, spouses, ex-spouses, family members in the ro...
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Empaths - Beware of Predatory Narcissists from 2021-06-30T23:31:17
Predatory narcissists are beautifully packaged, have great social skills, charisma, mirror you and make you feel special.
Sequence of predatory narcissists in controlling you:
Enga...
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High Level Narcissists - Ultimate Takers, Dissemblers from 2021-06-29T15:25:48
High level narcissists are dissemblers, filled with patterns of deceit and corruption. They conceal the truth from you at every turn. As the partner, spouse or child of a high level narcissist, ...
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For Empaths - Learning to Trust Yourself and Others from 2021-06-26T05:09:58
The beginnings of trust occur very early in a child's life. The baby, especially the empath, senses whether he/she can depend on his/her mother or father to feel safe, secure, valued, psychologi...
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Special Messages for Empaths in Days of Chaos from 2021-06-22T04:49:43
Some days empaths don't get much done. They are criticized for not being productive. Empaths are unique in their high sensitivity and keen perceptions and intuitions.
Empaths are conside...
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High Level Narcissist - Exploiter Extraordinaire from 2021-06-17T05:45:17
High level narcissists spend their days exploiting others. This is their style and their deep need to take advantage of every relationship: spouses, partners, ex-spouses, children.
When ...
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Married to a High Level Narcissist - Revisiting Your Childhood of Desolation from 2021-06-13T17:47:43
The word "desolation" is from the French going back hundreds of years. It means a state of emptiness or destruction.
Growing up with a narcissistic parent(s) you suffered from the beginn...
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High Level Narcissists - Vicious Exploitation from 2021-06-07T04:35:56
High level narcissists cause multiple psychological and emotional traumas in the lives of others, particularly their spouses, ex-spouses, children, in-laws. Always on the hunt for narcissistic s...
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High Level Narcissists Eclipse Your Psychological, Emotional and Creative Options from 2021-06-02T04:15:19
You cannot be the spouse of a high level narcissist and be free to be yourself. The narcissist takes space in certain crevices of your mind and heart that cannot be overlooked.
High le...
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Expanding and Deepening Your Individuality from 2021-05-31T04:55:39
Qualities of Individuality
Independence of Mind- Respecting your thought processes but remaining flexible to changing your perceptions when research and insight individuates your movemen...
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Predatory Narcissists Compromise Your Physical and Psychological Health from 2021-05-22T04:51:11
I hear from many partners of predatory narcissistic personalities who have struggled profoundly in their marriages to narcissistic personalities.
Living with a narcissistic spouse saps y...
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Learn to Detach from the Narcissist's Outrageous Projections from 2021-05-17T21:06:57
Narcissists are constantly projecting their unconscious psychological venom on to others, especially spouses, children and other family members. Inside the privacy of the home, those who revere ...
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High Level Narcissists Steal Your Creative Visions from 2021-05-17T20:26:18
High level narcissists are ravenous for new ideas and concepts. If they can't conjure up one themselves, they will steal yours. They become intrigued with you if you have talent. With their char...
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Rescue Yourself from the Pernicious Shadow of the High Level Narcissist from 2021-05-11T04:40:52
Quote by Carl Jung "Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual's conscious life, the blacker and denser itis. At all counts, it forms an unconscious snag, thwartin...
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Key Personality Traits of the Golden Boy High Level Narcissist from 2021-05-04T22:03:26
Charming, charismatic, gifted at luring you in and bringing you back when you have decided to leave them.
Golden boy high level narcissists seek escape and pleasure to the extreme. When t...
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Parasitic Narcissists Weaken Your Psychological and Physical Immune System from 2021-05-01T01:50:38
A parasitic narcissist is a merciless taker, feeding off of your emotional and psychological attachment to them, your vulnerability and dependency. They steal your physical and psychological ene...
