Podcasts by Husband Material

Rags To Riches To Ruin To Redemption (with Dr. Joe Martin) from 2022-02-21T08:00

"You can't possibly hate yourself more than I love you. You can try, but it ain't gonna happen. You can try, but I have until eternity. You don't. How long do you wanna keep ...

How To Reframe A Porn Relapse from 2022-02-14T08:00

What's the best way to respond to a relapse into porn, either for yourself or for a friend? In this episode, you'll learn the power of viewing relapse as feedback (not failure), the be...

Healing From Sexual Abuse, Part 2 (with Mike Chapman) from 2022-02-07T08:00

What is "normal" for survivors of sexual abuse? And what does healing look like? Mike Chapman offers validation and wisdom based on years of research and his personal healing journey.<...

Healing From Sexual Abuse, Part 1 (with Mike Chapman) from 2022-01-31T08:00

You have to hear Mike's story. Mike Chapman is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse (CSA), trafficking, and sexual assault as an adult by clergy. He is also an incredible man of God, a powe...

Was I Sexually Abused? (with Dr. Doug Carpenter) from 2022-01-24T08:00

How can I know if I was sexually abused, and why does it matter? In this episode, Dr. Doug Carpenter answers these important questions while opening up about his own early sexual experiences... ...

Introduction To Healing Prayer (with Leslie Weinzettel) from 2022-01-17T08:00

What is healing prayer? What is it (not) about? What can we expect from it? This episode is a must-listen for anyone who is interested in healing prayer, because Leslie Weinzettel offers incredi...

Building A Porn-Free Body: Momentum (with Alex VanHouten) from 2022-01-10T08:00

In this episode, Alex VanHouten shares wisdom about exercise, nutrition, and physical fitness while keeping God at the center of it all.

Alex VanHouten is a father, husband, and self-p...

Building A Porn-Free Body: Motivation (with Alex VanHouten) from 2022-01-03T08:00

How can physical fitness help you outgrow porn? In this episode, professional trainer Alex VanHouten explains why and how strengthening your body can strengthen your sexual integrity. Along the ...

The Beauty Of Elephant Seals from 2021-12-27T08:00

Find out why northern elephant seals are my favorite animal, and how they have helped me unlearn self-contempt.

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What Is Spiritual Bypass? (with Dr. Craig Cashwell) from 2021-07-19T08:00

Have you ever met someone who over-spiritualizes everything? In this episode, Dr. Craig Cashwell introduces the concept of spiritual bypass: how spiritual ideas or practices can become a crutch ...

From Crisis To Closeness (with Clinton and Charity Muñoz) from 2021-07-12T08:00

This is the story of a couple who nearly divorced 4 years into marriage due to chronic sexual betrayal. They got a lot of bad advice and made a lot of mistakes, but with God as their foundation,...

Bullying And The Inner Critic (with Dr. Doug Carpenter) from 2021-07-05T08:00

The voice in your head that constantly criticizes you, saying you're weak, ugly, stupid, or not good enough is the voice of a bully. Bullying can come from anywhere: parents, peers, or even...

Master Your Nervous System (LIVE) from 2021-06-28T08:00

What is the autonomic nervous system and why should I care? Because freedom from porn depends on it. Being able to notice, name, and navigate your nervous system allows you to regulate, replacin...

Healing Mother Wounds (with Dan Hitz) from 2021-06-21T08:00

What is a mother wound? How do you know if you have one? And how can mother wounds be healed? In this episode, Dan Hitz tells the story of his mother wounds, how they impacted his sexuality, and...

Theology of the Penis (with Jeremy Williamson) from 2021-06-14T08:00

What is God's purpose for the penis? How does it reflect the image of God? And how can I reclaim the goodness of my penis? Join me and Jeremy Williamson for a candid conversation about God,...

Emotional Times And Seasons from 2021-06-07T08:00

Why are certain times of the day, week, or year more difficult? Because emotions fluctuate. In this episode, I'll help you prepare for emotionally difficult times and seasons so you can giv...

