Podcasts by Sensual Self with EvYan Whitney

74. How We Heal from 2022-12-21T11:33:55

What does it mean to heal yourself? In this one, Ev’Yan speaks with author Alex Elle about the many layers, pains, and joys of being on a self-healing journey, in celebration of Alex’s new and b...

73. Moments of Sensuality from 2022-12-07T11:33:09

A trip down a sensual memory lane. In this one, Ev'Yan talks about some of their favorite moments of sensuality in 2022—from things that gave them gender euphoria to experiences that inspired fu...

72. Refusing Compulsory Sexuality from 2022-11-23T11:33:56

Are you trying to be someone you're sexually not? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with asexual storyteller and author of 'Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Cultu...

71. A Consensual Relationship with Your Body from 2022-11-09T11:33:51

Are you in a consensual relationship with your body? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with Jonathan Mead, a body relationship and movement coach (and also Ev'Yan's partner) about what it means to be i...

70. Give Your Inner (or Actual) Child a Sex Positive Talk from 2022-10-26T10:33:59

How has your experience of your sexual self been shaped by what you grew up understanding (or not) about sex? In this one, Ev’Yan speaks with Melissa Carnagey (she/they) about what it means + ho...

69. Slow Pleasure from 2022-10-12T10:33:09

Do you microdose your pleasure? In this one, Ev’Yan speaks to Euphemia Russell (they/them) about the practice of slow pleasure—which is also the title of their bestselling book. They talk about ...

Sensual Self is Back! from 2022-10-05T12:55:47

Join host Ev'Yan Whitney for a new season filled with thoughtful conversations about sexuality, embodiment, identity, and pleasure.

New episodes of Sensual Self start next week! Subscr...

68. Who Is Wellness For? from 2022-05-24T10:00:10

What does the word “wellness” even mean anymore? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks to poet, artist, and author, Fariha Roisin, about self-care, collective healing, wellness culture, and this question, ...

67. Sensual Sex Ed from 2022-05-10T10:33:56

What if you’d been taught about sensuality as a child? How different would your relationship to your body and sex be today? In this one, Ev’Yan speaks to sexologist and comprehensive sex educato...

66. How to Be A Sensual Man from 2022-04-26T10:33:14

Sensuality is not just for women and femmes. Men and masc folks are sensual too. In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with artist, writer, and dancer Maceo Paisley about the many things that keep men from...

65. To Be Young, Black, and Asexual from 2022-04-12T10:33:45

A deeper dive into the ace experience with asexual activist + educator, Yasmin Benoit. In this one, Ev’Yan speaks to Yasmin about her work as an asexual educator and experience as a Black ace pe...

64. Feed Your Erotic Imagination (sponsored by Dipsea) from 2022-03-29T10:33:46

How do feed your erotic imagination, especially when we’re living in such unsensual times? In this one, Ev’Yan’s in the studio solo to give some tips and tell some stories about how to nourish t...

63. Sensual As A Mother from 2022-03-15T10:33:48

How do you balance your sensual self with being a parent? And what would you teach your kids about sensuality and sexual agency? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with sexologist and educator, Shan Boo...

62. Reflections & Feelings About 2021 from 2021-12-29T18:03:35

Ev'Yan's in a reflective mood as the year comes to a close and in this surprise bonus episode, she sits down to process some of the highs, the lows, the feelings, and the pleasures they experien...

61. How to Reclaim Your Sensual Self (Live) from 2021-12-21T11:03:35

How do you reclaim your sensuality? Ev’Yan and a few special guests answer this and other body-minded questions during a live event that happened a few weeks back called “Reclaim Your Sensual Se...

60. "My Sensual Self is My Own" from 2021-12-07T11:03:17

It’s finally here! Ev’Yan’s guided journal, Sensual Self, is out in stores today and to celebrate, they get interviewed by their partner, Jonathan, about their sensuality. Ev’Yan talks ...

59. Decolonize Your Gender from 2021-11-16T11:00:18

What assumptions do you make about your gender? In this one, Ev’Yan speaks to Dayna Lynn Nuckolls (The People’s Oracle) about what it looks like to decolonize gender and why we probably...

58. How to Breathe Sensually from 2021-11-02T10:03

Are you breathing? What happens when you bring intention to your breathing? It becomes a tool of liberation and healing. In this episode, Ev’Yan speaks with Siedeh Foxie—breathwork facilitator a...