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Respect and Praise for Children of Narcissistic Mothers from 2021-04-30T05:13
Narcissistic mothers come in innumerable sizes, shapes, proclivities, temperaments, dispositions but they have traits in common with regard to the way they treat their children. Being the child ...
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High Level Narcissistic Golden Boy - Attracted to Empaths Part 2 from 2021-04-26T20:48:16
This is Part 2 of the podcast: High Level Narcissistic Golden Boy - Attracted to Empaths.
High Level Narcissistic Golden Boy - Attracted to Empaths from 2021-04-26T05:57:55
Recall when you were face to face with an individual who exuded a palpable charm, a kind of erotic force that was impossible to deny, an enchantment.
The golden one of many gifts - often...
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Children of Narcissistic Parents - You Deserve Full Self Entitlement from 2021-04-23T03:38:04
Children of narcissistic parents endure many psychological deprivations and abuses. These parents are obsessed with themselves and their needs and desires.
Growing up in these homes from ...
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Restorative Beauty of Art from 2021-04-18T05:20:32
Quotes from Sister Wendy Beckett's television presentation from the great cave art of Lascaux: "With only their flickering lamps to guide them the cave men felt their way down into the earth......
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Fortify Your Psychological Boundaries with High Level Narcissists from 2021-04-14T22:36:42
High level narcissists have no respect for the needs, feelings, individuality and wishes of others. They are disinterested in others---fascinated by everything "me.". The high level narcissist l...
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High Level Narcissists Can Weaken Your Psychological and Physical Immune System from 2021-04-12T18:39:44
Being on the receiving end of the narcissist's scream fits and rage fests causes you extreme distress. These bombardments can continue for hours, even days. When you try to fall asleep you becom...
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High Level Narcissists Spew Their Vile Shadows on Their Spouses and Children from 2021-04-07T17:29:43
The high level narcissist, though charming, accomplished and charismatic, is psychologically shallow For most it is the achievement of the perfect image and persona that supersedes the personali...
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Divorcing Narcissistic Spouses - Money Greed Prevails from 2021-04-02T03:57:51
There is a common thread that runs through many marriages to narcissists, especially when rumblings of a divorce are in the ait. Before the lightening strikes it is not unusual for the narcisist...
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High Level Narcissists Compartmentalize Their Relationships for Ultimate Control from 2021-03-30T23:15:37
Quoting from my book Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "The narcissist puts his life in neat compartment that are separate from one another...These are kept separate from the un...
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Your Chronic Exhaustion Activated by Vile Deceits of High Level Narcissist from 2021-03-27T22:13:36
The high level narcissist with extraordinary charm, allure and irresistibility, glides through his/her days like a member of royalty. . There is a special vibration that the high level possesses...
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Marriages to High Level Narcissists - Risk Your Psychophysiological Well Being from 2021-03-23T03:10:23
So perfect in the beginning, beyond all imaginings---you are swept up in the excitement, pleasures, promises, allure of this impeccable relationship with the high narcissist.
As the mont...
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High Level Narcissists Plot Their Way to the Top from 2021-03-19T16:27:38
High level narcissists are obsessively driven to reach the top of their mountains of ambition and achievement, whether the goals are wealth, power, prestige, praise or veneration.
For the...
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Parasympathetic Routines - Boosting Your Psychological Stamina from 2021-03-16T21:41:04
The parasympathetic mode is that part of the nervous system that causes us to become calm, relaxed, digest, rest, restore, increase creativity, go deeper spiritually.
The parasympathetic...
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Hubris and Greed - An Unholy Alliance from 2021-03-11T18:33:45
The person of hubris and greed is incapable of having an authentic loving relationship with another individual.
High level narcissists are obsessive climbers, forging upward socially and...
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How to Be Psychologically Grounded in A delusional World from 2021-03-06T05:58:31
At times the earth feels unsteady beneath our psychological feet. We experience uncertainties, even fears and trepidations that haunt us in wakefulness and sleep.
In seasons of confusion...