Psychology And Spirituality (with Dr. Ken McGill) from 2021-05-31T08:00

How does psychology relate to spirituality? How does therapy relate to theology? Dr. Ken McGill is a Christ-centered clinician who has been answering these questions for decades. In this episode...

How To Measure Freedom From Porn (LIVE) from 2021-05-24T08:00

Measuring freedom from porn usually produces self-contempt or self-righteousness. How can we avoid these two pitfalls? Is there a better way? Yes, there is!

In this episode, I'll ...

Porn As Re-Enactment Of Sexual Abuse (with Wendell Moss) from 2021-05-17T07:00

Why do we return to porn even though it harms us? What if we return to porn precisely because it harms us? The answer is often re-enactment. "Re-enactment (noun): the acting out of a past e...

Scarred By A Sibling (with Marcus Spaur) from 2021-05-10T07:00

Have you ever been hurt by a sibling or close friend? Sometimes porn is used as a pacifier for painful peer relationships... or in some cases, the lack of any relationships at all. Marcus Spaur ...

Unwanted Sexual Attraction from 2021-05-03T07:00

Let's change the way we talk about sexual attractions and desires. No matter who or what you're sexually attracted to, this episode is for you.

What can we do with unwanted s...

The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction (with Shawn Bonneteau) from 2021-04-26T07:00

Porn-induced erectile dysfunction is more common—and curable—than you might think. Hear Shawn Bonneteau's story of PIED/ED, why he continued to struggle after years of freedom from porn, an...

Embrace Conflict (with Jay Stringer) from 2021-04-19T07:00

Porn is a pacifier for conflict...with God, with others, and even with ourselves. Learn to embrace conflict in a redemptive way with author and therapist Jay Stringer.

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BONUS: Drew's Spiritual Warfare Song from 2021-04-12T08:00

Listen to this short clip on repeat to memorize Ephesians 6:10-17.

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Seven Strategies For Spiritual Warfare (LIVE) from 2021-04-12T07:00

We are not in a war against sexuality (which is good); we are in a war against evil. Come learn 7 strategies for spiritual warfare based on the Temptation of Jesus in Matthew 4:1-11... and hear ...

Rebuilding Sexual Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King) from 2021-04-05T07:00

In a marriage devastated by porn, when and how should sex come back into the picture? In part two of this two-part series, Adam King and Karissa King explain how to slowly but surely restore sex...

Rebuilding Emotional Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King) from 2021-03-29T07:00

In a marriage devastated by porn, how do you rebuild trust? In part one of this two part series, Adam King and Karissa King share the 5 steps every couple must take to rebuild trust (for both sp...

The Art Of Affirmation (with Stephen Thomas) from 2021-03-22T07:00

We believe practicing verbal affirmation is absolutely essential to outgrowing porn. In this episode, Drew and Stephen will tell you why, and share practical strategies for how (not) to do it. Listen

Healing Father Wounds (with Chris Bruno) from 2021-03-15T07:00

How does porn relate to your father? If you have been under-fathered, what does it look like to be re-fathered? And how can we become fathers who reverse the curse of sexual sin and shame? Let t...

Transform Your Thought Life (with Sathiya Sam) from 2021-03-08T07:00

Let's change our brains. How can we take back control of our thoughts and transform our core beliefs? My fellow Canadian friend Sathiya Sam is here to show us how.

Sathiya Sam is t...

Nine Tips About Triggers from 2021-03-01T07:00

What are triggers? How do triggers work? And most importantly, how can we take back control when we get triggered? This episode will answer each of these questions clearly and concisely...and at...

Holy Sexuality&Singleness (with Dr. Christopher Yuan) from 2021-02-23T02:00

Hear Dr. Christopher Yuan's amazing story of coming to Christ, surrendering same-sex attraction, and embracing the gift of singleness.

Dr. Christopher Yuan has taught at Moody Bibl...