57. Intergenerational Pleasure from 2021-10-19T10:00:38

Prioritizing our pleasure to heal and liberate our ancestors. In this one, Ev’Yan speaks with Juju Bae—a medium and Hoodoo ...

Take a Sensual Selfie With Me! from 2021-10-13T13:00:43

Oh hi! Ev'Yan's in your feed today to drop some quick + exciting announcements—on the theme of sensuality, of course.

For a transcript of this bonus episode, go to evyanwhitney.com/tra...

56. I'm Asexual, Not Broken from 2021-10-05T10:33:26

What if it was okay that you don't want to have sex? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with Angela Chen (author of Ace) about asexuality and ace liberation. Angela debunks a lot of myths about...

55. The Sensuality of Solitude from 2021-09-21T10:33:30

When was the last time you were intentional about your solitude? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with Jordi—artist, storyteller, facilitator, author—about what it looks like to intentionally carve ou...

54. Pleasure Is the Point from 2021-09-07T10:33:10

You are responsible for your pleasure, so what are you doing with it? In this one, Ev'Yan speaks with the brilliant adrienne maree brown about pleasure—the practice of it and why we must engage ...

53. Hello, Sensual Self! Hello, My New Book! from 2021-08-24T14:33:30

It's finally here! In this one, Ev'Yan talks about why she created Sensual Self—both this "new" podcast and the book that inspired it.

Sensual Self is now available f...

Meet Your Most Sensual Self from 2021-08-17T16:07:33

Luxuriate in the pleasures of your body. Sensual Self (formerly The Sexually Liberated Woman) is a "new" podcast from Sexuality Doula® Ev’Yan Whitney where you’ll be guided to slow down, tune in...

Back For Seconds: Ep. 9: Solo Sex Magic with Vanessa Cuccia from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Ev'Yan's taking this week off to work on some other fun projects of hers, but she didn't want to leave you hanging. So today, we're revisiting the conversation she had last year with Chakrubs creat...

I Can't, I'm On My Period from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

It's Fallow Week for Ev'Yan and she's changing up the schedule a little bit for the podcast (and yes, she's totally using the "I've got my period" excuse—but for a good reason). To make up for it (...

Ep. 20: A Quickie: Sexual Self-Care For Depression & Other Unsexy Feels from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

*Episode 20!* In this one, Ev'Yan shares how she's coping through some hard mental health stuff that's been coming up lately which is making her feel disconnected from her sexuality. She talks abou...

Ep. 18: How To Find Sexual Liberation After Trauma from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Ev'Yan chats with writer and erotic artist, Sheena LaShay, about how she went from deep, heartbreaking sexual trauma and depression to radical sexual agency and erotic empowerment. Sheena shares so...

Ep. 16: A Quickie: Healing My Sexual Past from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this quickie episode, Ev'Yan shares a method she uses as a way to heal and bring forgiveness to her sexual past. It's kind of corny, but it works for her and for her clients.Also, Ev'Yan wants t...

Ep. 15: Taking Your Erotic Power Back With Sexy Selfies from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode, Ev'Yan chats with her friend and fellow sexy selfie-taker Allyee Whaley, an Instagram babe that inspired Ev'Yan to begin using sexy self-portraiture as an act of self-love. She and...

Ep. 14: A Quickie: Why I Post Naked Photos on the Internet from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this episode, Ev'Yan talks about why she takes nude selfies and posts them on the internet — as a form of self-love. There's also something else that she needs your input on. Don't be shy!More a...

Ep. 12: A Quickie: Depression & Dry Spells from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this quickie episode, Ev'Yan talks about her depression, and how it's been affecting her sex life. She also shares what she's doing to cope with sexlessness. If you're in a similar place, if you...

Ep. 10: A Quickie: Non-Monogamy & My New Marriage from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

In this quickie episode, Ev'Yan talks about her polyamorous relationship—the high points, the low points, and where she and her husband are at right now with everything. More about this episode (in...

Ep. 6: A Quickie: The Time I Had An Orgasm in Front of 150 People from 2021-01-31T22:10:42.023393

Ev'Yan Whitney talks about her experience of performing in the Vagina Monologues and how she came (and came!) on stage in front of nearly 200 people. More about this episode here > http://sexloveli...

52. The Sexually Liberated Woman is Nonbinary from 2020-12-16T09:00

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this one, Ev'Yan sits down to talk about gender and identity—s...

51. So, You Wanna Be a Sex Educator from 2020-05-27T08:00:36

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this one, Ev'Yan sits down with Cameron Glover (Listen

50. Shame-Free Masturbation from 2020-05-13T08:00:20

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

May is Masturbation Month, and in this one, Ev'Yan shares a heali...