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High Level Narcissists - Clever at Re-inventing Their False Selves from 2021-03-05T05:23:24
The high level narcissist is a gifted conjurer - creating a series of false selves that are believable to those who become involved with him/her. Like a great method actor is a schemer.
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Denial and Delusion - Constant Companions of the High Level Narcissist from 2021-02-27T05:53:58
Denial is a powerful defense mechanism that the high level narcissist uses to create his/her reality. Cruel, cunning, plotting, scheming, the high level believes that he is a person of fine char...
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High Level Narcissists - Beyond the Flawless Image - Manipulations and Deceits from 2021-02-25T03:14:31
Your marital relationship with a high level narcissist is expendable. They are incapable of being loyal to anyone but themselves.
Authentic feelings are not part of the high level narcis...
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Narcissistic Spiritual Gurus from 2021-02-24T04:01:09
For some time there have been a growing number of Spiritual Teachers who are Narcissistic Personalities. The are among the most magnetic and charismatic individuals.
There are many indi...
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Malicious Narcissists Convincing Others You Are At Fault Or Crazy from 2021-02-21T04:03:12
Narcissists have an ugly, obnoxious side, especially if they want something that you have a nd you refuse to comply. This becomes very ugly during divorce from a narcissist.
Do your rese...
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Never Underestimate the High Level Narcissist's Cunning from 2021-02-17T05:02:31
The high level narcissist is a restless human being. He/she is always seeking narcissistic supplies-those psychological foods that he must have in order to keep his ego sense of self fully infla...
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Shameless High Level Narcissists Project Shame on to Their Spouses and Children from 2021-02-13T05:20:52
Shame is a complex intolerable feeling of being exposed, wanting to disappear, emotional vulnerability, feeling inferior and worthless.
High level narcissists re shameless. They have no ...
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Covert Narcissists - Ruthless Chameleons from 2021-02-12T04:49:24
Chameleons are lizards who change their colors based on heat, humidity and their emotional state. Metaphorically covert narcissists are chameleons who develop personas that please those they wan...
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The Unwelcome Daughter of the Narcissistic Mother from 2021-02-10T06:14:59
Early on the daughter of the narcissistic mother keenly senses that she is an after thought, an unnecessary child, a quirk of fate, a huge mistake. She feels no warmth coming from this mother. <...
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Daughters of Janus Faced Narcissistic Mothers from 2021-02-04T06:19:06
Quoting from psychoanalyst Alice Miller about the dilemma of a child of a narcissistic mother: "The art of not experiencing feelings - A child can experience her feelings only when there is some...
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Healing -Restorative Body-Mind Routines from 2021-01-31T19:16:44
Quoting from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist:
"Walking is an excellent all-around exercise. As you walk you observe everything at close range---trees, grasses, wildfl...
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The Delusional Self Importance of the High Level Narcissist from 2021-01-29T03:44:23
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in your Life:
"The narcissist lives in an intricate world of his making, dominated by inflated illusions self-importance. His/he...
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High Level Narcissist - Lies, More Lies and Damn Lies from 2021-01-26T23:46:46
You have known for a long time, many Summers and Springs that your partner and spouse was lying to you by commission and omission.
You didn't want to believe your perceptions and instinc...
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Insatiable Greed of the High Level Narcissist from 2021-01-22T23:45:47
The high level narcissist, engine running at full tile, plots and schemes how to garner and grab more---wealth, material possessions, prestige, adulation, praise, fame...endless supplies to keep...
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High Level Narcissist is Pea Green with Envy from 2021-01-19T02:31:45
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "Envy is a secret, taboo emotion. People don't talk about their envies. Being envious makes us look bad...envy in the nar...
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The High Level Narcissist's Destructive Cycle of Deceit from 2021-01-13T23:59:14
Narcissists crowd our world today. They are our spouses, ex-spouses, relatives, bosses, co-workers, spiritual mentors, friends. our society rewards high level narcissists handsomely with praise,...