What Should I Do With My Sexual Desires? from 2021-02-08T07:00

What should I do with my sexual desires—my attractions, urges, impulses, cravings, fantasies, aches, longings, and yearnings? I've been on a quest to answer this question for 15 years and f...

Blind Spots In Relationships (with Eddie Capparucci, Scott Cone, and Stephen Thomas) from 2021-02-01T07:00

We all have blind spots. But what are they? If we knew, they wouldn't be blind spots! Listen to a lively conversation between 4 leaders as we talk about the blind spots we commonly see in o...

Jesus Is Our Pure Hope (with Jasper Hall) from 2021-01-25T07:00

Let's redefine purity: it's a relationship, not an accomplishment...it's about presence, not performance...and according to Jasper Hall, it comes from Jesus.

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When Porn Seems Like The Only Option... from 2021-01-18T07:00

Do you ever feel trapped? Let me give you 5 empowering choices when it feels like porn is the only option...and along the way, I'll tell a story I've never shared in public before.
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What Is A Sexually Healthy Man? (with Andrew Bauman) from 2021-01-11T07:00

Many of us grew up without a clue about what it means to be a sexually healthy man. That's why I'm so grateful for Andrew Bauman and his new book, "The Sexually Healthy Man."...

Fight The New Drug (with Clay Olsen) from 2021-01-04T07:00

The global anti-porn movement is gaining momentum. In this episode, you'll hear about it directly from Clay Olsen, co-founder of Fight The New Drug. Fight The New Drug (FTND) is a youth mov...

How To Relate Like An Adult from 2020-12-28T07:00

Learn the two styles of relating you need to outgrow in order to enjoy the freedom of life as an adult.

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Marnie Ferree: Meet The Three Bears from 2020-12-21T07:00

Within each of us, there are three bears in three chairs. Listen to Marnie Ferree explain why, and you'll understand yourself in a whole new way.

Marnie C. Ferree is a licensed mar...

Greg Oliver: Prepare For A Porn-Free Christmas from 2020-12-14T07:00

It's the most triggering time of the year! Have yourself a healthy little Christmas with tips from Greg Oliver as shares the 4 challenges we all face at Christmastime, the CPR method for st...

Stephen Thomas: Shame Is A Terrible Friend from 2020-12-07T07:00

Shame sucks. In this episode, Stephen Thomas shares a childhood story of humiliation, his struggle with porn and same-sex attraction, and how he found lasting freedom through radical vulnerabili...

The Gospel For Sexual Sinners (Live) from 2020-11-30T07:00

How does the gospel speak into sexual brokenness? This episode is all about who Jesus is and who we are as sexual beings in Christ.

Free resource: check out my list of Identity in Chris...

Josh Glaser: Lust And Love from 2020-11-23T07:00

What's the difference between lust and love? Hear from Josh Glaser as he shares his story of healing and we talk about what it means to not just avoid lust, but grow in Christ-like love. Listen

How To Fall Asleep Without Porn from 2020-11-16T07:00

If lust is your lullaby, this episode is for you. Learn the unique reasons why porn serves as a sleep aid and how to find a better solution.

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Laurie Krieg&Matt Krieg: Same-Sex Attraction In Marriage from 2020-11-09T07:00

People say Matt and Laurie's marriage is impossible. Laurie's same-sex attraction and Matt's addiction to pornography almost led them to divorce. But this impossible marriage—and ...

Dr. Eddie Capparucci: Porn And The Inner Child from 2020-11-02T07:00

Behind the scenes of sexual addiction, the inner child is running the show. Porn is his pacifier and lust is his lullaby. So who is this kid, and how can we help him heal? Join me and Eddie Capp...

Dr. Doug Carpenter: Trauma And Masculinity from 2020-10-26T07:00

What does it mean to "be a man"? What is true masculinity? Dr. Doug Carpenter cuts through the clutter and defines masculinity in a way that empowers men to be who we really are.
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Six Skills To Help Men Outgrow Porn (LIVE) from 2020-10-19T07:00

Learn the G.R.O.W.T.H. model for helping men outgrow porn:

G = Going First
R = Repeating & Rephrasing
O = Observing
W = Weaving & Waiting
T = Telling The Truth Listen

Rodney&Traci Wright: How To Talk With Your Kids About Sex from 2020-10-12T07:00

How can we help the next generation develop healthy sexuality in a pornographic world? That's the question Rodney and Traci Wright answer on today's episode.