49. How We're Living Apart Together (with Jonathan Mead) from 2020-04-29T08:00:07

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan chats with her husband, Jonathan Mead (@jonathanmead), abo...

48. We're Living Apart—Together from 2020-04-15T08:00:31

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev’Yan gives a vulnerable update on the state of her marriage—and...

47. Pleasure-Centered and Unfuckwithable from 2020-04-01T08:00:53

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Well, look what the 'rona dragged in. Ev'Yan's back with explanat...

46. Let's Talk About Sexual Desire | sponsored by unblush from 2019-11-20T09:00:59

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

How do you feel about talking about sexual desire? In this one, E...

Back For Seconds: Oshun and Decolonizing Black Femme Sexuality from 2019-08-21T08:00:34

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan chats with Dr. Zelaika Clarke about Oshun, the Yoruba deit...

Back For Seconds: Men Need Sexual Liberation Too from 2019-08-07T08:00

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev’Yan Whitney revisits a conversation she had with a sexually wo...

45. Sex and Cannabis from 2019-07-24T08:00:55

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev’Yan brings back her sister and actual cannabis expert, Jarani,...

44. Are You Cliterate? from 2019-07-10T08:00:09

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan chats with conceptual artist Sophia Wallace, who is best k...

43. Sex With Friends: Diamond Stylz from 2019-06-26T08:00

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev’Yan brings back her Sex with Friends series in this episode an...

42. Consent Is Actually Sexy from 2019-06-12T08:00:15

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev’Yan sits down with Jaclyn Friedman, author of Yes Means Yes, t...

41. 21 Sex Questions, feat. Ev'Yan's Mom and Sister from 2019-05-29T07:00

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan's mom and sister return for a shameless, funny, and lighth...

40. The Trauma Queen from 2019-05-15T08:00:51

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev’Yan chats with comprehensive sex educator and trauma expert, J...

39. Cats Are Sluts from 2019-05-01T08:00:35

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan sits down with writer, educator, and returning guest, Kris...

Sex Resolutions! from 2019-01-16T09:00:39

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan peeps her head out of her hibernation cave and shares a fe...

38: Che Che is Sexually Liberated from 2018-11-21T09:00:35

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan sits down with Che Che to talk with her about her sexual l...

38: Che Che is Sexually Liberated from 2018-11-21T09:00:35

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan sits down with Che Che to talk with her about her sexual l...

37: Ask a Sexuality Doula from 2018-11-07T09:00:31

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan gives sex advice and helps solve some listeners' sexuality...

36: My Sister is a Sexually Liberated Woman from 2018-10-24T08:00

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this one, Ev'Yan and her little sister, Jarani, have a vulnera...

35: Sex Work & Sexual Liberation from 2018-10-10T08:00:37

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan brings back sex activist and porn performer Allie Oops ( Listen

34: My Sexual Liberation Is Not For Male Consumption from 2018-09-26T08:00:10

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

After receiving an unsolicited dick pic regarding her sensual sel...

32: Taking The Earth As Your Lover from 2018-08-29T08:00:56

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan chats with an ecosexual femme Luna Dietrich (Listen

31: The Moon, The Stars, & My Sex Life from 2018-08-15T08:00:30

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this one, Ev'Yan gets dragged (in a good way!) by the stars in...

30: Slow & Sensual from 2018-08-01T08:00:24

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

A call to arms to slow the f— down. In this one, Ev'Yan shares a ...

29: Black Pleasure Matters from 2018-07-18T07:00:45

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan has a conversation with Dalychia and Rafaella, the radical...

28: Pelvic Bowls & Yoni Eggs from 2018-07-04T07:00:38

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Before you use a yoni egg, listen to this. In this one, Ev'Yan ch...

27: I'm Coming Out (Again) from 2018-06-20T08:00:05

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In celebration of Pride month, Ev'Yan takes you on an intimate jo...

26: Tasha Is A Sexually Liberated Woman from 2018-06-06T07:00

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan has an open and vulnerable conversation with Tasha, a clie...

High Hopes, Low Desire from 2018-04-25T07:00:03

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Hi! Long time no see! Did you miss me? It's been almost a year si...

Ep. 25: Your Sexuality Questions Answered! from 2017-05-31T18:25:30

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this one, Ev’Yan answers emails and gives sex advice with her ...