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High Level Narcissists - Making Others Do Their Dirty Work from 2021-01-09T05:10:25
High level narcissists perpetrate tremendous stress on other human beings - their spouses, ex-spouses, children through their pernicious lying, deceptions and manipulations. High level narcissi...
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Children of Narcissistic Mothers - Re-Traumatized by High Level Narcissists from 2020-12-31T22:24:56
You grew up as a child of maternal deprivation. Your mother's presence was neither loving nor protective. Early on you knew that Narcissistic Mama (or Mothering Figure) couldn't stand your prese...
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Children of Narcissistic Mothers - Objects of Control and Exploitation from 2020-12-29T17:03:15
There are large number of children who were "raised" by narcissistic mothers. I used the word "raised" with question because these individuals are incapable of true mothering. Psychoanalyst Alic...
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The Beauty and Magic of Riding Music's Waves from 2020-12-25T03:59:28
Quoting from my book about the rediscovery of the authentic self -
Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist: "Music resounds through the body/mind, awakening and expanding our human ...
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Children of Narcissistic Mothers - You Deserve Recovery, Healing, Transformation and Compassion from 2020-12-23T02:47:16
Presenting the extreme psychological deprivations and abuse sustained by children of narcissistic mothers.
Quoting from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist:
"The n...
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Insights into the Fake Empathy of the High Level Narcissist from 2020-12-16T18:03:10
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life:
"On the surface the empathy of the narcissist seems to be genuine. With a mastery of social graces and his/her q...
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In Seasons of Chaos, Trust Your Individuated Self from 2020-12-13T04:25:17
Quoting from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist:
"We re born in complete dependence and vulnerability. Within us are the developmental seeds for individuation--a word th...
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High Level Narcissists Demand Perpetual Praise and Adulation from 2020-12-10T01:40
quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life:
"Like water cascading down a falls, compliments and tributes must flow to the narcissist at all times. He/she exp...
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You are Expendable to the Exploitive Narcissist from 2020-12-06T05:29:05
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "The narcissist is a master at extracting the pulp and juice of others---their time, talent, creative ideas, energies---t...
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High Level Narcissists - Shameless Liars from 2020-12-03T04:35:32
Lying is automatic for the high level narcissist.
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life:
"Most of us have difficulty lying, whether by omission o...
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Intuition - Psychological and Spiritual Light from 2020-11-30T23:30:45
Quoting from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist:
"Intuitions are moments of insight that awaken our consciousness with speed and clarity...When you re an intuitive many...
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High Level Narcissist - Masters of Denial and Grand Delusions from 2020-11-30T05:45:12
Understanding the world of the high level narcissist, quoting my hook: Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life:
"The narcissist lives in an intricate world of his making, domin...
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Empaths - Honor Your Inner Wisdom from 2020-11-28T03:28:35
Don't expect others, especially narcissistic personalities to understand you. They are trapped in denial and delusion. You comprehend and appreciate yourself and your intuitive gifts.
Ac...
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Secure , Calming, Restorative Practices for Empaths from 2020-11-25T17:59:12
Empaths are so unique...extraordinary. They are deeply attuned to their internal and external environments. Empaths are sensitive to loud noises, projections of rage and those who lack emotional...
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Psychological Bleakness of the High Level Narcissist from 2020-11-20T23:13:25
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life:
"The narcissist is never at peace. Quiet and contentment evade him. His engines of cunning are always at work. He ...
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Childhood Origins of Those Who Live In Shadow of High Level Narcissist from 2020-11-19T03:58:36
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "The future partner of the narcissist was often the child of an arrogant, demanding, narcissistic parent. From his/her ea...
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Rediscovering Your Core Self from 2020-11-17T03:16:26
I hope that these words are comforting, restorative and inspiring to you.
The following are quotes from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist:
"The outward univers...