Rodney & Trac...

Why You Should Treat The Sabbath Like Sex from 2020-10-05T07:00

Does the Sabbath seem like a boring, outdated obligation? It's not when you treat it like sex!

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From Distracted To Disciplined from 2020-07-20T07:00

Have you ever struggled with ADHD or distraction? When you can't focus, freedom from porn becomes almost impossible. That's why in this episode, I open up about my own journey through ...

The Secret Behind Sexual Fetishes (LIVE) from 2020-07-13T07:00

Have you ever been sexually attracted to something weird or uncommon? Have you ever wondered if it’s okay to pursue that sexually with another person?

In this episode, you'll learn...

Nick Stumbo: Free To Be Known from 2020-07-06T07:00

Discover how Nick Stumbo found freedom from porn, even while serving as the lead pastor of a church!

Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and Co-Host of the Pure Des...

How To Find A Great Mentor from 2020-06-29T07:00

Learn my formula for finding great mentors who ask YOU to spend time together!

Upcoming LIVE Broadcast: Sexual Fetishes. You're invited to participate in the recording of an upcomi...

Jenna Riemersma: Move Toward, Not Against from 2020-06-22T07:00

Get ready for a magnificent conversation with Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Jenna Riemersma – my former professor and the first female guest on this show!

Jenna also recorded an exc...

Guided Meditation by Jenna Riemersma from 2020-06-22T07:00

This bonus episode will guide you through an experiential exercise in IFS therapy.

You can download the mp3 meditation for future listening at hus...

The Exact Path To Freedom From Porn from 2020-06-08T10:00

Discover exactly what it takes to succeed in achieving total freedom from porn.

This episode was recorded LIVE inside the Husband Material Community, a private online group for men outg...

What Does The Bible Say About Porn? from 2020-06-01T07:00

Most people don’t realize the Bible talks directly about porn. In this episode, I’ll share three New Testament teachings on “porneia” and reveal the beauty and power of each one.

Join o...

Andrew Bauman: Free For Beauty (Part 1 of 2) from 2020-05-25T07:00

Today we have two Andrew B's on the show! Join us for a two-part conversation on how to handle beauty, how to go through grief, and how these healing journeys release us into greater freedo...

Andrew Bauman: Free To Grieve (Part 2 of 2) from 2020-05-25T07:00

Today we have two Andrew B's on the show! Join us for a two-part conversation on how to handle beauty, how to go through grief, and how these healing journeys release us into greater freedo...

Five Failures of Purity Culture from 2020-05-18T07:00

Discover 5 reasons why I believe purity culture is the number one enemy of freedom from porn.

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Sathiya Sam: Free To Choose from 2020-05-14T07:00

Find out how Sathiya Sam developed emotional fitness, self-awareness, and freedom to enjoy his sexuality!

Sathiya Sam is the founder of Deep Clean, where he helps men overcome pornograp...

Why Porn Is A Pacifier from 2020-05-11T07:00

Learn how porn functions as a pacifier, and how to outgrow it without fighting the battle.

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Why I Bought “Porn For Women” from 2020-05-07T09:00

Listen in on the surprising lessons I learned from a little book called "Porn For Women."

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Shawn Bonneteau: Free For Life from 2020-04-30T07:00

Find out how God delivered Shawn from deep self-hatred and saved his marriage.

Shawn and Helena Bonneteau are the founders of Secret Habit. Their mission is to help young men and women ...

Does Marriage Makes It Easier To Quit Porn? from 2020-04-27T06:00

Hint: the answer is no. Learn 3 reasons why marriage is not a solution to sexual brokenness.