24: My Very First Time from 2017-05-03T16:57:51

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this quickie episode, Ev’Yan talks about her "first time." Als...

23: Men Need Sexual Liberation, Too from 2017-04-19T15:38:34

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this one, Ev’Yan Whitney speaks with a sexually woke guy who g...

Ep. 22: Reclaiming Your Sexuality With Erotic Dance from 2017-04-05T17:08:30

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev’Yan Whitney speaks with her friend Rashida KhanBey (rashidak.c...

Ep. 21: Oshun, Sensuality, & Decolonizing Black Femme Sexuality from 2017-03-15T19:31:11

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan chats with Dr. Zelaika Clarke about Oshun, the Yoruba deit...

Ep. 20: Sexual Self-Care For Depression from 2017-03-02T18:59:33

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this one, Ev'Yan shares how she's coping through some hard men...

Ep. 19: My Mom is a Sexually Liberated Woman (ft. Ev'Yan's mom) from 2017-02-15T17:52:44

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan's back from hibernating with a brand new episode! In this ...

Hibernating Like A Beautiful Black Bear from 2016-12-07T22:43:40

Hi! Don't get too excited. I'm still hibernating in my cave, but I wanted to take a quick moment to check in and see how you're doing because I miss you! I'm also giving you a glimpse of what my hi...

Ep. 18: Sexual Liberation After Trauma from 2016-10-19T07:01:02

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan chats with writer and erotic artist, Sheena LaShay, about ...

Ep. 17: Secret Bad Girls and Sexual Trauma from 2016-10-05T07:01:34

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this episode, Ev'Yan chats with her friend and trauma speciali...

Boss Ass Bitch PSA from 2016-09-20T16:48:56

Ev'Yan's skipping this week's episode to focus on being a boss ass bitch and putting the final touches on her soon-to-be-released workshop, Sexting Myself. But don't worry, she gives you somethi...

Ep. 16: On Healing My Sexual Past from 2016-09-07T07:01:33

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this quickie episode, Ev'Yan shares a method she uses as a way...

Ep. 15: Taking Your Erotic Power Back With Sensual Selfies from 2016-08-24T07:02:54

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this episode, Ev'Yan chats with her friend and fellow sexy sel...

Ep. 14: Why I Post Naked Photos on the Internet from 2016-08-10T07:01:03

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this episode, Ev'Yan talks about why she takes nude selfies an...

Ep. 13: Sex With Friends: Aida from 2016-07-27T07:00:38

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan talks with her good friend Aida Manduley about their sexua...

Ep. 12: Depression & Dry Spells from 2016-07-13T05:39:42

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this quickie episode, Ev'Yan talks about her depression, and h...

Ep. 11: Our Polyamorous Relationship from 2016-06-29T05:37:54

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan sits down with her husband of almost ten years, Jonathan M...

Ep. 10: Non-Monogamy & My New Marriage from 2016-06-15T05:26:21

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this quickie episode, Ev'Yan talks about her polyamorous relat...

Ep. 9: Solo Sex Magic With A Sex Witch from 2016-05-24T21:06:58

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman. 

Ev'Yan Whitney chats with Vanessa Cuccia, founder of Chakru...

Ep. 8: A Quickie: I'm Not Having Enough Sex (With Myself) from 2016-05-18T05:14:48

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this episode, Ev'Yan chats about her struggle with this weird ...

Ep. 7: A Slut Is A Sexually Liberated Woman from 2016-04-26T20:54:12

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

In this episode, Ev'Yan sits down with Kristen Korvette of slutis...

Ep. 6: The Time I Had An Orgasm in Front of 150 People from 2016-04-06T06:31:38

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan Whitney talks about her experience of performing in the Va...

Ep 5: How to Have a Better Sex With Your Partner With Polarity from 2016-03-30T16:00

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

Ev'Yan Whitney and her husband, @JonathanMead, demystify masculin...

Ep. 4: My Sexless Marriage from 2015-09-01T07:56:34

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

A conversation between Ev'Yan Whitney and her partner of almost t...

Ep. 3: Ingrid is a Sexually Liberated Woman from 2015-08-19T07:54:26

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

A very personal story about one woman's journey to sexual liberat...

Ep. 2: Emily is a Sexually Liberated Woman from 2015-08-12T07:53:36

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

A candid intimate conversation between Ev'Yan Whitney & her p...

Ep. 1: Kate is a Sexually Liberated Woman from 2015-08-04T07:52:11

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.

A candid intimate conversation between Ev'Yan Whitney & her p...