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High Level Narcissist Behind Closed Doors - regressed, enraged, demanding from 2020-11-15T05:49:17
The psychic structure of the narcissistic personality is not built on the foundations of a real self. Rather the narcissist is rewarded early on for the characterlogical qualities of the false s...
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Prevailing Over the Malevolent High Level Narcissist from 2020-11-09T03:40:21
In a roiling sea of high level narcissists you are often in a state of anxiety, worry, self doubt, uncertainty, confusion.
Infused with mesmerizing charm, gifts of seduction and persuasi...
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Restorative Power of Rest, Art and the Creative from 2020-11-04T21:41:56
Take time to rest each day, practice healing breathing techniques that move you into the parasympathetic body/mind systems.
Great art is a tremendous source of beauty and restoration. Si...
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Selfless Servants to the High Level Narcissist from 2020-11-01T03:45:01
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "Besides jeopardizing their psychological and physical health, those who live with narcissists rob themselves of vital op...
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High Level Narcissists - Ruthless, Cold, Calculating from 2020-10-31T03:37:46
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "Ruthlessness begins with a pervasive insensitivity to the feelings of others. It grows slowly and surely in small, stead...
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Meditation Your Way from 2020-10-29T21:42:13
Quoting from my book: Recovering and Healing After the narcissist to help you create a meditation practice your way that helps you to recover, heal and evolve and move into the parasympathetic b...
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High Level Narcissist's Greed - Psychological Emptiness from 2020-10-26T23:53:03
High level narcissists are extraordinarily greedy. Greed is an extreme desire and pursuit to obtain more than what one needs, especially material wealth and property. They are never satisfied ...
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Meditation - Healing and Practice from 2020-10-24T03:06:04
Quoting from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist:
"Meditation is the key to insight, healing and transformation. It calms the mind, opens the heart and awakens the soul. ...
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Overbearing Narcissistic Personalities - No Boundaries, Supreme Entitlement from 2020-10-18T05:30:07
Like swarming bees or locusts blanketing the skies we re invaded by overbearing, in your face narcissistic families. It doesn't happen all the time but once is move than enough.
Mom, Dad,...
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In Seasons of Chaos Rediscover Downtime and the Parasympathetic from 2020-10-14T23:03:55
In times of chaos it is essential that you give yourself the gift of ce down time and enter the restorative, calming, healing parasympathetic body/mind systems:
Quoting from my book: Reco...
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In Seasons of Chaos, When You Regress, Be Kind to Your Baby Self from 2020-10-10T19:14:26
We all regress from time to time. A psychological regression isn't a sin: it is a painful experience of being unable to cope psychologically and emotionally, reverting back to childlike behavior...
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High Level Narcissistic Golden Child from 2020-10-08T23:38:05
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "In many ways the birth of the future narcissist is a second coming, the fulfillment of all the hopes and dreams of the p...
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Narcissistic Mother's Pernicious Envy of Her Daughter from 2020-10-04T01:33:18
The narcissistic mother shares the stage with no one---not even her lovely daughter.
Daughters who are not chosen are treated very differently Some are discarded out of hand and neglecte...
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In Times of Chaos Take A ride with Music from 2020-09-30T03:44:03
Listening to music is restorative and healing. Quoting from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist: "Music resounds through the body and mind, awakening and expanding our human pos...
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In Seasons of Chaos, Intuition and Care of Self are Your Guides from 2020-09-28T01:04:22
Understanding, appreciating and deepening your intuition is one of the greatest gifts of perception and the revelation of the truth.
Quoting from my book; Recovering and Healing After th...
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High Level Narcissist - Master Deceiver from 2020-09-25T02:57:14
Understanding the true nature of the high level narcissist who is always a deceiver.
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "The narcissist is at all ti...
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Pausing for Nature, Beauty and Creativity from 2020-09-21T23:51:10
Quoting from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist:
"For millennia artists have used a sense of place to shape and deepen their creativity."