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How to Process Your Past from 2020-04-23T09:00

This one simple shift in language unlocks massive transformation as you heal from porn.

If you want help processing your past, apply for a free coaching session with me at from 2020-04-20T07:00

Discover your personal attachment style, how it affects your sexuality, and how it can be changed!

For much of the content in this episode, I am indebted to husbandmaterial.com/trevor.

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Four Ways To Reparent Yourself from 2020-04-13T07:00

Underneath every sexual struggle, there is a little child who needs love. This episode will show you how to be a father to your younger self.

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Should I Tell My Parents I Struggle With Porn? from 2020-03-30T07:00

Learn how to decide whether to tell your parents about porn—and a formula for EXACTLY what to say to them.

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Four Levels Of Freedom From Porn from 2020-03-23T07:00

Discover your current level of freedom from porn, and how to reach the next level up.

LEVEL 1: MISERY
LEVEL 2: MOTIVATION
LEVEL 3: MATURITY
LEVEL 4: MASTERY

For da...

Rocky Pisor: Free From Shame from 2020-03-19T07:00

Find out how God gave Rocky Pisor deep healing from shame after revealing the sexual trauma he endured as a boy.

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How To Handle Overwhelming Sexual Urges from 2020-03-16T07:00

Stop fighting your sexual desires so you can express them in healthy and holy ways.

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The F.L.O.S.S. Method from 2020-03-09T07:00

Use this simple strategy to unpack your sexual and emotional triggers at a deeper level.

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Three Secrets To Self Control from 2020-02-17T07:00

When you feel out of control, use these 3 strategies to regulate your brain and body:

1. Oxygen: Breathe Deeply.
2. Attention: Notice Sensations.
3. Attachment: Find A Safe Pers...

Thirteen Ideas For Incredible Allies from 2020-02-13T13:00

Wondering what you should do with your allies? Here are 13 ideas!

Here's the exact worksheet I use for weekly check-ins:
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How To Find Allies (Without Being Awkward) from 2020-02-10T07:00

Learn 10 ways to find awesome allies (online and in-person) WITHOUT the awkwardness.

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Redeemed Sexuality (Live at Messiah College) from 2020-01-23T14:00

Here's the message I delivered at Messiah College Chapel.

Culture inside the church promotes "repressed sexuality."
Culture outside the church promotes "released...

What To Do When You See Attractive People from 2020-01-20T07:00

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Should I Use Accountability Software? from 2020-01-16T12:00

Question: What accountability software should I use?

Answer: Replace your stressful sexual surveillance with holy sensuality!

But what about you...

What's your #1...

Three Steps To Smartphone Safety from 2020-01-13T07:00

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Drew's Story Of Freedom from 2020-01-09T07:00

Here's the interview with Patrick Carnes that helped me overcome sexual self-hatred:
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How Long Does It Take To Quit Porn? from 2020-01-06T07:00

After sharing 3 ways to accelerate your freedom from porn, at the end of the episode, Drew will share his #1 secret to long-term sexual sobriety.

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Replace Your New Year's Resolutions from 2020-01-02T08:00

In this episode, I'll help you replace your new year's resolution to quit porn with something better... a small-yet-powerful action step you probably haven’t been doing!

Along...

Five Ways Your Phone Can Help You Quit Porn from 2019-12-30T09:00

Have you ever felt like your smartphone is holding you back from quitting porn?

In this episode, you'll learn 5 ways your phone phone can actually help you quit porn. You'll t...

Introducing: Husband Material from 2019-11-12T12:00

Welcome to the Husband Material Podcast, where we help Christian men outgrow porn so you can change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship. My name is Drew Boa, and I'm her...

Introducing: Husband Material from 2019-11-12T12:00

Welcome to the Husband Material Podcast, where we help Christian men outgrow porn so you can change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship. My name is Drew Boa, and I'm her...

Introducing: Husband Material from 2019-11-12T12:00

Welcome to the Husband Material Podcast, where we help Christian men outgrow porn so you can change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship. My name is Drew Boa, and I'm her...