"When we enter the natu...
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Guiltless High Level Narcissists - Without Conscience or Humanity from 2020-09-19T02:47:35
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life:
"Children develop a sense of right and wrong from their parents. In the beginning, the young child idealizes his m...
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Don't Be Fooled by the Convincing False Self of the High Level Narcissist from 2020-09-17T03:27:26
High level narcissists are gifted at their false self roles: calming, warm, gracious, generous, kind. My book Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life explains the workings of the narci...
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High Level Narcissists Expect Continuous Praise and Adulation from 2020-09-15T03:33:05
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "Like water cascading down a falls, compliments and tributes must flow to the narcissist at all times. He expects and cou...
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High Level Narcissist - Notorious Exploiter from 2020-09-12T19:36:55
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "A ...high level...narcissist doesn't waste time on those who cannot perform for him/her. By seduction or guile he draws ...
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High Level Narcissists - Ruthless, Calculating Climbers from 2020-09-10T03:50:13
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: "The word ruth, which comes from Middle English means "pity," or "compassion." To be ruthless is to treat another person ...
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Living in the Shadow of the High Level Narcissist - Childhood Origins from 2020-09-06T01:52:20
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life:
"The future partner of the high level narcissist was often the child of an arrogant, demanding narcissistic parent...
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In Seasons of Chaos, Keep It Simple from 2020-09-03T04:46:11
In times of inner and outer stress, remember to return to yourself for wisdom and guidance. Reading from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life, we are reminded to keep it si...
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The Disquieting, Empty Psyche of the High Level Narcissist from 2020-09-01T03:48:35
For the high level narcissist the world is his/her oyster; he/she commands his professional and personal domains like a medieval knight.
Quoting from my book Freeing Yourself From the Nar...
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Entourages of the High Level Narcissist - A Grand Show and Delusion from 2020-08-28T04:51:57
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life:
"Life with a narcissist is neither simple nor straightforward. It is a complex production that requires the righ...
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Empaths: Listen to Your Inner Wisdom During Days of Chaos from 2020-08-24T16:05:37
Empaths are extraordinary individuals who experience reality on the deepest levels. They are misunderstood and labelled cruelly as weak, vulnerable, unsociable, uncommunicative, strange. Today's...
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Partnerships with High Level Narcissists Eclipse Your Individuality from 2020-08-22T00:08:27
Reading from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life provides a perspective on this process and how it affects you:
"Those who live closely with a narcissist - wives, h...
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Fake Empathy of High Level Narcissists from 2020-08-18T04:09:49
Quote from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life:
"On the surface, the empathy of the narcissist seems to be genuine. With a mastery of social graces and his/her qui...
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In Times of Chaos Your Intuition Leads the Way from 2020-08-15T03:22:11
Intuition is your greatest gift. Everyone has some capacity for intuition.
Your intuition always tells you the truth. Intuition is a kind of vibration, faster than a blink or the speed...
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High Level Narcissist's Worshipful Circle from 2020-08-14T01:03:11
Quote from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life: The narcissist draws a magical golden circle around himself/herself. He convinces his followers that this space is a secret...
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Restorative, Calming Practices During Chaotic Times from 2020-08-10T22:51:04
It is challenging in the best of times, especially if you are an empath, to be calm and psychologically centered.
In periods of chaos it is more difficult to maintain physical and psycho...
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The Power of High Level Narcissist's Charm from 2020-08-08T03:53:19
To protect ourselves from the incredible charm of the high level narcissist is essential to understand the nature of his/her gifts of beguilement and persuasion.
Quoting from my book Free...
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Special Message to Empaths Married to High Level Narcissists from 2020-08-05T01:01:58
Empaths are highly perceptive, exquisitely sensitive individuals. They are attuned to their external and internal environments. They feel deeply and are often misunderstood by spouses, family me...
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Say "No" to High Level Narcissist Exploiter - "Yes" to Yourself from 2020-07-31T22:27:20
If you are married to or partnered with a high level narcissist you are possibly in a state of perpetual oxidative stress which includes insomnia, anxiety, depression, digestive disorders, heada...
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Leaving the High Level Narcissist's Golden Circle from 2020-07-30T03:53:37
Quoting from my book: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life that sets the stage for the high level narcissist:
"Like water cascading down a falls, compliments and tributes mus...
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High Level Narcissists Are Shameless with Their Lying from 2020-07-28T01:19:19
Lying is a serious act of betrayal. When you have a relationship with someone whom you trust and they lie to you it has painful consequences to you. Everything about this relationship is now in ...
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Gall and Hubris - At the Core of the HIgh Level Narcissist from 2020-07-24T01:50:18
Gall is a "brazen boldness coupled with assurance and insolence."
Hubris from ancient Greeks - "Exaggerated pride and self confidence" Ancient Greeks describe hubris as "a dangerous char...
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Elite High Level Narcissists Do Not Awaken from Their Delusions of Grandeur and Omnipotence from 2020-07-21T03:07:55
We have an immense population of high level narcissists. Don't try to wake up a high level narcissist from their slumber of intractable delusion and extreme self entitlement.
The high le...
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High Level Narcissists Demean Those Below Their Social Class from 2020-07-17T03:13:54
High level narcissists are so taken with themselves, believing they are superior human beings.
They are unable and unwilling to acknowledge that someone who is ot in their social class h...
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Don't Become the Object of the High Level Narcissist's Rabid Projections from 2020-07-14T17:44:59
The high level narcissist project his/her venom on to those who are the most vulnerable especially when their victims are physically ill, depressed, anxious, have severe insomnia.
Projec...
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Shameless High Level Narcissists Don't Stop Exploiting You from 2020-07-10T23:38:24
High level narcissist have no shame. Their excessive sense of self entitlement and self importance rules their personalities. High level narcissists have no sense of boundaries or limits. This ...
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The Malicious Hypocrisy of the High Level Narcissist from 2020-07-08T05:16:33
Many people are so taken with the compelling, thrilling, seductive self image of the high level narcissist that they are incapable and unwilling to perceive these malevolent individuals for who ...
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High Level Narcissists Cause You Perpetual Extreme Exhaustion from 2020-07-04T00:09:07
You have always thought that when you get very tired, even exhausted, that sleeping and resting would bounce you right back to your vital energy. Year after year, decade after decade you have re...
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Despicable Greed of High Level Narcissists from 2020-06-28T22:55:13
Today we are surrounded by countless greedy narcissists in a society that has become exceedingly materialistic, coarse, Darwinian, soul-less.
The high level narcissist is all act, false,...
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Narcissistic Spouse Causes Extreme Oxidative Stress, HPA Axis Disorder from 2020-06-27T04:17:50
Being married to a narcissistic personality can be a source of extreme oxidative stress that can activate a dysregulation, HPA Axis Disorder.
The adrenals together with the hypothalamus...
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For High Level Narcissist - You Are Expendable from 2020-06-25T19:24
Disposable means someone or something that is disposable, something that can be replaced.
High level narcissists creates a series of false selves.
Below the surface is the damaged ...
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Five Essential Practices for empaths Married to High Level Toxic Narcissists from 2020-06-21T23:03:03
1. Sleep, rest, nourishing food, pure hydration.
2. Movement/exercise that works for you, Yoga poses like Child's Pose. Walking in Nature.
3. Shifting to the parasympathetic, cal...
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Don't Get Stuck in the High Level Narcissist's Grand Delusion from 2020-06-16T06:01:44
The high level narcissist, so successful and charming, even charismatic draws everyone to him /her. Who can sy "No" to such a compelling personality, especially one who has the "world" at his be...
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The Dark Core of the Narcissistic Mother from 2020-06-15T04:50:06
The narcissistic mother is a horrifying person. Narcissistic mothers don't attach to their babies and children.
There is no true relationship between this non mother and her baby and smal...
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A Beautiful Example of the Real Self in Action from 2020-06-11T23:41:41
I want to share with you an experience I had meeting a four year old boy who is a lovely example of the real self in action.
I experienced an authentic self who is delightful. These are s...
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Take Back Your Individuality and Power from Your Narcissistic Mother from 2020-06-05T21:17:49
As a child, a prisoner in your own home, your narcissistic mother reigned. Draconian and merciless, she set about screaming demands and decrees, forever threatening and accusing. There ws never ...
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Special Message to Empaths - Create, Restore, Evolve from 2020-05-31T02:09:52
Understand and appreciate yourself with no judgments. Work with your parasympathetic nervous system. Engage with beauty throughout the day. Go to Nature - sky, clouds, winds, trees, butterflies,...
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Married to A High Level Narcissist - Exhausted and Re-Traumatized from 2020-05-30T05:44:03
Married to a high level narcissist who demand that you re always perfect in your appearance, image, temperament, mood, selflessness, a willingness to overlook their multiple cruelties, suck up t...
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The Parasympathetic - Your Gateway to Restoration and Resilience from 2020-05-27T05:02:56
Quotes from my book: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist:
"An essential part of healing is the reshaping of habits, attitudes and daily routines that add balance and structure to ...
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Don's Lose Your Soul to A High Level Narcissist from 2020-05-24T05:50:40
High level narcissistic partners and spouses compromise your authenticity, character, integrity, independence and creativity. In exchange for being a player on center stage with an elite power d...
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Narcissistic Mothers - Behind Closed Doors from 2020-05-20T00:37:30
Narcissistic mothers are varied in their personas. Some are grandiose, highly extroverted and brash; other are humble and self-effacing. These are their personas, false selves that they present ...
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High Level Narcissists - You Keep Giving, They Keep Taking from 2020-05-16T23:15:21
High level narcissists seek raw power and are exceedingly greedy. They are the takers, you are the givers.
Often they have high metabolic rates and thrive off of the sympathetic nervous...
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Stay Healthy and Strong While Divorcing A Narcissist from 2020-05-14T23:57:59
Divorcing a narcissist is often a hellish experience. I have spoken to many individuals who report they have been psychologically and emotionally exhausted by their divorce wars.
Once yo...
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Special Messages to Heal and Empower Empaths from 2020-05-12T07:13:16
Empaths are unique, extraordinary individuals. They are highly intuitive and creative. They have a deep sensitivity and knowing about human nature. Empaths are always misunderstood.
It i...
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Walking Away from the Culture of Narcissism from 2020-05-08T05:35:07
Today we are surrounded by narcissists in corporate culture, "spirituality" entertainment, media. Quote from Christopher Lasch's The Culture of Narcissism: "Personal relations founded on reflect...
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Recover, Restore, Evolve After the Narcissistic Spouse from 2020-05-06T07:06:50
I call narcissistic spouses stress machines. They thrive off of the sympathetic nervous system. They project fear onto their spouses and partners. They wear you down. Those married to narcissist...
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Step Out of the Narcissist's Shadow from 2020-04-30T21:39:02
The narcissist casts a long shadow. They exploit your gifts of character and creativity: your empathy, honesty, clarity, fairness, integrity, your creative thinking, forms of art: painting, draw...
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Chronic Lying is a Signature Trait of the Narcissistic Personality from 2020-04-29T23:54:26
Narcissists are compulsive liars; they can't help themselves. This is not an excuse for their abominable behavior. It is part of their psychopathology. Narcissists pend their days in a state of ...
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Practicing Self Comfort from 2020-04-29T05:34:07
The ability to self comfort is essential to our sense of self and well-being. The baby is born helpless and dependent. He(she) must be nourished to grow and thrive. Besides physical needs the ba...
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